How to Rub Your Prostate?
Summary
TLDRIn this episode of 'Spilling the Tea,' hosts Dr. T and Gabriel D, along with Lavali, dive into the taboo topic of prostate stimulation. They discuss its health benefits, including improved sexual performance and overall well-being, and provide step-by-step guidance on how to locate and stimulate the prostate. The conversation covers both internal and external stimulation techniques, emphasizing the importance of hygiene, relaxation, and lubrication. They also highlight the significance of communication and consent when engaging in prostate play with a partner, aiming to demystify the process and encourage a more open dialogue about sexual health.
Takeaways
- 😀 The video is an episode of 'Spilling the Tea' with hosts Dr. T and Gabriel D, discussing a taboo topic: prostate stimulation.
- 📝 Prostate stimulation is essential for men's sexual performance, health, and well-being, and is often referred to as the male G-spot or P-spot.
- 🏥 The prostate is a gland under the bladder that is crucial for semen production, and its stimulation can lead to a powerful sexual response.
- 🚿 Health benefits of prostate stimulation include increased blood flow, reduced inflammation, and potentially a lower risk of prostate issues like prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia.
- 💆 Prostate 'milking' is a rhythmic massage technique that can release prostatic fluid and further reduce inflammation.
- 🌟 Sexual benefits of prostate stimulation include more intense and satisfying orgasms, increased libido, and improved overall sexual satisfaction.
- 👐 Internal prostate stimulation involves direct insertion through the rectum using fingers or specially designed toys to apply pressure on the prostate.
- 🤲 External prostate stimulation targets the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, and can be achieved with fingers or vibrating toys.
- 🛁 Proper hygiene, relaxation, and lubrication are important for safe and pleasurable prostate stimulation.
- 🤝 Open communication, consent, and awareness of partner's comfort levels are crucial when engaging in prostate stimulation with a partner.
- 👥 Prostate stimulation is beneficial for anyone with a prostate, regardless of sexual orientation, and can be a shared experience with a partner.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the 'Spilling the Tea' episode with Dr. T and Gabriel D?
-The main topic discussed is prostate stimulation, including its benefits, techniques, and how to engage in this practice safely and effectively.
Why is prostate stimulation considered a taboo topic?
-Prostate stimulation is considered taboo due to societal norms and lack of open discussion about male sexual health, particularly regarding the prostate and its role in sexual pleasure and health.
What is the prostate and why is it important for men to understand it?
-The prostate is a gland found just under the bladder in men, essential for semen production. Understanding the prostate is important for men to enhance their sexual performance, health, and overall well-being.
What are some health benefits of prostate stimulation mentioned in the script?
-Health benefits include enhanced prostate health through increased blood flow, reduced inflammation, decreased risk of prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia, and potential reduction in prostate cancer risk.
How can prostate stimulation help with urinary issues?
-Regular prostate massage can alleviate urinary issues, especially those related to benign prostatic hyperplasia, by improving blood flow and reducing inflammation.
What is the term 'milking the prostate' and what does it involve?
-'Milking the prostate' refers to a rhythmic massage that releases prostatic fluid, which can further reduce inflammation and potentially improve prostate health.
What are the sexual benefits of prostate stimulation for men?
-Sexual benefits include more intense and satisfying orgasms, increased libido, and an overall enhancement of the sexual experience.
What is the difference between internal and external prostate stimulation?
-Internal prostate stimulation involves direct stimulation through the rectum using fingers or toys, while external stimulation focuses on the perineum area between the scrotum and anus.
Why is proper hygiene important during prostate stimulation?
-Proper hygiene is crucial to prevent infection and ensure a comfortable experience. This includes washing hands, cleaning any toys used, and ensuring relaxation and plenty of lubrication.
How can partners engage in prostate stimulation safely and consensually?
-Open communication, consent, and awareness of each other's comfort levels and boundaries are key to engaging in prostate stimulation safely and consensually.
Who can benefit from prostate stimulation and why is it important to break the taboo around it?
-Anyone with a prostate can benefit from prostate stimulation. Breaking the taboo is important to encourage open discussions about sexual health, exploration, and pleasure, regardless of sexual orientation or identity.
Outlines
😀 Introduction to Prostate Stimulation
The script opens with a warm welcome to the show 'Spilling the Tea' hosted by Dr. T and Gabriel D, featuring a lively guest, Lavali. The hosts apologize for not introducing Lavali in the previous episode and humorously extend her an additional five seconds of introduction. The main topic for the episode is the taboo subject of prostate stimulation, a fan favorite. The hosts aim to demystify the process, explaining its importance for enhancing men's sexual performance and overall well-being. They plan to provide a step-by-step guide on how to locate and stimulate the prostate, addressing viewers' comments about difficulties in finding it. The prostate is defined as a gland crucial for semen production, often referred to as the male G-spot, which when stimulated can lead to a powerful sexual response.
😉 Health and Sexual Benefits of Prostate Stimulation
The script delves into the health benefits of prostate stimulation, which include increased blood flow to the organ, reducing inflammation and the risk of prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia. Regular massage can alleviate urinary issues and improve overall pelvic health. The hosts also discuss the term 'milking the prostate,' a rhythmic massage technique that can release prostatic fluid and further reduce inflammation. They mention preliminary studies suggesting that continued prostate massage might reduce the risk of prostate cancer. The sexual benefits are highlighted, with men reporting more intense and satisfying orgasms and increased libido from prostate stimulation. The hosts encourage viewers to consider prostate stimulation as a way to enhance their sexual experiences.
🤔 Techniques for Prostate Stimulation
The script outlines techniques for both internal and external prostate stimulation. For internal stimulation, the hosts suggest lubricating a finger or a specially designed toy and gently applying pressure to the walnut-sized prostate, which can be located towards the front of the rectum. They advise against any discomfort and recommend seeking guidance if pain is experienced. External stimulation involves rubbing the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, which can be done with fingers or vibrating toys. The hosts emphasize the importance of proper hygiene, relaxation, and lubrication for a pleasurable experience. They also provide tips on how to engage in prostate stimulation with a partner, stressing the importance of communication, consent, and awareness of the partner's reactions.
👍 Embracing Prostate Stimulation for All
The final paragraph addresses the potential apprehensions about discussing prostate stimulation due to its taboo nature. The hosts encourage breaking the stigma and emphasize that the activity is not tied to sexual orientation or identity but is about exploring one's body and sharing the experience with a loved one. They invite viewers to comment with questions or topics they'd like to see covered in future videos. The hosts express their commitment to discussing sexual health and breaking taboos, inviting viewers to join them in their next episode, where they will continue to explore sexual health-related topics based on viewer feedback.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Prostate
💡Prostate Stimulation
💡Sexual Health
💡P-Spot
💡Health Benefits
💡Internal Prostate Stimulation
💡External Prostate Stimulation
💡Pelvic Health
💡Lubricant
💡Communication
💡Sexual Pleasure
💡Taboo
Highlights
The episode discusses the taboo topic of prostate stimulation for men.
Prostate is a gland essential for semen production, often referred to as the male G-spot.
Stimulating the prostate can enhance sexual performance and overall well-being.
Prostate stimulation can increase blood flow, reduce inflammation, and potentially lower the risk of prostate-related health issues.
Regular massage of the prostate can alleviate urinary issues and improve pelvic health.
Milking the prostate is a technique that can release prostatic fluid and further reduce inflammation.
Prostate massage may reduce the risk of prostate cancer, according to some studies.
Prostate stimulation can lead to more intense and satisfying orgasms, increasing libido.
Internal prostate stimulation involves direct insertion through the rectum to apply pressure on the prostate.
External prostate stimulation is less intimidating and can be done by rubbing the perineum area.
Techniques for internal prostate stimulation include using lubrication and applying a rhythmic pattern of pressure.
External stimulation can be achieved with fingers or vibrating toys focused on the perineum.
Open communication and consent are key when introducing prostate stimulation with a partner.
Partners can use similar techniques for prostate stimulation, adjusting based on feedback and comfort levels.
Prostate stimulation is not related to sexual orientation and can be beneficial for anyone with a prostate.
The episode aims to break taboos and stigmas around prostate health and stimulation.
The hosts encourage viewers to comment with questions or topics they'd like to see discussed in future episodes.
Transcripts
welcome back to another episode of
spilling the tea with Dr T and Gabriel D
that's me and your favorite lavali
lavali is here can you believe she is
here she is very talkative today huh she
has a lot of questions to you okay well
she's come to the right place and for
those of you who don't know we forgot to
introduce lavali the last episode I know
what a shame what a shame and because of
that we're going to give L another five
seconds please
l I know I know she talks too much what
are we talking about today today we're
going to be talking about another taboo
topic that we've touched on here and
there literally touched on and that is
how to rub your prostate that's a fan
favorite it's a fan favorite we're going
to be reviewing prostate stimulation in
general because even though this is
again a taboo topic it is essential for
men to understand the ability to enhance
their sexual performance enhance their
sexual health and overall well-being so
we do want to take some time to explain
why important why it can be a beneficial
activity and then of course how to find
it because we got some comments with
people saying they weren't able to find
a walnut sized uh organ up there we're
going to walk you through it so today
we're going to teach you
thoroughly I don't know if I would say
thoroughly but we're going to do our
best to give you a stepbystep
instruction yeah this is YouTube yeah we
can't be too thorough so first please
define for us what is the prostate so
the prostate is a gland found just under
the bladder in men that is is essential
for semen production interesting I had
no idea often known as the male G-spot
or the PS spot when this area is
stimulated or rubbed it can produce a
powerful sexual response or stimulation
and so it's really important that men
understand not only how it functions but
where to find it so that they can
demystify the process and enjoy
themselves and learn more about how
their prostate uh can benefit them and
provide them pleasure is a G-spot as in
Gabriel not quite so the G-Spot is
actually referred to as a spot inside
the vagina for women and it causes
immense pleasure when it's stimulated
usually during intercourse and so the
male G Spot would be the prostate or the
P Spot but good question I wish that was
the Gabriel spot it's not all about
Gabriel even though for me it is I know
we talk about this at least 20 times but
what are some health benefits to rubbing
the prostate prostate stimulation can
actually enhance prostate health by
increasing blood flow to the organ so
increasing the blood flow of course is
going to increase the rich supply of
nutrients oxygen and that can reduce
inflammation we worry about inflammation
causing something called prostatitis and
also increasing blood flow May reduce
the risk of something called benign
prostatic hyperplasia which can occur in
the prostate as well wow rubbing the
prostate to live longer absolutely and
regular massage can actually alleviate
some urinary issues especially those
that are related to benign prosthetic
hyperplasia we know it also can help
improve overall pelvic health so really
it's going to contribute to an overall
Improvement in your health wow what have
thought just massaging the area can
bring so many benefits yeah and there's
actually something called milking the
prostate which we've talked about before
which is a rhythmic sort of massage that
can actually release prostatic fluid
thus reducing inflammation even further
so not only are we bringing blood flow
in we're reducing and releasing some of
that prostatic fluid so it's a two for
one to help to reduce inflammation in
the prostate milk in the prostate I
remember that from previous videos yeah
if you're interested you could take a
look at the other videos that have
prostate in the title I guarantee we're
talking about milking the prostate
somewhere in those videos yes I'm pretty
sure there's actually some peer-reviewed
medical journals out there that have
shown that continued massage to the
prostate of course again is going to
further reduce inflammation by milking
releasing that prostatic fluid
increasing blood flow and this may
actually reduce the risk for prostate
cancer yeah there's a lot more studies
that need to be done but the initial
things that are coming out are very
positive in fact one in eight men are
going to get diagnosed with prostate
cancer at some point in their lives so
it's definitely something to consider to
further reduce your risk and there's
some pleasure along the way and so what
are the sexual benefit to ring the
prostate so many men that do proceed
with prostate stimulation often report
that their orgasms are not only more
satisfying but more intense so a more
intense and satisfying orgasm is
certainly going to benefit your sexual
health it can increase libido which is
our sex drive and pleasure so of course
this adds another dimension or layer to
the sexual experience absolutely
everyone should try it yeah accepting
this as an activity that you may want to
partake in with your partner is going to
only enhance your overall sexual
satisfaction and the things you get to
do together together that sounds fun
don't you agree I certainly agree okay
let's go back to the questions yes back
to the questions what is internal
prostate stimulation so internal
prostate stimulation refers to the
direct stimulation of the prostate
through the rectum so it's going to be
an insertion of either fingers or toys
specifically designed to stimulate the
prostate in order to get into that area
and apply direct pressure on the
prostate itself thus leading to the
stimulation and their physical response
which is typically feeling pretty good
definitely going to cause an increase in
your arousal State and of course may
result in a powerful orgasm interesting
good to know it's important to also know
proper hygiene of course is always
recommended wash the hands wash the toys
and you want to make sure you are
relaxed that external sphincter needs to
be in a more relaxed tone so that you're
able to easily access through the rectum
and of course you want to use plenty of
lubricant so you can make sure that
you're enjoying yourself throughout the
process all those things we already talk
about this in the channel again if you
haven't seen those videos yet please go
back a little bit yeah we've talked
about the importance of all these things
and we will continue to probably talk
about them in the future it seems to be
our favorite topic well what do you
think and what is external prostate
stimulation so of course external
prostate stimulation just like it sounds
is going to be more external this is
going to be the stimulation of the area
called the perenium so this is between
the scrotum and the anus and so it's
external so that means it's probably
less intimidating for people out there
who aren't quite ready to insert or to
penetrate things into that area you want
to consider using your fingers which you
can lightly rub around the area you can
also by vibrating toys specifically
designed to stimulate the area as well
and it's going to often result in a
similar response so you're going to feel
maybe more roused and in more of a
powerful orgasm once you get to that
that timing and so what are some
techniques for internal prostate
stimulation so to find the prostate you
want to First lubricate either your
finger or a toy specifically designed to
reach the prostate and look for or feel
for a walnut sized organ towards the
front it's not going to necessarily feel
like a walnut and it's not going to have
any ridges like that it's going to be
about a walnut size and so I have had
some people leave comments saying I
can't find it I don't feel something
like a walnut it kind of feels like the
back of the palm of your hand kind of
like more firm than the rest of the area
and it's quite small at least it should
be um and you will probably feel as
you're rubbing it as though you may have
to urinate or like that sensation which
sometimes feels good when you're
urinating at least that's how I would
describe that feeling um but once you've
started to feel that way you're at the
right spot very detail explanation thank
you so much yeah and so you want to
apply gentle sort of force and rub and
rhythmic pattern around that area and
typically you're going to have a nice
response to that if you feel any pain or
discomfort it's probably a sign you're
not doing something correctly or you
should give yourself some time or maybe
talk to someone to give you more of a
thorough stepbystep construction cuz
there should be no pain or discomfort
most people are going to feel pleasure
and again you want to do that sort of
rhythmic back and forth movement that's
going to help to milk the prostate which
is not only going to result in again
releasing that prostatic fluid to reduce
inflammation increase blood flow but get
pleasure as well so it's a three for one
three for one that sounds like a good
deal and we're always looking for deals
and what are some techniques for
external prostate stimulation I think
the most important part here is to find
the perenium which is really not that
difficult it's between your scrotum and
your anus if you're a male and so once
you kind of identify that area you
should already probably know that it's
quite sensitive there's can be some
pleasure when you caress that area or
rub that area so similarly you want to
take a couple fingers or a toy that
vibrates and you can put it in that area
consistent sort of friction and rubbing
in the area is going to result in
pleasure and it's something you can do
when you are with a partner or by
yourself you can add masturbation into
it to really heighten the level of
sexual intensity uh and again it is
quite easy for a novice or a beginner to
start using
um things to pleasure that area or your
fingers because it's not too
intimidating it's external and it
doesn't require too much uh pressure s
to speak I love how you mentioned the
combination with other seal activities
because that can enhance things
absolutely and that is what we're here
to help you with to enhance things that
should be our logo enhancing things yeah
enhancing your life I'm down that sounds
perfect and how your partners go about
press stimulation so open communication
and consent are going to be key here you
don't want to start putting fingers and
toys in places that people aren't quite
ready for you also want to be aware of
whether or not your partner has a
prostate if they don't they may not know
you want your stimulated so being able
to say hey this is something I'd like to
try and hopefully you are in a
comfortable relationship or relationship
with that person uh enough to say hey
this is what I'm trying to do to enhance
our sexuality our sex life and I think
usually if you're in a good situation
the person's going to be very excited to
try something new with you or not as
long as you communicate and let them
know what's your preference and what you
want to accomplish absolutely I think
that's the key to starting any new sort
of technique or behavior especially in
the bedroom absolutely I agree yeah
discussing boundaries Comfort levels
things that you like or dislike are
going to be really important to help
build a trusting relationship where you
feel open enough to communicate these
things and thus have a more satisfying
sexual experience with your partner are
there techniques for partners to
consider yeah so I would say they're
about the same technique as what you
would do on your own using a finger or
two with plenty of lubricant or a toy
with plenty of lubricant that may
vibrate or may not that is intended to
stimulate the prostate are great places
to get started of course you want to be
aware of your partner's reactions as
you're going through the process I think
that's the technique or the tip that I
would give someone who's maybe engaging
in this the first time or maybe the
fifth time with their partner see how
they're responding see if they're
actually enjoying it it's pretty simple
to see how someone responds during a
sexual activity as their body's going to
give it away but that way you can learn
on your own what things your partner
likes or don't so you can always go back
to the back of your head and say hm what
should I pull out tonight or today or
this morning or whenever you're engaging
in your activities that's a great point
because a lot of times people don't know
what to say at that moment so it's
important to look at them and have their
feedback yeah it's the best way to get
feedback in an activity in my opinion
especially a sexual activity is to just
take a look at how your partner
responding their body will tell you body
language it is absolutely and who can
benefit from this activity well if you
have a prostate you can likely benefit
from this activity regardless of the
fact that it's very taboo and it can be
extremely uncomfortable to talk to your
partner about this to even acknowledge
that this is something you want to do
prostate simulation is not related to
your sexual orientation or your identity
it's just about having a good time
exploring your body and being able to
share that experience with someone that
you love or someone that you want to get
things on with absolutely let's break
the taboo everyone deserves their
prostate to be rubbed if they have one
absolutely why not and that's what we do
here on the tea we try to break stigmas
break taboos and hope that you are all
enjoying your sexual life with your
partner or by yourself but if you have
other questions for us let us know you
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comments about how we didn't introduce
him in our last video and he was very
upset so we're glad that we can get on
the same page hopefully he will be with
us for a long time because you don't
want to upset Laval no absolutely not
she will be very mad and upset
absolutely do it but we hope to see you
at a next video next week where we will
be discussing something sexual health
related and hopefully something that
you've left us in the comments below so
until then we will see you next time
thanks for watching bye
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