How to Act When a Woman Ignores You

Summary

This video reveals the psychology behind why a girl might ignore you and how to turn the situation around. It explains that ignoring could be a test or a sign that she sees you as lacking options. The key to making her chase you is not by lying about having other women, but by using the 'qualifying technique.' This involves making her feel special by acknowledging her personality, values, and qualities. By showing you're selective and not desperate, you’ll shift the dynamic and spark her interest in you. The video provides actionable advice on becoming the 'chooser, not the chaser' in relationships.

Takeaways

• 😀 A girl might ignore you because she sees you as a guy with limited options, making her feel like you're chasing her out of desperation.
• 😀 If a girl is ignoring you but showed interest at some point, it could be a test. However, if she never showed interest, she may not see you as a viable option.
• 😀 The key to making her chase after you is to demonstrate that you have options without lying about your past or relationships.
• 😀 Lying about your options, such as making up stories about other girls, is a major mistake and a turn-off that will backfire.
• 😀 Instead of lying, you can use the 'qualifying technique' to make her feel like she is being chosen over other women, which implies you have options.
• 😀 Qualifying means screening or filtering, and only a man with options would do this—thus making her feel special without you having to chase her.
• 😀 To qualify a girl, ask her questions that allow her to showcase her qualities, then acknowledge and appreciate her answers to create a deeper connection.
• 😀 Acknowledging her positive traits or things she values in herself shows you see her as more than just her looks and makes her feel unique.
• 😀 The self-fulfilling prophecy technique involves making a statement about her and asking her to affirm it, which leads her to act more in line with that quality.
• 😀 Notice and acknowledge when she qualifies herself by showing interest or positive body language. This makes her feel appreciated and encourages further attraction.
• 😀 Understanding the psychology of attraction requires more than just applying one technique—it's a complex process that involves the right combination of behaviors and mindset.

Q & A

Why might a girl ignore a guy?

A girl might ignore a guy for two reasons: either it's a test to see if he’s truly interested or she perceives that he has limited options and is overly focused on her.

What does it mean if a girl is ignoring you as a test?

If she’s ignoring you as a test, it usually indicates that she was previously interested but wants to see if you’ll continue pursuing her or prove your worth.

What happens when a girl ignores you because she sees you as having limited options?

If she thinks you have limited options, she may feel you're overly eager to please her, which can make her lose interest because she doesn't feel challenged or valued.

What’s the mistake of lying to make it seem like you have other options?

Lying about having other options can backfire. If the girl finds out you’re lying, it damages trust and reduces attraction. It also makes you seem desperate for her approval.

How can a guy show that he has options without lying?

A guy can show he has options by qualifying a girl, meaning he filters or screens her based on her qualities, which suggests that he values other traits beyond just physical appearance.

What does qualifying a girl mean in dating context?

Qualifying a girl means assessing her based on personal traits, not just looks, and communicating that she is special due to qualities like personality, intelligence, or confidence.

How does qualifying a girl make her feel?

When you qualify a girl, she feels like she is being chosen for something deeper than her looks, making her feel unique and valued, which boosts her attraction toward you.

What is the importance of asking insightful questions when qualifying a girl?

Asking insightful questions helps a girl open up and showcase her personality, while also allowing you to demonstrate that you value her beyond just physical attributes.

What is the self-fulfilling prophecy technique in dating?

The self-fulfilling prophecy technique involves making a positive statement about a girl’s qualities, which encourages her to align with that quality and act more consistently with it, boosting her attraction.

How does a guy avoid being put in the friend zone when applying these techniques?

To avoid the friend zone, a guy should not overdo qualifying or give too much attention without creating any challenge. The key is balancing interest with maintaining some mystery and attraction.