How I Improved My Sleep

Hamza Ahmed
27 May 202440:13

Summary

TLDRDieses Video-Skript bietet einen detaillierten Leitfaden für die Verbesserung der Schlafqualität. Der Sprecher teilt sieben bewährte Methoden, die sein eigenes Schlafen erheblich verbessert haben, darunter das Weglassen von Schlaftrackern, die Einhaltung einer Eliminationsdiät, die Erfüllung von Arbeit, die Schaffung einer sicheren Umgebung, die Nutzung von Klimaanlagen, Mundschleifen, Ohrstöpseln und weißem Rauschen. Er diskutiert auch Methoden, die für ihn nicht funktioniert haben, wie Morgensonne, Meditation, Yoga, Dampfbad oder Bad vor dem Schlafengehen, sowie verschiedene Schlaf-Nahrungsmittel. Der Fokus liegt auf praktischen und erprobten Tipps, die einen signifikanten Einfluss auf die Schlafqualität haben können.

Takeaways

  • 🙏 Kein Dank an Klickbait-Videos: Der Autor des Guides betont die Bedeutung von echter Bildung gegenüber kurzen, auf Klicks ausgelegten Videos.
  • 🛌 Schlafverbesserungsergebnisse: Der Autor teilt seine persönlichen Erfahrungen, die sieben Dinge, die seine Schlafqualität verbessert haben, und verspricht, dass sie sofort Wirkung zeigen.
  • 📈 Langfristige Schlafverbesserung: Der Autor hat seit 2021 an seiner Schlafqualität gearbeitet und hat ein Protokoll entwickelt, das für ihn funktioniert.
  • 📊 Schlaftracker-Kritik: Der Einsatz von Schlaftrackern hat den Autors Schlafversuch erschwert, da er sich zu sehr mit den Daten und der daraus resultierenden psychologischen Belastung auseinandersetzen musste.
  • 🍽️ Eliminationsdiät: Durch eine strenge Ernährung, die nur Fleisch, Eier, Käse, Honig, dunkles Schokolade und Proteinpulver umfasst, hat sich der Autor ein besseres Schlafbild und weniger Notizen bei Nacht verschafft.
  • 🔥 Wiedererlangung von Morgenstärke: Durch die Umstellung auf eine low-carb-Diät kehrte die Morgenhärte zurück, die der Autor seit dem Alter von 21 Jahren vermisst hatte.
  • 🛠️ Erfülleres Arbeiten: Der Autor glaubt, dass das Arbeiten an einer erfüllenden und bedeutungsvollen Aufgabe das Schlafen verbessert, da es dem Körper signalisiert, dass man auf einer richtigen Lebensspur ist.
  • 🏠 Sicherheit und Schlaf: Die Räumlichkeiten, in denen man lebt, können einen Einfluss auf die Schlafqualität haben, insbesondere wenn man in städtischen, unsicheren oder unangenehmen Umgebungen lebt.
  • 🌡️ Klimaanlage: Die Verwendung einer Klimaanlage, besonders in heißen Sommermonaten, hat den Autors Schlaf erheblich verbessert.
  • 🤐 Mundschluss: Durch das Abdichten des Mundes mit Hilfe von Klebeband wird das Nasenatmen gefördert, was zu einer besseren Schlafqualität beiträgt.
  • 🎧 Ohropläste und weißer Rauschen: Ohropläste und weißer Rauschen helfen, Geräusche zu reduzieren, die den Schlaf stören könnten, und bieten eine stabile Hintergrundgeräuschkulisse.

Q & A

  • Was ist das Hauptthema des Skripts?

    -Das Hauptthema des Skripts ist die Verbesserung der Schlafqualität durch die Umsetzung von sieben spezifischen Strategien, die vom Autor erfolgreich angewendet wurden.

  • Welche Bedeutung hat die Meinung des Autors über kurze Clickbait-Videos im Vergleich zu seinem langen Guide?

    -Der Autor lobt das Publikum für die Auswahl seines langen, ungeschnittenen Guides, da dieser echte Bildung bietet und nicht nur auf Klicks und Aufmerksamkeit ausgerichtet ist, im Gegensatz zu vielen kurzen Clickbait-Videos.

  • Was verspricht der Autor in Bezug auf die Wirksamkeit der in seinem Guide vorgestellten Schlafverbesserungsmethoden?

    -Der Autor verspricht, dass die sieben in seinem Guide vorgestellten Methoden sofort wirksam sind und er selbst spürte eine Verbesserung bereits in der ersten Nacht, nachdem er sie angewendet hatte.

  • Was war das Hauptproblem des Autors mit Schlaftrackern?

    -Der Autor fand, dass Schlaftrackern seine Schlafqualität verschlechterten, da er sich über die Daten aufregte und psychologisch unter Druck geriet, was zu schlechteren Schlafzyklen führte.

  • Was ist das Konzept hinter dem 'Elimination-Diät', das der Autor beschreibt?

    -Die 'Elimination-Diät' beinhaltet das Essen von nur wenigen Nahrungsmitteln wie Fleisch, Eier, Käse, Honig, dunkles Schokolade und Proteinpulver, was dem Autor helfen soll, seine Schlafqualität und allgemeine Gesundheit zu verbessern.

  • Wie bezeichnet der Autor das Konzept, bei dem man auf die Erwartungen der Eltern nicht eingehen sollte, um sein eigenes Leben zu führen?

    -Der Autor nennt das Konzept 'Live as if your father were dead', was bedeutet, dass man unabhängig von den Erwartungen seiner Eltern leben sollte, um ein authentisches und erfüllendes Leben zu führen.

  • Was sind die sieben Schlafverbesserungsmethoden, die der Autor im Guide vorstellt?

    -Die sieben Methoden sind: 1) Aufhören, Schlaftracker zu verwenden, 2) Elimination-Diät, 3) Erfülleres Arbeiten, 4) Sichere Umgebung, 5) Klimaanlage, 6) Mundtape und 7) Ohroplatten und weißer Rauschen.

  • Was ist der Grund, warum der Autor glaubt, dass das Arbeiten an der richtigen Sache und das Ausführen von Tiefenarbeit die Schlafqualität verbessern kann?

    -Der Autor ist der Meinung, dass das Arbeiten an der richtigen Sache und das Ausführen von Tiefenarbeit den Menschen eine Sinn der Erfüllung gibt, die zu besserem Schlaf führt, weil sie sich am Ende des Tages wertgeschätzt und erfolgreich fühlen.

  • Was empfiehlt der Autor, um den Schlaf in der heißen Sommerzeit zu verbessern?

    -Der Autor empfiehlt die Nutzung einer Klimaanlage oder eines tragbaren Luftkonditionierungsgeräts, um die Temperatur im Schlafzimmer zu regulieren und somit den Schlaf zu verbessern.

  • Was sind die Erfahrungen des Autors mit Mundtape während des Schlafes?

    -Der Autor berichtet, dass das Benutzen von Mundtape dazu beigetragen hat, seinen Schlaf zu verbessern, indem es ihn gezwungen hat, durch die Nase zu atmen, was zu einer besseren Schlafqualität und einer besseren Gesichtsform führte.

  • Was sind die Erfahrungen des Autors mit Ohroplatten und weißem Rauschen?

    -Ohroplatten und weißer Rauschen haben dem Autor geholfen, leichte Geräusche, die ihn sonst aufwecken würden, zu übertönen und somit seinen Schlaf zu verbessern.

  • Welche Supplements hat der Autor ausprobiert und was war das Ergebnis?

    -Der Autor hat verschiedene Schlaf-Supplements ausprobiert, darunter auch Tee, und fand, dass sie in der Regel seine Schlafqualität verschlechterten, sodass er keine von ihnen empfiehlt.

  • Was sind die Erfahrungen des Autors mit Meditation, Yoga und Sauna vor dem Schlafengehen?

    -Der Autor hat festgestellt, dass Meditation, Yoga und Sauna vor dem Schlafengehen für ihn nicht zu einer besseren Schlafqualität geführt haben, sondern in einigen Fällen sogar zu schlechterem Schlaf geführt haben.

  • Wie beurteilt der Autor die Bedeutung von Morgensonne für die Schlafqualität?

    -Der Autor hat seine Schlafqualität nach der Morgensonne gemessen und festgestellt, dass sie keine signifikante Verbesserung gebracht hat, obwohl dies von anderen als vorteilhaft dargestellt wird.

  • Was sind die persönlichen Erfahrungen des Autors mit hochwertigen Schlafmatratzen und -geräten?

    -Der Autor hat hochwertige Schlafmatratzen und -geräte ausprobiert und festgestellt, dass sie in seiner Erfahrung nicht so effektiv waren wie einfachere Lösungen wie eine tragbare Klimaanlage.

  • Was sind die Faktoren, die dem Autor zufolge die Schlafqualität verbessern können?

    -Laut Autor können die Schlafqualität verbessert werden durch das Aufhören des Benutzens von Schlaftrackern, die Einhaltung einer Elimination-Diät, das Finden und Ausführen von erfüllerem Arbeiten, das Schaffen einer sicheren Umgebung, das Benutzen einer Klimaanlage, das Benutzen von Mundtape und von Ohroplatten und weißem Rauschen.

Outlines

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📚 Selbstverbesserung durch besseren Schlaf

Der Sprecher beginnt mit einer Anerkennung für das Anklicken seines Guides, der sich von kurzen, clickbait-ähnlichen Videos abhebt. Er betont die Wichtigkeit von echter Bildung und kritisiert, dass viele Self-Improvement-Videos eher auf Klickraten ausgelegt sind. Sein Versprechen ist, dass die sieben im Video vorgestellten Methoden, die für ihn zu einer Verbesserung des Schlafes beigetragen haben, auch für das Publikum sofort wirksam sein werden. Er teilt mit, dass er seit 2021 seine Schlafqualität verbessert hat und nun ein Protokoll hat, das für ihn funktioniert. Zudem gibt er einen Tipp, wie man schnell einschläft: das Lesen auf einem Kindle bis zum Einschlafen, was für ihn zuverlässig funktioniert.

05:02

🛑 Kein Einsatz von Schlaftrackern

Der Sprecher diskutiert seine Erfahrung mit Schlaftrackern wie dem Aura Ring oder Whoop Tracker, die für ihn das Schlimmste für seinen Schlaf waren. Er argumentiert, dass die Fixierung auf die Daten und die psychologische Belastung, die diese Tracker mit sich bringen, sein Schlaf beeinträchtigen. Er empfiehlt, diese Geräte nicht zu verwenden, wenn man ähnliche Probleme hat und stattdessen einen starken Willen zu entwickeln, um trotzdem fit zu bleiben, auch wenn die Daten dies nicht bestätigen.

10:02

🥩 Einführung in die Eliminationsdiät

Der Sprecher schildert seine Erfahrung mit einer Eliminationsdiät, bei der er hauptsächlich Fleisch, Eier, Käse, Honig, dunkles Schokolade und Proteinpulver isst. Er berichtet, dass diese Diät zu einer besseren Schlafqualität und weniger Notwendigkeit, nachts aufzustehen, geführt hat. Zudem kehrte sein Morgenergus zurück, was er als Zeichen für eine verbesserte Gesundheit und höhere Testosteronwerte interpretiert.

15:04

🔨 Erfülle deine Arbeit

Der Sprecher vertritt die Ansicht, dass die Qualität des Schlafes mit der Erfüllung im Berufsleben zusammenhängt. Er argumentiert, dass Menschen mit einem beruflichen Ziel und einer erfolgreichen Karriere besser schlafen als jene, die in unsichere oder unfulfillende Arbeitsumgebungen sind. Er fordert die Zuhörer auf, ihren Eltern gegenüber zu bestehen und ihr eigenes Leben zu leben, auch wenn es Konflikte geben sollte.

20:04

🏡 Schaffung einer sicheren Umgebung

Der Sprecher beschreibt seine persönliche Erfahrung mit Angst in städtischen Umgebungen und wie diese seinen Schlaf beeinträchtigt. Er diskutiert das menschliche Bedürfnis nach Sicherheit und wie das Fehlen dieser in städtischen Zentren zu Schlafproblemen führen kann. Er teilt mit, dass er in ländlichen Gebieten besser schläft und empfiehlt, bei der Wahl des Wohnorts auf die persönliche Sicherheit und den Schlafzustand zu achten.

25:05

🌡️ Nutzen von Klimaanlagen

Der Sprecher empfiehlt den Kauf von Klimaanlagen, um die Schlafqualität in heißen Sommermonaten zu verbessern. Er teilt seine persönlichen Erfahrungen mit tragbaren Klimageräten und betont, dass diese ein einfaches und kosteneffektives Mittel sind, um den Schlafkomfort zu erhöhen, insbesondere in Regionen mit extremen Temperaturen.

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🤐 Mundschluss für besseren Schlaf

Der Sprecher bespricht das Konzept des Mundschlusses während des Schlafes, um eine nasale Atmung zu fördern. Er empfiehlt das Kauf von micro pore tape, um den Mund zu verschließen und die Atmung durch die Nase zu erzwingen. Er erklärt, dass dies nicht nur zu einer besseren Schlafqualität, sondern auch zu einer besseren Gesichtsform führen kann.

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🎧 Ohrstöpsel und Rauschen für einen ungestörten Schlaf

Der Sprecher erklärt, wie Ohrstöpsel und Rauschen dazu beitragen können, den Schlaf zu verbessern, indem sie einen hohen Grundpegel an Hintergrundgeräuschen schaffen, der es schwieriger macht, durch plötzliche Geräusche geweckt zu werden. Er teilt, dass er selbst sehr anfällig für Geräusche ist und wie diese Methoden zu einer Verbesserung seines Schlafes beigetragen haben.

40:09

📝 Zusammenfassung und persönliche Ansätze

Der Sprecher fasst die sieben Schlafverbesserungsmethoden zusammen, die er im Video vorgestellt hat, und betont, dass jede von ihnen für ihn wichtig war. Er diskutiert auch Methoden, die für andere möglicherweise wirksam sind, aber für ihn keine Verbesserung gebracht haben, wie z.B. Morgensonne, Meditation, Yoga, Dampfbad oder diverse Schlaftabletten. Er ermutigt die Zuschauer, die sieben Methoden auszuprobieren und schließt mit einem Aufruf, um seine E-Mails mit geistigerem Inhalt zu abonnieren.

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Keywords

💡Schlafverbesserung

Schlafverbesserung bezieht sich auf die Verbesserung der Schlafqualität oder -quantität. Im Video werden sieben spezifische Methoden vorgestellt, die der Sprecher als effektiv für die Verbesserung seines eigenen Schlafes empfindet. Dies umfasst Verhaltensänderungen und die Verwendung bestimmter Gegenstände, um den Schlaf zu verbessern.

💡Schlaffolgen

Schlaffolgen beziehen sich auf die Auswirkungen, die eine unzureichende oder gestörte Schlafqualität auf den Körper und das Wohlbefinden hat. Im Video erwähnt der Sprecher, dass er früher häufig mit Anxietasympтомen und Schweißen aufwachte, was auf eine schlechte Schlafqualität hindeutet.

💡Schlaffortschritt

Ein Schlaffortschritt ist eine Methode oder Technik, die dazu beitragen kann, den Schlaf zu verbessern. Im Video werden sieben solcher Fortschritte diskutiert, einschließlich des Aufhörens, Schlaftracker zu verwenden, die Durchführung eines Eliminationsdiäts und das Schaffen einer sicheren Umgebung zum Schlafen.

💡Eliminationsdiät

Eine Eliminationsdiät ist eine Nahrungsmittelelimination, die dazu dient, zu bestimmen, welche Arten von Nahrungsmitteln oder Substanzen möglicherweise auf das Wohlbefinden oder bestimmte Symptome wie Schlafstörungen einwirken. Im Video beschreibt der Sprecher, wie eine solche Diät seine Schlafqualität verbessert hat.

💡Schlaftracker

Schlaftracker sind Geräte oder Anwendungen, die die Schlafqualität und -muster eines Menschen messen. Der Sprecher des Videos diskutiert, wie der Gebrauch eines Schlaftrackers ihm psychologisch Druck verursachte und zu einer Verschlechterung seiner Schlafqualität führte.

💡Psychologischer Glaube

Psychologischer Glaube bezieht sich auf die Überzeugungen oder Annahmen, die Menschen über ihre Fähigkeiten, ihr Wohlbefinden oder die Wirkung bestimmter Ereignisse oder Verhaltensweisen haben. Im Video erklärt der Sprecher, wie sein Glaube an die Daten seines Schlaftrackers seine Schlafqualität beeinträchtigte.

💡Erfüllende Arbeit

Erfüllende Arbeit ist Arbeit, die einem einen Sinn für Zweck oder Bedeutung gibt. Im Video argumentiert der Sprecher, dass die Arbeit, die man tut, einen signifikanten Einfluss auf die Schlafqualität haben kann, und dass das Arbeiten an der richtigen Sache oder das Ausführen von Tiefenarbeit dazu beiträgt, einen besseren Schlaf zu erzielen.

💡Sichere Umgebung

Eine sichere Umgebung ist ein Ort, an dem man sich geschützt und sicher fühlt. Im Video erwähnt der Sprecher, dass sein Schlaf in städtischen Umgebungen, wo er sich weniger sicher fühlte, schlechter war als in ländlichen Gebieten.

💡Klimaanlage

Eine Klimaanlage ist ein Gerät, das用于调节室内温度. Im Video betont der Sprecher die Wichtigkeit einer Klimaanlage für die Schlafqualität, besonders in den heißen Sommermonaten, und wie sie zu einem Komfortablen Schlafklima beiträgt.

💡Mundtape

Mundtape ist ein Material, das verwendet wird, um den Mund zu versiegeln, um eine nasale Atmung während des Schlafes zu erzwingen. Im Video erklärt der Sprecher, wie das Verwenden von Mundtape seine Atmung und damit seinen Schlaf verbessert hat.

💡Ohrstöpsel und Rauschen

Ohrstöpsel sind kleine Geräte, die verwendet werden, um Geräusche zu dämpfen, während Rauschen eine Methode ist, um einen konstanten Hintergrundklang zu erzeugen, um zu verhindern, dass Geräusche den Schlaf stören. Im Video verwendet der Sprecher diese beiden Tools, um seine Schlafqualität zu verbessern.

Highlights

Respekt vor Ihnen für den Klick auf diese unbearbeitete, lange Anleitung, die an Dopamin knapp liegt, anstatt auf kurze Clickbait-Videos.

Die sieben Dinge, die heute besprochen werden, haben wirklich einen Unterschied gemacht und spürbar Ergebnisse in der ersten Nacht gebracht.

Der Autor hat seit 2021 seine Schlafqualität verbessert und hat ein Protokoll entwickelt, das für ihn sehr gut funktioniert.

Das Lesen auf einem Kindle hilft dem Autor, schnell einzuschlafen, selbst wenn er nicht müde ist.

Der Autor nutzt seit 2021 einen Schlaftracker nicht mehr, da diese seine Schlafqualität verschlechtert haben.

Ein Eliminationsdiät kann dazu beitragen, die Schlafqualität zu verbessern, indem man nur bestimmte Nahrungsmittel zu sich nimmt.

Ein erfüllender Beruf kann die Schlafqualität erhöhen, da Menschen mit einem Ziel und einer abschließbaren Arbeit besser schlafen.

Eine sichere Umgebung ist entscheidend für einen guten Schlaf, insbesondere wenn man in städtischen Gebieten lebt.

Klimaanlage kann in heißen Monaten dazu beitragen, die Schlafqualität zu verbessern, indem sie die Temperatur im Schlafzimmer reguliert.

Mundtape fördert die Nasenatmung, was zu einer besseren Schlafqualität und einer besseren Gesichtskontur beiträgt.

Ohrstöpsel und weißer Rauschen können dazu beitragen, leichte Geräusche, die einen aus dem Schlaf wecken könnten, zu übertönen.

Morgensonne scheint für den Autor keine signifikante Verbesserung der Schlafqualität zu haben.

Meditation vor dem Schlafengehen hat für den Autor keine positiven Auswirkungen auf die Schlafqualität gehabt.

Gewichteeübungen oder Yoga vor dem Schlafengehen haben für den Autor keine verbessernde Wirkung auf die Schlafqualität.

Saunen oder kalte Duschen vor dem Schlafengehen haben für den Autor keine signifikante Verbesserung der Schlafqualität gebracht.

Die meisten Schlaftabletten und -zusätze, die der Autor ausprobiert hat, haben seine Schlafqualität verschlechtert.

Tee, einschließlich Kamillentee, hat für den Autor keine positiven Auswirkungen auf die Schlafqualität gehabt.

Transcripts

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let's begin this guide on how I improved

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my sleep let's go first of all respect

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to you for clicking on this unedited

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long guide which has low dopamine

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instead of all of the short clickbait

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videos that you could have clicked on

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because this is real education and as

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you know a lot of the YouTube videos

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even for self-improvement diet Health

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all of that stuff a lot of it's been

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made for the the uh Creator to just

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[ __ ] Yap and hopefully get views for

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their business rather than actually

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aligned to your results I'm just trying

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to make videos that get you a result and

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I'm hoping that that eventually becomes

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the trend and I get more views for this

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in the future but for now hopefully this

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makes you better at sleeping so here's

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the promise that I've got for you today

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I'll walk you through everything that

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actually worked for me in terms of

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improving my sleep because a lot of

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things just wasted time but the seven

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things we're going to talk about today

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genuinely made a difference on the first

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night you know how like you've heard

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from doctors like oh yeah this thing

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could help and this thing can make you

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healthier but you often don't really

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feel it these things I felt on the first

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night that it happened so I'm hoping

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that you'll literally be implementing

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some of these like tonight and you'll

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think oh [ __ ] like oh it really worked

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in like literally less than 24 hours of

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watching this video why should you

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listen to me well I've been improving my

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sleep since 2021 so it's been just under

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3 years now probably around 2 and 1/2

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years and I finally got a protocol that

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works really well for me I sleep

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amazingly with no problems I fall asleep

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very very quickly and I stay asleep till

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4:00 a.m. that's when I wake up so I

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wake up at about 4: and this is my my

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first ever or my sorry my second uh

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night ever tracked with a sleep tracker

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where you can see that it was just trash

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and this wasn't a special night I just

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showed you this see this graph up here

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you can see that relatively it's the

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same right I didn't particularly choose

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a special night where it was like

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particularly bad or anything this is

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really what my sleep used to be like

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there has real [ __ ] data to prove to

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you like my sleep efficiency was

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probably the lowest you've ever seen in

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anyone look at that I was in bed for

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just under 10 hours and I only got 5 and

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1/ half hours of sleep I used to wake up

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with anxi y nightmares sweats everything

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like weird [ __ ] I used to just have my

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sleep was terrible and now this was this

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year January this is one of the best

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days so I won't let see this is like not

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exactly of total outlier but obviously

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I've chose like a good day to show you

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where um I got the little crown and I

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got 84 sleep there so uh significant

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improvements uh one thing that I didn't

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write down which I just thought of and I

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might forget if I go forward the the

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thing of uh how I fall asleep fast in

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cases you're wondering is I read so I

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got a Kindle Amazon Kindle I put it on

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some of the lowest brightness and once

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I'm fully ready and I'm literally in bed

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eyes um lights off everything you know

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alarm set and everything with complete

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darkness I'll read on this till the

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point that my eyes will literally fall

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asleep that's when I press the power

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button and put this to the side that's

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my secret trip on how I fall asleep fast

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every single night with no fail even if

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I'm not feeling sleepy 10 minutes of me

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lying down reading this I'm out every

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single night it's perfect bro so if

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you're you're someone who struggles to

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fall asleep fast go give that a try

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reading not even trying to fall asleep

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like I genuinely want to read more and

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I'm like interested in the book but it

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just perfectly puts you to sleep so much

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more I don't know how people will get

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into bed and like go on their phone or

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like just try and sleep I've always done

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that and I've always slept so well so

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about me my name is Hamza my current

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mission is to educate 10 million men I'm

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basically learning out loud as I go

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through my own Journey so you can use

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what's helpful on my channel and let go

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of the rest subscribe to these uh

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educational guides to get the on your

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homepage instead of all the clickbait

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entertainment Style videos and also if

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I've already changed your life then what

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you can do is go leave a comment below

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right now with your story of how you got

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on to self-improvement because you might

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Inspire another guy you might end up

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getting a lot of likes and stuff which

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could be kind of fun the top Link in the

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description is my email list if you just

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go click that right now you can sign up

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and you get massive emails like this is

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cut off but it's massive emails like

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guides that I've written I've personally

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focused all that good stuff so if you

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enjoy reading you might want to go sign

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up to that let's begin so there's seven

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things that I've done to improve my

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sleep number one I stopped using sleep

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trackers number two Elimination Diet

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number three fulfilling work four safe

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environment five air conditioning six

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mouth tape seven earplugs and white

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noise let's go through them and we'll go

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through with stopped using sleep

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trackers getting an aura ring/ whoop

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tracker is probably the single thing

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that made my sleep worse you know know

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the single biggest like action that I

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took to to ruin my sleep was getting one

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of these trackers not because the

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tracker makes your sleep worse because

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I'm the kind of guy who obsesses over

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the data feels bad about it and then

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gets like you know psychologically

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[ __ ] up going to sleep and adding a

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lot of pressure to it so if you're

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anything like me you might not want to

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be tracking your sleep which I know that

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it's this cool little technology and

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it's so cool to like see the numbers and

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everything but it made my sleep worse

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for literally years so I got the aura

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ring at the end of 2021 and that's like

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before that point I always thought I

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slept fairly well because I had such

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good habits I didn't drink I didn't

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smoke I ate relatively clean I went to

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sleep at the same time every day and

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like all of that stuff so I always had

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the belief that I had pretty good sleep

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and the first night that I checked it

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and it was all red from that moment for

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over a year straight my sleep was trash

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but it kept on getting worse and worse

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because I was staring at it every single

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day it got to the point when I was

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waking up and the first thing I would do

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as my eyes opened was grabbing my phone

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and checking the app and basically like

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you know feeling fine but then the app

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says I didn't sleep well and then I'd be

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like oh yeah yeah yeah I haven't slept

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well so my testosterone is going to be

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lower today so I'm going to be weaker

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today so I shouldn't train today

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suddenly I start putting all these

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beliefs into my mind playing the story

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and as we know like if you've studied a

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lot of like psychological research the

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beliefs that we have in our mind

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actually create a real difference like

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there's people who are stressed who have

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high cortisol in their blood but they

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perform absolutely fine because they

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have the psychological belief that

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stress is good for them there's people

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who have the same level of stress but

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have the psychological belief that

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stress is unhealthy as we've been told

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and they're the ones who die earlier

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from the stress if we gave participants

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two milkshakes and we tell them okay

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this one is a healthy one which is 200

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calories and this one is a really

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unhealthy one with 700 calories and we

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analyze what happens to their blood

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sugar levels we would see exactly what

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we thought well yeah the the healthier

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calorie has healthier Shake has like a

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healthier impact on the body and the big

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fatty sugary Shake has a different

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impact it was the same milkshake there's

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literally studies that have proven like

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your psychological belief will change

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how many calories your body thinks it's

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just taken like this stuff like you you

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if you've never heard that before you

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probably think I'm bullshitting to go

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and search of like the milkshake calorie

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study or some [ __ ] by um alyia Kum I

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think it's [ __ ] this stuff is so

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interesting so basically these truckers

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make you a [ __ ] they make you wake up

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and go completely the opposite of like

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the David Goggins kind of mode what I

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wrote here is every great man in history

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was sleep deprived you'll be fine every

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great man in history didn't have a cute

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little tracker to like you know see his

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little cute little sleep score or

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something it's easier to maintain a

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powerful mindset of waking up and be

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like come on let's go get it let's train

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today even if I'm tired let's go train

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today without the data proving you wrong

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if you imagine the David gogin kind of

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mindset you wake up and you're like come

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on let's get after it let's go train oh

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I don't really feel like it doesn't

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matter let's go anyway your life will

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get better if you live like that rather

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than the vers like the limp dick version

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of you who wakes up and it's like let me

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just go check my my little data oh no

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like I I will be tired today that's like

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you're not going to feel like a strong

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man because of that and interestingly at

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least for me it didn't help me to

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improve my sleep it lowered my sleep

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down made me obsessed over it distracted

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me from more important things and then

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it my sleep only improved once I stopped

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using these trackers so if you're like

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me don't use them if you're way better

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at managing this this kind of stuff then

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by all means you can use them I've got

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friends who for example track and um

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look at the data and it doesn't affect

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them in the same way so you need to just

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figure out what kind of person you are

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but if you've already got one of these

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trackers and you check it like every day

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and it pisses you off you might be like

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me and you might just want to throw that

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[ __ ] off and never touch it again

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there's been a few times since I stopped

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using it that I put it on again and I

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caught myself doing the same [ __ ] and I

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was like you know what it's just not for

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me I just don't care it's not about the

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ability to track it's about if you

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actually get the real result of

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improving your sleep not just tracking

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it not just thinking that you know

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tracking it is a good thing is your

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sleep getting better since the point you

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got one of these trackers if the answer

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is not a very very clear yes cut it out

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of your life now we'll move on to the

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Elimination Diet this is the only things

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that I eat I eat meat I eat eggs cheese

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honey dark chocolate protein powder and

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I usually have one banana a day inside

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of a protein shake that I have at the

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gym and I've never felt better in my

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life I seem to need to sleep less whilst

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on this diet compared to previous high

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carb days so basically this is only

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thing I eat right every now and then if

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I go on holiday or something yeah sure

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I'll eat whatever I want but this is

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literally almost every day of the month

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this is what I'm eating there's nothing

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else I'm not eating bread I'm not eating

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pasta I'm not eating rice I'm not eating

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vegetables I'm not eating most fruits or

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anything and this has made me feel

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fantastic basically I started with the

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elimination diets just eating meat on

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the carnivore diet and I added in one

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ingredient at a time and I've still feel

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relatively fine so I feel awesome on

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this you might not so you can experiment

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if you want it's a little bit scary when

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you first just start eating meat and

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nothing else because you're like wait

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all of the the fat doctors told me that

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you know meat is really bad and

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vegetables are really important and

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stuff but then the fat doctors also told

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us that cigarettes were healthy that

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salt was unhealthy so that that's why I

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personally don't trust like whatever the

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governments and the doctors say I am my

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own experiments and I'll go and like be

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the guinea pig and see what happens

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so I seem to sleep need to sleep less

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previously I was in bed for 10 hours now

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I'm in bed for about like 8 8 and a half

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so I've just saved like 1 and 1 half

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hours a night and I seem to get more

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sleep inside of that anyway also one of

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the amazing things is I haven't needed

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to get up for a piss in the night for

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months like for for as long as I can

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remember and I'm sure that carbs relate

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to this so I'm I'm on a very low carb

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diet I probably have like 20 G of carbs

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a day almost like like probably a little

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bit more than what guys on keto will

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have because I have like a teaspoon of

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honey which is probably about 10 G and

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banana is probably about 20 um but being

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on this low carb diet I haven't needed

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to get up in the middle of the night

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you'll be surprised so if you right now

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are someone who gets up in the night to

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go to the toilet it could be because

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you're on higher carbs than you should

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be and if you just lower the carbs just

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try it for like 2 days and just see what

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happens or or maybe a few days to you

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know kind of get accustomed to it you

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might just find that you like sleep

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through the night and also you you wake

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up earlier but you actually feel kind of

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energetic so I've saved time and my

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sleep inside of the less time is

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actually better as well and also this is

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the nice one for the boys since getting

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onto this diet I got my morning wood

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back so when I turned about 21 years old

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I just stopped getting morning wood and

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I thought that was like what you know it

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was supposed to be like I just stopped

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it especially when I got into business

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and I had more of this energy towards

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business instead of you know that horny

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teenager lifestyle I just didn't get

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morning wood for years like it it was

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almost like a rare thing for me to get

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my dick still work like if I was about

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to have sex I was still absolutely fine

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but I just didn't get morning wood I

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researched it online and everyone was

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talking about like oh yeah it's not

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exactly like testosterone you're not

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really supposed to get it because it's

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if you wake up in the middle of the Rems

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no no no no no stop this [ __ ] sciency

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[ __ ] just if you've got high

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testosterone and you're a healthy man

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you'll get morning wood it's simple as

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that if you don't have morning wood it's

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because something's wrong don't go and

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look at all this intellectual research

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where people will say actually it's

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because of no no no shut the [ __ ] up if

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your testosterone's high enough if

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you're healthy enough you're going to

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get morning wood if you're not getting

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morning wood if you want to give this

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diet a try for a few days just eat

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exactly what's on this list and nothing

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more just for a few days and just see

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what happens because you might be

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surprised that like you need to be in

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bed for about 7 and 1 half hours so you

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saved a few hours a night your sleep

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efficiency is way better and you wake up

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with like a [ __ ] like rock heart like

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like teenager level dick bro like I'll

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have sex and literally still the next

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day I wake up with a massive [ __ ]

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um [ __ ]

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like next one is fulfilling work this is

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an interesting one isn't it I always

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seem to feel uh to sleep better when I'm

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fulfilled with my work and there is

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evidence to prove this that people who

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have purpose in fulfilling work are

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naturally going to feel healthier and

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obviously this could be like a

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correlation that if you've if you're the

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kind of person who has fulfilling work

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then you probably are healthier and

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eating better as well because if you've

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got fulfilling work then you probably

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you know higher up in society and

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whatever so that could definitely be a

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thing but I think most people are simply

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either not working hard enough everyone

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thinks they work hard but like most

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people aren't actually working hard at

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all or I'd say the more common thing is

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on the right things like if you're let's

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let's say I'm assuming you're like a

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student if you're watching this right

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you're in University or some [ __ ] or uh

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in high school or um maybe you're out

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out of the education system but you're

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like working in some job you don't like

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imagine like working all day inside a

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place you don't like that you don't want

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to be in and then it's like night time

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and you're going to sleep thinking like

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wait I haven't even like done anything

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for my own real goals I didn't want to

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be in school I didn't want to be in

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University I didn't want to be in this

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[ __ ] job that I go work at so of

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course you're going to have some weird

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[ __ ] up sleep if you don't have

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fulfilling work because your body is

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literally telling you like get the [ __ ]

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up and do something that actually

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matters school doesn't matter University

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doesn't matter my this career this job

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that I'm in doesn't matter there's a

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mission that we have inside of us that

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we are supposed to like go and create

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and work on and when you don't work on

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that mission especially as a man of

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found that you you start getting really

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weird energy like really like like dark

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kind of disgusting energy it's like it's

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very repulsive to be around for other

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men and for especially for women as well

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and it's also almost disgusting for you

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to be around so when you live like this

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you often need to go and distract

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yourself with stimulation and like

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watching videos like this pretending to

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learn instead of actually doing the real

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[ __ ] work like this is my fulfilling

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work but often I think so many young

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people basically they just come on

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[ __ ] just that that's it the reason

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why is because you're not working on the

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right things the reason why I will look

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you in the eyes and call you a [ __ ] is

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because you're not being authentic

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you're being a [ __ ] because your daddy

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and mommy told you what to do with your

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life you don't want to do that thing

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maybe it's University whatever it is and

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you're doing it anyway you're doing it

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because you're afraid of having an

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argument with your

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parents the thing thing that you don't

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get in your mind right now is that

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you're probably having arguments with

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them anyway about other

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things think about that just for a

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second you're trading years of your life

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to go and live the life that other

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people expect of you instead of your own

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life which by the way is the number one

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most common regret of dying old

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people and you're just willing to spend

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years doing what someone else tells you

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which you know inside is not right

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so can you blame me when I look you in

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the eyes and call you a

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[ __ ] I'm looking at my 21-year-old self

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and calling him a [ __ ] as

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well it's a disgrace to go and spend

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years of your life living aligned to

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someone else's values and not your own

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because you're so much of a coward to

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disobey your parents because you're

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scared that they'll shout at you they're

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probably going to shout at you for other

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[ __ ] anyway like like your parents

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having arguments with you is not going

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to change that's the kind of people are

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so they're going to have arguments with

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you if you don't pursue your dreams for

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other [ __ ] or they're going to have

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arguments with you if you do pursue your

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dreams so you may as well just [ __ ]

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pursue your dreams if the arguments are

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going to stay consistent no matter what

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you choose anyway right so first of all

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go and do the thing that you know you

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need to go and do so maybe that's

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business maybe that's a certain career

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maybe that's a certain music or art or

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whatever or sport or whatever it is go

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all in on that if you have to [ __ ]

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jump out of your window to go out like

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like I I was speaking to uh a

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17-year-old guy and he was telling me

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like his parents are forcing him to go

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to university but he wants to become a

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professional MMA fighter and I told him

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like bro go and make the money by

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yourself go work some job in secret tell

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them you were at the school studying lie

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to your parents if you have to this is

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it's it's sad advice that I have to give

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to lie lying is never good right but

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sometimes like some parents are just so

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ignorant that they won't listen to this

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so I said to him literally like like he

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he said you know there'll be problems

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they won't let me go and train I said

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what if you literally just broke out of

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your window what if you like opened your

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window and like found a way to like you

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know safely climb out and go to training

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imagine that story for yourself imagine

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being 10 years later and you've actually

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had like a few professional fights

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you're doing well in like you know he

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wanted to be an MMA fighter right and

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imagine being able to tell that story of

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like I had to jump out of my [ __ ]

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window and I still went to training my

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parents didn't drive me to the gym I had

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to run like 7 miles to get there and I

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still went to the training holy [ __ ] the

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amount of self-love and respect that you

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would have for yourself if you had that

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kind of story imagine saying to yourself

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like I have the strictest parents who

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were putting this much force and every

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single day I pretended that I was going

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to University when actually I would just

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sit in the library or the cafe and just

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work on my business now I've retired my

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family now they believe in me it's very

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important so many young people are

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living aligned to their parents'

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expectations but their parents quite

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frankly are not very intelligent

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educated or knowledgeable people if your

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if your father is a lot more successful

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and happy in life and and everything

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then then Me by all means go ahead but

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most of the people who are stuck like

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the young people who are stuck in this

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situation it's with like quite lower

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class unintelligent not very hardworking

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alcoholic stressed out sleep-deprived

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parents who don't even have good

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judgment and you're listening to their

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advice for for your life when you're

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actually like more knowledgeable on the

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world because you've actually studied

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and watched things like this so it's I I

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won't get into this more at hand but

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this is actually one of the most common

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problems of young people today is just

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like living your life aligned to what

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Daddy and me tell you to do and

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sometimes you need a pair of [ __ ]

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balls to look them in the eyes and say

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nope not doing it or you know what even

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smarter than that cuz that that sounds

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cool but the way I would personally do

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this is look them in the eyes and be

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like yeah yeah yeah yeah I will do it

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and then [ __ ] lie and go and do the

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thing you were going to do anyway they

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they pressure you oh yeah yeah you're

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going to University you're you're like

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yep yep yep y I'll go apply for it right

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now on the website and then you don't

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[ __ ] apply yeah yeah oh sorry I I

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forgot to apply I'll do it right now

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I'll do it right now you go and work on

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your business again they say wait wait

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you know it's been too late you you've

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missed the deadline you're like oh yeah

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like I can't believe I forgot oh I'll

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try and apply anyway I'll just go next

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year you just just [ __ ] play them I

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know this sounds [ __ ] horrible I know

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I sound like a like an idiot like dark

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kind of person telling you this to

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disobey your parents but if your parents

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are the kind of people who are literally

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forcing you to live their dream of you

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because they aren't happy with their

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life they're not people to be listening

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to and this is the number one constraint

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of you finding fulfilling work there's a

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phrase that I like that I want to share

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with you right now live as if your

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father were

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dead that's what you need to do I'm very

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very lucky that after University I

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didn't have any more of this I came back

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home after

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University after being almost suicidal

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for for months having after trying to

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conquer a weird addiction that had me in

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in the weird [ __ ] negative mental

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health for months and months and months

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I came back home with a shaven head like

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military style routine waking up earlier

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than my father and when they asked me

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like what I want to do with with my life

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I looked them in the eyes and said I'm

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going to be a YouTuber and they actually

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believed me and supported me with that

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if they

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didn't I'd probably be the one consuming

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content right now I don't say that to be

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condescending but sometimes you have to

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like speak with some [ __ ] conviction

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with some balls and tell tell even your

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parents like how it's going to be

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because this has to be your life the

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number one you can go and Google this

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right now if you want number one regret

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of dying old people just go and Google

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that living a life aligned to other

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people's expectations and not a life of

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their own that's [ __ ] so sad

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basically like just spending years of

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your life living for someone else that's

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so [ __ ] sad so when you are working

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on the right thing you will sleep better

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and then if you have the right thing

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then if you work harder on that thing

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you'll sleep even better so first we've

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got the right thing which is about your

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purpose your mission your authentic

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values not being a [ __ ] and and just

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doing whatever your daddy tells you but

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choosing the thing that's right for you

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then we have working hard on the right

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thing which is like deep work for

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example not getting distracted waking up

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early and grinding away at the task it's

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6:00 a.m. right now this is the second

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video the second guide that I'm making

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today I woke up at 4:00 a.m. so I

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literally have like this [ __ ] like

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like zest for Life think about it it's

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6: a.m. and I've already done more work

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than most people will today at 6:00 a.m.

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most people aren't even awake just yet

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the old version of me would wake up like

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8:00 a.m. I already finish my work for

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the day by the time me from 2019 wakes

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up so wake up early smash off the big

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important tasks no procrastination just

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shut the [ __ ] up get to the computer

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[ __ ] grind it out it's not going to

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feel easy there's days where it feels

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easy and you can just sit down and do it

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most of the time it's like you've got to

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almost meditate back onto the task and

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bring yourself there bring yourself

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there bring yourself there and along

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with that monk mode is more like the

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macro season of life that you're in

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maybe for a few weeks or a few months

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where you're deciding okay I'm going to

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go extreme on this one goal like for

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example scaling up my business getting

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it to 5 or 10K a month with this one

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Focus I'm going to sacrifice as much as

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possible outside of that you live like

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this and you'll have so much fulfillment

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through the day like so much like you

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really have felt like damn like I gave

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it my all today I put it I left it all

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on the field today you will sleep better

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if you're not sleeping well this might

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be your major reason why I feel like a

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lot of young guys are just either not

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working on the right thing or they're

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just not working hard enough so we've

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covered that now let's talk about the

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safe environment this is the hammer that

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I kept next to my bed when I lived in

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London I personally get anxious quite a

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lot especially in cities and when I'm

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anxious I have way worse sleep I get

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nightmares I'm always like prepared to

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get like attacked in the night and

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everything I literally have like weapons

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ready like like some scary [ __ ] Bro

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literally and and um when I live in

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rural places I sleep much better and I

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basically have no anxiety and I sleep

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really well so when I moved to London in

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2022 I had really bad anxiety I saw

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people getting robbed like right outside

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of my apartment and everything what's

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interesting is after that I moved to

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Dubai which is generally a pretty safe

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place but even in Dubai I had really bad

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anxiety of the same exact kind of

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anxiety which if if you know about Dubai

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you'd be like wait that's weird it's a

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very safe place to be and um I think

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it's just the city thing because cities

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are just really unnatural like just do

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this for a second right IM the cavan

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version of you the caveman version of

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you imagine him trying to relax in a

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city of millions of

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strangers like our city is not some

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weird like weird thing that all of us

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are pretending is somewhat normal but

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when you think about it it's one of the

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most unnatural things that could

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possibly occur a bunch of strangers who

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you have not vetted to be a part of your

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tribe to be friendly we're just walking

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next to them putting ourselves into

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vulnerable positions next to them and

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trying to like pretend that that's

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normal is it am I the weird one who

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doesn't feel completely safe in a city

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because I seem weird right there's so

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many people who will walk through the

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city all fine and you know little girls

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will I'm almost 200 [ __ ] pounds I've

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like I've done hundreds of hours of

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martial arts I can fight I can wrestle I

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can punch and stuff you know if there's

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some crackhead with a knife or some guy

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who's trained longer than me yeah fine

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but against like the general public bro

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I'm absolutely fine right I'm absolutely

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fine am I the weird one who feels like

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you know slightly unsafe in cities or is

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it everyone else now I'm sure that

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people will say oh yeah it's everyone

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else I'm the weird one I am like

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probably kind of weird but I'm pretty

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sure it's not me I'm sure it's the

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[ __ ] world I just think that think

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about that concept of like where our

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brain and our nervous system is no

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different from our caveman days imagine

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our caveman just suddenly being put into

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the middle of a city and everyone acting

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like it's normal like that's that's

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strange strangers weren't really a

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concept when you think about it as a

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caveman times like and our brain and

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body hasn't changed that much from these

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days if there was a stranger over there

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very quickly we would identify Friend or

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Foe because we had to right very quickly

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with no these days we're surrounded by

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strangers who we don't identify as

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Friend or Foe we just keep them as

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strangers as neutral no wonder so much

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so many guys have got anxiety for this

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because it's so abnormal to have people

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who are strangers or neutral next to you

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and not Friend or Foe because you've not

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been able to identify that and we just

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act as if that's fine but like is it

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fine because the kind of people who seem

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to be fine in cities are almost like

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those Bots like NPCs who for example

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like if some chaotic [ __ ] was happening

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they'd be like getting seeking comfort

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in their phone instead of actually

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[ __ ] living life and watching out of

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like whatever the [ __ ] happening in

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this environments so for me personally I

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really enjoy going to cities because

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there's a lot of stimulation there

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there's a lot of girls there there's a

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lot of parties there's a lot of like

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podcasts that I can go on and all these

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interesting things there restaurants

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everything so I like to go into cities

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for like a few days a month but mostly I

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like living in more of like a rural

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place which has got like more

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countryside I don't like being deep in

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the countrys where you're far away from

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everything I thought I would have liked

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that but then I found that very boring

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so I I'm like in like a good mix where

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I'm like 30 minutes from a major city

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but I've got a lot of green around me

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I've got Parks I've got a couple of

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schools around me I've got a like a

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brilliant gym 2 three minute drive for

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me so I'm in like a really good place

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where like there's so much green we have

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a big back garden and everything but um

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it's not a city like like I live in a

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city but I live like 5 miles away from

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like the um the Town Center or something

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so like I'm I'm fine basically uh I

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sleep really well in this environment

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that I'm currently in maybe this is

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something you want to consider um

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especially for like bigger decisions

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like if you're getting to the age where

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you might be moving out of your parents'

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home soon just try and like bear this in

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mind what I would suggest is if you are

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a young guy it's probably better if you

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do move to a city like if you're young

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like 20 years old it doesn't make sense

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for you to move to like the country or

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something because um you will get a lot

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more opportunity if you go and spend

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time in the city so just bear that in

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mind so then the next thing is air

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conditioning so we're getting into the

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summer months of the UK and it gets

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brutally hot here by the way you might

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have thought like wait you know UK is

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always gray and raining UK weather is

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really weird we just we have quite like

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a quite extreme Summers where uh through

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the year it's quite cold and stuff and

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you know you deal with it but through

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the summer it gets uncomfortably hot

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because the houses here have been made

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to trap the heat in for the cold times

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in the last like 10 15 years of UK we've

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had heat waves where it's painfully hot

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to exist here and so it's basically like

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needed to buy air conditioning it's so

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needed the people who don't buy this

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kind of stuff they just struggle with

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their sleep for months and just kind of

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like deal with it because yeah you know

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it's like it's bloody bloody boiling

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around here right so you can literally

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Buy portable air conditioning units that

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are fairly like fairly affordable

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obviously it's not going to be super

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cheap for like you know a big unit like

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this but you could save up for a while

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and buy this for you and your family

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I've got one in my my room right here

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like just this little white thing right

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there and basically it's so easy to use

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like I thought it'd be so difficult cuz

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it looks like oh what what's all this

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[ __ ] basically you get the big big unit

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here you got the normal plug you just

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plug it in turn it on done then you

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press the button and it's on then what

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you just do is you have a pipe like um

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this pipe

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here like this that's it you you have

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that pipe and all you need to do is just

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stick that out of your window that's it

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just because that's where the hot air

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will be be sent out that the exhaust

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will be sent out so we've got the cold

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there coming in and the the pipe goes

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out so I it looked complicated for me

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and I was like ah can't be us setting it

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up and everything you literally just

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turn it on grab the pipe put it out of

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your window that's it it's like

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literally 10 seconds and you can even

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have it sticking out of your window

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permanently I just don't because I like

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having the the window free that I can

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actually like use it for other things

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like I like like I don't know why but I

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like like just kind of like standing

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there at the window sometimes just like

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doing that and I don't want the pipe in

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the way and um you I don't sleep well

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with without this in the summertime so

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this is huge for the investment like for

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the price absolutely worth it if it

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improves your sleep by like 10% it's

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paid for itself within like what 10

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nights 20 nights and it's something that

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you literally use like I bought mine

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last year and I still use the same one

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without you know having any problems or

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anything now I've actually look here's

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the thing I'm I'm a successful

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businessman so I've spent tens of

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thousands of dollars on sleep and I've

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bought some of the topend temperature

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controll mattresses which are thousands

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of dollars basically I've bought

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something that you like put over your

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mattress that is AI controlled that

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analyzes your temperature to perfectly

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to make it perfect for the optimum sleep

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I've got like weird like like very

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specific um high-end sleep devices and

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they're actually way worse than this so

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the one I've got that I did have I've

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got it in my other room it's called

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Eight sleep and the other one there was

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another one as I think it's called like

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sleep me or something like eight sleep

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didn't deliver to Dubai when I moved

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there so when I was in Dubai I ordered

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it from some other website like some

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other company and what I would suggest

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is I would suggest not actually getting

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one of these temperature controlled

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mattresses because they're just way more

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[ __ ] there was so many nights where my

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sleep was disturbed because I had to go

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onto the app in the middle of the night

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and change the settings or something

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they're 10 times more expensive they're

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all around

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£3,000 and this is just so easy you

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press one button look if I press this

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one button right now it's on that's it

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it's on and it's at the the temperature

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which I had last night which feels all

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let me turn it off

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actually it's on at the the temperature

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that I had it on last night I slept fine

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through the night didn't feel warm

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didn't feel too cold it set with this

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like temperature control you know you're

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getting to the next level and it's so

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cool oh yet it's it's with AI it just

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[ __ ] up like so often you'd be so

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surprised of how much this kind of

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Technology [ __ ] where like in the

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middle of the night randomly it'll be on

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likeus 10 like it'll be [ __ ] freezing

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and literally as if like your Skin's

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like [ __ ] reason I'll wake up what

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the [ __ ] is this and it's like for some

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reason it calculated that I was like

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really hot so that it should make it

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super super cold I'm like it's [ __ ]

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like like 1:00 a.m. and I'm just awake

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now it it was just so annoying to use

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them they're massive bulky um to

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transport and everything as all massive

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super expensive I would not be using

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them like basically for as long as I can

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think now maybe I'll end up changing my

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mind at some point but just this

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portable unit £200 you can see here very

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very good investment very good you might

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not be able to afford this just yet it's

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one of those things that when you start

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working or when you start making money

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in your business then I really would

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like vouch for any one of these whatever

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I I don't know which one I got just all

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of them seem to be the same for

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me the next thing is mouth tape I have

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some uh where is it I have the oh yeah I

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have the roll right here I heard about

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this in the book oxygen Advantage years

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ago be before it became popular like

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it's become popular recently and people

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have like commercialized it and made

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like expensive mouth tape um I wouldn't

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recom I I've never used any of the

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expensive ones so I wouldn't tell you I

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can't imagine there any like really that

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difference this is called micro po tape

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you can have this look here it's not the

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brand it's like the style basically this

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is like surgical tape that's completely

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safe to use on your skin because

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surgeons literally use this themselves

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and you can literally just go search

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that on Amazon micro Port tape and it's

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genuinely like I don't know like uh $1

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for for it and it lasts ages for this

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role and all you do is you take a piece

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of it like uh I've got a piece here you

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take a piece of it and you put it on

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your lips kind of like the thumbnail for

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this video like here's a piece and you

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just put it on your lips and it since

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it's

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like see it comes off as very easily so

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you never don't be worried that like a

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it'll um it'll suffocate you this is how

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easy it comes off

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look that's it so it's not it's not like

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a hard duct tape or anything you can see

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it's like a very flimsy like like very

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very thin piece of tape the reason why

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we put this on is because it guides your

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lips to be closed and so naturally

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you'll breathe through your nose you

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might not believe this but like imagine

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the slightest bit of resistance for your

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lips will automatically force your body

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to to breathe through through your nose

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it's so so amazing so most people

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actually breathe through their mouth now

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when they sleep because of things like

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we eat really soft food we've got toxins

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in our environments we're all quite

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unhealthy you know all that kind of

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stuff and so so many people breathe

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through their mouth which means that

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they're getting like I was going to say8

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hour but most people sleep a lot less

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than that they're getting like 5 and 1

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half hours of mouth breathing which is

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destroying their jawline their

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attractiveness their sleep their health

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because mouth breathing is very

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unhealthy for you so I uh

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basically [ __ ] hell look at

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that so basically you want to be

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breathing from your nose as much as

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possible and this is a free way or a $1

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way to get another like 8 hours of nasal

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breathing of of mewing for free so it's

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[ __ ] awesome so the way it works is

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you order this on Amazon just whatever

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brand this isn't the micro I don't

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believe is the or it might be I don't

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know but um I'm not affiliated there's

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no links in the description or anything

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but basically just buy this take a tiny

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piece stick it on your lips at night

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time what you'll find is the first week

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two weeks months that you do this it'll

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be so uncomfortable that you have to

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take it off within like a minute like I

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remember when I first used to do this I

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almost used to like literally like be

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holding my breath cuz I could barely

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breathe through my nose and I always

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have like a stuffy nose and you probably

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relate to that you'll be thinking like

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oh no I can't use this because my nose

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get stuffy no that's the point when you

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have a stuffy nose the cure to like

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always having a stuffy nose is to keep

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breathing from your nose breathing from

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your mouth makes it worse but you might

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think oh but how can I breathe from my

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nose cuz my nose is blocked B it's it's

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so hard to explain but it's like however

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much you can breathe from your nose is

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how much your body is telling you to

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breathe from your nose it's it sounds so

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counterintuitive but basically you need

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to go through that feeling of air hunger

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of almost like suffocating because

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you're not getting enough air that's

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almost like quite a a healthy thing to

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experience this book will explain it a

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lot better than I can cuz it's all

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sciency and [ __ ] and I I only know the

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basics but like it's actually kind of

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healthy for you to experience that

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feeling of air hunger so don't be too

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scared of that you you um basically just

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get the tape tape it over your mouth you

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might have to take it off after a few

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minutes so what I used to do is I would

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rip off multiple pieces of the tape and

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just stick it onto like the bedside

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table so that I could like Fast reload

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after I had to like you know rip it off

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cuz I needed a few minutes to breathe

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properly and now I have the same tape on

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all night which is a really cool like

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weird achievement that like I have the

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same mouth tape piece all night every

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single night I never need to rip it off

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I could keep it on 24/7 and I have

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perfect nasal breathing because of that

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you'll also get a better jawline because

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you're basically just doing free meu for

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like hours when you have this and I

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always take some tape with me when I

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travel don't overlook this because this

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this is a $1 way and it's it doesn't

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require any time or anything for you to

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improve your sleep so it's such an easy

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method that you can just use right

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now the final thing we'll be covering is

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earplugs and white noise the smallest

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sound would wake me up and make me feel

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anxious even if I knew it was like my

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family closing doors downstairs so I

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used to sleep in silence without the air

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conditioner you know just like sleeping

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like normal people and there'd be like

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random noises every now and then that

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I'd wake up and be like Oh pissed off

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you know my my sister closed the door

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downstairs with too hard or something

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and if you relate to that if you a

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little bit sensitive to the sound as I

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might be white noise and air plugs will

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really help you so the air conditioning

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unit that I previously mentioned is

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basically my white noise machine because

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it's a little bit loud you hear like

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this like kind of fan noise and I also

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stick on air plugs as well and I travel

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with these uh I just buy like a bunch of

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these boxes these ones if you want to

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buy the same brand and um yeah and I

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travel with these as well

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you might be wondering why white noise

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why do we have this machine like why is

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that even a thing why do you sleep

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better because it keeps a high Baseline

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of noise next to you so that random

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sounds will be harder for you to hear so

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if you've never woken up because of like

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a of a random sound then that's fine but

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um I have a lot and so this makes it

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harder for me to wake up because of like

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my sister closing the door or someone

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else speaking or whatever because I go

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to sleep really really early I go to

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sleep at about 700 p.m. 7: 30 p.m. and I

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wake up at about 4:00 and so obviously

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my family is still awake at that time

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and uh this helps me to stay asleep

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during that so we've covered the seven

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things that I've done that really

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improve my sleep and I just want to

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quickly go over the stuff that I did try

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but that didn't improve my sleep but

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could do for you but like I just want to

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talk about this so morning sunlight is

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something that huberman Andrew huberman

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he Hypes up a lot and I had even tracked

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this as well with data that like I got

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morning sunight particularly for 10

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minutes 15 minutes 20 minutes to see the

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impact it would have on my sleep and

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guess what the data said it said that my

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sleep got 1% worse by doing this so I

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don't think that morning sunlight makes

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your sleep worse it would you know seem

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absurd for that to be the case but it's

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not it didn't have an impact on my sleep

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so it's like I still do it because it's

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relatively healthy and it's just kind of

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like nice to like look outside of my

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window with a cup of coffee when the

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sunrise and everything so it's still

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nice but it's not something that I

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personally preach because it didn't

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really make much of a difference for me

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likewise meditation before bed used to

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uh make my sleep worse I used to find

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that I was way more present and awake

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when I would meditate if I just tried to

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meditate before bed yoga before bed I

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did this when I moved to ble and I was

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training there and um my sleep still was

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kind of [ __ ] up so I didn't think it

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made a big significant difference sauna

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before bed same thing shower before bed

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hot and cold didn't make that much of a

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difference every supplement I tried most

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supplements I tried seem to make my

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sleep worse like maybe it was a

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psychological thing but when I would try

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a new sleep supplement that like you

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know these uh scientists podcasters

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Andrew humman they'd mention all these

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different like sleep supplements oh you

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can take this thing and this thing and

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this thing and get it all and um often

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that night of sleep was often way worse

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like it always was and so I take no

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supplements before bedtime I don't take

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any kind of sleep supplements not a

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single one has helped me including tea

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as well tea chamomile tea all this kind

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of stuff didn't help me at all the seven

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things that we covered are the only

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things that I found that have actually

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helped me and each one is actually like

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very important I was going to try and

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spot out which one was like you know the

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powerful one but honestly each and every

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one really helped me to improve my sleep

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so I try and suggest all seven to give

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it a try for maybe a few days each and

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see which one seems to work for you the

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promise I made you at the start of this

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video was that I'll walk you through

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everything that actually worked for me

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because a lot of stuff waste time and

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these are the seven things that actually

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made a difference and we've done that I

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fulfilled the promise and so the last

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