WHY WOMEN need CONSTANT Emotional CONFLICT to FEEL Stimulated from a MAN when DATING (Casey Zander)

Summary

In today's video, the speaker explains why women need constant emotional conflict to feel stimulated when dating a man. He argues that women, being natural nurturers, are drawn to men with imperfections because it gives them something to fix. Perfect men become boring, as they don't provide emotional challenges. The speaker emphasizes that men should introduce emotional tension to maintain attraction and avoid appearing weak or reactive. This strategy helps women feel feminine and valued, ensuring a strong, engaging relationship. For more insights, viewers are encouraged to check out the full MBT webinar.

Takeaways

• 😶 Women require constant emotional conflict to feel mentally stimulated in a relationship.
• 👩‍❤️‍👨 Women are described as natural builders and nurturers of emotional relationships, seeking to build and maintain connections.
• 🤔 Men who appear too perfect can become boring quickly, as they present no challenges for women to solve or nurture.
• 🧩 A man who is a 'finished product' may not offer the emotional engagement women seek, leading to a lack of attraction.
• 🔄 Women may introduce conflict or tension in relationships if they feel there's nothing to 'fix' or improve.
• 💭 The speaker suggests that women's internal emotional world is a primary driver in their attraction to men.
• 🤷‍♂️ Men who are indifferent or self-centered can be attractive to women as they represent a challenge to be overcome.
• 💬 Words are emphasized as the key to unlocking a woman's heart, more so than external factors like looks or status.
• 🚫 Men should not allow women to change their identity or personality to suit the relationship.
• 🔄 Women may test men to see if they can change them, which is a form of psychological manipulation.
• 🏆 Maintaining one's identity and not being reactive to a woman's attempts to create drama is crucial for maintaining attraction.

Q & A

What is the main argument presented in the video about women's emotional needs in relationships?

The video argues that women need constant emotional conflict to feel emotionally stimulated when dating a man, as it provides them with something to nurture and solve within the relationship.

Why does the video suggest that being 'too perfect' is problematic for a man in a relationship?

The video suggests that being 'too perfect' can be boring for women because it leaves them with no problems to solve, making them feel as if they have nothing to nurture within the relationship, which is contrary to their natural inclination to build and nurture.

What does the video imply about the role of women as 'builders and nurturers' of emotions?

The video implies that women are naturally inclined to build and nurture the internal world of emotions, and they seek relationships where they can engage in this role, which includes solving emotional problems.

How does the video describe the effect of a man being a 'finished product' on a woman's desire to be with him?

The video describes that if a man is seen as a 'finished product', meaning he has everything together and is without flaws, a woman may not feel the need to be involved in his life, as there is nothing for her to 'fix' or improve.

What analogy does the video use to explain why a man who is a 'finished product' might not be desirable to a woman?

The video uses the analogy of a child with rich parents and a trust fund, suggesting that such a child may lack ambition and a driving purpose in life because they have a safety net and do not need to build or grow.

According to the video, why are 'problematic men' considered attractive to women?

The video suggests that 'problematic men' are attractive because they present problems and tensions that women can engage with, stimulating their natural inclination to build and nurture the emotional aspect of a relationship.

What does the video claim about the importance of words in unlocking a woman's emotions?

The video claims that words are the key to unlocking a woman's emotions, and that external factors like looks, money, and status do not have the same impact on emotional engagement.

How does the video describe the effect of a man's indifference on a woman's attraction towards him?

The video describes a man's indifference as a 'total turn on' for a woman, as it signals high sexual market value and strength in his own identity, which are attractive qualities.

What does the video suggest a woman will do if she feels there is nothing to 'fix' in the relationship?

The video suggests that if a woman feels there is nothing to 'fix' in the relationship, she may introduce drama or arguments herself to create the emotional conflict she craves.

Why is it bad if a woman has to start the drama in a relationship according to the video?

It is bad because if a woman has to start the drama, it can trigger a man's fear of loss, making him reactive and emotionally unstable, which signals low sexual market value and can lead to the end of the relationship.

What does the video advise men not to do in order to maintain their attractiveness in a relationship?

The video advises men not to let a woman change who they are or their personality, as changing to suit a woman's needs is seen as a sign of low value and weakness.