High Value Dating Rules Every Man Should Follow

Summary

In this video, Chad from 'Defund Simping' shares his top dating rules for men in 2023 and beyond. The rules emphasize the importance of selecting women who genuinely show interest, cutting off communication with women who repeatedly flake without rescheduling, and assuming a woman’s intentions are less than ideal until proven otherwise. Additionally, Chad stresses the value of women contributing to the relationship, whether through gestures like paying for dates or showing competitive interest. The ultimate goal is to attract high-quality, feminine women who reciprocate interest, ultimately leading to more successful and authentic long-term relationships.

Takeaways

• 😀 Women who choose you first generally lead to easier and more natural connections in dating, as genuine interest simplifies the process.
• 😀 Focus on attracting women who show clear signs of interest (e.g., eye contact, compliments, initiating contact), rather than chasing those who don't reciprocate.
• 😀 If a woman flakes and doesn't offer to reschedule, cut off communication to avoid being used for attention without commitment.
• 😀 Always assume the worst about a woman's intentions until she proves otherwise, especially in the early stages of dating. Time and consistent behavior will reveal her true nature.
• 😀 Avoid falling head over heels for someone too quickly. Vet women carefully, asking meaningful questions to assess compatibility for long-term relationships.
• 😀 If a woman never offers to contribute financially after several dates (even for small things like parking), it may signal a lack of genuine interest or investment in the relationship.
• 😀 Women should compete for your attention in the dating process, especially once you've built up your own value (e.g., looks, status, and confidence). This unspoken competition indicates healthy interest.
• 😀 Physical or emotional progression in dating should be gradual, with each date showing some form of advancement (e.g., touching, kissing, or deeper connections). If no progression occurs, the woman may not be as interested as you think.
• 😀 Implement the '3-day rule': If a woman doesn't engage physically within three dates (or at least show significant interest), she may be seeing someone else or doesn't feel the same way about you.
• 😀 Avoid chasing after sex. If a woman doesn't initiate contact after intimacy, it often indicates she's not genuinely invested, and you should reassess the relationship.

Q & A

What is the main dating rule discussed in the video?

The main dating rule discussed is to choose women who choose you. This means seeking out women who show genuine interest, which makes the dating process easier and more natural.

How can a man identify if a woman is genuinely interested in him?

Signs of genuine interest include eye contact, a sly approach, and possibly hearing from her friends that she finds him attractive. It's about looking for signals that show she wants to engage beyond just superficial interaction.

What should a man do if a woman flakes on a date?

If a woman flakes and doesn’t offer to reschedule, it’s advised to cut off communication. This helps maintain self-respect and avoids wasting time on someone who isn’t genuinely interested.

Why is self-respect important in dating according to the video?

Self-respect is crucial because it prevents men from chasing women who aren’t reciprocating interest. Maintaining high self-respect allows men to avoid unnecessary drama and focus on women who genuinely value them.

What does 'assume she is a ' until proven otherwise' mean?

This rule suggests that men should approach women with caution, assuming that they may not be as 'good' as they initially appear until they prove their worth over time through actions and consistency.

What is the significance of the '3-day rule' in dating?

The '3-day rule' suggests that if a woman doesn’t show physical interest or progress towards intimacy by the third date, she might not be as serious or interested in a romantic connection. The idea is that physical progression is necessary to determine mutual attraction.

How should men handle the financial aspect of dating?

Men should pay attention to whether the woman ever offers to split the bill or pay for something. If a woman never contributes financially, it may indicate a lack of genuine interest or respect for the man’s efforts.

What does it mean for a woman to 'compete' for a man?

In the context of the video, 'competing' refers to a woman proving her worth over time through actions, such as showing genuine interest, putting in effort, and not taking the man for granted. It also involves her being aware of other women showing interest in the man.

Why is vetting women over a long period important?

Vetting women helps to determine if they are genuinely compatible and trustworthy. It’s about getting to know their values, background, and how they treat the man over time, ensuring a long-term relationship is based on mutual respect and understanding.

What role does 'genuine desire' play in long-term dating success?

Genuine desire is crucial because it leads to natural and effortless connection. When a woman genuinely likes a man, the relationship is more likely to be successful and enduring, as both parties are invested in making it work.