Women DESTROY RELATIONSHIPS with the MEN THEY LOVE MOST (advanced female nature tests and games)

Summary

In this video, the speaker explains why women may purposely destroy or self-sabotage relationships to test their strength. This test often catches men off guard, causing them to fail due to their lack of understanding of the emotional dynamics involved. Women seek to assess their partner's emotional investment and attachment through covert tests involving drama, arguments, and jealousy. The speaker emphasizes the importance of maintaining masculine energy and emotional resilience to pass these tests, highlighting the need for clear boundaries and strong, unwavering responses to maintain attraction and respect in long-term relationships.

Takeaways

• 😔 Women often test the strength of a relationship by creating drama or pulling back to see if their partner is emotionally invested.
• 🤔 The purpose of these tests is to gauge the depth of a man's care and attachment, which women may covertly assess without directly stating their intentions.
• 😡 A woman may cause arguments or jealousy to see how much her partner cares and to get him emotionally invested at the same level as her.
• 💔 If a woman truly loves a man, she might engage in such behavior out of vulnerability and fear of abandonment, wanting to ensure the man's commitment.
• 📉 A common mistake is for men to not understand these tests and react in ways that may lead to the woman losing respect or trust in them.
• 💬 Communication is key; men should understand that women's actions during these tests are often a plea for reassurance and deeper emotional connection.
• 🚫 Men should avoid showing emotions like sadness, nervousness, or fear during these tests, as these can signal weakness and lead to a woman pulling away.
• 💪 Displaying emotions of strength, such as protectiveness or assertiveness, can actually increase attraction and security for a woman during a test.
• 🔒 Consistency in behavior and expectations is crucial; men should set clear relationship boundaries from the start and hold to them, even when tested.
• 🤝 It's important for men to stand firm in their decisions and not go back on their word, letting a woman deal with the consequences of her actions if she decides to exit the relationship.
• 🔄 Sometimes, letting a woman sit with her decision to exit can lead her to second-guess herself and potentially return to the relationship with a renewed sense of value and respect.

Q & A

Why do women sometimes purposefully destroy or self-sabotage a relationship according to the video?

Women may do this to test the strength of the relationship and to gauge the emotional investment and attachment of their partner.

What is the primary reason the video suggests for women testing the strength of a relationship?

The primary reason is to ensure their partner's emotional investment and to test if they are truly cared for and valued.

How does a woman typically test the strength of a relationship covertly according to the video?

She may cause drama, arguments, or jealousy to see the depth of the man's emotional investment and attachment.

What does the video suggest is a woman's greatest fear in a relationship?

A woman's greatest fear is being abandoned by the man she loves.

What are the two types of emotions that a man can show in response to a woman's test, as mentioned in the video?

The two types of emotions are those that move a man into his masculine energy, like anger or jealousy, and those that move him into his feminine energy, like sadness, nervousness, or fear.

Why does showing emotions of sadness, nervousness, or fear potentially repel a woman, as per the video?

These emotions can be seen as signs of weakness, which can cause a woman to lose respect, admiration, love, and trust in her partner.

What should a man's response be if a woman decides to exit the relationship, according to the video?

A man should stand firm in his decisions, meaning if he says 'yes' it means 'yes', and if he says 'no' it means 'no'. He should not go back on his word and should let her go without any further contact.

How does the video suggest a man should handle the situation if a woman tests the boundaries he has set in the relationship?

The man should call out the woman's behavior, reminding her of the rules and expectations he has clearly stated from the beginning of the relationship.

What does the video imply about the inevitability of ups and downs in a long-term relationship?

The video implies that ups and downs, including tests of the relationship's strength, are inevitable in long-term relationships.

What is the importance of a man being upfront about his requirements and expectations at the beginning of a relationship, as suggested by the video?

Being upfront about requirements and expectations sets the frame for how the man expects to be treated and ensures the woman knows how to make him feel good in the relationship.

How does the video define 'masculine energy' and 'feminine energy' in the context of a relationship?

In the context of the video, 'masculine energy' refers to emotions like anger or jealousy that show strength, while 'feminine energy' refers to emotions like sadness or fear that can be perceived as weakness.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 Testing Relationship Strength

The speaker discusses why women may intentionally create drama or self-sabotage a relationship to test its strength. This is often a covert test to gauge a man's emotional investment and attachment. Men frequently fail this test as they don't understand how to maintain attraction and desire during such situations. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics deeply and invites viewers to a webinar for further insights on masculine behavioral techniques to handle these tests effectively.

05:01

🤔 Emotional Resilience in Relationships

This paragraph delves into the psychological reasons behind a woman's actions to test a man's emotional investment. It explains that a woman's attachment can lead her to create conflict to see if the man is equally invested. The speaker clarifies that if a woman truly loves a man, she might cause drama to test his attachment level. The paragraph also highlights the potential negative outcomes if a man does not respond correctly to these tests, such as receiving messages questioning his commitment after a breakup initiated as a test.

10:02

💪 Demonstrating Masculine Energy

The speaker explains the importance of displaying emotions that reflect masculine energy when a woman tests a relationship. It is crucial for a man to show emotions that indicate strength and protectiveness, such as anger or jealousy, which can paradoxically increase attraction and security for the woman. The speaker advises men to stand firm in their decisions and not to show signs of weakness like sadness, nervousness, or fear, as these can lead to the woman pulling back from the relationship.

15:04

🛡 Setting Boundaries and Expectations

The final paragraph focuses on the importance of setting clear expectations and boundaries in a relationship from the outset. It stresses the need for a man to communicate his requirements and how he expects to be treated, ensuring mutual respect. The speaker also discusses the importance of consistency in upholding these boundaries, even when tested, and the potential consequences of showing weakness. The paragraph concludes with a reminder that handling these tests incorrectly can result in losing the relationship and encourages viewers to like, comment, and subscribe for more content.

Keywords

💡Self-sabotage

Self-sabotage refers to the act of intentionally undermining one's own success or happiness, often unconsciously. In the context of the video, it is suggested that women may self-sabotage a relationship to test its strength and the man's emotional investment. An example from the script is when a woman might create drama or arguments to gauge the man's reaction and commitment.

💡Emotional investment

Emotional investment is the degree to which a person is emotionally involved or committed to a situation or person. The video discusses how women test the emotional investment of their partners to ensure their attachment and care. The script mentions that women want to know if a man is 'attached' and 'emotionally invested in me'.

💡Fear of loss

Fear of loss is the apprehension or anxiety about losing something or someone important. The video suggests that women may provoke this fear in their partners to see if they are deeply invested in the relationship. The script indicates that women want to see if a man will 'fight for our relationship', which implies they are trying to trigger this fear.

💡Masculine energy

Masculine energy, in the context of the video, refers to assertive, protective, and strong emotional responses that a man might display. The video emphasizes the importance of a man showing masculine energy, such as anger or jealousy, as a sign of strength and care, which can trigger attraction and arousal in women.

💡Feminine energy

Feminine energy, as discussed in the video, is associated with emotions that are perceived as weaker or more passive, such as sadness or nervousness. The script warns against displaying feminine energy emotions like fear, which can lead to a loss of attraction and respect in the eyes of a woman.

💡Attraction

Attraction in this video refers to the feeling of being drawn towards someone, often based on emotional and physical responses. The script explains that certain emotions displayed by a man can either increase or decrease a woman's attraction towards him, with masculine energy emotions like protectiveness being attractive.

💡Arousal

Arousal, in the context of the video, is the state of being emotionally or physiologically stimulated, often in relation to attraction. The video suggests that a woman's arousal can be triggered by a man showing strong emotions, such as anger or jealousy, which signal his deep care and investment in her.

💡Survival

Survival, as used in the video, is linked to the idea that women test relationships to ensure their long-term well-being and security. The script mentions that women's actions stem from a 'survival' instinct, wanting to know if a man can 'protect me, provide for me'.

💡Respect

Respect in the video is portrayed as a crucial element in a relationship, where a woman tests to see if she is valued and treated well by her partner. The script emphasizes the importance of a man expecting and receiving respect, which is a foundation for a strong and healthy relationship.

💡Stoic

Stoic refers to being able to endure pain or hardship without showing one's feelings or complaining. The video advises men to remain stoic in the face of relationship tests, not to show weakness, and to stand firm in their decisions. An example from the script is 'you have to be strong and stoic at all times when it comes to the outcome'.

💡Protective

Protective in the video is associated with a man's instinct to guard and care for his partner. It is suggested that showing protective emotions can increase a woman's attraction and sense of security. The script uses the term in the context of a man's reaction to the thought of his woman being with someone else, indicating a strong, masculine response.

Highlights

Women often test the strength of a relationship to gauge a man's emotional investment.

Most men fail this test and do not know how to maintain attraction and desire.

Understanding deep concepts is crucial for handling relationship tests.

A woman's covert tests involve causing drama to see a man's emotional response.

Women want to know the depth of a man's care and attachment.

A woman's actions to test a relationship can include creating jealousy or arguments.

A woman's vulnerability when in love leads her to test a man's commitment.

Men should not chase after a woman who pulls back as a test.

Women may express disappointment if a man does not fight for the relationship.

A woman's test of breaking up is often a calculated move to see a man's reaction.

Women test for safety and survival, assessing a man's ability to protect and provide.

A woman's fear of abandonment drives her to test a man's emotional investment.

Men should show emotions of strength, not weakness, in response to tests.

Showing fear, sadness, or nervousness can cause a woman to lose respect for a man.

Standing firm in decisions and not going back on one's word is key in relationship tests.

Men should set clear expectations and rules from the start of a relationship.

Letting a woman sit with her decision to exit can cause her to question and reconsider.

Handling relationship tests incorrectly can lead to losing the woman.

The importance of showing emotions that affirm strength and not weakness.

The video offers a webinar for further understanding of masculine behavioral techniques.

Transcripts

now in today's video I'm going to be

showing you why women will often times

need to purposefully destroy a

relationship or self-sabotage a

relationship simply to test the strength

of it okay this is a test that I would

say majority of all men fail and

specifically majority of men do not know

how to handle this to maintain the

attraction the desire as well as the

arousal majority of all women are going

to be testing the strength of the

relationship as well as your emotional

investment so it's very important that

you understand these Concepts at a deep

level now after this video is over be

sure to go down below you go into the

link in the description and you click

that link in the description and check

out the MBT masculine behavioral

technique full length end to-end webinar

presentation that I put together for you

because inside of that presentation we

take some of these Concepts that I teach

on today's video and we take them inside

of that presentation even a step further

so that way you can get results at a far

quicker Pace let's dive in okay very

important video because I don't care if

you are a professional athlete I don't

care if you are 6'5 I don't care if

you're a multi-millionaire and I do not

care if you're the CEO of a Fortune 500

company you have to understand that if

you are dating a woman long term or if

you've been with a woman long term they

will test the strength of the

relationship which means you are going

to go through drama you're going to go

through like little mini breakups or

you're going to notice that she will

test and pull back in certain ways that

other women you've probably been with

for a shorter period of time do not do

and I'm going to explain why so women

need to destroy a relationship simply to

test the strength of it and here's what

I mean by this a woman is always looking

to know where you stand and if you care

about her

24/7 24/7 what she wants to know is is

he attached is he emotionally invested

in me does he care for me and then not

only does she want to know if you care

for her or not she now wants to know the

depth or the level of how much you care

and she does this in specific ways so

whenever she does this it's always

tested covertly it's always tested

indirectly without her actually stating

it she's never going to really walk up

to you and say do you care about me but

what she's going to do is she's going to

cause certain uh drama potential chaos

potential turmoil to make you

emotionally invest at a deeper level and

I'm going to explain what I mean so how

does she do this how how does she how

does she test covertly how does she test

indirectly she does this by getting your

emotions involved she wants you to have

fear of loss and she also wants you to

like she what she's wondering is she's

wondering is if she was with a different

man how to what degree is that going to

piss you off let me explain when a woman

truly loves

you like when a woman deep down loves

you and what I mean by that is she's

completely emotionally attached and head

over heels in love you got to understand

that she's in a vulnerable position

she's nervous about that because her

feelings are engaged well if her

feelings are engaged she loves you if

she loves you and if she cares about you

she is worried that that might cause you

know emotional pain if things were to go

south here's what I mean by this when a

woman truly loves you she will often

times cause drama she will cause

arguments and she will make repetitive

attempts of

jealousy if you notice that woman's

doing this causing drama arguments and

attempts of jealousy that means she's

attached if you're seeing a woman and

she's not doing this that woman does not

love you women do this with the men that

they actually deep down love because

they care so since they care so much

what they're trying to do is get your

feelings involved too this can go very

south if like this can go south very

quick if you don't lay your cards

properly here's what I mean by that

since she's going to attempt to do all

of these little like emotional things to

cause turmoil what that means is she'd

be super sad or super hurt if you two

split up so she's trying to get you on

the same level of attachment of what

she's at now women will often pull back

or break up with a guy only to be

disappointed a week or two later and

text him and say one of these two things

or both of these things say this with me

one more time women will break up with a

guy she will literally say I'm done I

can't do this anymore uh we're not on

the same page blah blah blah that's what

that's what will happen women will often

times break up or pull back with a guy

or or pull back from a guy only to be

disappointed a week later and text him I

can't believe you didn't try to win me

back or she'll text you something like

how could you not fight for our

relationship how could you not fight to

save our relationship how could you do

this to us this is what she's going to

do and you're going to be sitting there

with a big question mark and you're

going to be sitting there going well why

did you pull back back from me in the

first place everything was going

smooth okay everything was fine in fact

there was no issue there was no drama

you're going to be sitting there

scratching your head going you caused

this you're going to be sitting there

scratching the head going uh I was

living my day to-day life you know

working or having a good time and all of

a sudden you came out of left field and

started causing drama arguments attempts

of Jealousy what happened is she's

attached well since she's attached now

she's trying to get you attached if you

have the emotional resiliency to walk

away from this you are going to get one

of these two texts or both of these two

text messages she's going to say how

could you not fight to save our

relationship how could you not fight for

us don't you care about us anymore and

this is why she exited in the first

place what I'm trying to show

you is that often times if a woman pulls

back from you and breaks up with you you

have to understand that it's usually

just like it it's a test it's it's false

it's false reality every everything is

often times future paced with a plan she

has a plan okay um how I would even say

this um it's like it it's almost like

calculated what she wants her moves to

be to see how you're going to react

truthfully you're never going to be one

two three steps ahead of what she's

thinking due to the fact that she's

going to have a deeper sense of like

emotional cues than you do that's just

how she's wired so it all comes down

what the reason why women do this is it

all comes down to safety and it all

comes down to survival well if it all

comes down to safety and survival what

does that mean that means not only do

women test the strength of a man but

women always test the man's emotional

investment towards her say that with me

one more time women always test the

man's emotional investment towards her

meaning is this guy like when when you

look at this from a survival

perspective she's sitting there in her

in in the back of her brain going is

this man going to to protect me provide

for me provide resources to me only care

about me and love me this is what she's

wondering and this is what she's

thinking now her great the reason why

she does this is because her greatest

fear is being abandoned by the man that

she loves now this probably makes sense

you're like okay that makes sense she

causes these breakups and this issues

back and forth to test if I'm still

attached and into her or not and what

you're often times going to find is as

soon as you do walk away that's when

often times she will chase even harder

because she can feel that it's fully

over and she might have went too far but

here's what I can tell you when this

happens a woman pulls back or a woman

tries to destroy the relationship or

self-sabotage it here's where this gets

messy okay and here's where this gets

messy very very very quickly most women

subconsciously do not realize that what

they think they want will also cause

them to lose respect admiration love and

Trust in her man say that with me one

more time most women subconsciously do

not realize that what they think they

want will also cause them to lose

respect admiration love and Trust in her

man so once she exits or does a mini

breakup it's often just a

test it's like a it's a it's a it's a

act it's a routine she's taking you

through a routine

so this is where like I I told you

things get messy if you don't lay your

cards properly in this example this is

the part where it gets messy stick with

me this is kind of hard to even

explain there's certain emotions that a

man can show that will move you into

your feminine

energy and there are certain emotions

that a man shows that brings him into

his masculine energy okay there are

certain emotions that lower attraction

and there's certain emotions that

trigger arousal and that trigger

attraction here's what I mean by this if

she tries to exit from that guy and he

starts to show these emotions he shows

deep amounts of sadness he shows

nervousness and specifically this one

will repulser if he shows fear these

emotions cause that man to move into his

feminine energy now what would be the

opposite of that the emotions that

actually make her open her eyes and say

holy I'm attracted to this guy or wo

this is hot these specific emotions will

often times trigger attraction or

arousal okay if the emotion that that

guy shows is like he's pissed off or he

gets jealous or he says like you don't

you dare sleep with another man and that

she can see like he's he's visually

frustrated like she can see that he he's

wound up and pissed off because this is

happening this will often times cause

that woman to engage deeper in her

feelings and actually feel more secure

with that man because she sees the depth

of care

that that man would never want her with

somebody

else like if if that if she can see that

actually frustrates the hell out of that

guy and pisses him off even just the

thought of it this will cause you to

move into your masculine energy I hope

that this makes sense it's like an it's

like a the depending on the emotions

that you show in that time period

dictates how she's going to categorize

you and a lot of you guys you're going

to say well you know I'm I'm just stoic

no matter what I'm masculine no matter

what I'll just be indifferent and she'll

walk away that's and you know

that that's you try dating a

girl for 2 years once 3 years once or um

let's say you live with a girl or let's

say some of you maybe you're watching

this you're married one day there's no

way in hell that if if you get to that

point where um she's wants to exit or

she claims she wants to exit there's no

way that that's not going to move you

off center to the point where you're

going to end up showing something the

key is you just need to know how to show

the right thing because when you show

the emotions that get you to move into

your masculine energy she might actually

get turned on by that so what she's

really looking or what she's really

wanting to see is she wants to watch you

almost become protective or like

territorial because when she looks at

you and she's like oh my gosh this man

genuinely in his in the depth of him or

in his heart of hearts actually feels

like I'm his woman and like he wants me

on that level that will turn her on so

no matter what happens you have to be

strong and stoic at all times when it

comes to the outcome so here's what I

mean by this here's how you stand firm

in your decisions and no matter what the

outcome is no matter what the final

decision is no matter how the

relationship goes and unfolds when you

say yes your Yes means yes okay when you

say no your no means no that means you

never go back on your word if she exits

you let her go you have to let her go if

she exits you have to let her go that

means zero calls zero text messages zero

reach

outs she made her decision okay now if

she made a bad mistake and she made a

bad decision you need to let her sit

with it and think about what she's done

because often times if she had an

attachment towards you you not chasing

and pursuing that and letting her sit

with that decision will cause her to

second guess herself and cause her to

wonder if she made the right decision or

not sometimes letting her sit with that

it might only take a week sometimes it

might take 3 months sometimes it might

take one to two years but Watch What

Happens watch what happens when she

starts to realize hm this probably was

was not the best idea so the way that

you can prevent a lot of this from

happening and this is why like as a man

you need to be upfront with your

requirements if a woman's going to enter

your life and you also need to really

set the frame that you expect respect at

all times if you expect respect at all

times here's what that would look like

from day one if you guys are going to

enter into a relationship you have to

tell her what you expect your rules of

the relationship and how you operate and

how you expect to be treated that way

she knows how to serve you to make you

feel good in the relationship now once

you have laid that out you have to hold

to it okay if you said some sort of

expectation or rule of the relationship

of how you operate and 18 months in she

decides to test that you need to call

that out and you need to say this is how

I operate and this is what I said you're

going to go to this level door's right

there okay so standing firm is very

important however

this can get very messy if you do not

lay your cards properly because I'm

telling you this the second that you

demonstrate emotions of weak see like

there there's different types of

emotions there's emotions of um strength

and there's emotions of weakness if you

have a child and something happened to

the kid and let's say you're a

firefighter and you run into the burning

building and you have emotions of uh uh

you're you're wound up and like you're

you're you're assertive and you're like

I'm on a mission to go save this child

or you you're like th those level that

protector level Instinct turns a woman

on okay so there's emotions that will

lead to lowering of Attraction and get

you to move into your feminine energy

and cause weakness there's also emotions

that do the exact opposite the key is to

never show sadness nervousness or fear

if you show that that's going to

register to that woman as weakness from

there that's when she fully pulls back

cuz now she sees that she got to you on

a different level that affected your ID

identity and your confidence as soon as

that woman sees she can affect your

identity and your confidence that's when

the whole thing gets destroyed now keep

in mind this everything that I just

talked to you on this markerboard

presentation about this has nothing to

do with sex this has nothing to do with

intimacy this has nothing to do with

chemistry this has everything to do with

how deep does she respect that man and

desire to be with him so it goes to this

level it will always go to this deep of

level like if any of you guys think that

you're just going to have a smooth

relationship where you found the right

girl and there's no ups and downs and

you know for 12 months 24 months 36

months you know 5 years 10 years you

guys are going to have no issues this is

okay so the key is knowing how

to deal with these things this is often

times why women attempt to destroy a

relationship simply to test the strength

of it and this is exactly how you handle

all of those tests now I will tell you

this if you handle these tests

incorrectly you'll probably lose the

girl so it's very important to never

show any emotions that will cause her to

question your strength you have to only

show emotions that cause her to look at

you and go that man is not weak

whatsoever that man is a strong man if

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