11 ways to MANIPULATE ANYONE with Dark Psychology

Summary

This video discusses various dark psychology tricks for manipulating people, emphasizing the importance of understanding human psychology. It advises using these tactics with caution, as they may not work on self-aware individuals. Techniques include unpredictability, hot and cold behavior, affirming the shadow self, and making others crave approval.

Takeaways

• 🌡️ The video begins with a humorously exaggerated claim of extreme heat in the speaker's bedroom.
• 📢 The speaker mentions having a second channel and encourages viewers to follow it.
• 🕵️‍♂️ The video discusses 'dark psychology tricks' for manipulating people, with a caveat to use them ethically and cautiously.
• 💡 The importance of understanding human psychology is emphasized, suggesting self-awareness as a key to both manipulation and resistance to it.
• 🧩 The speaker suggests that unpredictability in interactions can create addiction in others due to the manipulation of dopamine levels.
• 🔥 The 'hot and cold' technique is described as a method to create a 'trauma bond' that can lead to obsession.
• 🎭 Being a source of both pain and pleasure is identified as a manipulation tactic that can make individuals crave the pleasure.
• 🔍 Affirming someone's 'Shadow Self'—fears, dreams, and insecurities—can be a powerful tool for gaining influence over them.
• 🤴 Making others crave your approval can be achieved by unpredictability and by putting oneself on a pedestal.
• 🏆 The video touches on the tactic of making someone feel special, which can give the manipulator a level of control.
• 🚫 Disqualifying someone's 'Crown Jewels'—things they are most proud of—can strip them of their identity and make them more pliable.
• 🤐 Silence is presented as a powerful manipulation tactic, often more effective than words.
• 💣 The video warns about the manipulative 'love bombing' technique, where excessive affection is followed by withdrawal to create obsession and self-blame.
• 💔 Sharing personal vulnerabilities can create strong emotional bonds, which can be used manipulatively to gain trust and openness from others.
• 🚫 The speaker concludes with a reminder to use these tactics responsibly and a note of self-awareness to avoid being manipulated.

Q & A

What is the primary topic discussed in the video?

The primary topic discussed in the video is dark psychology tricks that can be used to manipulate people.

Why does the speaker suggest using these manipulation tactics with caution?

The speaker suggests using these tactics with caution because they believe high-quality people do not need to engage in such behavior, and the tactics may not work on self-aware individuals.

What is the speaker's background in relation to the topic?

The speaker has a background in psychology, which they mention as a reason for their understanding of human behavior.

What is the first manipulation tactic discussed in the video?

The first tactic discussed is being unpredictable, which can make someone addicted to you by creating an intermittent reinforcement schedule.

What is meant by 'hot and cold' in the context of manipulation?

'Hot and cold' refers to showing affection and then suddenly withdrawing it, creating a cycle that can lead to an addictive relationship.

How can being the source of both pain and pleasure be a manipulation tactic?

Being the source of both pain and pleasure ties into unpredictability, making the person crave the pleasure and thus becoming more susceptible to manipulation.

What is the speaker's advice on how to avoid being manipulated?

The speaker advises having a life, having friends, possibly seeing a therapist, and maintaining good mental health to avoid being isolated and vulnerable to manipulation.

What is the significance of affirming someone's Shadow Self in manipulation?

Affirming someone's Shadow Self, which includes their fears and weaknesses, can make them feel supported and accepted, potentially leading to manipulation.

How can making someone feel special be a manipulation tactic?

Making someone feel special can create a sense of control over them, as they will strive to maintain that feeling and seek your approval.

What is the purpose of disqualifying someone's 'Crown Jewel' in manipulation?

Disqualifying someone's most valued aspect, like wealth or a beloved job, can strip them of their identity and make them more susceptible to manipulation.

Why does the speaker mention the importance of self-awareness in understanding manipulation tactics?

Self-awareness allows individuals to recognize when they are being manipulated and to have the self-control to step away from such situations.

What is the speaker's final advice on using these manipulation tactics?

The speaker advises using these tactics carefully and at one's own discretion, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself and others to implement them successfully.

Outlines

00:00

😈 Dark Psychology Tricks for Manipulation

This paragraph delves into the use of dark psychology tricks for manipulating people. The speaker warns that these should be used with caution and only by those who understand human psychology well. They emphasize the importance of self-awareness to avoid being manipulated and suggest that the most vulnerable are those who are isolated and lack self-worth. Tricks discussed include creating unpredictability to foster addiction, establishing hot and cold behavior to create a trauma bond, and being the source of both pain and pleasure to make others crave your validation. The speaker also advises affirming someone's 'Shadow Self' to gain control over them, making them feel special, and using silence as a powerful tool for manipulation.

05:02

😎 Advanced Manipulation Tactics and Self-Protection

The second paragraph continues the theme of manipulation, offering advanced tactics such as disqualifying someone's 'Crown Jewel' to gain control, using silence as a powerful manipulation tool, and 'love bombing' to make someone feel special and then abruptly withdrawing affection. The speaker also touches on the importance of being genuine when trying to connect on a deeper level and the need for self-knowledge to both implement these tactics successfully and to protect oneself from being manipulated by others. They conclude by cautioning viewers not to use these tactics on them, humorously referencing their own awareness and understanding of such strategies.

10:22

🎶 Unrelated Musical Interlude and Personal Comment

The final paragraph consists of a series of seemingly unrelated phrases, musical interludes, and personal comments from the speaker. It appears to be a mix of song lyrics, expressions of personal sentiment, and possibly an attempt at humor or self-deprecation. The content does not follow a clear narrative or provide substantial information, making it difficult to summarize in the context of the previous paragraphs' focus on manipulation tactics.

Keywords

💡Dark Psychology

Dark psychology refers to the study and use of psychological tactics that can be manipulative or exploitative. In the video, it is the central theme, where the speaker discusses various techniques that can be used to influence people's behavior. The script mentions dark psychology tricks as a way to potentially control others, but also cautions the audience to use such tactics with caution and ethical consideration.

💡Manipulation

Manipulation is the act of influencing someone's thoughts or actions in a crafty or unfair way. The video script discusses several psychological tricks that can be used for manipulation, such as being unpredictable or creating a 'hot and cold' dynamic. The speaker warns that these should not be used to exploit others but rather to understand the potential impact of such behaviors.

💡Unpredictability

Unpredictability is the quality of being able to make someone unable to anticipate one's actions. In the context of the video, it is used as a manipulation tactic where the speaker suggests that being inconsistent in reinforcement can make someone addicted to the relationship due to the fluctuation in dopamine levels.

💡Intermittent Reinforcement

Intermittent reinforcement is a psychological concept where a behavior is occasionally rewarded, making it more resistant to extinction. The script uses this concept to explain how being unpredictable in communication can create an addictive pattern, as the person will crave the sporadic attention or approval.

💡Trauma Bond

A trauma bond is a strong emotional attachment between two people where there is a cycle of harm and healing. The video script mentions that being hot and cold can establish a trauma bond, which is addictive but not necessarily healthy, as it can lead to a cycle of seeking validation from the person who is causing the emotional distress.

💡Shadow Self

The shadow self is a concept in psychology that refers to the repressed, denied, or ignored aspects of an individual's personality. The script suggests that affirming someone's shadow self, such as their fears or insecurities, can make them feel understood and supported, potentially leading to a strong emotional bond.

💡Validation

Validation is the act of confirming or accepting the truth or existence of something. In the video, the speaker talks about the importance of validation in creating a sense of security and attachment. Manipulation tactics can involve the withdrawal of validation to create a sense of loss, making the person crave the approval and work harder to regain it.

💡Isolation

Isolation refers to the state of being set apart from others. The script warns that people who are isolated are more susceptible to manipulation because they lack the support network that can provide perspective and resist the manipulative tactics.

💡Self-Worth

Self-worth is the value or esteem that a person places on themselves. The video suggests that individuals with high self-worth are less likely to be manipulated because they have the self-awareness and confidence to recognize and resist manipulative behaviors.

💡Disqualification

Disqualification in the context of the video refers to the act of dismissing or undermining something that is important to a person, such as their achievements or possessions. This tactic can be used to make the person feel less valuable and more dependent on the manipulator for validation and approval.

💡Silence

Silence, as mentioned in the script, can be a powerful manipulation tactic. It can create uncertainty and anxiety in the other person, potentially making them more eager to please or reconcile in order to break the silence and regain a sense of normalcy.

Highlights

The speaker warns against using dark psychology tricks without caution, emphasizing that high-quality individuals are less likely to be manipulated.

Understanding human psychology is crucial for effective manipulation, and self-awareness is key.

Being unpredictable can make someone addicted to you, as it plays with their dopamine levels.

The 'hot and cold' approach can establish a trauma bond, making someone crave your validation.

Being the source of both pain and pleasure can make someone crave the pleasure you provide.

Affirming someone's Shadow Self can make them feel supported and loved, which is a powerful manipulation tactic.

Isolation makes individuals more susceptible to manipulation, as they lack support and validation.

Making someone crave your approval by being unpredictable with your validation can give you control over them.

Diminishing someone's self-worth or achievements can make them work harder to gain your approval.

Making someone feel special can give you a level of control, as they will fight for your validation.

Disqualifying someone's 'Crown Jewels' can strip them of their identity and make them more susceptible to manipulation.

Complimenting someone on their known strengths can give them power, which is why some avoid it to maintain control.

Disqualifying someone's enemies and then switching sides can be a powerful manipulation tactic used by cults.

Silence can be a powerful manipulation tactic, as it forces the other person to fill the void.

Love bombing can make someone feel obsessed with you, but it can backfire if they recognize the tactic.

Encouraging someone to be vulnerable by sharing personal stories can create a deeper emotional bond.

The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding human behavior to both manipulate and avoid being manipulated.

Transcripts

hello ladies and genitals welcome back

to my daily motion channel it's

literally 7 000 degrees in my bedroom

and I want to kill myself no I don't if

you don't know I have a second Channel

go follow it today we're going to talk

about dark psychology tricks you can use

to manipulate people if you're watching

this video chances are you're a really

bad person I'm joking but I will say

that if you use these tricks use them

with caution because I don't believe

high quality people need to do this

stuff and also if your victim your

target is a high quality person chances

are this also won't work on them and

you'll see what I'm talking about soon

another point I want to add is that if

you want to get good at manipulating

people you can't just read a book like

the 48 Laws of Power or watch a video

like this you have to understand human

psychology the best way in my opinion

to understand human psychology and this

is also coming from a graduate of

psychology

do you need to understand yourself if

you are able to understand

why you react a particular way what's

going on in your brain when you get

addicted when someone does something to

you you will understand why other people

also react in that way I also use what

I'm saying to not get manipulated

basically a lot of these things also

they're not people may not be doing it

consciously it's just maybe they're

toxic

so then you can

leave when they do these things the

easiest way to not get manipulated by

people is to have a life have friends

maybe get a therapist have good mental

health and don't be isolated the people

who are most susceptible to being

manipulated are those who are vulnerable

isolated and don't have any friends this

is how you can manipulate someone to

getting addicted to you be very

unpredictable so if you have them on

like an intermittent reinforcement

schedule this will always make someone

addicted to you and I'll give you an

example text messaging

you're applying to them consistently

every couple of minutes and then

suddenly out of the blue you're gone for

eight hours that adds an air of

unpredictability and it really [ __ ]

with someone's dopamine and that makes

them addicted to you second of all hot

and cold

hot and cold you have to be careful

because it usually establishes a trauma

Bond and Trauma bonds are addictive and

they're not fun but they will be

obsessed with you so what is an example

of hot and cold one day someone is

showing you a bunch of love the next day

they switch up

you don't know when they're going to be

hot again and also what happens now is

you start to Crave their validation you

want them to be hot towards you again

you don't want them to be cold so if

it's constantly on and off on and off on

and off

it's going to make you crave that

dopamine again and when you get it

you'll get addicted and then the cycle

repeats be the source of pain and

pleasure this is also you know tying

into the unpredictability at the

beginning of the relationship you can

just give them a lot of pleasure get a

chance to paint and Pleasure and Pain

you're going to Crave the pleasure again

do you guys see the trend it's all about

being unpredictable unpredictability Fox

with your dopamine and why won't this

work on people who are high quality or

self-aware because even though the same

psychological process is happening in

your brain you will consciously be able

to say

I don't want to mess with this like I

know what's happening right now and

that's why it won't work but it will

work a majority of people because in my

opinion majority of people in this day

and age don't have a lot of self-worth

so use that and how you will affirm

someone's Shadow Self find out their

fears their weakest links their biggest

dreams the things they are ashamed of

and affirm it to them you support them

you believe them you love them you fully

accept them this works on everyone

because everybody has a Shadow Self

and it's not even difficult to find out

someone's Shadow Self you just have to

listen to what they're saying this will

always work even if someone has

self-worth because it's not really

entirely manipulative like maybe you're

just a supportive person but this will

especially work on someone that is

isolated because if you're isolated you

really have no one supporting you and

that's why people who are alone are

always targeted and that's also why

narcissists will purposely isolate you

from your family and your friends

because it will make you more vulnerable

make others crave your approval you can

do this in a number of ways so the first

way is tying into what we first talked

about on predictability you can affirm

everything they're doing love it and one

day switch up

and then quickly switch back suddenly

they don't know when they're going to

get your approval secondly you can do it

by putting yourself on a pedestal and

just diminishing their self-worth all of

their accomplishments or of their

achievements put them down belittle them

you don't even have to do it explicitly

just seem very unimpressed by it and it

makes people work harder another

manipulation tactic is making someone

feel special so if you want to do a

favor for them they ask you to do

something you have to make it seem

really special like oh I usually don't

do these things but like I'm gonna do it

for you or through affirming their

Shadow Self you make them feel special

there's so many ways to do it and I hope

by now you can see that all of these

tactics link together but if you are

able to make someone feel special about

themselves you will always have some

level of control over them because they

will always want to feel special and

they will always want to be seen in a

positive light in your eyes now so they

will fight for your validation and they

will always fight to be on your good

side because they don't want that

feeling to go away disqualify someone's

Crown Jewel if they're rich

disqualify it they love their job

disqualify they love their kids kill

them what I'm joking once you take away

something that someone identifies

themselves with a lot of rich people

they're all about their money

money is who they are you take it away

who are they you disqualify it you have

control over them they will work harder

to please you now that's why I noticed

guys will never compliment hot girls and

it's not because they think they know

the girl knows they're hot already it's

because they don't want to give her that

validation because then she has more

power

and what did I say in one of my other

videos the person with the power is the

one that's acknowledging the beauty

if it's not acknowledged

does the beauty even exist another one

you can do is disqualifying someone's

enemies so just be on their side

basically

and then switch off if you want to a lot

of Cults use this it's a very like us

first mentality one of my favorite

tactics

is just being silent silence is a great

manipulation tactic

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another dark psychology one is what

narcissists do a lot and it's a lot of

bomb they're just throwing affection at

you they're obsessed with you it makes

you feel good and then they stop

and what happens when they stop

you're like where did this go what

happened you blame yourself you're

obsessed with them ties back to point

one the whole darker main thing that's

why you have to know these tactics

because the moment someone starts love

bombing me

I'm out of there I kind of enjoy it you

know

but I'm out of there if you want to

manipulate someone into being vulnerable

with you you talk about personal things

you've got to be real

you can make up a sob story and I

noticed a lot of guys do this to get the

girl to feel bad for them and to open up

and connect because when you're

emotionally vulnerable that is when

you're bonding more to other people okay

guys that's it I really

can't speak clearly right now and I'm

falling all over the place because it's

so hot my ring light is so damn bright

it's

I can't focus but anyways remember these

tactics will always work

everyone has the same psychological

processes but it won't work on someone

that knows themselves well or has high

self-worth because they will have enough

self-control to step away from you when

you start doing these things and if you

want to know how to really really

implement it successfully then you have

to get to know yourself and through

getting to know yourself you will get to

know others and human behavior like

genuinely any time someone does

something to me I have to analyze it

why did I react this way

why did I get attached even though I

don't like them what made me feel this

way and then I come up with my own

theories then I read on psychological

theories then I Journal about it and now

that is my knowledge it's a part of me

use these carefully at your will

and if you're a guy watching this and

you follow me on Instagram and you're

trying to hit me up and you use my

tactics on me

it's not gonna work

Trust

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