I Like ''Playful Teasing'' - What She REALLY Means
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the art of playful teasing between men and women, emphasizing that it's not about disrespect but a form of witty banter that can be attractive. It outlines five reasons why women appreciate this teasing, including it being a sign of a man's confidence and ability to not take things too seriously. The script also addresses the importance of reading social cues and ensuring that teasing remains light-hearted and consensual.
Takeaways
- 😀 When a woman says a man is 'too nice,' it often means he lacks playful teasing.
- 💬 Playful teasing is a form of witty banter that many women appreciate.
- 🚹 Men who tease women in a playful way are seen as high-value individuals.
- 🎭 Teasing should be done for the man's amusement, not for the woman's benefit.
- 👩🦰 Women appreciate when men can see and acknowledge their flaws without judgment.
- 🚸 Playful teasing can cross social boundaries in a way that feels safe and exciting.
- 😌 A relaxed demeanor in men shows they are comfortable and not overly formal around women.
- 👫 Teasing establishes a level of intimacy that suggests a closeness beyond that of strangers.
- 💡 The speaker emphasizes that teasing should come naturally, not be forced or strategic.
- ⏰ The speaker will be posting a video answering questions from the audience in about a week.
Q & A
What does the term 'too nice' mean when women use it to describe men?
-When women say a man is 'too nice,' they mean he doesn't engage in playful teasing or witty banter, which they find attractive.
Why do women enjoy playful teasing from men?
-Women enjoy playful teasing because it's a form of fun interaction that shows the man is confident, relaxed, and not overly serious about their flaws.
How does teasing demonstrate a man's high value to women?
-Teasing shows a man is more focused on his own enjoyment and comfort, which aligns with the concept of hypergamy and is attractive to women.
What reassurance does playful teasing provide to women about their perceived flaws?
-It reassures women that the man can see their flaws but doesn't take them too seriously, which reduces the pressure to be perfect.
Why does crossing boundaries through playful teasing appeal to women?
-It creates a sense of inclusion and safety, similar to a playful parent-child interaction, showing the man knows what she wants.
How does a man's relaxed demeanor during teasing reflect on his masculinity?
-A relaxed demeanor shows he is not intimidated, views women as equals, and is comfortable in social situations, which is a sign of masculinity.
What does playful teasing communicate about a man's social skills and confidence?
-It communicates that he is confident, charismatic, and has good social skills, as he is able to engage in light-hearted banter.
Why is it important for men not to take themselves too seriously when teasing women?
-Not taking things too seriously shows that the man is in touch with reality and can handle imperfections with humor.
How does playful teasing establish intimacy between strangers?
-It creates a sense of familiarity and closeness that is typically reserved for close friends or family, signaling comfort and interest.
What is the speaker's advice to men who don't playfully tease women?
-The speaker advises men to try playful teasing as it can be a natural part of being a confident, masculine individual.
What is the upcoming video about that the speaker mentions?
-The upcoming video will answer a lot of questions from the audience and is promised to be insightful and engaging.
Outlines
😄 Playful Teasing: The Art of Attraction
The speaker clarifies that when women say a man is 'too nice,' they mean he lacks the playful teasing that can be a form of witty banter. They emphasize that women appreciate this teasing as it indicates the man is enjoying himself and is not overly focused on the woman's needs, which is attractive due to its alignment with hypergamy. The speaker explains that playful teasing shows a man is confident, charismatic, and having a good time, which reassures women that he is not overly invested in them and is comfortable with himself. It also reassures women that the man can see their flaws but does not take them too seriously, which is a relief as women do not wish to be under constant pressure to be perfect. Playful teasing, when done correctly, is a sign of a man who is in touch with his masculinity and can create a sense of intimacy, even in early stages of a relationship.
😉 The Power of Relaxed Interaction
The second paragraph discusses how women are attracted to men who can interact with them in a relaxed and playful manner, rather than treating them as unattainable goddesses. It suggests that men who are overly formal or nervous around women can come across as stilted and awkward, which is unappealing. The speaker argues that women prefer men who are not intimidated by them and can engage in natural, teasing banter. This behavior indicates that the man is not viewing the woman as his only sexual option, which can be attractive. The speaker also shares a personal anecdote about how observing a friend's teasing behavior with women changed his understanding of female psychology. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for men to try playful teasing and a reminder of an upcoming video that will answer viewer questions.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Playful Teasing
💡Witty Banter
💡Hypergamy
💡Feminine Pleasure
💡Realistic Expectations
💡Boundaries
💡Relaxed Interaction
💡Intimacy
💡Masculinity
💡Social Skills
Highlights
A girl saying a guy is 'too nice' often means he doesn't engage in playful teasing.
Playful teasing is important for creating witty banter.
Women appreciate men who can tease them playfully as it indicates high value.
Playful teasing should not be insulting or disrespectful.
Teasing is a way for men to demonstrate they are having a good time and are not overly focused on the woman.
When a man teases a woman playfully, it shows he is amusing himself and is confident.
Women do not want to feel pressured to be perfect; they appreciate being teased about their flaws.
Playful teasing can reassure women that a man is aware of their imperfections and doesn't take them too seriously.
Teasing can involve crossing boundaries in a playful way that can be exciting for women.
Men who tease women show they are relaxed and not overly formal.
Teasing demonstrates a man's capacity to be at ease and not intimidated by women.
Playful teasing can establish intimacy and show a man is comfortable beyond being strangers.
Teasing should come naturally to men who are in touch with their masculinity.
The speaker shares a personal story of learning about teasing from a friend.
The speaker will post a long video answering questions in about a week.
Teasing is not a tactic but a natural behavior for men in touch with their authentic selves.
Men who don't playfully tease may be perceived as 'too nice' by women.
Transcripts
i want to set the record straight that
when a girl says a guy is too nice we
don't mean he's too respectful of us or
too sweet to us what we mean is he
doesn't like to playfully tease us and
everyone likes to be playfully teased
from time to time okay witty banter is
important okay so she wants to be teased
she wants to be playfully teased men who
don't playfully tease her are too nice
there are five reasons why women
absolutely love being teased by men in a
playful manner and if you don't have
time to watch the entire video i've put
that list up there for you obviously
women don't want to actually be insulted
or disrespected but playful teasing is a
whole other ball game and if you want to
be perceived by women as being a high
value man if you actually want to
generate genuine sexual attraction in
women and have that directed towards you
then you have to learn how to tease
women so i'm going to go through this
list and explain the five reasons why
women love being teased but really
quickly i know that a lot of you been
asking like who's this guy what's been
going on with the channel answers are
coming in about a week i'm going to be
posting a long video with all of your
questions answered so just be patient
okay first thing you've got to
understand about the dynamic of teasing
is that when a man is playfully teasing
a woman he is doing so not for her
benefit but because he's amusing himself
and that's what's attractive he's having
fun he's vibing he's pointing out her
flaws or her mistakes in like a fun
flirtatious way because it amuses him
and that plays directly into her
hypergamy because of the two people in
the interaction him and her he's more
concerned about making sure that he's
having a good time who else would do
that other than a high quality man and
that's what women want women don't want
to be around a man whose center of
gravity is inside them they hate the
idea of a man orbiting around them well
whether or not they hate it is debatable
but they're certainly not going to sleep
with that man by teasing her and amusing
yourself you're making that clear
demonstration that you care about
yourself that you're having a good time
she's more like a prop that you're sort
of using for your own jokes again of
course you can't be actually insulting
or disrespectful in any way she's not
going to tolerate that but when she sees
how much of a good time you're having
she's going to be thrilled to just be
included to be a part of that there's a
feminine pleasure that women feel
watching a man do what he does best
being masculine being confident being
charismatic having a good time
demonstrating his you know quality of
social skills the fact that the
spotlight's on her even though it's in a
teasing way doesn't matter she's
thrilled okay the second reason that
women love being playfully teased is
because it reassures them that you're
able to see her flaws she's so sick of
nice guys projecting this
unrealistic goddess fantasy onto her she
doesn't want the pressure of being
perfect she knows that she's not she's
with herself 24 hours a day she has
plenty of flaws all women do and when
you're able to tease her about that it
demonstrates that not only are you able
to see those flaws inside herself but
you also don't take them too seriously
women don't want to be shamed or guilted
about their mistakes or their
shortcomings but if you can see them and
say hey i recognize this imperfection
inside you and i find it kind of funny
it reassures her like ah this guy's got
his eye on reality he sees what's what
and he also isn't taking things too
seriously the third reason why women
love a little bit of playful teasing is
because it crosses boundaries i know we
live in this age where we talk about you
know boundaries have to be respected you
have to get consent for everything and
of course 100 that's the case but we all
know from our human experiences when
there are some instances where somebody
knows what we want better than we know
and when they just take that action it
makes us feel included it makes us feel
safe for those of you who had happy
childhoods think about the times when
you're a kid you know playing with mum
or dad on the couch and you're sort of
screaming no no stop but they keep
tickling you because they know as your
parent deep down you want to be tickled
and that's kind of part of the game
flirtation can be a little bit like that
like the girl can be smiling at you and
giving you seductive eyes all the while
saying stop it you're so bad and oh my
god i can't believe you she's paying lip
service to the fact that you've crossed
some kind of boundary but deep down
she's loving it and she loves the fact
that you know her well enough to know
that she's loving it and you go there
that's masculine again of course if she
actually dislikes it it's your job to
pick up on that and stop if you can't
read her social cues then you're not
being flirtatious you're just making her
uncomfortable but the fourth reason why
women love men who are able to playfully
tease them is because it shows the man's
capacity to be relaxed a lot of guys are
weirdly formal around women like they've
got this sense that women are fragile
and a protected species and have to be
treated like a beautiful princess
goddess you know we've got to throw
petals at their feet and it's too much
if you think that way about women when
you're interacting with them you're
going to be stumbling over your words
you're going to be really self-conscious
choosing what to say very specifically
and it makes women uncomfortable that
kind of stilted awkwardness it's
actually a pretty natural way of humans
interacting with each other is making
some jokes playing around teasing each
other and what a woman really wants to
see is that you're able to do that with
her it shows that you spend a lot of
time with women you're not intimidated
by her and you're certainly not viewing
her as your only possible sexual option
if this girl was legitimately your one
chance of happiness and without her
you're going to be lonely and sexless
forever then yeah you're going to be
nervous you're going to be paying lots
of attention to how you speak how you
come across and it's going to be weird
but if she's just another girl because
you speak to plenty of girls then you're
going to be relaxed and that's what
she's looking for she wants you to get
out of your head and then just sink back
into what's natural who are you
authentically how do you interact with
her not as a goddess but just as another
human being which is what she is and the
fifth reason why women love a little bit
of playful teasing especially in the
early stages of a relationship or on a
date or even when you've cold approached
them is because it establishes an
intimacy that demonstrates that you're
beyond just strangers it would be very
weird for you to playfully tease
somebody who you'd never met before
essentially a stranger you know socially
that's just not appropriate but of
course with your close friends or family
someone you have a good relationship
with you're teasing each other all the
time and so when you as a man are able
to playfully tease a woman even if you
don't know her particularly well you're
establishing an intimacy by doing that
you're signaling to her hey i'm
comfortable with this this doesn't
intimidate me this doesn't scare me what
i'm really trying to get across is that
teasing isn't some strategy or tactic
that you need to learn that you need to
put on this performance for a woman it's
actually what should come naturally to
you as a high quality man who's in touch
with your masculinity you just got to
get out of your own head enough to
actually sink into what feels natural i
know for me back when i was like a 15
year old awkward teenage kid i would be
weirdly formal around women i didn't
totally know how to speak to them when i
was attracted to them and it took me
hanging out with a friend of mine who
was really outrageous big guy made
really obnoxious jokes and he would
tease the women he was around absolutely
relentlessly and i remember at first my
instinct was whoa you can't say that are
you kidding they're going to hate this
guy and it was watching their reactions
of absolutely loving it soaking it up
trying to get closer to him trying to
provoke him to do it even more that
really changed my understanding and
showed me that there was something about
female psychology that i didn't yet
understand so give it a try take this
woman's advice men who don't playfully
tease women are too nice so really what
have you got to lose now before i end
the video just a reminder in about a
week's time i'm going to be posting a
big long video on this channel that's
going to have a lot of answers it's
going to be fantastic so just watch out
for that you guys are going to love it
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