15 Examples of What to Say When a Woman Asks You a Challenging Question
Summary
TLDRThis script explores how to handle challenging questions from an attractive woman who is testing your confidence. It emphasizes the importance of not seeking approval but being self-assured, playful, and honest in responses. The key is to maintain a good-guy demeanor while confidently engaging in banter, showing that you are not intimidated by her probing questions. The video aims to help men understand that women are attracted to men who are not overly concerned with impressing them but are genuine and at ease in their presence.
Takeaways
- 🧐 Confidence is key: Women are attracted to men who can remain confident even when faced with challenging questions.
- 🤔 Don't panic: Men should avoid showing nervousness or worry when answering a woman's questions, as it can lead to disinterest.
- 😉 Playful responses: Answering with humor or light-heartedness can be a good way to handle challenging questions and show confidence.
- 🙅♂️ No need to be perfect: Men should not feel the need to say the 'right' thing to impress a woman; authenticity is more attractive.
- 🤷♂️ Avoiding serious answers: Sometimes not taking a question too seriously can demonstrate self-assurance and reduce pressure.
- 💬 Challenge back: Men can show confidence by challenging a woman's question, rather than just providing a straightforward answer.
- 😌 Fear of rejection: Men should not let the fear of a woman's reaction dictate their responses, as it can hinder genuine interaction.
- 👫 Equality in attraction: Women are attracted to men who do not feel intimidated by them and can maintain a balance in the relationship.
- 👀 Honesty with humor: It's possible to be honest in responses while also incorporating humor to keep the conversation light and engaging.
- 🍽️ Weight and relationships: A playful approach to sensitive topics like weight gain in a relationship can show a man's comfort and confidence.
- 📚 Continuous learning: The script suggests reading 'The Flow' for more insights on building attraction and maintaining engaging conversations with women.
Q & A
What does a woman often do when she is attracted to a man but not quite sure about him?
-A woman may ask challenging questions, stop being straightforward and easygoing, and put the man on the spot to test his confidence.
How can a man show confidence when faced with a woman's challenging questions?
-A man can show confidence by not being fazed, remaining calm, and answering in a playful way without seeking the woman's approval.
What is the effect on a woman when a man answers her challenging questions nervously?
-If a man answers nervously, it can cause him to appear tense, which may lead the woman to lose interest as she senses his fear of losing her approval.
How should a man respond to a woman's question about his past relationships if he wants to appear confident?
-A confident man might respond with humor or by not taking the question too seriously, avoiding the need to provide a number that he thinks will impress her.
What is the importance of not appearing too eager or worried when answering a woman's questions?
-Appearing too eager or worried can signal a lack of self-assurance and may cause a woman to lose respect and attraction for the man.
How can a man turn the tables when a woman asks if he is always smooth or if he says certain things to all girls?
-A man can turn the tables by playfully challenging the woman's question, suggesting that she is making assumptions about him being a player or using techniques.
What is a possible playful response to a woman asking if a man would stay with her if she put on weight in a relationship?
-A playful response could be to say 'no, of course not,' followed by a laugh, and then explaining that everyone tends to gain weight in a relationship due to shared indulgences.
Why is it important for a man to not always take a woman's questions seriously during their interaction?
-Not taking every question seriously allows a man to show his confidence and to not be overly concerned with the woman's potential reaction, which can be attractive.
What does the script suggest is a fundamental principle for a man to remember when interacting with a woman?
-The fundamental principle is to not fear a woman's reaction, as fear can prevent a woman from feeling attraction and respect for the man.
How can a man demonstrate that he is a good guy while also being confident enough to joke around with a woman?
-A man can demonstrate this by maintaining a balance between being respectful and playful, ensuring that his jokes are light-hearted and not offensive.
What is the final point made in the video script about the importance of a man's behavior towards a beautiful woman?
-The final point is that a man should show confidence by not putting a beautiful woman on a pedestal and letting her see that he feels he is more than good enough for her.
Outlines
💭 Handling Challenging Questions with Confidence
This paragraph discusses the dynamics between a man and a woman when she is attracted but uncertain about him. It emphasizes the importance of a man's confidence in responding to challenging questions from a woman. The speaker suggests that a woman may test a man's confidence by asking him difficult questions, such as his past sexual experiences. A confident response, often playful or nonchalant, can lead to her dropping her guard and showing genuine interest. The paragraph also provides examples of how a man might respond to such a question, either with humor or by not taking the question too seriously, which can demonstrate self-assurance and attract her more.
😏 Responding to Accusations of Being a Player
The second paragraph focuses on how a man should handle questions that may imply he is a 'player' or frequently picks up girls. The speaker advises against simply answering 'yes' or 'no' and instead suggests responding with a playful challenge or a light-hearted joke. This approach is meant to show that the man is not overly concerned with the woman's potential judgment or reaction, which in turn can foster attraction and respect. The speaker provides examples of responses that deflect the question and turn it back on the woman, maintaining a fun and engaging conversation without appearing defensive or anxious.
🍽 Navigating Questions about Relationship Changes
The final paragraph addresses the type of challenging questions a woman might ask regarding hypothetical changes in a relationship, such as weight gain. The speaker encourages men to answer these questions with honesty or humor, rather than with serious concern for the woman's approval. The key is to maintain confidence and not to be overly concerned with the implications of the answers. The paragraph includes examples of playful responses that could lead to a more relaxed and enjoyable conversation, highlighting the importance of being a good, yet confident man who can handle such questions without fear of losing the woman's interest.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Attraction
💡Confidence
💡Challenging Questions
💡Playful
💡Body Language
💡Approval
💡Dominance
💡Fear
💡Respect
💡Joking
💡Good Guy
Highlights
A woman may ask challenging questions to test a man's confidence when she is attracted but unsure about him.
Confidence in responding to challenging questions can lead to a woman dropping her guard and showing genuine interest.
Men should answer a woman's questions in a playful manner rather than being overly serious or logical.
A man's body language can reveal his internal panic when answering sensitive questions, affecting attraction.
Confident men who don't seek approval can make a woman feel respected and attracted.
Examples of playful responses to the question 'How many women have you slept with?' are provided.
Men should challenge a woman's assumptions rather than simply answering 'yes' or 'no' to her questions.
A man's confidence to joke and not be overly concerned with a woman's reaction is attractive.
Fear of a woman's reaction can prevent a man from being genuine and may reduce attraction.
Women prefer a man who is not afraid of them and can confidently engage in playful banter.
Examples of playful responses to the question 'Do you pick up girls all the time?' are given.
Men should not be overly concerned with appearing as a 'player' or using techniques when answering questions.
Confidence in being honest or joking with a woman can lead to a more engaging and attractive interaction.
Examples of playful responses to the question 'Would you stay with a girl if she put on weight?' are offered.
Men should not worry about saying the 'right' thing to gain a woman's approval but focus on respect and attraction.
The importance of being a good guy who can confidently challenge a woman in a playful way is emphasized.
Every woman is different, and confidence in not taking a woman's questions too seriously can show self-assurance.
The transcript concludes with the recommendation to read 'The Flow' for more insights on attracting women.
Transcripts
when a beautiful woman is feeling
attracted to you but isn't quite sure
about you yet she will usually ask you
challenging questions she will stop
being so straightforward and nice and
easygoing and we'll put you on the spot
she wants to test how confident you
really are when you show her that you're
not fazed by her challenging questions
and you can remain confident while also
being a good guy then she respects you
and feels attracted to you as a result
she drops her guard around you she then
shows you a side of herself that she
doesn't normally show to other guys she
becomes easygoing down to earth friendly
and shows interest in you so if you want
to bring out the easygoing down-to-earth
friendly side of a beautiful woman and
get her to show interest in you you need
to have the confidence to answer a
woman's challenging questions in a
playful way you need to have the
confidence to mess with her rather than
thinking that you need to answer all of
our questions immediately and in a
straightforward logical manner so let's
have a look at the first challenging
question that a beautiful woman might
ask you when she's feeling attracted to
you but is not quite sure about you yet
so how many women have you slept with if
a guy is worried about losing his chance
with a beautiful woman
he will worry when she asks him a
question like that he may think
something like well if I tell her that
I've slept with 20 women maybe that's
too much maybe she's going to think I'm
a player if I tell her that I've only
slept with two or three women then she
might think that women don't like me and
I don't have much sexual experience so
she might lose interest as a result of
that what am I going to tell her as a
result of thinking in that way his body
language will change he will start to
appear tense she will be looking at him
and she will see that he is panicking on
the inside he's worried about answering
the question and he might uh Minar a
little bit before answering the question
and if he answers the question in a way
that shows that he is nervous or worried
about her losing interest then she will
lose interest she will see that he
doesn't feel like he's good enough for
her and he's trying hard to impress her
and say all the right things and answer
her questions correctly so he then
passes the test and gets to have sex
with her or a relationship with
yet a guy that's actually gonna make a
beautiful woman feel respect and
attraction is the type of guy who
doesn't always take her questions
seriously he doesn't feel like he needs
to quickly answer her question or answer
it in a straightforward manner so if she
asks him something like so how many
women have you slept with he might
answer her in one of the following ways
how many women have I slept with sorry I
don't kiss and tell how many women have
I slept with zero I'm a virgin can't you
tell the furthest I've ever gotten with
a woman is holding hands we hold hands
for like 10 minutes it was pretty
full-on
how many women have I slept with no no I
don't kiss and tell well maybe I will
tell you but promise that you won't
judge me okay if I tell you no judging
all right well look I've slept with 146
women now at that point her jaw is most
likely gonna drop and she's gonna be
laughing and saying what you've slept
with 146 women and then you can tell her
that you're only joking and that you've
never slept with a woman and you're
still a virgin
in other words you're not taking her
question seriously you're not panicking
and thinking I need to somehow tell her
the right answer that lets me get into
her panties I need to say 20 women or
five women or ten women and tell her the
number that is going to get her approval
no you already approve of yourself you
don't need to seek her approval you know
that you're good enough for her so you
can answer however the heck you want
here's another example how many women
have I slept with well I actually work
as a male gigolo so maybe in the
thousands I don't know I really can't
remember or you might want to refer to
yourself as a male prostitute or
something like that essentially you're
not taking her question seriously right
you're not panicking you're not worrying
about trying to get the answer right
instead you have the confidence to joke
around with her to mess with her and not
think that you need to be on your best
behavior around the beautiful woman
you've got to say everything right and
then she's gonna like you know what
makes a beautiful woman really like a
guy is when he doesn't feel like he
needs to say and do everything right
around her he has the confidence to say
whatever the heck he wants while still
being a good guy the majority of women
don't actually want a bad man right they
just want a good man who has the
confidence to joke around with them
right who isn't afraid of them so here's
another example response to the question
of so how many women have you slept with
how many women have I slept with you
mean actually slept with us in gone to
sleep with because usually I just have
sex and leave at that point most women
are going to laugh right they're going
to know that you're joking but if
they're not sure they might ask you a
woman might say something like really
are you for real you can then continue
on with the joke or tell her that you're
just kidding so if you were to continue
on with the joke you might say something
like yeah well what am I going to stay
for it's just we've had sex it's time to
go alternatively you might say something
like no I'm just kidding
I like to stay and be a romantic and hug
and kiss and sleep in bed all day and
all that sort of stuff hmm and let her
see that you're not taking the question
seriously you have the confidence to
joke around with her and not think that
you need to be on your best behavior
around her because she's beautiful and
you need to make sure that you say all
the right things to hopefully get a
chance with her the next challenging
question is well you're smooth do you
pick up girls all the time
alternatively a woman might ask do you
say that to all the girls one of the
quickest ways to shut her question down
is to pretend that you're disappointed
in her for asking you a question like
that so rather than thinking that you
need to answer her question with a yes
or no answer when she asks you do you
pick up girls all the time you have the
confidence to challenge her right you're
still being a good guy but you're
challenging her you're not just
answering her question with a no or yeah
I do and hoping that you get the right
answer instead you have the confidence
to challenge her so if you're talking to
a beautiful woman and she asks you the
question do you pick up girls all the
time you can respond with something like
this well that's rude you're talking to
a confident guy you're having a good
conversation and then you go ahead and
assume that it's a player or something
like that I'm disappointed in you I
thought you were cooler than that
likewise if she asks you the question do
you say that to all the girls you can
say something like this
no not to all the girls only to the
special ones you're special
that's why I said it to you and then
have a laugh with her about that
essentially you're showing her that
you're not being thrown off by her
question right where a guy will go wrong
when interacting with a beautiful woman
is that she'll ask him a question like
that and inside he'll start to panic
he'll think dammit I'm losing her she
thinks that I'm some sort of player or
I'm using some sort of technique that I
learned off the internet I'm screwed
she's gonna lose interest in me what am
I gonna do then as a result of thinking
like that on the inside it comes out on
the outside she can see the changes in
his body language she can sense the
changes in his vibe she can pick up on
the changes in his conversation style
she knows that he's now worried that
she's losing interest in him if you want
a beautiful woman to respect you and
feel attracted to you you have to not be
worried about her potentially losing
interest in you it's not about being a
bad guy and showing her that you don't
care about her you don't give a stuff
about her or being rude or anything like
that instead it's just about being a
confident good guy who isn't worried
about her potential reaction to
something a fundamental principle to
remember is that if you fear her
reaction she won't feel attraction when
you fear a woman's reaction to what
you're going to say she can see that she
can see that you're afraid of her and as
a result she can't feel respect and
attraction for you women don't want to
feel like they are more dominant than
you women may go around acting as though
they are the more dominant ones but that
is just an act what a woman really wants
is a man who doesn't fear her but it's
also a good guy the next challenging
question is were you just checking that
girl out so for example a guy might be
talking to a woman at a party or at a
bar or at university or at a work
function or whatever she then asks him
the question were you just checking that
girl out to see if he's going to lie to
her to see if he's going to say
something like no no I was just looking
around or well what are you talking
about and pretend that he is not a man
who looks at women or looks at the world
in general right just looks around and
looks at things no he's not allowed to
do that he's got to be on his best
behavior around the beautif
woman he's got to be totally focused on
her and only her and he can't look at
her cleavage or anything like that he
has to look at her eyes only and he
can't say anything untoward he has to be
on his best behavior at all times so the
way to answer a beautiful woman's
challenging question of were you just
checking that girl out is to not take
her so seriously so for example she asks
you so were you just checking that girl
out and then you say to her yes were you
just checking me out why have you got
your eyes on me all the time huh are you
one of those clingy girls that always
has to monitor a guy relax girl people
can look around at the world around them
she then feels a bit embarassed for
asking you a question like that and
appearing to be one of those clingy
girls alternatively she laughs she gets
the joke and she has a good laugh with
you about it the next challenging
question is would you stay with a girl
if she put on weight in a relationship
once again a woman wants to see whether
or not you're going to lie to her right
whether you have the confidence to be
honest or the confidence to joke around
with her and not take her questions so
seriously so if she asks you the
question of would you stay with the girl
if she put on weight in a relationship
one way to answer it is to say no of
course not
and then have a laugh with her about
that you can then say something like
well look everyone puts on weight when
they get into a relationship you know
with all the dates where you have
popcorn and ice cream and pizza and all
that sort of stuff
it's pretty normal to put on a bit of
extra weight in a relationship but how
about you would you stay with the guy if
you put on weight in a relationship if
she says that she would stay with the
guy if he put on weight in a
relationship you can say something like
no you wouldn't I don't believe you come
on you look so shallow you seem like the
most shallowest girl I've ever met in my
life
no just kidding I believe you well
that's good but here's the thing though
would you actually have the capacity to
make a guy put on weight in a
relationship are you a good cook can you
cook that is the big question here as a
result you're steering the conversation
to a more playful type of conversation
and you're also putting her on the spot
about whether or not she's a good cook
you're making her feel as though she is
being subtly judged at the moment right
is she a good cook is she actually a
wholesome all-round woman who can cook
who's great in bed who looks good and so
on
other example response to the question
of so would you stay with a girl if she
put on weight in a relationship is to
say something like this what do you ask
we're not even dating yet you're already
worried about me dumping you come on
relax
she will almost certainly then say that
she wasn't trying to say that and she
was just asking you if you were dumped a
girl if she put on weight and you can
then say something like yeah yeah okay I
believe you and be playful with her
about it like that let us see that you
are confident you're a good guy and
you're not taking her questioning
seriously you're not worried about the
potential implications of you answering
her question incorrectly if you say yes
you would leave a girl she might lose
interest if you say no you wouldn't
leave a girl she might think that you're
too nice don't worry what she thinks
just focus on what's going to make her
feel respect and sexual attraction for
you as you interact with her if you also
happen to be a good guy then she's going
to be excited about that because it's
difficult for a beautiful woman to find
a good guy who can be confident around
her a good guy who isn't afraid to
challenge her in a playful way finally
another way to answer the question of
would you stay with a woman if she put
on weight in relationship is to say
something like this well it depends on
where she puts on weight is she could be
putting on weight in certain areas that
are going to be useful or and have a
laugh with her about that okay I hope
you've enjoyed this video and learned
something from it if you'd like to learn
more I recommend that you read my ebook
the flow or listen to the audiobook
version the flow on audio when you read
or listen to the flow you will learn
exactly what to say and do to go from
hello to sex with a woman that you find
attractive it's everything that you need
to know to start conversations keep
conversations going keep conversations
interesting get women to feel connected
with you get to a phone number Kearse
date sex and into a relationship when
you use the flow you're going to begin
to enjoy your choice of women one final
point that I want to make for you in
this video is to point out the fact that
every woman you meet is going to be
different sometimes you meet a woman who
is instantly friendly and you get along
with her and you hook up with her very
easily yet sometimes you'll meet a woman
who's a bit challenging and in most
cases that type of woman is going to be
the very attractive beautiful woman that
pretty much every guy wants to be with
she has her guard up
she's not being friendly and easygoing
around every guy because she doesn't
want to give every guy the wrong
impression actually only wants to drop
her guard for a guy who honestly
sincerely feels as though he is good
enough for her if you want to show her
that you honestly sincerely feel as
though you are good enough for her then
you need to have the confidence to not
take her questions so seriously all the
time there's nothing wrong with taking
her question seriously whenever you want
to but you also need to have the
confidence to mess with her as well
you need to let her see that you're not
on your best behavior hoping to get a
chance with the almighty woman who you
put on a pedestal right she is a
beautiful woman yes and you're feeling
attracted to her yes but you are the man
you are more than good enough for her
let her see that based on your behavior
and she will feel respect and attraction
for you
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