How to Shake Hands & Introduce Yourself | Good Manners

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22 Sept 201302:44

Summary

TLDRIn this video, Fay deant teaches the art of handshaking, emphasizing the importance of standing, firm grip, and full introduction time. She advises against the 'Queen's Shake' and stresses the need for eye contact and a smile to build a friendly first impression. Good posture and clear introduction of one's name are also highlighted for a successful handshake.

Takeaways

  • 🧍 Standing Up: Always stand up when shaking hands to show respect.
  • 🤝 Web of the Hand: Ensure the web of your hand touches the web of the other person's hand.
  • 👑 Avoid the Queen's Shake: Don't give a half handshake as it can be perceived as disrespectful.
  • 💪 Firm Grip: Apply a firm grip, but not too tight to avoid causing discomfort.
  • 🔁 Duration: Shake hands for the entire time it takes both parties to introduce themselves.
  • 👀 Eye Contact: Maintain eye contact throughout the handshake to show engagement.
  • 😄 Smile: Smiling during the handshake helps create a warm and friendly impression.
  • 📍 Good Posture: Stand straight with shoulders back to convey confidence.
  • 📛 Introduce Yourself: Clearly state your first and last name during the introduction.
  • 🕊️ Practice: If you have a tricky last name, practice saying it slowly and clearly.

Q & A

  • What is the first important aspect mentioned for shaking hands?

    -The first important aspect mentioned for shaking hands is that you should be standing up when you shake hands, no matter where you are.

  • What is referred to as the 'web' of the hand in the context of shaking hands?

    -The 'web' of the hand refers to the fleshy part between the thumb and index finger, and it's important to ensure that you're touching the web of the other person's hand as you shake hands.

  • Why is the 'Queen's Shake' considered disrespectful in the United States?

    -The 'Queen's Shake' is considered disrespectful because it is a half handshake, which is perceived as not fully engaging with the other person, and women in the United States tend to feel it's disrespectful if a man gives a half handshake.

  • How firm should your grip be when shaking hands?

    -Your grip should be firm, but not so firm that you're injuring the other person. It should be a grip that conveys confidence and respect.

  • How long should you shake hands with someone?

    -You should shake hands for the entire time that it takes both of you to introduce yourselves, not just for three shakes.

  • What role does eye contact play when shaking hands?

    -Eye contact is important when shaking hands as it shows that you are engaged and interested in the person you are meeting.

  • Why is smiling important during a handshake?

    -Smiling is important during a handshake because it makes you seem warmer and more friendly, contributing to a good first impression.

  • What should your body language convey when shaking hands?

    -Your body language should convey confidence and respect. You should stand up straight with your shoulders back, avoiding a slouched posture.

  • How should you introduce yourself when shaking hands?

    -When introducing yourself, use your first and last name clearly. If you have a tricky last name, say it slowly and enunciate it, possibly practicing in front of a mirror.

  • What is the significance of standing up straight with shoulders back while shaking hands?

    -Standing up straight with shoulders back conveys confidence and respect, and it is a non-verbal way of showing that you are engaged and serious about the interaction.

  • What is the purpose of shaking hands the entire time someone is introducing themselves?

    -Shaking hands the entire time someone is introducing themselves helps to establish a connection and shows that you are attentive and respectful throughout the introduction.

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