Advanced FEMALE Manipulation - How women gain Power over High Value Men

Casey Zander
25 Jul 202319:08

Summary

TLDRThis video script delves into the tactics women use to manipulate high-value men, revealing five key strategies that can lead to a power imbalance in relationships. It emphasizes the importance of men understanding and enforcing the 'language of men,' which involves direct communication and setting clear expectations. The speaker advises men to avoid common pitfalls like excessive validation-seeking and to instead establish firm boundaries and standards to maintain respect and stability in relationships.

Takeaways

  • 🚀 High value men must be aware of manipulation tactics women may use to gain power in relationships.
  • 📚 Learning the 'language of men' is crucial for both men and women to maintain stable communication in a relationship.
  • 🔍 Women may initially appear fully compliant and submissive to later create doubt in the man's mind about his masculinity.
  • 💡 Men should not chase after validation or over-pursue when a woman pulls back emotionally, as it can be a manipulation tactic.
  • 🛡 Men must set clear standards and expectations for communication and behavior to avoid being manipulated.
  • 🤔 Women may intentionally create situations where they want to be told 'no' to test a man's ability to set boundaries.
  • 😢 The use of crying or emotional outbursts by women can be a method to manipulate men into giving in to their demands.
  • 🤯 Men should remain stoic and not be emotionally swayed by a woman's attempts to move them off center.
  • 🤝 It's important for men to ensure that women reciprocate the understanding of direct communication and handling of issues.
  • 🔑 Men possess more power in relationships than they often realize and should use it to maintain control and stability.
  • 🔗 The more 'deep level boxes' a man checks off, the harder it is for a woman to replace him, increasing her attachment.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of the video script?

    -The main topic of the video script is about advanced female manipulation strategies that women use to gain power over high-value men.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the primary reason women use manipulation tactics?

    -The speaker suggests that women use manipulation tactics when men do not force them to learn the 'language of men,' which involves direct and clear communication.

  • According to the script, why does a man's life get harder as he becomes a high-value man?

    -A man's life gets harder as he becomes a high-value man because there are more levels to the game, and women may test him to a higher level to see if he can maintain his position and power.

  • What is the 'language of men' as mentioned in the script?

    -The 'language of men' refers to direct communication patterns and behaviors that men exhibit, which women need to learn and understand to maintain a stable relationship with a man.

  • Why is it important for a woman to learn the 'language of men' according to the speaker?

    -It's important for a woman to learn the 'language of men' because it helps maintain stable communication and ensures that the relationship remains strong, preventing the woman from losing the man's time, investment, care, and attention.

  • What are some common misconceptions the speaker addresses about how men should behave in relationships?

    -The speaker addresses misconceptions such as not initiating physical touch, being slow to reply to text messages, and the idea that men should 'remove validation' to maintain power in a relationship.

  • What is the first manipulation tactic the speaker describes that women use on men?

    -The first manipulation tactic is women starting off as fully compliant and submissive, which can lead to a severe pullback later, causing men to second-guess their masculinity.

  • What does the speaker mean by 'death by a Thousand Cuts' in the context of relationships?

    -'Death by a Thousand Cuts' refers to the gradual erosion of a relationship due to repeated small instances of emotional manipulation or weakness, which can ultimately lead to its downfall.

  • How does the speaker define 'urgency' and 'scarcity' in the context of dating?

    -In the context of dating, 'urgency' and 'scarcity' refer to the feelings of needing to act quickly and the fear of not finding someone else, which can lead men to over-pursue or over-compliment women, thus losing their power in the relationship.

  • What is the 'Masculine Behavioral Techniques' (MBT) mentioned in the script?

    -MBT is the speaker's proprietary process that he has developed to help men understand and implement the 'language of men' in their relationships, ensuring they maintain their power and stability.

  • What advice does the speaker give to men about setting standards and expectations in a relationship?

    -The speaker advises men to set clear standards and expectations for communication and behavior in a relationship, ensuring that they are the ones saying 'no' more often than 'yes,' and maintaining a strong frame to provide a sense of safety and stability for the woman.

Outlines

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🚀 Introduction to Advanced Female Manipulation Tactics

The speaker begins by introducing the topic of advanced manipulation strategies that women may use to gain power over high-value men. He emphasizes the importance for men to recognize these tactics to avoid being misled. The speaker warns that life for high-value men, such as those perceived as alpha, becomes more complex as they ascend in status, and they must be aware of the tests women may impose to gauge their strength and character. He criticizes common but ineffective advice found online, such as withholding validation or delaying text replies, and stresses the need for men to teach women the 'language of men,' which involves direct communication and setting clear boundaries.

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🔍 Recognizing Initial Compliance and Submissiveness as a Manipulation Red Flag

The speaker discusses the first manipulative tactic where women may initially appear overly compliant and submissive. He explains that this behavior is a red flag because it can lead men to second-guess their masculinity when the woman later withdraws this compliance. The speaker advises men to avoid becoming overly validating or initiating frequent contact in response to such a pullback, as it can signal weakness and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining standards and expectations in communication to avoid being manipulated.

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💡 Understanding the Psychological Impact of a Woman's Pullback

The speaker elaborates on the second manipulation tactic, where women pull back emotionally to evoke a psychological response in men. He explains that women are attracted to men they can look up to and that any perceived weakness can be detrimental. Men are advised to recognize their own value and not to fall into the trap of trying to 'fix' emotional issues by becoming overly attentive or communicative. The speaker stresses the importance of not displaying urgency or scarcity and to remain firm in the face of emotional manipulation.

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🛑 The Power of Saying 'No' and Setting Boundaries

The speaker introduces the third tactic, where women may deliberately create situations where they want to be told 'no.' He argues that a man's time is a privilege, not a right, and that men should set high standards and expectations for women in their lives. The speaker suggests that women test men's boundaries to see if they can be relied upon, and men should be willing to set and maintain these boundaries to ensure a woman's safety and investment in the relationship. He warns against going soft, especially with very attractive women, and emphasizes the importance of standing up to them to increase their attachment.

😢 Emotional Manipulation Through Crying and Temper Tantrums

The speaker addresses the fourth manipulation tactic, which involves women using emotions such as crying or throwing tantrums to get their way. He advises men to remain stoic and not be swayed by emotional attempts to manipulate. The speaker stresses that men should not take the bait of emotional manipulation but instead maintain their composure and boundaries, as giving in can lead to being punished in the relationship.

🤔 Dealing with Vague Discontent and the Importance of Direct Communication

In the final paragraph, the speaker discusses the fifth tactic where women may express discontent without specifying the issue, prompting men to guess the problem. He advises men to remove attention in such situations and to require women to communicate directly and maturely if they have an issue. The speaker reiterates the importance of teaching women the 'language of men,' which involves clear and direct communication, and setting expectations for how interactions and relationships should be conducted.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Manipulation

Manipulation refers to the act of influencing someone's behavior or emotions in a cunning or covert manner for one's own advantage. In the video, it is discussed as a strategy that women may use to gain power over high-value men, particularly through tactics that provoke emotional responses or create dependency.

💡High Value Men

High Value Men are described as individuals who possess qualities that are desirable to women, such as being alpha, successful, or having a strong social status. The script emphasizes that these men are often targeted by manipulative tactics because their value can be leveraged for control.

💡Language of Men

The 'Language of Men' is a concept introduced in the script that suggests men need to communicate in a direct and assertive manner. It is posited that women who understand and respect this direct communication style are less likely to engage in manipulative behavior, as they recognize the man's authority and stability.

💡Compliance

Compliance in this context is when a woman initially behaves in a fully submissive and agreeable manner. The script warns that this can be a red flag for future manipulative behavior, as it may be a tactic to later create doubt in the man's mind and elicit a need for validation.

💡Psychological Weakness

Psychological Weakness is a vulnerability that can be exploited through emotional tactics. The video explains that women may try to identify and manipulate these weaknesses in men to gain power, such as by evoking a sense of urgency or creating a sense of scarcity in the relationship.

💡Validation

Validation is the need for approval or confirmation from others. In the script, it is mentioned as something that men often provide too readily to women, which can lead to a loss of power and control in the relationship dynamic.

💡Emotion

Emotion is used in the script to describe a tool that women may use to influence men, such as through crying or displaying anger. The video advises men to remain stoic and not be swayed by emotional displays, as these can be manipulative tactics to gain control.

💡Masculine Stability

Masculine Stability refers to the sense of security and reliability that a man can provide in a relationship. The script suggests that women are often seeking this stability, and men who can demonstrate it are less likely to be manipulated, as they represent a valuable and irreplaceable partner.

💡Boundaries

Boundaries are the limits or rules that define a relationship. The video emphasizes the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries as a way for men to prevent manipulation and ensure that the relationship remains balanced and respectful.

💡Investment

Investment in the context of the video refers to the emotional and time commitment that both parties give to a relationship. It is suggested that women will be more invested in a man who demonstrates strong boundaries and a clear understanding of the 'Language of Men'.

💡Stoic Element

A Stoic Element is an unemotional and stable demeanor that the script advises men to maintain. This quality allows men to withstand emotional manipulation attempts by women, as they remain unaffected by dramatic displays and instead respond with calm and reason.

Highlights

Advanced female manipulation strategies are discussed, focusing on tactics women use to gain power over high-value men.

There are only five main ways women manipulate, which are crucial for men to recognize to avoid being misled.

High-value men, or 'alpha' males, face increased challenges as their status rises, not fewer.

Women may test high-value men more rigorously, requiring them to understand and pass these tests.

Common advice for men, such as not initiating physical touch or delaying text replies, is often misguided.

The 'language of men' is a concept introduced, emphasizing direct communication and setting expectations in relationships.

Men must ensure women understand and adopt the 'language of men' to maintain stable relationships.

Women may initially appear fully compliant and submissive as a manipulation tactic to later withdraw and create doubt in men.

Men should not overcompensate with validation when women pull back, as it can be a test of their masculinity.

Psychological weakness in men, such as showing urgency or scarcity, can be exploited by women.

Women may intentionally create scenarios where they want to be told 'no' to test men's boundaries.

Men should set clear standards and expectations for how a woman should behave within their life.

Attractive women often test men's boundaries more rigorously, requiring firm responses to maintain attraction.

Women may use emotional tactics such as crying to manipulate men, which requires a stoic response.

Men should not be emotionally swayed by women's attempts to use emotions to get their way.

Women may also use passive-aggressive behaviors like giving the silent treatment to elicit a reaction.

The importance of men maintaining a strong frame and not being emotionally manipulated is emphasized.

Understanding and implementing 'masculine behavioral techniques' can help men navigate these manipulation strategies.

Transcripts

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now today what I'm going to be doing is

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showing you Advanced female manipulation

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strategies that women will consistently

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use to get the power over high value men

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these are the exact five ways and these

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are really the only five ways that women

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can use power and use manipulation

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tactics to actually get the power over a

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man and if you let this happen you are

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going to be sorely mistaken when you

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realize that you laid your cards wrong

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now I'm telling you this because here's

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what you have to know high value men or

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guys who are looked at as alpha or high

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value right the types of guys that like

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check the boxes that a woman wants to

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lock down you gotta understand this your

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life doesn't get easier as you level up

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your life gets harder because there's

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levels to the game and when a woman sees

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that you're in a position where you

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could actually like hurt her to some

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degree if she didn't have you you have

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to understand that you actually get

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tested to a higher level since you get

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tested to a higher level you have to

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know how to pass these tests okay

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there's levels to this game and as you

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rise in your level you need to see the

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advanced manipulation strategy that they

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will consistently use to try and gain

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power over you if you can spot these

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things and make sure that they do not

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happen you're going to be miles ahead of

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every single other guy out there now

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precursor to this whole video there's a

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lot of information out there online that

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guys here when it comes to making sure

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that the woman doesn't have the power or

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that they don't get dumped or cheated on

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or any of that [ __ ] and a lot of it

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is wrong you're going to hear things

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like remove validation right don't

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initiate physical touch ever so that way

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she doesn't know where she stands with

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you you're also going to hear things

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like be slow to reply on text messages

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even though it's 2023 and every single

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guy and every single girl has their cell

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phone glued to their ass 24 7. you hear

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all this false crap none of this is

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right here's the number one thing that

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you have to remember as a high value man

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a woman will only use manipulation

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tactics to you or towards you when you

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do not force the woman to learn the

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language of men now you might be sitting

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here and you're thinking well Casey what

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is the language of men what does that

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even mean how do I make a woman learn

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the language of men give you a couple

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good examples with that so the language

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of women is something every single guy

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on planet Earth has to learn and has to

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obtain the skill of to even get a date

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you have to know how to text a woman you

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have to know how to call a woman a man's

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primary job is everything that happens

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prior to sex can you get the girl can

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you attract the girl can you get the

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girl to like you on that date and after

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the first few interactions and

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potentially sleep with you that is Guy

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game in a nutshell what is girl game

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girl game oftentimes is everything that

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happens on the back half to make sure

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that that relationship stays stable

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especially if she likes that guy you not

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okay you taking it upon yourself to

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learn the language of women and not

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forcing the women that you're talking to

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to learn the language of men is where

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this backfires and here's what I mean by

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that when men talk to women okay we have

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to do things in a way that's going to

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appeal to their emotions you have to say

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certain things to evoke certain emotions

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so that way they like you okay A woman

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has to understand that in order to keep

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communication with a Man stable and to

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make sure that that high value man that

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she likes and is invested in likes her

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back the language of men would be

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communicating in a direct pattern here's

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an example of what I mean by that when

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you watch women throw temper tantrums or

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you watch women be very very silent and

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something's clearly wrong and in person

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you say what's wrong and they say

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nothing or they'll say or they'd act

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like nothing is wrong in the first place

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that right there is an exact example of

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what I'm talking about a woman who's

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forced to learn the language of man or

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forced to learn the language of men will

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understand that if those games are

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played there's a very high chance that

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that man is no longer going to give that

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woman his time his investment his care

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or look after her and that is the one

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thing you have to understand that can

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heartbreak a woman what can heartbreak a

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woman is when you check the boxes as a

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man you are actually a [ __ ] stud

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you check those boxes and then you no

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longer want to give her that care and

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attention and investment that you once

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did I don't know if you understand this

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but that is like a woman's Kryptonite

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that is like a woman's weakness is when

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she had that care and that attention and

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now it's been removed based off of her

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behavior this is where they feel like

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they genuinely messed up so what can

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prevent all of this stuff from happening

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that I'm about to show you is forcing

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women to learn the language of men and

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this is especially in the back half of

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the relationship once you've slept with

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the girl now that we've addressed all

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that let's get to the meat and beans of

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the topic the first way that women do

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this and will use manipulation to get at

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you is they start off being fully

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compliant and submissive in the

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beginning of the interactions or the

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beginning of the relationships

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this is a major red flag if you have not

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done a whole lot of anything yet with

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the girl or seen her on a consistent

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basis and she is fully submissive okay

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she is very bubbly she's very flirty she

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follows your lead she's very quiet she's

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very polite she just does everything and

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as I go with the flow type of girl oh

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yeah you can 100 expect that what will

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happen is there will be a severe

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pullback at some point now what you have

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to understand is this okay the reason

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why women do this is because they 100

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percent are trying to get you to second

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guess your own masculinity

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so what happens like when a man when a

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man has high attraction to a woman okay

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especially for those of you out there

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grinding those of you out there kicking

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ass you you guys building yourself like

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your strong Dependable stable dudes or

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you have Alpha characteristics like

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that right there to a woman is going to

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be very attractive just like a very

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sweet feminine woman is going to be

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attractive to a man vice versa here's

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what I can tell you

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what will happen is that if a woman

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starts off fully compliant and fully

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submissive and follows your lead on all

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fronts she knows that that's going to be

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very appealing to you so what will

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happen the reason why that's a red flag

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is because when that happens and she

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starts to withdraw that all of a sudden

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you will start to second guess yourself

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and what most men are going to do is

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they're going to really start to lay on

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the validation they're going to really

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start to call her quite frequently

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they're going to start to text her a lot

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and this is the biggest one too where a

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woman really knows that she has you is

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if you say what's wrong or why are you

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not talking to me if you start to

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verbalize and vocalize these things

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through text messages you're screwed so

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what would it look like if a woman has

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to learn the language of man the

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language of man would be this you have

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to set a standard and expectation for

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how the communication patterns are going

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to be laid out okay but what you have to

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know is that just because a woman has

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demonstrated this doesn't mean that she

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has lost interest and it also doesn't

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mean that she doesn't like you you have

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to be smarter than that and you have to

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be more competent than that you have to

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know that if you're a textbook dude

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who's a stud who checks off the box is

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on paper okay you have a good social

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life a good social status you make good

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money like yeah you're a stud so because

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of that you need to act according okay

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the second way that a woman is going to

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use manipulation strategies or tactics

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on you is by pulling back to evoke

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psychological weakness so I'm gonna

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explain this in great detail okay women

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only want men they can look up to okay

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you have to be higher value or higher

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status than the woman or at least she

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has to have the psychological placebo

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effect where she views you that way any

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weakness is death by a Thousand Cuts and

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here's what I mean by this when a woman

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sees like you have to understand the own

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pot like you have to understand the

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power of you and your own masculinity

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and how threatening that can be to a

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woman's ego or self-esteem if things

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were to go south so if you're a guy

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where you have your [ __ ] together you're

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you're a guy where you understand game

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you're a guy where you understand how to

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seduce a woman okay a woman's gonna look

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at you and think these things she's

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going to think holy [ __ ] this guy has

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his life together holy [ __ ] right this

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guy makes me feel a certain way maybe

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she's giving this guy her body she's

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like man I've had sex with him a few

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times I'm invested in him I like him

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okay that's going to be super

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threatening and super powerful to a

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woman because she's going to look at

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that man and she's going to be a bit

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intimidated by that and since she's

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intimidated by that you have to

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understand that the only way a woman can

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fall in love is through two ways she's

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either intimidated by your presence and

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your masculinity because she looks up to

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you and respects you that's the first

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way or number two is she doesn't know

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where she stands with you which means

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she constantly chases your validation to

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get your attention to hopefully make it

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so that way she wears on your emotions

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and you start to fall in love with her

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but what women are going to do to gain

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power especially if they feel like at

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some point in the relationship and

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interaction they're powerless is they're

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going to start to pull back their

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emotion and what they're going to do is

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they're going to pull back from you okay

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to try and evoke some sort of

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psychological weakness okay this is a

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manipulation or manipulation tactic I

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don't know if I'm saying that word right

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but this is a specific tactic you have

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to see through this how do you see

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through this you have to understand that

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in the dating world or in the dating

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dictionary Casey's dating dictionary two

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words that kill a man or that crush a

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man is urgency and scarcity and men are

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oftentimes the fix it guys which means

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when some [ __ ] goes down you think it's

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my job or it's my duty to fix things

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right now and get to the root of the

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problem women hate that [ __ ] there is no

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end point or destination point where you

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can fix things with a woman because a

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woman's emotions there's Ebbs and flows

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some days they wake up and that shit's

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amazing some days they wake up and they

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feel terrible about themselves someday

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they feel like the whole world is

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crushing down on them and some days they

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feel terrific and super confident okay

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it doesn't matter if she is homeless or

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Sports Illustrated swimsuit model all

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women feel this way so what they're

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going to do is they're going to pull

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back to evoke psychological weakness or

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try and find psychological weakness in

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you and the fact is you have to remain

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firm you have to remain firm and not

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follow or chase into that validation

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where you start over complimenting and

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over pursuing or that right there will

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put a full stop to the relationship or

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to the interaction with the woman as a

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whole the Third Way that women try to

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get the power over high value men this

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is my favorite is they are they create

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ways on purpose where they want you to

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tell them no okay so when I have word

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for word here is creating ways for you

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you to tell her no women need to be told

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this is how things will be ran okay if

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she has the privilege of your time so

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your time as a high value man is all you

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have on this earth when I say it is all

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you have it is literally all you have

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your time okay and the woman that you

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allow into your life that is a privilege

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that she has it is not her right which

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means if anybody has access to you

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you're playing The Dating Game

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completely wrong with the women who you

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allow into your life you should be

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saying no far more than the amount of

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times that you say yes

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okay so a woman has to know that coming

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into your world coming into your life is

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a privilege which means there's a

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certain standard and a certain

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expectation that has to be upheld so

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what a woman will consistently do is she

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will create ways

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in which she is wanting you to tell her

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no because she is wanting you to

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verbally put her in her place okay some

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women may be doing this by communicating

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in a way that's argumentative getting

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[ __ ] okay starting fights are starting

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drama okay some women might do this just

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by going ghost or going cold other women

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might do this by expecting that you fix

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a lot of her problems when she starts to

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bring drama into your life that is

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unnecessary regardless what she's

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looking for is a no that's not going to

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happen or this is not how we're going to

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communicate and talk with each other or

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this is a standard in the expectation

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and what that means is at all times you

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have to be willing to set that frame you

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have to be willing to set that standard

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that is the only way a woman can

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actually feel safe with you that is the

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only way a woman can actually have

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investment back into you because what it

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act what it is actually saying if you're

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a man doing this is saying hey you're

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investing your masculinity or your time

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or your tension right or your care to

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set boundaries in the relationship

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regardless that makes a woman feel safe

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okay it makes a woman feel safe because

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it looks like a man has a world that she

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can come into and the reason why women

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do these psychological tests is she

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wants to see that you have the ability

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to stand up to her so that way she has a

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world that she wants to come into

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because she knows if [ __ ] were to hit

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the fan then she is taken care of so you

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passing this stuff is extremely

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important and what happens is the harder

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get here's where it gets hard for most

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guys the hotter the woman gets like if

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you're very physically attracted to her

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like you can't help it there are some

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women out there that's just going to

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make your dick hard like you look at her

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and you're like [ __ ] she does it for me

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that's a normal thing for a guy

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the hard part is that when what guys do

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is girls like that that they're very

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attracted to they will go soft for okay

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they'll think that if they set that

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frame and if they set that boundary or

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if they set that expectation that's

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going to make the relationship dissolve

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or go south that is not how it works

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women who are super attractive typically

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are never stood up to in their entire

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life which means they get away with far

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too much [ __ ] the fact that you can

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put her in her place and stop that

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[ __ ] is a massive turn on and that's

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going to help her get more attached to

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you so you have to spot this stuff from

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a mile away the fourth way that women

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will start to psychologically manipulate

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and emotionally like detach from a man

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or just get the power over a high value

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man is through crying and using emotion

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to get her way okay the important part

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of a man is you have to have a certain

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stoic element to yourself where it's

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like you're a rock okay you're a stable

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rock where her emotional waves can crash

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into because of that if she has

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emotional waves that are crashing into

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you what you're going to see is she's

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going to test that that rock to see the

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sturdiness of it and she's going to to

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consistently potentially cry or evoke

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emotion or even potentially throw temper

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tantrums to get her way can she might

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even say things like if you cared about

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me this is how you would react or if you

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cared about me you would fix this and

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what's what you're going to notice is

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that she is seeing if she can use

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emotion to manipulate the way that you

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actually handle things this in and of

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itself is not good and it's not good

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because the second you take that bait

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the second you start to fix those

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problems the second that you have that

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utmost sympathy even though you know

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this is a time when you shouldn't that

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is when you're going to be punished okay

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can't crying or using emotion okay to

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start to manipulate you is going to be a

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way that women will start to pull back

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and the fifth and final okay the fifth

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and final way that you have to be able

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to spot especially if we're women that

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you're dealing with on a long-term basis

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because she will make you guess what the

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issue is do you understand that there is

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women out there who they will have an

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attitude or they will walk around the

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house or they will clearly be upset

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about something and if you say what is

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wrong they say nothing thing and they

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act [ __ ] when this happens your job is

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to remove all attention so

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all of this ties back to my original

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point when a man doesn't force a woman

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to learn the language of men this is

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when you get your ass handed to you okay

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she needs to understand that if she has

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the privilege of being in your life of

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receiving your time it is her job to do

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the due diligence as a woman

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to understand that men communicate in a

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direct format and handle issues head on

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which means if she has something that's

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bothering her her job is to come to you

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like a mature adult and say this is

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what's bothering me and then at that

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point you two can have a mature

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discussion and what you're going to

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notice is that if you communicate

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directly and that's the expectation that

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you have right that you handle issues as

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a man then your job is not to be

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emotionally moved off center just

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because she's attempting to emotionally

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move you off center you have to have the

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ability to stand firm so if you learn

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the language of women

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can I applaud all of you who've done

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that those of you who you have great

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textbook game what that means is you

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know how to text a girl you know how to

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get a girl out on a date you know how to

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seduce her you know how to you know how

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to get her back to your bed and want to

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have sex with you you know how to turn

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her on and make her wet okay that's a

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skill in and of itself

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you have understood the language of

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women and what a woman genuinely gets

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attracted and attached to in the

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beginning however where most guys go

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south is they don't actually make sure

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that the woman has to reciprocate the

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exact same skill set on the back end and

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when when women are not forced to do

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this by the men that are in their life

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what you're going to see is this is why

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women will bounce from guy to guy and

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they will consistently be single or

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childless in their 30s what they're

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really looking for is masculine

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stability and that means you have to

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have the balls you have to have big

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enough balls to set a standard and a

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expectation for literally everything

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this is how the communication pattern

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will be handled this is how we're going

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to talk to each other this is what I

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expect out of you okay this is how I

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handle things in my life if you want to

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come into my life or my world this is

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how things are going to be ran that is

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the attitude of a masculine man that is

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the attitude of how you need to carry

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yourself and if you do this [ __ ] once

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again at another layer you're checking

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off deeper level boxes the more deeper

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level boxes you check off as a guy the

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harder it is for a woman to replace you

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and the harder it is for a woman to

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replace you the more she gets attached

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and the more she gets attached here's

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what happens it's harder for her to walk

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away because she knows that when she

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goes back out in the dating World she's

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going to have to go online dating she's

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have to go meet guys in person 80 to 90

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percent of the guys she's going to have

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to sift through and it's going to be a

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no she's not attracted to them at all

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well okay that eliminates majority of

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the dating pool then there's going to be

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some men that she meets that are

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attractive at face value but she starts

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to get to know them she hates the entire

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world that they have set up for

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themselves that's another no okay so

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because women have slim pickings too for

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the men that they're actually interested

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in the more that you can understand this

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stuff and the ways how women a woman's

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only tool like a woman actually has no

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power do you understand this it's not

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like she can hurt you physically it's

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not like she can scream at you and

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actually make something happen right A

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lot of times they're smaller than you

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and weaker than you okay so they can't

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do anything so all they have to do is

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use their words and try to use what's up

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here if you're not a pansy ass and you

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can control your brain you can control

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your mind do you understand that you're

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far more powerful than virtually not

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only all of the women but you are far

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more powerful than 99 of men out there

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