"I'm too busy!" WHAT IT MEANS WHEN A GIRL SAYS SHE IS TOO BUSY WHEN YOU ASK HER OUT

Summary

In this video, Christine Loveridge, a dating and relationship coach, explains what it means when a girl says she's 'too busy' after being asked out. She emphasizes that if a girl is interested, she will make time for you, but if she's constantly unavailable, it indicates she's not romantically interested. The video also discusses why she might say she's busy instead of flat-out rejecting you, often to avoid hurting your feelings. Christine suggests stopping excessive communication and moving on to find someone more attracted to you, while offering advice on improving dating approaches and understanding attraction dynamics.

Takeaways

• 😀 If a girl is truly interested in you, she will make time to meet up, no matter how busy she is.
• 😀 If a girl frequently says she's 'too busy,' it's likely a sign that she's not romantically interested.
• 😀 Some girls use the 'I'm too busy' excuse to avoid directly rejecting you and potentially hurting your feelings.
• 😀 A girl may say she's 'too busy' to avoid making things awkward, especially if you have mutual friends or work together.
• 😀 If you're being ignored or rejected, stop messaging her and remove your attention from her, as continuing to chase her won't help.
• 😀 Attraction isn't a choice; for someone to date you, they need to at least be 50% attracted to you.
• 😀 If a girl doesn’t show clear romantic interest, it’s best to stop pursuing her and focus on women who are attracted to you.
• 😀 If a girl is somewhat interested but you're not pushing her, she may reach out to you on her own, but don’t expect it.
• 😀 Move on and focus on finding women who will show interest and say yes to going on dates with you.
• 😀 When you do go on a date, focus on having a fun, enjoyable experience and keep the vibe light-hearted and positive.

Q & A

What does it mean when a girl says she's too busy when asked out?

When a girl says she's too busy, it typically means she is not interested in a romantic relationship. She may not want to reject you directly to avoid hurting your feelings, especially if you know each other in other settings like school or work.

Why do girls often say they're too busy instead of directly saying they're not interested?

Girls often say they're too busy because they don’t want to hurt your feelings or create awkwardness, particularly if you have mutual friends or see each other regularly. It's a way of avoiding confrontation while still signaling a lack of interest.

What should you do if a girl keeps saying she’s too busy and isn’t accepting your invitations?

The best course of action is to stop messaging or pursuing her. Continuing to pursue someone who isn't interested can push them further away. It’s important to redirect your attention elsewhere.

How can you tell if a girl is genuinely interested in you?

If a girl is genuinely interested in you, she will make time for you, even if she's busy. Interest is often shown by her willingness to meet up and engage with you.

What is the significance of the 50% attraction rule in dating?

According to the 50% attraction rule, if a girl is at least 50% attracted to you, she will be open to dating you. If she's less than 50% attracted, she will likely see you only as a friend or acquaintance, never as a romantic partner.

What should you do if a girl never reaches out to you after you stop pursuing her?

You should assume that she’s not going to reach out and move on. While it’s possible she might reach out in the future, it’s important not to wait around and to focus on meeting others who are more interested.

What are some possible reasons a girl might not be interested in dating you even if she once showed some attraction?

A girl might not be interested for various reasons, such as still having feelings for someone else, being involved with an ex, or simply not finding you attractive enough for a romantic relationship.

Why is it important to stop messaging a girl who isn’t showing interest?

It’s important to stop messaging because continued contact when someone isn’t interested can create resistance and push the person away. Giving her space may allow her to reconsider or, at the very least, help you focus on finding someone else who appreciates your attention.

How can you avoid making things awkward if you're pursuing someone who isn't interested?

To avoid making things awkward, it’s essential to respect their boundaries and stop pursuing them if they are not showing clear signs of interest. This can help preserve the relationship and prevent any discomfort.

What is the main takeaway from the video regarding dating and attraction?

The main takeaway is that attraction is not a choice; if someone isn’t interested, continuing to pursue them can lead to frustration and disappointment. Instead, focus on finding people who are genuinely attracted to you and willing to date you.