5 Stupid Questions Women ask Men - Connie Podesta, CSP, CPAE
Summary
TLDRIn this humorous and insightful script, a speaker addresses common yet 'stupid' questions women often ask men, which can strain relationships. The speaker engages a man from the audience, Randy, to represent all men and humorously illustrates the pitfalls of such inquiries. The script highlights five questions, including about physical appearance and emotional support, and offers alternative approaches for better communication and understanding between partners.
Takeaways
- đ The speaker humorously addresses the audience about the five 'stupid' questions women often ask men, suggesting that avoiding these could improve relationships.
- đ€ The speaker invites a man named Randy to represent all men in the room, emphasizing the importance of his role in answering questions as a typical man would.
- đ„ The audience is reminded that the interaction will be recorded and likely shared on YouTube, adding a layer of public accountability to Randy's responses.
- đ« The speaker instructs the audience to swear an 'agile flag' oath to never ask these questions again, highlighting the perceived negative impact of these questions.
- đŹ The first question involves asking a man if he notices anything different about his partner, which the speaker criticizes as a setup for a negative response.
- đ The second question is about whether a dress makes the woman look big, which the speaker deems inappropriate as it puts men in a difficult position to answer honestly without upsetting their partners.
- đ The third question is about a man's favorite sports team, used as an example of how timing can affect a man's response and the importance of not interrupting during crucial moments.
- đŽ The fourth question involves comparing oneself to another woman in terms of attractiveness, which the speaker advises against as it leads to an inevitable negative comparison.
- đïž The fifth question is about a man's day at work and his preferred place to relax, illustrating the importance of understanding that men and women might have different needs and ways of coping with stress.
- đ€ The speaker emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, suggesting that sometimes a simple act of understanding or a hug is more valuable than trying to 'fix' everything.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script?
-The main theme of the video script is about the five 'stupid' questions that women should stop asking men to improve their relationships.
Why does the speaker suggest that women should stop asking these questions?
-The speaker suggests that these questions are 'stupid' because they often lead to misunderstandings, arguments, or unnecessary pressure on men, and avoiding them could lead to better relationships.
What does the speaker ask the audience to do at the beginning of the script?
-The speaker asks the audience to raise their hands and swear under the 'agile' flag that they will never again ask these five questions to any man in their life.
What role does Randy play in the script?
-Randy is asked to represent every man in the room and act as the 'male representative' to answer the questions as a typical man would.
What is the first 'stupid' question the speaker mentions?
-The first 'stupid' question is when a woman asks a man if he notices anything different about her, which can lead to a setup for a negative response.
Why is the question about noticing a woman's change considered 'stupid'?
-It is considered 'stupid' because it puts men in a difficult position, where they might unintentionally say something that could upset the woman, even if they think they are giving a compliment.
What is the second 'stupid' question that the speaker advises women not to ask?
-The second 'stupid' question is asking a man if a dress makes them look big, which is a setup for an uncomfortable situation where the man is expected to give a dishonest answer to avoid hurting feelings.
Why should men not be asked about their favorite sports team during a game?
-It's not appropriate because it interrupts their focus on the game, and it's about timing; men are more likely to be receptive to such questions at a different time.
What is the third 'stupid' question mentioned in the script?
-The third 'stupid' question is asking a man what he is thinking during a crucial moment of a sports game, which is likely to be ignored or answered with annoyance.
What is the fourth 'stupid' question that the speaker discusses?
-The fourth 'stupid' question is asking a man if another woman is prettier than oneself, which is a comparison that can lead to an awkward situation and is not productive.
What is the fifth and final 'stupid' question that the speaker mentions?
-The fifth 'stupid' question is asking a man what is wrong when he has had a bad day at work, expecting him to share or discuss it immediately, which might not be what he needs at that moment.
What is the speaker's final point about communication in relationships?
-The speaker's final point is that communication is key in relationships, and sometimes, instead of trying to fix things or give advice, a simple gesture like a hug can be more meaningful and supportive.
Outlines
đ Avoiding Common Relationship Pitfalls
In this humorous and insightful segment, the speaker addresses common questions that women often ask men, which can lead to misunderstandings or unnecessary conflicts in relationships. The speaker engages a man named Randy to represent all men in the room and asks him questions that are typically seen as 'stupid' or leading. The first question revolves around whether men notice any changes in their partner's appearance, highlighting the difficulty men face in answering such questions without causing offense. The speaker emphasizes the importance of direct communication and avoiding setups that can lead to negative outcomes.
đ Navigating Sensitive Topics in Relationships
Continuing the discussion on relationship dynamics, the speaker delves into more sensitive topics that women should avoid asking their partners. These include questions about their favorite sports teams during crucial moments, comparing themselves to other women in terms of attractiveness, and seeking validation about their appearance or weight. The speaker also touches on the importance of timing and context in conversations, suggesting that women should be mindful of when they ask certain questions. Additionally, the segment highlights the need for empathy and understanding in relationships, rather than expecting men to provide solutions or reassurances in every situation.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄCommunication
đĄRelationships
đĄStupid Questions
đĄHonesty
đĄCompliments
đĄAppearance
đĄSports Teams
đĄTiming
đĄPatronizing
đĄEmotional Support
đĄExpectations
Highlights
Introduction of the concept that there are five 'stupid' questions women often ask men that could potentially harm relationships.
Engaging the audience with a humorous and interactive approach by selecting a man from the audience to represent all men.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships and the negative impact of certain questions.
Highlighting the first 'stupid' question about men noticing changes, and the problematic nature of such inquiries.
The humorous demonstration of a common scenario where men are put in a difficult position to answer about noticing changes.
The second 'stupid' question involves asking men about the woman's appearance in relation to her weight, which is deemed inappropriate.
A light-hearted explanation of why men should not be asked about a woman's weight, suggesting self-awareness instead.
The third 'stupid' question is about men's favorite sports teams, illustrating the importance of timing when engaging men in conversation.
A comedic portrayal of a sports scenario to emphasize the timing issue when asking men questions during critical moments.
The fourth 'stupid' question is about comparing oneself to another woman, showing the futility of seeking validation in such a manner.
A playful interaction with the audience to demonstrate the one correct answer to the comparison question.
The fifth and final 'stupid' question involves asking men about their day when they are not in the mood to talk, highlighting the need for understanding.
A dramatic enactment of a common issue where men and women have different communication needs and expectations.
The speaker concludes with a call to action for better communication and understanding in relationships, rather than avoiding certain questions.
A humorous and insightful conclusion that encourages self-awareness and direct communication between partners.
Transcripts
I have discovered women that there are
five stupid questions that we keep
asking guys and we need to stop it if we
would stop asking these five stupid
questions our relationships would be so
much better how many spouses do we have
together here in the room oh you're
gonna love this okay now I need a man
let's see Randy come on up here you're
single right oh yeah this is my only
shot to be with single men and get away
with it okay all right now Randy did not
know this was coming
correct I don't do that so he now Randy
here's the deal you are gonna represent
every man in this room you are the male
representative at this moment and
because this is a taped I guarantee you
you and I will be on YouTube by two
o'clock tomorrow okay man if he's doing
okay give him a thumbs up if he's not
answering right a thumbs down you just
kind of go with your guys and tried to
do the right thing but basically answer
just the way a guy would answer I am
going to ask him the questions and women
might want you to raise your hands
please all ladies hands up ladies repeat
loudly after me I swear under the agile
flag I will never again in my life ask
any man in my life these stupid
questions okay you did it it's on tape
you're accountable all right let's back
up a little bit so everyone can see us
okay Randy we're gonna pretend you and I
are married
kind of scary thought stupid question
number one Randy we're getting ready to
go out for the evening I come in - you
were in the bathroom
um don't get ahead of me do you notice
anything different
here's what I learned with no no no no I
got a speaker and I shouldn't have
because you think you can talk but you
can't because I'm talking so you just
have to so you just you just have to be
my husband okay
you're just the husband okay honey um do
you notice anything different yes
oh good what you changed your hair color
so you don't like my hair
I thought you liked my hair why would I
change my I mean so what's wrong with my
hair color you think it needs changing I
mean I thought you women this is what
you do
watch it you watched it right it's what
you do it's sick and it's cruel and it's
mean and it's a setup
ladies you asking a man does he notice
anything different is like him taking
you into the garage opening up the hood
of the car and saying do you notice
anything different
now women I want you to watch what's
going to happen men on it's time how
many men in here are willing to answer
anything to this question as long as you
stay out of trouble how many of you are
even willing to be led to the right
answer as long as she's not angry all
right ladies let's call but I let's do
what I call grown-up talk how about if
we did this hi Randy I just got a new
dress and I think it makes me look kind
of cute and sexy what do you think oh
absolutely
women I know you I know women you want
compliments just tell them what to say
okay they're willing to say it you just
gotta tell them what to say
alright question number two women never
ask a man in your life again again we're
getting ready to go out um do you think
that this dress kind of makes me look
big no you are being so sweet and I
appreciate it
but I really need the honest because I'm
going out tonight so be as honest as you
can do you think women shame on you
man do not fall for that she does not
want the honest truth she can't handle
the honest truth and women shame on you
don't you ever ask a man in your life
again about your weight you have a scale
get on it
if the numbers high the butt is big they
go together okay you do not have to
involve him at all bless his heart he's
just trying to act like he doesn't see
it growing okay question three what's
your favorite sports team the Marlins
okay Florida Marlins baseball we are
married you have a hundred inch screen
flat TV you have a remote control a cool
drink a box of snacks a second remote
the Marlins are about to make the most
amazing play in the history of mankind
and you're going to see it in real time
and this is going to be such an amazing
play that it will change the nature of
baseball forever it's going to happen in
about three seconds and you're going to
see it as it happens question number
three never ask a man in your life again
so what's your thinking
women it's about timing with men it's
about timing that's why they have half
time okay question four we're in the
Bahamas we've had the most absolutely
wonderfully romantic weekend question
four honey do you think that woman is
prettier than me
of course she's prettier than you
you're the one that picked her out if
you want to know to that question pick
out some 180 now the 23 year old and man
there's only one right answer to this I
know the answer what woman
the score is now Randy one me three yay
okay and question number five last one
never to ask a man in your life again
you've had a horrible day at work
worst day that you've ever had in your
life do you have a favorite chair or
couch at home that you like to relax on
yes what color is black black ebony we
call it ebony okay so or baby charcoal
it could be either one but there's a
difference so you have walked in from
your worst day at work all you want to
do is get on that couch and relax
I intercept you question number five
honey what's wrong nothing nothing
nothing I mean something's wrong Randy I
know you I could tell the moment you
walked in I mean what did you have a bad
day at work yes that bad day at work oh
oh you had a bad day at work yeah what
about my day Randy what about my death
I mean at least your day is over you
know my day isn't over because now I
have homework and baths in my day is
never over and you know what our problem
is Randy okay I'll tell you Randy we
don't talk anymore we don't communicate
you don't share with me where do you see
our marriage in ten years you have no
idea
never mind just go really just go really
oh-oh-oh-oh what you just walked away I
can't believe you just walked away we
are in the middle of one of the most
important discussions in our
relationship and you just you know I
wish I could walk away I wish every time
I didn't want something I could walk
away nice try
Randy do you have any idea what I need
no okay
let me tell you Randy I don't need your
patronizing I don't need you to fix
everything sometimes Randy sometimes I
just need a hug
oh not because I asked for it no-ho-ho I
have to ask for it
give him a hand thank you very much
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