4 Reasons Why Girls REJECT Handsome Men (Handsome Men's Game)
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Jordan discusses the four reasons why women might reject handsome men, emphasizing that it's not always about physical appearance. He addresses concerns like resembling a past ex, the fear of competition with other women, the challenge of controlling an attractive man, and the ego boost some women may seek from rejection. Jordan encourages men to continue improving themselves and not to be discouraged by rejection, highlighting the many benefits of being an attractive man and the importance of self-confidence.
Takeaways
- π The video discusses four reasons why women might reject handsome men, aiming to help men understand these reasons without self-doubt.
- π The first reason is that a man might resemble a woman's past ex, triggering negative memories and causing her to reject him as a safety measure.
- πββοΈ The second reason is the perceived competition with other women in the man's life, which can lead to anxiety and rejection if a woman feels she cannot compete.
- π« The third reason is the difficulty in controlling or getting exclusivity from a handsome man, as women may feel he has too many options and won't be tied down.
- πͺ The fourth reason is the potential ego boost women might get from rejecting a handsome man, often stemming from low self-esteem or a scarcity mindset.
- π€ The video emphasizes that these reasons are not universal and that handsome men should not let rejections affect their self-confidence.
- π¨βπΌ The speaker advises that improving physical appearance and style can lead to increased confidence and opportunities, but it's also important to address internal issues like self-belief and trauma.
- π‘ The video suggests that while physical attractiveness can open doors, true confidence comes from a combination of external improvements and internal self-work.
- π The speaker offers a program called the 'Inbound Reaction Blueprint' for those seeking to maximize their looks and attractiveness.
- π The video ends with an encouragement to like and subscribe for more content, highlighting the importance of community and support in personal development.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video by Jordan?
-The main purpose of the video is to discuss the reasons why women might reject handsome men, to help men who are improving their appearance and attracting women not to second-guess themselves after a rejection.
Why did Jordan create this video?
-Jordan created the video to provide understanding and reassurance to men who are enhancing their looks and encountering rejections, emphasizing that rejection is not always a reflection of their attractiveness.
What is the first reason given in the video that a woman might reject a handsome man?
-The first reason is that the man might resemble a past ex of the woman who treated her poorly, leading her to associate negative experiences with his appearance.
How does the woman's past experience with her ex influence her decision to reject a handsome man?
-A woman's past negative experience with an ex who resembles a handsome man she meets can lead her to reject him as a protective measure to avoid repeating past heartaches.
What is the second reason women might reject handsome men according to the video?
-The second reason is the woman's unwillingness to compete with other women she perceives the man to have in his life, due to the attractiveness of the man.
Why might a woman feel the need to compete with other women for a handsome man's attention?
-A woman might feel the need to compete because she is aware that a handsome man likely has other women interested in him, and she may not be confident enough to handle the competition.
What is the third reason provided in the video for women rejecting handsome men?
-The third reason is that women might perceive handsome men as uncontrollable or hard to secure exclusivity with, which can lead to feelings of insecurity and a lack of desire to pursue a relationship.
How does the concept of control play a role in a woman's decision to reject a handsome man?
-The concept of control plays a role as women may feel that they cannot control or secure a commitment from a man who is handsome and has many options, leading them to reject him to avoid potential heartache.
What is the fourth reason women might reject handsome men as discussed in the video?
-The fourth reason is that some women might reject handsome men as an ego boost, to validate themselves, especially if they have low self-esteem or have recently gone through a bad breakup.
How does the video suggest men should react to rejection from women despite being handsome?
-The video suggests that men should not let rejection discourage them or make them second-guess their self-improvement efforts. Instead, they should focus on their progress and understand that rejection is often more about the woman's issues than their own attractiveness.
What does the video imply about the benefits of being a handsome and attractive man?
-The video implies that being a handsome and attractive man comes with numerous benefits such as being treated better by people, attracting more opportunities, and improving self-image and confidence.
What additional advice does Jordan offer for men who want to maximize their attractiveness?
-Jordan suggests that men who want to maximize their attractiveness should consider his 'Inbound Attraction Blueprint' program, which is linked in the video description, to further improve their looks and attract women.
Outlines
π€ Introduction to Rejection of Handsome Men
Jordan begins the video by addressing his audience, explaining the purpose of the video is to discuss why women might reject handsome men. He emphasizes that the video is not meant to criticize women but to provide insight for men who are improving their appearance and encountering rejection despite their efforts. Jordan assures his viewers that rejection is a normal part of life and should not lead to self-doubt, especially when they have had positive experiences with other women. He introduces the concept that rejection may not be due to a lack of attractiveness but rather because of the man's handsomeness and attractiveness.
π£ Rejection Due to Resembling a Past Ex
The second paragraph delves into the first reason for rejection: the man's resemblance to a woman's past ex-boyfriend. Jordan explains that if a man looks similar to an ex who caused emotional pain, a woman might reject him as a protective measure to avoid repeating past negative experiences. This reaction is not personal but rather a woman's way of safeguarding herself from potential emotional harm. Jordan advises men not to take such rejections personally and to understand that it's more about the woman's past experiences than about them.
π Competition Anxiety and Rebound Relationships
In the third paragraph, Jordan discusses the second reason for rejection: competition anxiety. He explains that women may perceive handsome men as having many other women in their lives, leading to a fear of competition. This perception might cause women to avoid pursuing a relationship if they feel they cannot compete with the man's other potential romantic interests. Jordan also touches on the idea of rebound relationships, where women might choose less attractive partners to recharge their emotional batteries before returning to seeking men who are more in line with their physical preferences.
π« Difficulty in Controlling Attractive Men
Jordan continues with the third reason in the fourth paragraph: the difficulty women may have in controlling or getting exclusivity from handsome, attractive men. He argues that women might be aware that such men have other options and may not easily commit to exclusivity. This can lead to a woman choosing to reject the man to avoid the potential pain of not being able to control the relationship. Jordan suggests that this fear of lack of control stems from a woman's insecurities and past negative experiences, which can cause her to settle for less attractive partners who she perceives as more manageable.
π Ego Boost and Settling for Less Attractive Partners
The final paragraph addresses the fourth reason for rejection: the ego boost some women might get from rejecting a handsome man. Jordan suggests that this behavior is more common among women with low self-esteem and a scarcity mindset. They might reject a good-looking man to feel a temporary boost in self-worth. However, he also points out that this is not a frequent occurrence and that most women would appreciate the attention from an attractive man. Jordan concludes by encouraging men to continue improving themselves and not to be discouraged by rejections that are often more about the woman's issues than the man's attractiveness.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Handsome
π‘Attractive
π‘Rejection
π‘Competition Anxiety
π‘Ex
π‘Scarcity Mindset
π‘Control
π‘Ego Boost
π‘Insecurity
π‘Self-Esteem
Highlights
Jordan discusses four reasons why women might reject handsome men, aiming to help men understand and not take rejection personally.
Handsome men may be rejected because they resemble a past ex who caused pain, leading to a protective reaction.
Some women might avoid handsome men due to perceived competition from other women in their lives, leading to competition anxiety.
Attractive men can be seen as hard to control or get exclusivity from, which can be intimidating for some women.
Women might reject handsome men for an ego boost, stemming from low self-esteem or insecurity.
Jordan emphasizes that rejection is not always about physical appearance and can be due to various personal factors.
Handsome men should not let rejection discourage them from improving their looks and self-confidence.
The video suggests that being a handsome and attractive man has many benefits beyond attracting women.
Jordan advises men to not second-guess themselves based on the rejection from an insecure woman.
Improving one's exterior, such as physique and style, can compound and build momentum for working on the mindset.
The video encourages men to work on their self-image, confidence, and self-esteem as part of personal development.
Jordan offers a program called the Inbound Attraction Blueprint for those seeking help in maximizing their looks and attracting women.
The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to like, subscribe, and check out the program for more help.
Transcripts
what's going on guys it's Jordan here so
in this video I'm going to be talking
about the four reasons why women will
reject handsome men and the reason why I
wanted to create this video is not to
bash women not to talk [Β __Β ] about them
but I know a lot of you who have been
watching my channel for a while you're
leveling up your looks you're improving
yourself you're getting in shape you're
getting your fashion style together
you're dialing in your facial Aesthetics
to the best of your ability you're going
to start seeing more attention more
attraction from women you're going to
start seeing more opportunities with
women you're going to start seeing more
success with women but there are going
to be times where you come across what
you perceive to be an opportunity with a
woman maybe you approach her maybe you
thought she was giving you choosing
signal so you approached her that way
maybe you try to shoot your shot at a
girl that you follow on
Instagram and they end up rejecting
you and I don't want you men to get in
your head be like a man like I'm not I'm
not handsome I'm not attractive because
this girl rejected me especially if
you've had results with other women
you've been able to attract other women
in the past I don't want you to second
guess yourself I don't want you to start
thinking that all of your hard work was
for nothing just because of one girl or
because of a smaller subset of women
that may have rejected you which you
know nothing is 100% man nothing is 100%
guaranteed in this life at all even when
it comes to shooting your shot at women
nothing is 100% guaranteed you're not
going to have a
Flawless approach you know you're not
gonna have a Flawless um a Flawless
record of approaching women and being
able to close them and stuff you know
what I'm saying so with that being said
that's why I wanted to create this video
today so that you can understand that
the reasons why you're going to get
rejected as a handsome and attractive
man and and this is for like not men who
think they're handsome and attractive
but they're objectively handsome and
attractive based on their ability
ability to attract women their
experience with women being intimate
with women in the past and being told
and more so treated as a handsome and
attractive man from women when I say you
know told and treated like women aren't
just telling you that you're handsome
and attractive but like they're acting
on how they feel about you by making
themselves available to you going on
dates with you being intimate with you
you know what I'm saying so with that
being said let's go ahead and let's hop
into these four reasons because really
as a handsome and attractive man you're
not couldn't necessarily get rejected
because women are going to think you're
ugly or unattractive it's actually
because you are a handsome and
attractive man so I know that may not
make sense but we'll go ahead and we'll
dive into the four reasons that way it
will make sense to you so the first
reason why you will get rejected by
women as a handsome and attractive man
and this isn't going to happen often by
the way but it's definitely possible is
because you resemble a past ex of hers
maybe you have the same pheno type as
her ex like you look very similar to her
ex that did her dirty and understanding
what that experience was like with that
ex she doesn't want to go through that
again so as a safety
measure she's going to reject you
because by rejecting
you it's almost like her ability to
reject her ex and get even with him but
she's taking it out on you and of course
it's going to feel personal because it's
being done to you but easier said than
done but don't take it personal don't
take it personal it's Eed up it's not
fair yes but the world isn't fair don't
take it personal but if you resemble an
ex of a woman you got that look maybe
you guys even carry yourselves
similarly right but if you look just
like the ex that dogged her
out she's not really going to mess with
you like that now women do have
types women do have types and they
usually do stick with their types
however if their original
type did them really
dirty you're going to start to see that
women will they'll still have like an a
natural attraction for that type but
you're going to start to see at least
for for a while they're going to move
away from that type and they're going to
go seek out a different type of man that
doesn't resemble their past
ex that's why you guys see a lot of
these women with dudes that are out of
shape that don't look
good and you're like man this doesn't
make sense why is this beautiful woman
with this dude it's because a lot of the
times that
dude that dude is just a rebound that
dude is just the dude to to recharge her
batteries
so then once she you know she recharges
her batteries with this dude she gets
her self-esteem and confidence
back because of how much this you know
this new dude this rebound dude is
making her feel good and and doing all
these things that she wanted her first
option to do but wouldn't
do well once she charged her batteries
with this dude that's when you're going
to see that she's going to go back and
not maybe not necessarily go back to the
ex but then she's going to turn back to
seeking out the men that she's truly
physically attracted to that are her
type but a lot of the guys that you see
with these attractive women for the most
part they weren't the woman's first
option I know there's some of you guys
that like the the guys like the dudes
who are strictly about
mouthpiece which yeah it's important to
have like social skills and knowing how
to talk to women of course but
like there's going to be dudes who are
going to cope and be like Oh see this is
why looks don't matter and being in
shape doesn't matter because you see
unattractive dudes with attractive women
well most of those unattractive guys
weren't her first option and most of
them are are being used
temporarily that's
why so that's the first reason is
because you resemble a past ex of hers
that did her dirty so as a way to
protect herself from not going through
those negative experiences again she's
going to reject you which yes it's not
fair
she's especially if you're if you're
actually a solid dude it's going to be
her loss because she's thinking in a
scarcity mind she's preventing herself
from having a good experience with you
if again you are a solid
dude because of what she experienced
with her ex in the past so that's reason
number one reason number two she's not
willing to compete with the other women
that she
perceives that you have in your life so
so although women want handsome and
attractive
men there are women that
are aware I mean most of them are aware
that those handsome attracted men have
other women in their life now women are
going to
perceive that you have that you may have
a lot of women that will perceive you to
have more women than you actually
do women are going to perceive that like
women perceive handsome attractive men
almost like celebrities where they have
like women constantly chasing them like
like your Justin Bieber or like Chris
Brown or something where you have like
women constantly chasing you and
constantly hitting you up and constantly
wanting to see you and as a handsome
attractive man you're more than likely
going to have a reality similar to that
maybe not necessarily girls screaming
and running and chasing you and you know
what I mean but you're more than likely
going to have women in your life you're
going to have women in your phone you're
going to have women on the dating apps
you're going to have women on on
Instagram and social media you're going
have women hitting you up I'm
sure it's going to be varying degrees
depending on the
due but women have like this fantasy in
their head that as a handsome attractive
man that you have all these women like
so many women checking for you which
again maybe you do
but because she's aware of that certain
women who are not confident in
themselves certain women that aren't
will to
compete for the handsome and attractive
man because of the work that does go
into it what do I mean by the work that
goes into it because they know that the
dude can attract other women he can get
other options he is in abundance in that
regard so she knows she can't just
be acting all you know any kind of way
for for at least a good-look man that
has standards and knows that he can
attract
women and he can be more selective
certain women know that like C a lot
with these women I
mean we can be like oh man she ain't
willing to compete she lazy and stuff
like that which could be true but these
women are more aware that they're not
willing to
compete so since they they know that
they're not willing to compete with the
women that you have that they perceive
that you have and or the women that you
actually do have in your life since
they're not willing to compete because
the competition anxiety is just gonna
get too much for
them they're not willing to go through
the Hunger Games to get you they're not
willing to go through rigorous Batman
training they're not they're not willing
to go through the League of Assassins
and get trained up and become your
number one Prospect because they're not
willing to put in the work because
they're not willing to compete with the
other women that they perceive that you
have in your life they're not going to
accept your offer they're not going to
accept your advances not because they
think that you're ugly not because that
not into you because a good amount of
these women more than likely would be
into you a good amount of these women
will find you physically
attractive but it's some of the things
that they perceive to be
negative that're associated with your
looks is what is causing them to reject
you so you're going to have women that
will reject you because they know that
the competition anxiety will get too
much for them and they're not willing to
compete and they are aware that they're
not willing to compete so therefore
they're not going to waste your
time because they know that they're not
going to be able to compete or at least
they believe that they're not going to
be able to compete with the other women
they don't want to compete with the
other
women and that is more than likely stem
from a negative experience that they've
had with anx before as well that's
usually where it comes from but that's
another reason why women will reject
handsome men so that's reason number two
moving on to reason number three and
this is actually going to be going off
of reason number two is that women when
they come across handsome attractive men
handsome attractive men excuse
me they know that they're more than
likely not going to be able to control
that man or it's going to be hard to
control that man what do I mean by
control that
man it's going to be hard to get
exclusivity from that dude if that if
that dude knows his value if that dude
knows that he's him if that dude knows
that he's a handsome attractive man but
he's also more than just looks like he's
actually putting the work trying to get
his money right or increase his money he
has other skills and hobbies he has a
life outside of women he understands the
type of woman that he wants so therefore
he's selective he has a qualification
process not just any type of woman can
get access to us man for real they
shouldn't with those type of dudes too
women know they're not going to be able
to control them they know they're not
going to be able to control them because
those dudes again can generate
options he can generate options he has
the ability to exercise those options if
he's a single
man and to try to prevent that man from
not exercising those options to try to
prevent that man from
not interacting with you know different
women and and not being tied
down knowing that he can be a man that
can get another woman and he ain't just
going to be suck with
her it's going to be hard to ask that
man for
exclusivity and the only way that you're
going to really be able to get
exclusivity from that type of man is
that you're going to have to put in the
work and prove
that you are a viable
option
and you're the best option out of all
the other women that that man is is uh
able to attract and and is interacting
with just being honest just being
honest so a lot of these women know that
these handsome attractive men can't be
controlled and you're even G to have
women that will get into relationships
with these dudes with handsome
attractive men and will even be cool
with him exercising options so it may be
one of those situations where it's open
on his end but close on hers
or even like relationships where it's
not necessarily an open relationship
because they're not boyfriend and
girlfriend it's just they're casually
seeing each other so that means the dude
can see other women casually and the the
woman can see other men casually if it's
just understood that it's just a casual
situation nothing serious well you're
even going to see that certain women
will start to get
jealous you'll see certain women if
they're really into that dude even
though it's a casual scenario they're
just not going to mess with other dud or
yeah they're not going to mess with
other dudes but they'll let the handsome
attractive man mess with other women for
a time until they can't handle it
anymore and then that's when they're
going to try to lay the hammer down so
to speak or more so be more
direct and overt about what they want
from the relationship and that's when
they're going to try to demand
exclusivity from that man and then that
man has to decide whether or not he
wants to be exclusive with woman or not
because if he's not she's more than
likely going to bounce because she knows
that she can't control him she knows
that he's just gonna be he's just gonna
keep doing what he wants to do he knows
that he's she knows that he's just going
to keep messing with other women if he
doesn't want to be tied down so she
can't control them that's why you see a
lot of these other attractive women with
these dudes that looking crazy out here
where you're like man I'm trying to make
sense of why this dude is with this girl
is because and a lot of this comes
from low self-esteem
insecurity low confident women that do
this confident
women who are also attracting themselves
don't play these games nearly as much
they don't do all this [Β __Β ] a lot of
this comes from women who are
insecure who yes they've gone through
negative experiences and they've allowed
those negative experiences to put them
in a scarcity mindset and control their
next moves and dictate like p e past
ex-boyfriends and the negative
experiences that these women have had
with with negative uh excuse me let me
go
back women that have had negative
experiences with their past boyfriends
they allow those experiences to just
simply dictate who the next man will be
that they date that they interact with
and a lot of the times these women are
settling for men that they know they
don't truly want
but the
pain of going through those experiences
that they've that they've gone through
with with certain men in the past that
pain is too
great that pain is too
great
to try to go and get another handsome
attractive dude try to go for the same
type of
dude that she's truly into the pain that
she's gone through in the past the pain
that she has
Associates with those type of men are
too great for her to go back to those
type of men so therefore you're going to
see her settle with dudes that she's not
even really naturally physically into
like
that like I've seen women swear that
they would never date a certain type of
man but then after they get out of a
relationship with their first option
they then go and date the type of
archetype that they swore that they
would never date and that they were
actually quite disgusted
by I've seen I've seen like friends go
through that like I've seen people in
relationships like actually do that like
women I was like cool with and like
friends with I've seen them do that to
their
duudes where like they're with the
option that they really wanted they
broke
up and then they go and date some dude
that they know they're really not into
it's not necessarily that they're into
the dude that they're with they're into
simply the
feelings they're they're into their
perceived security that that rebound you
gives but she's not really into that
dude she's into the power and the
control that she believes that she has
over that dude not really the
dude so that's reason number three and
then reason number
four we can say that it's an ego boost
thing I I've alluded to that earlier in
this video but women will reject
certain certain men for an ego boost but
here's my thing I don't think this
happens nearly as much as people may
believe it
does I think if this happens it's again
if she needs an ego boost it's because
she's low
confidence she has low self-esteem she
thinks in scarce in a scarcity mindset
she has a scarcity mentality and most of
the women are are insufferable in my
opinion A lot of these women are
insufferable so like if you're seeing
that women are
rejecting they're rejecting
you as a handsome attractive man or you
see women rejecting handsome and
attractive men sometimes it can just be
a form of an ego
boost for
validation and you'll see that usually
these women are going to be coming out
of
relationships those relationship more
than likely ended badly with her having
to experience like the negative aspects
of that probably more than the dude so
therefore to try to kind of get her
groove back to try to get her confidence
back to try to build up her
self-esteem she'll reject a handsome and
attractive man because of again the
power that she perceives that comes with
it but it's like it ain't really
power because you're not fixing and
addressing the root cause to your pain
and your low confidence and your low
self-esteem to begin
with again I don't think this is going
to really happen that often
because women will more than likely
pounce at an opportunity with a handsome
attractive man
that shoots their shot at
them granted that they're actually into
the dude
and I'm not saying it from like a cold
approach scenario maybe that can happen
for sure right circumstances right time
right place but like maybe warm
approaches messaging the girl on social
media and stuff assuming that she like
gave you indicators of interest you know
what I'm saying like certain situations
like that I think more times than not
women are not I think I know for a dam
in fact more times than not women are
going to accept the offers of handsome
attractive men granted that they're not
in actual relationships with their men
but I mean even then sometimes that [Β __Β ]
don't matter right so these are the four
reasons why women will reject handsome
and attractive men are they all the
reasons no but these are some of the
reasons that you may experience this as
a handsome and attractive man but don't
let this discourage you from putting in
the work to leveling yourself up don't
use this to start to second guess
yourself to lower your own confidence
thinking that you're not that dude out
here especially when you've been able to
have results and experiences positive
amazing experiences with women in the
past don't second guess yourself don't
think that you're not you're not that
dude that you're not him just because of
an insecure girl who's allowing her
negative experiences and is allowing the
pain that someone else
caused to reject her opportunity with
you because at that point it's really
her loss and there's a lot more benefits
there's a lot more Pros to being a
handsome attractive man out here not
just for the women's sake but like I
said being treated better by people
being able to attract more opportunities
to you there's so many more Pros to
being a handsome attractive man out here
plus leveling up your looks and being
confident with the man that you see in
the mirror is definitely going to be a
great step in the right direction into
improving your self-image your
confidence your self-esteem it's not the
only way for sure you got to you got to
dial in the mind up here you got to dial
in the mind you gotta you gotta you got
to dial in the mind you
gotta you got to work on your negative
self-beliefs you got to work on your
negative self-image if you have one of
yourself you got to work on your traumas
you got to work on your low self-esteem
but when you can see that okay you can
improve your physique you can improve
your fashion your style when you see
that you can comp you can improve excuse
me your
exterior those are micro winds that will
compound and build momentum for you to
work on your mindset your trauma your
pains that maybe you're going through as
a man then of course as you start
accomplishing things in your life as a
man those are really going to be the
things that give you the most confidence
so if you want extra help when it comes
to maximizing your looks becoming the
most handsome attractive version of
yourself and as a byproduct start
attracting women to you then I would
highly suggest that you check out my
inbound raction blueprint program I'll
have the link Down Below in the
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