Japanese lady reacts to "You know you're dating a japanese woman when..."
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Mrs. Eats humorously explores the dynamics of dating a Japanese woman, highlighting cultural differences and typical behaviors. Through skits and lighthearted commentary, the video touches on topics like politeness, communication nuances, and social customs, such as group dating and indirect gestures. The host also explains the importance of planning, how spontaneity is perceived, and the significance of subtle cues in Japanese culture. With comedic moments and engaging storytelling, the video provides a fun and insightful look at relationships through the lens of Japanese social norms.
Takeaways
- đ The video is about dating a Japanese woman and explores cultural differences.
- đ There's a humorous skit about asking strangers, 'Where's the hospital?' in English.
- đŹ Japanese group dating (called 'gokon') is common, involving multiple people to reduce pressure.
- đ Planning is crucial for Japanese women, and spontaneity is often avoided.
- đ ââïž A subtle physical gesture, like moving slightly away, can mean 'no' or 'too soon' in a romantic context.
- đ Japanese people may laugh at jokes out of politeness, not necessarily because they find them funny.
- đČ When sick, Japanese people typically eat simple rice porridge, not raw egg and rice.
- đŹ Natto (fermented soybeans) is divisive even among Japanese people, with some disliking its strong smell.
- đ Saying 'I like you very much' is a more common way to express affection than 'I love you' in Japan.
- đ” Sharing a Japanese song can be a way to express romantic feelings subtly.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video?
-The video humorously explores cultural differences in dating between Japanese women and people from other cultures, highlighting specific behaviors and situations that might arise.
What is the significance of the phrase 'Where is the hospital?' in the video?
-The phrase is used humorously in a skit where a character is practicing English. It's played for laughs as a typical English phrase Japanese learners might use, though itâs not very practical in casual conversation.
Why does the video emphasize the importance of planning and organization for Japanese women?
-The video points out that sudden plans or changes in schedule, like a spontaneous hike, are not typically welcomed by Japanese women, who prefer structure and organization.
What does it mean when a Japanese woman slightly distances herself during a conversation, according to the video?
-This gesture is explained as a subtle way for a Japanese woman to indicate that itâs 'too soon' or 'not appropriate' to get closer, both physically and emotionally.
What role does politeness play in Japanese culture according to the video?
-Politeness is a key aspect of Japanese interactions. Japanese women may laugh at jokes or respond with enthusiasm, but this doesnât always mean they genuinely find it funnyâitâs often a polite response.
Why is the phrase 'I like you very much' used instead of 'I love you' in Japanese culture?
-In Japanese culture, people rarely say 'I love you' directly. Instead, they say 'I like you very much' (daisuke) to express romantic feelings, which is closer in meaning to 'I love you.'
What does the video reveal about food preferences when someone is sick in Japan?
-The video explains that Japanese people don't give raw egg with rice to sick individuals, despite it being a popular dish. Instead, they typically offer porridge or similar comfort food.
What is 'natto' and why is it discussed in the video?
-Natto is a traditional Japanese food made from fermented soybeans, known for its strong smell. The video humorously addresses how both Japanese and non-Japanese people often find natto difficult to eat, though it's very healthy.
What humorous point does the video make about Japanese politeness and jokes?
-The video notes that Japanese people may laugh at jokes out of politeness, even if they donât find them funny. This can be confusing for people from other cultures who expect a more genuine response.
How does the video reflect cultural misunderstandings in dating?
-The video uses humorous skits to show how cultural differences, such as subtle gestures, humor, and communication styles, can lead to misunderstandings when dating a Japanese woman.
Outlines
đ Getting to Know Dating a Japanese Woman
In this introductory segment, the speaker, Mrs. Eats, sets the stage for the video on understanding the nuances of dating a Japanese woman. It starts with a humorous skit where a man awkwardly practices asking directions in English, making cultural mistakes like asking for a hospital unnecessarily. The conversation shifts to dating norms, where typical group dates are common in Japan, often consisting of three women and three men or larger groups. This scene highlights the importance of not rushing into personal conversations and cultural differences in social interactions, like group outings being more common to ease the pressure of one-on-one dates.
đ The Importance of Planning in Japanese Culture
This part focuses on how spontaneity can be unsettling for Japanese women, especially in the context of planning outings. The humorous example involves a man suggesting a sudden hike, which the woman refuses due to her unsuitable attire, underscoring how important preparation and organization are in Japanese culture. Sudden changes to plans are not always welcomed, and the speaker draws a personal comparison with her husband, explaining how the preference for structure is rooted in deeper cultural norms. Subtle cues, such as body language, are also discussed, showing how distance can signal discomfort or boundaries.
đ Misinterpreting Humor and Cultural Differences
This section explores the cultural gap in understanding humor. The speaker explains that while Japanese people may laugh at jokes, it often stems from politeness rather than genuine amusement. The misunderstanding of humor is further illustrated when a man tells a joke about a masked father, which falls flat. The speaker emphasizes that this laughter is not necessarily an indicator that the joke was funny, but a reflection of Japanese politeness in social situations. Additionally, the speaker reflects on personal experiences, noting how subtle cultural gestures like distancing are key signals in Japanese interactions.
đ Japanese Food Habits and Natto's Polarizing Taste
In this segment, the discussion shifts to Japanese food, specifically natto, a fermented soybean dish that many foreigners find difficult to eat. The speaker jokes about the strong smell of natto, comparing it humorously to her husband's feet, but notes that it is a healthy food option. She mentions how natto can lower cholesterol, though it is an acquired taste even for some Japanese people. The conversation underscores the importance of understanding food culture in Japan and how certain dishes, like natto, may not be universally enjoyed.
đ Expressing Romantic Feelings in Japan
Here, the speaker delves into the subtle nature of romantic expression in Japanese culture. Instead of saying 'I love you' frequently, Japanese people often express their affection through phrases like 'I like you very much' or by spending time together. The phrase 'daisuki' is explained as being close to 'I love you,' but not as direct. The speaker shares personal reflections on how Japanese people may struggle to express love verbally, opting instead to show it through actions. This highlights the cultural differences in how love and affection are conveyed in relationships.
đ Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts
In the final part of the video, Mrs. Eats shares her enjoyment of the content, particularly the skits, and summarizes her thoughts on the portrayal of dating a Japanese woman. She appreciates the realistic depiction of cultural norms and dating customs. The video concludes on a positive note, with Mrs. Eats thanking viewers for watching and playfully interacting with her cat, Kitty, adding a personal touch to the end of the episode.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄDating a Japanese woman
đĄJapanCupid
đĄKanji
đĄGroup dating (Goukon)
đĄPlanning and organizing
đĄPoliteness
đĄNatto
đĄPhysical boundaries
đĄExpressing feelings
đĄHumor and cultural misunderstandings
Highlights
The video is titled 'You Know You Are Dating a Japanese Woman When' and explores cultural differences in dating habits.
The opening scene features Mrs. Eats discussing her experience of dating a Japanese woman and introducing the video as a sponsored content piece.
A humorous exchange takes place where one character asks, 'Where is the hospital?' and another responds with confusion about this being a typical situation.
The characters discuss the cultural custom of Japanese women organizing group dates with friends to ease pressure, rather than one-on-one dating situations.
They also talk about the importance of planning and organizing, as spontaneous activities, like going on hikes, are generally not favored by Japanese women.
A cultural gesture is introduced where a slight physical distancing by a woman indicates 'no' or 'too soon' in a romantic context.
The video humorously explores how Japanese women may laugh at jokes out of politeness, even if they do not find them genuinely funny.
It highlights the polite tendencies of Japanese people, suggesting that outwardly laughing or reacting positively doesnât always reflect personal enjoyment.
A discussion about Japanese food habits ensues, particularly focusing on natto (fermented soybeans), which is healthy but considered an acquired taste.
The characters touch on how Japanese women rarely say 'I love you' directly but instead use the phrase 'I like you very much,' which carries a deep meaning.
In Japanese culture, expressing love is often subtler, and the phrase 'I like spending time with you' can be a strong indication of affection.
A skit shows cultural misunderstandings when one character misinterprets food preferences, thinking that giving raw egg with rice to a sick person is appropriate.
The video humorously addresses the misconception that natto smells like feet, with one character claiming that her husbandâs feet smell worse.
An emotional moment arises when a character shares that she is starting to fall in love, but the other responds more cautiously, illustrating different cultural approaches to romance.
The video ends with a discussion about romantic expressions in Japanese culture, emphasizing that showing romantic gestures can sometimes replace verbal expressions of love.
Transcripts
hi everyone it's mrs eats today
we're gonna be watching you know you are
dating a japanese woman
when all right let's watch three two
one here we go
this video is sponsored by
[Music]
where's the japancupid where is the
hospital
where is the bathroom
[Music]
where is the hospital what are you okay
oh oh i'm good yeah
oh toys what are you doing
i'm practicing english we're trying to
say
typical situation yeah so you tell every
stranger
uh where's your hospital yeah should
they tell you to say that's kind of cute
yeah
oh that's interesting well hey listen i
gotta go
do you wanna maybe grab a cup of coffee
yeah yeah
yeah you would like to do goku goku
yeah it's a little too sudden to say
coconut that sounds fun she just met him
by the way gogun is not the sushi
restaurant thank you bye
this is gone
she
is a very very common way of getting to
know each other
so we do it a lot usually three women
three men five women five men
[Music]
kanji kanji means look
so do you do everything with your
friends
yeah pretty much like just like going to
a bathroom together yeah
yeah very pop very common it's so normal
yeah you know it's less stress you know
less pressure
to see one by one one on one
[Music]
oh japanese pancake nice
pretty
hey listen it's such a nice day why
don't we go out for a hike
i got the dessert to go is that okay
can't
you see what she's wearing look at his
shoes
i hate to be spontaneous really go on a
hike
yeah yeah planning and organizing for
a japanese woman yes it's very very
important
[Music]
yeah like sudden change is not
so are you having no i appreciate it
yeah i don't think
i've seen my husband
because when i see you whatever
whichever you want whatever you like
i see i see now i understand how my
husband was feeling
i
[Music]
too soon that's so soon no first date
right
damn it just like twice maybe
oh it's too soon too soon
it's a very might be the japanese
woman's
you know gesture might be too subtle for
you but when they do this
a little bit like away from you just a
little bit that means
no or too soon so you have you shouldn't
to get too close
if she goes this way you she should go
okay you should stop there
then wait for the next chance
so my full name is luis ignacio martinez
[Music]
it took me six months but i finally got
the job
i used so much steak last night i
couldn't sleep
i'm on a roll can i try a joke yeah okay
okay so
20 25 and a daughter asked for mommy
mommy mommy who's my daddy
and she says honey i don't know he was
wearing a mask
she didn't quite get it either
it's not funny it's not funny but
they're just laughing
oh we all know yeah
[Music]
yeah this is a very good point
i think a lot of japanese women not only
women japanese people do like
wow really
but it's just their way of being polite
there's no
bad meaning bad feeling just they
naturally want to be polite to you
actively want to listen to you but it
doesn't really mean
like they're laughing at your jokes or
they find you
very very funny it doesn't mean like
that so
difficult
so that means no not too soon too soon
or
no forever never
hey are you okay yeah yeah oh he said
he's a big party
she's wearing a salomon t-shirt i can
make japanese breakfast today
oh sushi sounds good polish maybe polish
sushi but uh japanese ooh
yes i think she's so nice
what's that
what what
no no no no we don't give sick people
raw egg with rice which
is very popular dish but we don't give
sick people this we give them polish you
know pull it
salted bowl whoa not that whoa
that's a huge natto this american not
though
so big can he eat natto
i didn't think so oh yeah yeah i
couldn't eat natto for many many years
yeah even japanese people cannot handle
sometimes
she's too japanese
yeah sure yeah some people say
natto smells like feet
but after smelling my husband's feet
i feel like that doesn't kind of smell
like feet
i'm sorry but it's very healthy
natural is very healthy it can lower
your cholesterol
i think i want to tell you something i'm
starting to fall in love
thank you and i
like to spend time with you a lot
i enjoy that
yeah i spent so much time together i
thought that you would feel
more for me
i understand have happened to me too
we hardly say i love you we but instead
we said i like you very much
in english i daisuke means i like you
very much doesn't really mean
i love you so for japanese people i love
saying i love you
to to the person she really loves loves
it's not really common so i like you
very much
i love spending time with you means i
love you very close to i love you
so don't feel bad i'll show you
something
[Music]
hmm
this is maybe a way to express your
romantic feeling to the person
show the song japanese song
oh wow that was such an interesting
video i really enjoyed especially the
skits part i really enjoyed it
i would say this time the video was
pretty
decent i think it's based on what
japanese women would probably do
it's a very good video okay everyone
thank you for watching i'll see you next
time
oh kitty
i enjoyed it so much too
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