She'll never respect you if you keep doing these 3 things

Summary

This video explores three critical mistakes that men often make in relationships, which can cause them to lose a woman's respect. First, the importance of distinguishing between seeking advice and approval is discussed, emphasizing that men should lead with their own decisions, not based on fear of a woman's reaction. Second, the video highlights how expecting rejection from a woman can diminish a man's confidence. Finally, leaning on a woman for emotional support too soon can backfire if trust and respect haven't been fully established. The overall message is about maintaining strength, leadership, and high standards in relationships.

Takeaways

• 😀 A woman’s respect is crucial to maintaining her connection and the relationship itself. Losing respect is a quick way to lose the woman.
• 😀 Distinguish between seeking advice and seeking approval. Women appreciate being asked for advice, but they don't respect men who seek constant validation.
• 😀 Making decisions based on fear of upsetting a woman instead of your values makes you predictable and easily manipulated. Women notice this and it reduces their respect for you.
• 😀 If a woman opposes your decision (e.g., choosing between the movies and the pool), stand firm and lead. Don’t let her take control by default.
• 😀 If you want to go somewhere and she suggests something else, be respectful but assert your own choice. This shows leadership and strengthens her respect for you.
• 😀 Never make decisions based on a woman’s happiness or approval. Your choices should reflect your own desires and values, not your need for her approval.
• 😀 If a woman seems to reject you (e.g., not replying to messages), don’t dwell on it or talk about it. This is a test of your confidence, not a reason to doubt yourself.
• 😀 Women often test your confidence by acting uninterested or aloof early on. Don’t let this affect your self-esteem. Show that you remain unaffected and strong.
• 😀 Don't tolerate toxic or manipulative behavior, even if it's subtle. Setting boundaries is essential to attracting high-quality women who align with your values.
• 😀 Leaning on a woman for emotional support too early in the relationship can backfire. You need to establish trust and respect before showing vulnerability.
• 😀 Vulnerability should come after proving your strength. A woman needs to see your strength before you're allowed to open up emotionally without losing attraction.

Q & A

Why is seeking approval from a woman damaging to a relationship?

Seeking approval instead of advice can make a man appear insecure and dependent, causing the woman to lose respect for him. Women respect men who make decisions based on their values, not out of fear of upsetting her.

How can a man ask for advice from a woman without seeking approval?

A man should ask for advice with the intent to hear her opinion, not to confirm whether his actions will please her. His decisions should be based on his values and not on her happiness.

What happens when a man makes decisions based on a woman's reaction?

When a man makes decisions based on a woman’s reaction, he loses his independence and becomes predictable. This makes him easier to manipulate and erodes the respect she has for him.

What is the significance of leadership in a relationship?

Leadership in a relationship is crucial for maintaining respect. When a man asserts his preferences and stands by his decisions, it shows strength and confidence, which is attractive to women.

What should a man do when a woman rejects his suggestion, like going to the movies?

The man should stand by his choice and assert his preference, such as saying he wants to go to the movies. If she insists on her choice, he should respectfully say he prefers his option and go alone, which reinforces his leadership.

How does focusing on a woman’s rejection affect a man’s attraction?

Focusing on rejection, such as a delayed reply or a picture with another man, makes a man appear insecure. Women test a man's confidence, and when he reacts emotionally or insecurely, it diminishes his attractiveness.

What is the golden rule when dealing with rejection from a woman?

The golden rule is to remember that women often create a facade of rejection to test a man's confidence. Men should remain confident and not engage in discussions about the rejection, as doing so only signals insecurity.

What are the potential consequences of being emotionally vulnerable too soon in a relationship?

If a man reveals his vulnerabilities too early, especially before establishing trust and attraction, it can cause the woman to perceive him as weak. This may lead her to test him further or even push him away.

Why is emotional strength important in the early stages of a relationship?

Emotional strength is important because it helps a man maintain his independence and confidence. Women are attracted to men who show resilience and don’t rely on them for emotional support until a strong foundation has been established.

How can setting boundaries influence the type of woman a man attracts?

Setting clear boundaries signals to the world that a man knows what he wants and will not tolerate toxic behavior. This helps him attract high-quality women who respect his standards, instead of manipulative or controlling women.