Women will never leave you if you do THIS ONE THING (makes them chase)

Casey Zander
12 Nov 202210:26

Summary

TLDRIn this dating advice video, Casey Zander, a renowned dating coach, shares insights on maintaining women's interest and ensuring they don't leave. He discusses three real-life scenarios that reveal the power of displaying desirability and having options without being overt. Casey emphasizes the importance of covertly showing that other women are interested in you, which he argues significantly increases your attractiveness and keeps women invested. He invites viewers to join his MBT webinar for proven techniques to enhance their dating life.

Takeaways

  • 🎯 The speaker positions himself as a top dating coach on YouTube, suggesting viewers are seeking his expertise because they can't find better information elsewhere.
  • 🧢 The speaker acknowledges the perception that he wears a hat to cover a receding hairline, using it as an example of how people might judge him but still return for his content.
  • 🔄 The speaker notes a change in his personality over time on his channel, indicating a maturation in his approach to teaching and delivering content.
  • 📚 He plans to share personal stories and experiences with women to illustrate his points, emphasizing the effectiveness of storytelling in teaching.
  • 👠 A woman leaving a slipper at his place unexpectedly sparked attraction rather than causing a negative reaction, highlighting the unpredictable nature of attraction.
  • 📲 The speaker describes an instance where a current date's competitive anxiety was triggered by a text from a past interest, which paradoxically increased her attraction.
  • 🗣️ Gossip about the speaker, whether positive or negative, has consistently made more women interested in him, suggesting that any publicity can be beneficial.
  • 🤫 The key to keeping women interested is to covertly display that other women are already interested in you, without appearing as if you're bragging or trying too hard.
  • 🚫 Avoid appearing desperate or like you're 'trying too hard' to show that you have options, as this can make you seem lower in value.
  • 🔒 Displaying that you have options covertly can make women more likely to want to 'lock you down', as it signals that you are a valuable catch.
  • 📈 The speaker promotes 'Masculine Behavioral Techniques' (MBT) as a step-by-step process that can significantly improve one's dating life, applicable across various dating scenarios.

Q & A

  • What is the main reason people keep coming back to Casey Zander's YouTube channel according to the video?

    -People keep coming back because they believe the information provided about dating, women, and female nature is the best available on the internet.

  • How has Casey Zander's personality changed over time as he has aged?

    -Casey Zander mentions that as he has gotten older, his personality has changed, and he is more comfortable with that change, focusing on delivering points and showing topics that resonate with his audience.

  • What method does Casey Zander prefer for teaching and delivering points in his videos?

    -Casey Zander prefers using short stories from his personal experiences with women to teach and deliver points in his videos.

  • What did Casey Zander notice about women's attraction when they saw a slipper left by another woman?

    -Casey Zander noticed that when a woman saw a slipper left by another woman, it triggered a competitive response, making them more interested and attracted to him.

  • How did the second girl react when she saw a text message from a past girl on Casey's phone?

    -The second girl experienced competition anxiety when she saw the text message, which induced a desire to lock down Casey even more because it displayed that he had other options.

  • What effect does gossip about Casey have on his dating life?

    -Gossip about Casey, whether positive or negative, has made more women interested in him and improved his chances in dating.

  • What is the main piece of advice Casey gives to ensure that women do not leave a man?

    -The main advice is to covertly display that you have other women interested in you, which raises your status and makes women less likely to leave.

  • What does MBT stand for in the context of Casey Zander's dating advice?

    -MBT stands for Masculine Behavioral Techniques, which are specific step-by-step processes and tactics for dating.

  • How does Casey Zander define covertly displaying options to women?

    -Covertly displaying options means showing through reputation, status, and indirect signs that you have other interested women without purposely putting it on display.

  • What is the purpose of the MBT webinar mentioned in the video?

    -The purpose of the MBT webinar is to provide a step-by-step presentation that can transform and improve one's dating life through masculine behavioral techniques.

  • How does Casey Zander ensure his advice is relevant across different dating platforms?

    -Casey Zander ensures his advice is relevant by focusing on hardwired masculine behaviors and attraction triggers that women respond to, which do not go outdated regardless of the dating platform used.

Outlines

00:00

😀 The Reluctant Return to Casey's Channel

The speaker acknowledges the viewers' skepticism and curiosity, suggesting they return to his channel due to the perceived lack of better dating advice elsewhere. He hints at a secret that will be revealed, which is likely to be about improving dating success and maintaining relationships with women. The speaker also notes a change in his personality and approach to teaching over time, promising to share personal anecdotes to illustrate key points about attracting and keeping women's interest.

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😲 Unexpected Attraction Triggers in Dating

The speaker shares personal experiences that highlight unconventional triggers for attraction. He describes a scenario where a woman's slipper left behind by a previous date unexpectedly incites a competitive response in a new date, leading to heightened attraction. He also discusses the impact of being seen as having other options, which can create a sense of urgency and desire in women to secure a relationship. The speaker emphasizes the importance of displaying these options subtly to avoid appearing desperate or inauthentic.

🗣️ The Power of Gossip and Reputation in Attraction

The speaker explores the impact of gossip and reputation on dating success. He explains that any mention of his name, whether positive or negative, has increased his attractiveness to women. He suggests that this is because it raises his perceived status and desirability. The speaker also introduces the concept of 'Masculine Behavioral Techniques' (MBT) as a set of tactics that can be applied universally in dating to improve success with women. He invites viewers to a webinar to learn more about these techniques and promises life-changing insights.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Dating coach

A dating coach is a professional who offers guidance and advice to individuals seeking to improve their romantic relationships or dating experiences. In the video, the speaker positions himself as an expert in this field, suggesting that he is 'probably the best dating coach on YouTube.' His role is to educate viewers on strategies for attracting and maintaining relationships with women.

💡Attraction

Attraction refers to the feeling of being drawn towards someone or something, often in a romantic or sexual sense. The video's theme revolves around understanding and enhancing attraction, particularly from women towards men. The speaker shares personal anecdotes and strategies that he claims have increased his attractiveness to women.

💡Competition

Competition in the context of dating refers to the presence of rivals or other potential partners who could be vying for the same person's attention. The script describes a scenario where a woman becomes more attracted after realizing there is competition, illustrating the concept that competition can heighten attraction.

💡Territorial marking

Territorial marking is a behavior exhibited by individuals to signal ownership or claim over a certain area or person. In the video, the speaker recounts an incident where a woman left a slipper at his place, which he interprets as an attempt to mark her territory. This behavior is used to illustrate the psychological impact of seeing signs of another woman's presence.

💡Masculine behavioral techniques (MBT)

MBT, as introduced in the video, stands for 'Masculine Behavioral Techniques.' It refers to a set of strategies and tactics that men can use to improve their dating lives. The speaker claims that these techniques are timeless and effective across various dating platforms or methods, emphasizing their universal applicability.

💡Status

Status, in the context of dating and social interactions, refers to an individual's perceived position or rank within a social hierarchy. The video suggests that having a higher status can make a man more attractive to women. The speaker mentions that gossip about him, whether positive or negative, has inadvertently raised his status and attracted more women.

💡Gossip

Gossip is informal communication about the personal lives of others, often involving speculation or rumor. In the video, the speaker notes that gossip about him, even if it's not initiated by him, has the effect of increasing his desirability among women. This highlights the idea that being the subject of gossip can inadvertently boost one's social standing.

💡Options

Options, in the dating context, refer to the availability of potential romantic partners. The speaker advises that displaying the fact that one has other interested parties can make them more attractive to their current or prospective partners. This is because it signals desirability and high value to others.

💡Covert display

Covert display means subtly showing or indicating something without being overt or obvious. The video emphasizes the importance of covertly displaying that one has other options or interested parties, which can make them more attractive in the eyes of potential partners. It's about implying desirability without directly bragging or showing off.

💡Trial and error

Trial and error is a method of problem-solving where one attempts different solutions and learns from the outcomes, gradually improving the approach. The speaker mentions learning about dating and attraction through 'trial and error,' indicating that his advice is based on personal experience and learning from past mistakes.

💡Engagement

Engagement in the context of relationships refers to a commitment between two people, often leading to marriage. The speaker shares testimonials from men who have successfully found long-term partners or are about to get engaged, using the techniques he teaches, which underscores the goal of many viewers to form lasting relationships.

Highlights

The speaker claims to be one of the best dating coaches on YouTube.

Acknowledgment of viewers' skepticism about the speaker's appearance.

The speaker believes his content is the best on the internet for understanding women and dating.

Personality changes over time in the speaker's channel.

The speaker uses short stories from his experiences to teach about dating.

Observation of women's attraction when they sense competition.

The unexpected positive effect of a woman's slipper left behind.

The speaker's realization about the value of displaying other options to a woman.

The impact of gossip on increasing a man's attractiveness in dating.

The importance of covertly displaying interest from other women.

The speaker's method, MBT, stands for masculine, behavioral techniques.

MBT techniques are described as never going outdated and applicable in various dating scenarios.

The speaker invites viewers to a webinar for a transformative experience in dating.

The webinar promises life-changing insights for improving one's dating life.

Transcripts

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So let's just cut to the chase, you clicked on this video because you already know I'm

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probably the best dating coach on YouTube. You clicked on this video because you're sitting

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here wondering, Casey, we all know you wear a hat just to cover up that hairline. The

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third thing that you're thinking is Casey, if I could get any better information out

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there, I would probably go and just click a different YouTubers channel. But the fact

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is that I can't find any other better information. So I'm forced to keep coming back to the Casey

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Zander channel, just because the information on women dating female nature and everything

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that it has to do with how to get the girls is probably the best on the internet. I get

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it. I feel that way too. And since I feel that way, too, I figured that I probably let

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you in on a little secret. And one of the secrets that I'm going to be discussing today

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is probably going to be you're wondering, what is the one thing that I need to do? Or

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what is it that I shouldn't be doing in order to not only get the girls but to make sure

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that the girls that I like never leave? Okay. And the older I've gotten, the more you can

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probably even tell my personalities changed a little bit on this channel. And you know

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what I'm okay with that. No, all jokes aside, let's cut into the meat and beans because

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I understand that that's why you clicked this video. And when I say that, that's what you

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click this video as I've gotten older the one thing that I've noticed about myself and

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known when it comes to teaching when it comes to delivering points, and when it comes to

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actually showing good topics that resonates with my audience. The best way I can do it

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oftentimes is through little short stories that I've experienced with women. So what

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I'm going to be doing is on this sheet of paper, I have experienced three specific things.

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Just this past couple months that I have noticed has made all the difference with women's attraction

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versus no attraction and if you follow these things to rest assured by the end of this

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video, I am 100% going to be giving you the one thing that you need to do to make sure

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that the girls that you like never leave you but here goes what you have to understand

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is a couple days ago I was seeing a girl and she comes over and when she comes over i don't

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know like I I haven't had an exclusive girlfriend for a few months now and I've been dating

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and it's been very fun. But one of the girls I was seeing I don't know she she left a slipper

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and you might say okay, so You bad boy you Daredevil you but she stayed the night. Okay,

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she had a little pair of Victoria's Secret slippers. Okay, and she left one of them.

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And you can tell like that you can tell this isn't staged because when the other girl came

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the next week when she came over she and keep in mind these are just women like we're having

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good experiences where I'm just like I'm dating them and taking them out on dates like it's

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fun, it's good stuff and it's nothing evil just because I went on a couple dates with

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two different women doesn't make me a bad guy. It just means that I'm dating so the

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girl the second girl who comes over week after she sees a slipper on the ground because my

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dumbass forgot to put it away and you can tell this isn't staged you can tell that this

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isn't a guy who just put up a slipper okay because you can see that there's an imprint

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of a heel mark and you can see the imprint of the toe marks and you can see that this

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is a worn use slipper. Okay the old self from me okay, I would have looked at that instance

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when I was 1819 2021 22 and thought oh my god, this is going to completely kill my interaction

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when I tell you that it could have not been further from the truth I have never seen anything

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like this in my entire life and here goes girl comes over she sees a slipper for about

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30 seconds you can tell that she was very hurt you're almost enraged like her internals

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like up here like it was working back and forth it was working back and forth because

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she was like slightly pissed off but yet slightly she just didn't know how to handle the situation

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I shit you not like I shit you not within three to five minutes she goes from zero to

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being like this this turned on like to the point where she she's ready to like start

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and start the process of getting going and like she wants to have sex ASAP. Why is that?

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Because she sees it another woman tried to mark her territory in my house by putting

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something right there for display. Now in the back of the girl in the back of your logical

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brain as a guy you're sitting there thinking man Casey that would kill your interaction

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couldn't be further from the truth. And that is just the very first instance that I noticed

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when when a girl saw that there was another girl not only here, but interested enough

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to leave a slipper. What does a slipper resemble a slipper a slur, a slipper resembles that

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there's potential of staying the night that turned a crank inside of the head that was

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not turned in a way that I have ever seen personally, and I'm sharing this through my

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own stories. That's the first thing the second thing that I have to address okay. I'm with

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this girl following a couple days later to a women's and this is the second girl is saying

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I'm I'm with this girl. Okay, she comes back a couple days later we're hanging out once

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again. I'm sitting by on the couch we're watching some television snuggling up watching Netflix.

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Here's what happens past girl that I used to talk to randomly sends me attacks. Okay,

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something like hey case here something very soft and the girl who was on my couch currently

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that I'm seeing she knows about me and this other girl sees that text come through, instantly,

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you can tell that that induces some sort of competition anxiety, okay? When a girl sees

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that you have other options, she wants to fight tooth and nail to lock you down even

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more, because you have to understand that you're displaying a certain level of value

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that most guys can't. That's just the second instance, the third instance is this. Okay?

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I can tell you this, first and foremost, because I live in a little bit of a smaller town,

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right? We don't even have 150,000 people here where I live, okay. What I've seen time and

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time, again, is that anytime there's been gossip, specifically about myself, take gossip,

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think about what the word gossip is gossip is other people saying your name. What I've

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noticed is whether it's been positive reinforcement about my name or negative, whether it's false

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information, whether it's true information. All it has done is made more women interested.

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All it has done is made more girls pursue first and all it has done is actually helped

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my chances in dating, go figure. When I was young, I didn't understand these things. So

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what I really put here for point number three is gossip about who you may be seeing. Okay,

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not even that you're officially seeing them but who you may be seeing as a man raises

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some sort of interest, what am I getting at? Why did I make this video and I just tell

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you these three instances that I've noticed in my life, because I'm going to tell you

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this right now, to give a sub point to this okay, drama about you that you don't purposefully

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induce, I need you to listen to that closely. Drama, any drama about you and your name and

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your reputation that you did not purposefully induce that you did not purposely put out

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there to create a tension or to create a spectacle drama that you did not induce about you purposefully

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raises status without you even trying, when it raises your status without you even trying,

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here's what I can tell you the number one thing that you will never lose women, with

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or from if you do, how do you never lose girls? How do you how do you make sure that the women

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who come into your life they don't want to exit, women will never leave? If you covertly

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display that you have other women who are already interested in you. If you do that,

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you will not only have more women that try to lock you down, but what you're going to

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see is that it's so rare for girls, like women don't leave guys who display that they have

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options covertly. Why do I say covertly because if you look like a trihard, if you look like

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you're purposefully putting that on display all the company girls I get, you're gonna

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look like a loser like you're actually going to look like super low value, you're going

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to look like a trihard, you're going to look like a guy who actually doesn't have options.

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And he's putting on a facade in order just to facilitate some sort of mental like, mental

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stimulation for her that you have options when you don't have you displayed that you

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have options covertly just through your name, just through your reputation just through

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your status alone. Women do not want to leave. I didn't learn this in a book, I didn't learn

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that I learned this through trial and error. I learned this through dating and figuring

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out my own dating life for the past decade. And I've done it through delivering content

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on this channel for the past five years. And here's what I can tell you if these points

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resonated with you in a specific way, over the course of the years, nobody that I know

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of has more testimonials to help guys get better at their dating life and succeed than

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I do. And we do this through a little process that I call MBT and MBT stands for masculine

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behavioral techniques. And the reason why I feel like they're the most powerful on Earth

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is because these are specific step by step processes and tactics that you can use in

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your dating life that never go outdated. Meaning I don't care if

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you using Tinder I don't care if using Bumble, I don't care if you're doing cold approach.

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I don't care if you're doing this. I don't care if you're doing that. I don't care if

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you're doing social circle game when you display the things that I show you in here. These

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are hardwired into you as a man. And since they're hardwired into you. And these are

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specific attraction triggers that women respond to. This is how I get testimonials where guys

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see Casey, I now have the girlfriend of my dreams. Casey I've now actually consistently

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dated a girl for years now without any pullbacks and I'm about to get engaged. Casey. This

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is exactly the way that I was able to cold approach this girl have no anxiety while doing

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it be completely comfortable. look her in the eyes and we had an authentic interaction

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without me using any tactics. This is how we do it. So what I invite you to do is I

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invite you to take the content I've shown you in this quick snippet video, and I invite

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you to go one step further can to go one step further. All you have to do is go down below,

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I only have one link. And the one link is the MBT webinar I have I removed this link

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for about six months. I brought it back due to popular demand. I had so many people asking

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me Casey, where did the webinar go? I found so much value just from that free webinar

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by showing by you Casey showing me those four steps to master my dating life. I found more

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value in that than the majority of the YouTube channels I've been watching and because of

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that I brought it back. Go down below, register for it. Okay, I'm going to walk you through

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a step by step end to end presentation and what you're going to see is life changing

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transformative top Thanks that's going to 10x your dating life quicker than anything

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you have ever tried on planet Earth. Rest assured

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