Women HATE men who show INTENT or admiration for them (DESTROYS SEDUCTION)
Summary
TLDRThe video script delves into the dynamics of dating, emphasizing the importance of indirect seduction and pre-selection to attract women without showing overt intent. It discusses how men often make mistakes by being too direct, needy, or overly admiring of a woman's beauty, which can signal low value. The speaker shares insights on maintaining mystery and patience to keep a woman's interest over time, and explains the role of masculine and feminine communication styles in dating. The key takeaway is to adopt a masculine indifference while allowing women to express their feminine intent, fostering a balance that can lead to successful relationships.
Takeaways
- 😀 Women are attracted to men who display intent, love, admiration, and respect for them.
- 🔍 Using indirect seduction techniques can help men gain psychological leverage in dating interactions.
- 💬 Men should avoid showing direct intent towards women early in dating to signal pre-selection and high value.
- 🗣️ Vocal tone, subcommunication, and choice of words are powerful tools for men to demonstrate pre-selection.
- ⏰ Men should be patient and extend time delays in communication to maintain a woman's interest over the long term.
- 🚫 Avoiding needy or emotional tones in communication is crucial as it can signal low value and a lack of options.
- 📱 Consistent and prompt communication can be perceived as intent, which may turn women off if done excessively early in the relationship.
- 💔 Expressing admiration solely for a woman's beauty can signal that a man is easily won over and is focused only on physical attraction.
- 🤔 Women appreciate men who have depth and can't be easily figured out, encouraging a slower unveiling of oneself in a relationship.
- 💡 Understanding the dynamics of masculine and feminine communication is key to attracting and maintaining a woman's interest.
Q & A
What does the speaker suggest is the key to gaining leverage in dating interactions with women?
-The speaker suggests that displaying intent, love, admiration, and respect for women can give men leverage in dating interactions. However, it's crucial to do this without showing overt intent that might cause her to lose desire and respect.
What is 'pre-election' in the context of dating advice given in the script?
-'Pre-election' refers to signaling that other women are already interested in you or potentially could be, which can make you more attractive to the woman you're interacting with.
How can a man demonstrate 'pre-election' without being a celebrity or having a large social media following?
-A man can demonstrate 'pre-election' through vocal tone, sub-communication, and the words he uses, which are indirect forms of seduction that signal desirability without direct intent.
Why does showing direct intent towards a woman early in dating often backfire, according to the speaker?
-Showing direct intent can signal low value, clinginess, and a lack of options, which can cause a woman to lose attraction and respect for the man.
What are some ways men show intent that can be detrimental to their dating success?
-Men can show detrimental intent through an emotional or needy tone in communication, being overly prompt in responding to texts or calls, and expressing admiration for a woman's beauty too soon.
How does the speaker explain the difference between masculine and feminine communication styles in dating?
-Masculine communication is described as overt and direct, while feminine communication is covert and indirect. The speaker emphasizes that to attract a woman, men must use the language of the feminine, which is indirect and covert.
What is the significance of 'masculine indifference' in the context of the speaker's dating advice?
-Masculine indifference refers to a man's strong, stable, and non-reactive demeanor. It's a form of communication that demonstrates emotional resilience and can be attractive to women as it contrasts with the more direct and emotional communication style typically associated with femininity.
Why does the speaker advise men to operate on a longer time horizon when dating?
-Operating on a longer time horizon helps maintain a woman's interest by creating a sense of mystery and intrigue. It allows her to 'figure out' the man at a pace that is more aligned with how women naturally move through dating and relationships.
What does the speaker mean when he says 'women want to have to figure you out'?
-This phrase means that women are attracted to men who present a certain level of mystery and depth, prompting them to invest time and emotional energy in getting to know the man better.
How does the speaker suggest men should approach expressing their desire for a relationship with a woman?
-The speaker suggests that men should not be the first to bring up the topic of a relationship. Instead, they should allow the woman to express her interest and desire for commitment, as this aligns with the natural dating dynamics where men first demonstrate attraction and women then express their intent for a deeper connection.
Outlines
💬 Understanding Women's Response to Intent
The speaker begins by highlighting that women often respond positively to men who display intent, love, admiration, and respect. The video aims to guide viewers on leveraging this insight to gain psychological leverage in dating and relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of indirect seduction and pre-election signals to appear attractive without being overtly forward, which can be off-putting. The key is to use vocal tone, sub-communication, and choice of words effectively to demonstrate desirability and avoid appearing clingy or low in value.
📱 The Pitfalls of Direct Intent in Dating
This paragraph delves into the reasons why direct expressions of intent, such as immediate responses to texts or calls, can be detrimental in the early stages of dating. It suggests that such behavior can signal a lack of experience, confidence, and options, leading to a loss of attraction. The speaker advises against expressing admiration for a woman's beauty too soon, as it can imply a superficial interest and a lack of deeper standards. The focus is on the importance of indirect communication and the development of internal skills to effectively navigate dating dynamics.
🔄 The Dynamics of Masculine and Feminine Communication
The speaker explains the concept of masculine and feminine communication styles in dating. Masculine communication is described as overt and direct, while feminine communication is covert and indirect. To attract a woman, men must initially adopt a feminine communication style, which is indirect and involves building attraction through playfulness, teasing, and leading the social interaction. The speaker emphasizes that this indirect approach is crucial for initial attraction and sets the stage for a woman to later adopt a more direct, masculine communication style to deepen the relationship.
💭 Patience and Mystery in Sustaining Attraction
In this section, the speaker stresses the importance of patience and maintaining an air of mystery to sustain a woman's interest over time. By operating on a longer time horizon and not being overly eager or urgent in communication, men can increase their seductive appeal. The speaker suggests that women are more attracted to men who have their own lives and passions, signaling pre-selection and independence. This approach encourages women to invest more in the relationship, as they feel they need to 'figure out' the man, which is more appealing than when men show too much intent too soon.
💖 Balancing Indifference and Intent in Relationships
The final paragraph discusses the balance between masculine indifference and feminine intent in relationships. The speaker argues that men should exhibit indifference, showing strength, stability, and emotional resilience, while women should bring emotional support, care, and love. This balance is key to a successful relationship dynamic. The speaker concludes by encouraging viewers to understand these concepts to become more captivating and successful in their dating lives, promising that such understanding will make them stand out and attract the partners they desire.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Intent
💡Pre-selection
💡Seduction
💡Vocal Tone
💡Neediness
💡Indifference
💡Communication Consistency
💡Polarity
💡Safety and Security
💡Mystery
Highlights
Women tend to be attracted to men who display intent, love, admiration, and respect for them.
Using indirect seduction techniques can help gain leverage in dating interactions and relationships.
Pre-election is demonstrated through indirect signals, such as showing that other women are interested in you.
Vocal tone, sub-communication, and choice of words are essential for indirect seduction.
Direct intent, such as expressing admiration for a woman's beauty, can signal low value and desperation.
A needy tone in communication can indicate a lack of experience and confidence.
Consistent communication, like replying promptly, can subconsciously signal too much intent.
Men should avoid being overly direct in the early stages of dating to not appear clingy or low value.
Logical thinking can lead men to be too direct, which may not resonate well with a woman's emotional mindset.
Men should develop a 'I don't give a mentality' in their vocal tone to appear less desperate.
Masculine communication is direct, while feminine communication is indirect and covert.
Attraction is built through covert and indirect communication, which is part of the feminine language.
Women appreciate men who can maintain a sense of mystery in a relationship.
Patience is key in dating, as women prefer a slower pace and time to figure out the man.
Men should operate with a longer time horizon, focusing on weeks and months rather than hours and days.
Intent signals emotional investment, which can be off-putting if not balanced with indifference.
Combining masculine indifference with feminine intent creates a balanced dynamic in relationships.
Understanding these dynamics can significantly improve a man's dating life and ability to attract women.
Transcripts
now what you're going to consistently
find is that women will crush men who
display intent love admiration and
respect for them now there's going to be
quite a few reasons why this is but what
I'm going to be showing you in today's
video is how you can actually take this
information use it to your advantage and
then start to gain The Leverage
psychologically in your dating
interactions and in your relationships
with women this is going to be a full
comprehensive guide and breakdown how to
ensure that you can gain the attraction
of the women that you want without
showing your intent that causes her to
lose desire and respect for you now all
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you okay so today I am going to be
showing you some inside secrets that I
would say majority of men are not aware
of and keep keep in mind to figure this
out took me years okay of multiple
dating interactions
relationships this is going to help
shortcut that process for you to save
you a lot of time and get you results a
lot quicker so these are the reasons why
women hate the men who show intent
towards them when they're dating okay
they don't like this and I'm going to
explain why in a woman's brain or how
women operate what you have to know when
you're approaching or when you're having
your interactions okay all forms of
Seduction when first meeting a woman
must be indirect to signal pre-election
so what is
pre-election that's showing that either
other women are already interested in
you or women potentially are going to be
interested in you how do you do this if
you're not a famous celebrity a famous
musician a Hollywood actor a guy with
millions and millions of Instagram
followers and girls constantly talking
to you or direct messaging you how do
you do this you do this through vocal
tone you do this through sub
commmunication you do this through words
that's that's going to be your biggest
strength that you can leverage okay like
outside of the physical qualities such
as like looks money status right how you
how you dress right your uh your your
physique things like that the overall
Improvement the next layer for deeper
communication to show that you are
selected is going to be through what you
say the words coming out of your mouth
and vocal tone okay okay so here's what
you have to know all forms of Seduction
when first meeting a woman must be
indirect to signal pre-election that
means any direct intent hey I like you
hey I think you're so cute I want to
take you out on date hey you're so
gorgeous oh my gosh I've had a crush on
you for the past two months will you
please go out with me any direct
intent potentially shows her he's low
value is going to Signal potential
clinginess right he's clingy he needs
her approval he needs her and it's going
to signal that he has zero options now
this also goes a step deeper but we're
going to get to this in a second now
here's all of the ways that men show
intent that backfires the first is
through an emotional or a needy tone
what's a needy tone a needy tone would
would signal any sort
of like passiveness in your voice in
your vocal communication any hesitancy
okay that
neediness they're going to pick up on
that that passive tone they're going to
signal that that's going to signal to
the woman hey he's not he he has not
done this a whole lot he doesn't have a
lot of options he doesn't have a lot of
experience he's probably lacking
confidence he lacks the internal
personality strength that turns a woman
on she's going to disregard him okay so
emotional or a needy tone another thing
is communication
consistency if you're text messaging
back all the time within 45 minutes if
you're constantly returning the phone
calls promptly right there's never you
know any any days or any weeks that
you're more distant or you're taking
time off this is also going to
subconsciously show her intent this is
going to turn her off another thing is
expressing love or admiration for her
beauty when you express love or
admiration for a woman's Beauty this
shows he's one over easily he doesn't
really have a standard outside of
physical attraction and he is sold on
who I am as an individual just through
how I look this is going to Signal
massive low value this is why majority
of all of the most attractive women are
all single they're all single because
the only qualification standard that a
man looks at is how she looks okay this
is polar opposite to how women judge
attraction when women are judging
attraction or when women are looking at
the attractiveness of a man they're
looking at everything they're looking at
him as an individual him as a whole so
they're looking at personality they're
looking at how you talk they're looking
at how your voice sounds they're looking
at what shirt did you pick that day what
shoes did you pick that day all of those
things make up a woman's desire level
for a man they look at the the whole
individual so what's going to happen is
they naturally like since they don't
know the exact lens that you see life
through just like you don't know the
lens that she sees life through when
women see that all men are like looking
at or the only qualification standards
that he has is beauty this turns her off
okay so she sees your one over easy
expressing love or admiration for her
beauty is one of the fastest ways to
like turn a woman off or lose her now
here's where guys go wrong they go wrong
because their logical brain takes over
when your logical brain takes over as a
guy you become direct it's like you
solve your problems in life like a math
equation okay you're like 1+ 1 is 2
that's not not how a woman's brain works
so guys will tell themselves you know
I'm going to just go into this
interaction and I'm going to be bold you
know I'm going to show a lot of action
and be courageous okay and when you do
that when you when you show all your
cards when you when you lay it all out
on the table that you want the woman and
you want to take her
out if she's extremely attracted to you
it might work but what you have to know
is it is not the best method and it's
not the like it's being direct is not
going to be your best option because
it's too much too soon and it shows her
that you're sold on beauty you are sold
on her beauty this is not necessarily
good you may be able to attract some of
the women if they have high attraction
towards you but what I'm going to tell
you is you're going to leave a lot of
options you're going to let go of a lot
of options there's going to be a lot of
women that you could have taken out or
that you could have potentially gotten
to know that you lost for coming on too
strong or demonstrating too much too
soon so un Advanced way that I could
demonstrate this the only way that a guy
can really get away with being bold and
being direct is if you have the vocal
tone or the communication level of the I
don't give a mentality if you say
what you want and you're direct with it
but she also can tell through your vocal
tone that you don't really care if you
get the number or not or you don't
really care if that date goes anywhere
or you're a guy who just speaks his mind
yeah that might be a way that you can
get away with this but very few men are
able to do this because they don't have
the internal skills yet or they haven't
developed the Charisma or the seduction
to know how to get away with that so
there's certain things that you can do
at certain levels when you first start
approaching women or when you first
start going out with women or when you
first start dating and this is true for
guys at any age okay when you want to
maximize your dating life all forms of
Seduction when first meeting a woman
must be indirect to Signal pre-selection
now here's how the game works with the
dating
Dynamics I I laid this out for you as
easy to understand as humanly possible
this is the entire dynamic in a nutshell
when I say this is the game okay I'm not
talking about front end game and back
end game like I have in the past this is
the game as far as the dating Dynamics
here's what has to
happen masculine communication overall
like if you have a friend named Frank or
a friend named John masculine Comm
communication is overt and direct that
means hey do you want to go out and get
drinks Tuesday yes sure period Send okay
that's overt and that's direct this is
masculine
communication the reason why I'm telling
you that all forms of Seduction when
meeting a woman must be indirect is
because to attract a woman okay to
attract a girl you have to dabble in the
language of the feminine so this is all
of the terms that guys use to
demonstrate if a guy has good seductive
skills or not you're going to hear
things like Wheels he's got wheels
you're going to hear Riz okay like
you're also going to hear game okay so
game RZ Wheels what that encompasses is
swag overall personality conviction okay
this makes up your front-end game but
what you have to understand about your
front-end game is that it's covert and
it's
indirect if you can do this
congratulations you've now attracted the
girl and she's going to say hey he has
me in a playful state I'm having fun
with him he makes me laugh everything he
said you're going to notice when a when
a girl is hot for you it's like
everything that you say she just laughs
at it may or may not even be funny if
it's not funny and she still laughs
you're going to notice like your
personality and your vocal tone is
starting to have influence over her
emotions this is a good sign this is how
you you close more dates so this is
important to understand
because men who are not able to do this
lose a lot of women and they also lose
the women specifically that they wanted
to take out but they were never able to
get that date so this helps you okay in
the beginning you dabble in the language
of the feminine that means you're covert
and you're indirect right the things
that you're saying when you're doing
things like teasing her or you're
playing games or you're having fun or
it's like you're delivering like
specific lines and jokes and you're the
leader of the social interaction that's
getting a positive reaction out of
everybody attraction goes up if you can
do this congrats you've now attracted
the girl now the biggest emphasis I want
to put here is you're going to notice
there's a layer of work okay so you're
going to notice if you go out to a bar
or you go to a house party or something
and you you you won her over meaning
she's like hey let's switch numbers or
you're so funny can I get your number or
you say let's switch numbers and she
says yes with excitement you smile on
the inside cuz you know everything you
had to do personality wise right with
your personal skills to get there
now let me explain this you've attracted
the girl maybe you guys have slept
together maybe you haven't regardless
maybe you guys are seeing each other
okay feminine communication is polar
opposite from masculine communication
okay feminine communication is covert
and indirect so masculine communication
is overt and direct notice the polarity
notice The Duality notice the
differences this is important to
comprehend and here's
why the woman is sitting there wondering
how do I keep this man that I want okay
she's sitting there wondering how do I
keep this man that I want now notice
this to keep the guy she now has to
dabble in the language of the masculine
just like you had to dabble in the
language of the feminine okay and what I
mean by that is you had to you had to
use your game you had to use your sex
appeal your seduction to get her in a
state where she looks at you and goes I
really like him she now has to dabble in
the communication of the masculine so
she has to switch over just like you had
to switch over in the beginning you had
to work for it she now has to work for
it she has to switch over to the
language of the masculine and she has to
say hey will you be my boyfriend is this
going anywhere I really would like you
to be my man do you see a future with me
I would like this when she starts
becoming direct like
that that is the equivalent to you in
the beginning having to use Game and
seduction to win her over she's
now demonstrating the feminine
qualities in herself okay to understand
the awareness that now it's her turn
okay to win you over or to potentially
get a relationship out of you I hope I
explained that well but you understand
what what I'm saying it it's polar
opposite now she switches over to that
sort of direct communication will you be
my boyfriend what you have to know is
this is why if a man brings up a
relationship first she gets turned off
because now she had nothing to work for
she had nothing to work for with that
guy see when when you communicated in
the beginning to attract that woman in
in a way that is indirect and in a way
that is covert to demonstrate
pre-election and
seduction what's happened is you had to
work for it so when you get that number
you walk away and you're like damn look
at me like this this was solid like look
at the dynamic and the chemistry that's
how she wants to feel too so when the
man brings this up first it demonstrates
low value this is why the woman has to
bring up the relationship okay because
her entire idea of fantasy or love is
how do I keep the man that I want and
she wants to feel like she had to put
some effort in outside of beauty to win
you over this is what she wants to feel
most men are sold on beauty alone even
if you are one of the guys who is sold
on beauty alone a lot of us are most men
look at physical qualities as very
important you have to start to train
yourself not to be because that's going
to help you win over the women that you
really want you have to be able to look
at a beautiful woman and say like you
know some of her attitude or some of her
behavior just doesn't align well with me
I'm going to go on to the next one
because that's what women do so this is
how women often gain The Leverage over
men is they have deeper level
qualification standards as soon as you
as a man tell yourself it's your job to
have standards
too The Leverage starts to become
reversed and you're going to notice that
a lot of these methods now work in your
favor so let's take this a step further
okay women want to have to figure you
out say this again women want to have to
figure you out this means they want a
mystery you need to think it you every
single time you go into a dating
interaction with with a woman with a
woman I want you to think if I had to
maintain this girl's interest level for
10 years and I know that's a long time
but just use this as an analogy if I had
to operate on a 10-year time Horizon how
slow would I uncover myself Page by
Page a saying that I've used in the past
is the hotter the flame the shorter the
burn say that with me the hotter the
flame the shorter the burn you're going
to notice the hotter the flame meaning
in the beginning it seems like the
chemistry is amazing and everything's
organic and it's happening you're going
to notice that those are the
interactions that fizzle out the fastest
okay these are the interactions that
fizzle out the fastest so when I'm
sitting here telling you women want to
have to figure you out what does that
mean that means women move dating
interactions and women move the
relationships at a slower Pace than men
what that means is they are naturally
not urgent they move at their own pace
they move at their own time now the
reason why they're naturally not urgent
is because they are often sometimes more
passive they're more indirect so if
you're wanting to maintain the mystery
in a relationship what are the keys to
this what are what is all of the keys to
keeping your mystery the first thing
that you got to understand is that
patience being a patient individual is
your friend which means you need to
extend the time delays all of the time
delays I don't care if it's
Communication phone calls text messages
replies responses men often times
operate hour for hour or day by day you
need to stop doing this okay so instead
of operating on hours or operating on
days you now need to operate your time
Horizon on weeks and months this is how
you maintain a woman's interest this is
how women fall in love there's that
extended time Horizon of them needing to
figure you
out okay so you need to turn off your
your your male driven logical brain of
being urgent and getting stuff done
quickly a lot of guys do that right if
there's a problem they Solve IT women
don't op operate like that you need to
let this move at her Pace because women
are women will women want that time
Horizon stretched out so what you need
to do in order to shift your mindset
from hours and days to weeks and months
is the first thing is you need to occupy
yourself with work and goals a woman
wants to see that you're on your on your
purpose and on your passions anyway she
wants to see that you're building
something okay that means this signals
pre-selection when you're not focusing
on her she wonders a couple things she
wers am I not important enough does he
have other things going on besides me is
he seeing a different girl right is he
doing something in his personal life all
of this triggers attraction because
she's now not the focus she wants a
world she can come into patience is one
of the biggest tools you can use to
increase seduction in order to be
indirect when you move slow and you're
patient this heightens seduction this
makes it easier for you to be a
seductive IND individual this makes it
easier for you to be a guy who can get
the dates and get the relationships that
he wants and on top of that this is
going to make it easier to for her to
look at you as a man that she wants to
respect and that she adors it's like you
understand the communication differences
this is moving at her pace and what will
happen is she'll naturally start to fall
in love with you
so when it comes to intent and showing
desire towards a woman intent is the
opposite of indifference say that with
me intent is the opposite of
indifference everything with women comes
down to Safety and Security when you
show intent to a woman this shows he's
emotionally invested in
me emotions are his main focus this
relationship is his main focus look at
the intent he's putting towards this
that means if he's putting energy and
emphasis towards this he's not putting
energy and emphasis in all of the things
that triggers Safety and Security such
as survival such as building something
such as safety right such as like going
somewhere in life and this turns her off
it all comes down to Safety and Security
so Safety and Security is only achieved
through polarity masculine to feminine
polarity okay intent is the opposite of
indifference it's masculine indifference
coupled with feminine intent so what
that means is masculine
indifference is going to be the way that
you're operating that means that is
strong the it like the individual the
man is stable he's non-reactive he's
emotionally resilient okay and on top of
that now you couple that you couple that
with her feminine intent masculine
indifference on your side coupled with
her feminine intent feminine intent
would be the care the emotional support
right the nurturing the love all of the
good things that you're Desiring out of
a woman when men show intent they've now
entered their feminine energy
and this is why it turns her
off intent is the opposite of
indifference when you operate out of
masculine indifference it demonstrates
that you're strong stable non-reactive
and emotionally resilient now she wants
to bring the feminine intent of emotion
love and care to that relationship or to
that dating interaction this is almost
like the science of it I'm going to tell
you this too if you understand this I
want you to understand like how how high
level this type of information is you're
going to be able to really stand out in
your dating life if you understand this
stuff and and I'm not just saying that I
really mean that you're going to be able
to really be a captivating man you're
going to be able to get get the girls
that you want and you're even going to
be able to like you will now look like
that
guy and it's like when when she views
you as that guy and you're demonstrating
the things that women look for you got
to understand that majority of you
you're going to be operating out of
abundance you know there's going to be
women who are wanting to enter your life
or to talk to you this is very good
stuff to understand okay so if you like
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