Women HATE men who show INTENT or admiration for them (DESTROYS SEDUCTION)

Casey Zander
27 Nov 202321:31

Summary

TLDRThe video script delves into the dynamics of dating, emphasizing the importance of indirect seduction and pre-selection to attract women without showing overt intent. It discusses how men often make mistakes by being too direct, needy, or overly admiring of a woman's beauty, which can signal low value. The speaker shares insights on maintaining mystery and patience to keep a woman's interest over time, and explains the role of masculine and feminine communication styles in dating. The key takeaway is to adopt a masculine indifference while allowing women to express their feminine intent, fostering a balance that can lead to successful relationships.

Takeaways

  • πŸ˜€ Women are attracted to men who display intent, love, admiration, and respect for them.
  • πŸ” Using indirect seduction techniques can help men gain psychological leverage in dating interactions.
  • πŸ’¬ Men should avoid showing direct intent towards women early in dating to signal pre-selection and high value.
  • πŸ—£οΈ Vocal tone, subcommunication, and choice of words are powerful tools for men to demonstrate pre-selection.
  • ⏰ Men should be patient and extend time delays in communication to maintain a woman's interest over the long term.
  • 🚫 Avoiding needy or emotional tones in communication is crucial as it can signal low value and a lack of options.
  • πŸ“± Consistent and prompt communication can be perceived as intent, which may turn women off if done excessively early in the relationship.
  • πŸ’” Expressing admiration solely for a woman's beauty can signal that a man is easily won over and is focused only on physical attraction.
  • πŸ€” Women appreciate men who have depth and can't be easily figured out, encouraging a slower unveiling of oneself in a relationship.
  • πŸ’‘ Understanding the dynamics of masculine and feminine communication is key to attracting and maintaining a woman's interest.

Q & A

  • What does the speaker suggest is the key to gaining leverage in dating interactions with women?

    -The speaker suggests that displaying intent, love, admiration, and respect for women can give men leverage in dating interactions. However, it's crucial to do this without showing overt intent that might cause her to lose desire and respect.

  • What is 'pre-election' in the context of dating advice given in the script?

    -'Pre-election' refers to signaling that other women are already interested in you or potentially could be, which can make you more attractive to the woman you're interacting with.

  • How can a man demonstrate 'pre-election' without being a celebrity or having a large social media following?

    -A man can demonstrate 'pre-election' through vocal tone, sub-communication, and the words he uses, which are indirect forms of seduction that signal desirability without direct intent.

  • Why does showing direct intent towards a woman early in dating often backfire, according to the speaker?

    -Showing direct intent can signal low value, clinginess, and a lack of options, which can cause a woman to lose attraction and respect for the man.

  • What are some ways men show intent that can be detrimental to their dating success?

    -Men can show detrimental intent through an emotional or needy tone in communication, being overly prompt in responding to texts or calls, and expressing admiration for a woman's beauty too soon.

  • How does the speaker explain the difference between masculine and feminine communication styles in dating?

    -Masculine communication is described as overt and direct, while feminine communication is covert and indirect. The speaker emphasizes that to attract a woman, men must use the language of the feminine, which is indirect and covert.

  • What is the significance of 'masculine indifference' in the context of the speaker's dating advice?

    -Masculine indifference refers to a man's strong, stable, and non-reactive demeanor. It's a form of communication that demonstrates emotional resilience and can be attractive to women as it contrasts with the more direct and emotional communication style typically associated with femininity.

  • Why does the speaker advise men to operate on a longer time horizon when dating?

    -Operating on a longer time horizon helps maintain a woman's interest by creating a sense of mystery and intrigue. It allows her to 'figure out' the man at a pace that is more aligned with how women naturally move through dating and relationships.

  • What does the speaker mean when he says 'women want to have to figure you out'?

    -This phrase means that women are attracted to men who present a certain level of mystery and depth, prompting them to invest time and emotional energy in getting to know the man better.

  • How does the speaker suggest men should approach expressing their desire for a relationship with a woman?

    -The speaker suggests that men should not be the first to bring up the topic of a relationship. Instead, they should allow the woman to express her interest and desire for commitment, as this aligns with the natural dating dynamics where men first demonstrate attraction and women then express their intent for a deeper connection.

Outlines

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πŸ’¬ Understanding Women's Response to Intent

The speaker begins by highlighting that women often respond positively to men who display intent, love, admiration, and respect. The video aims to guide viewers on leveraging this insight to gain psychological leverage in dating and relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of indirect seduction and pre-election signals to appear attractive without being overtly forward, which can be off-putting. The key is to use vocal tone, sub-communication, and choice of words effectively to demonstrate desirability and avoid appearing clingy or low in value.

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πŸ“± The Pitfalls of Direct Intent in Dating

This paragraph delves into the reasons why direct expressions of intent, such as immediate responses to texts or calls, can be detrimental in the early stages of dating. It suggests that such behavior can signal a lack of experience, confidence, and options, leading to a loss of attraction. The speaker advises against expressing admiration for a woman's beauty too soon, as it can imply a superficial interest and a lack of deeper standards. The focus is on the importance of indirect communication and the development of internal skills to effectively navigate dating dynamics.

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πŸ”„ The Dynamics of Masculine and Feminine Communication

The speaker explains the concept of masculine and feminine communication styles in dating. Masculine communication is described as overt and direct, while feminine communication is covert and indirect. To attract a woman, men must initially adopt a feminine communication style, which is indirect and involves building attraction through playfulness, teasing, and leading the social interaction. The speaker emphasizes that this indirect approach is crucial for initial attraction and sets the stage for a woman to later adopt a more direct, masculine communication style to deepen the relationship.

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πŸ’­ Patience and Mystery in Sustaining Attraction

In this section, the speaker stresses the importance of patience and maintaining an air of mystery to sustain a woman's interest over time. By operating on a longer time horizon and not being overly eager or urgent in communication, men can increase their seductive appeal. The speaker suggests that women are more attracted to men who have their own lives and passions, signaling pre-selection and independence. This approach encourages women to invest more in the relationship, as they feel they need to 'figure out' the man, which is more appealing than when men show too much intent too soon.

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πŸ’– Balancing Indifference and Intent in Relationships

The final paragraph discusses the balance between masculine indifference and feminine intent in relationships. The speaker argues that men should exhibit indifference, showing strength, stability, and emotional resilience, while women should bring emotional support, care, and love. This balance is key to a successful relationship dynamic. The speaker concludes by encouraging viewers to understand these concepts to become more captivating and successful in their dating lives, promising that such understanding will make them stand out and attract the partners they desire.

Mindmap

Keywords

πŸ’‘Intent

In the context of the video, 'intent' refers to the direct and obvious display of interest or affection towards someone, particularly in the early stages of dating. The video suggests that showing intent too early can be detrimental as it may signal desperation or a lack of options, which can cause a woman to lose interest. For example, the speaker mentions that direct statements of admiration or affection can backfire and make a man appear as having 'zero options'.

πŸ’‘Pre-selection

'Pre-selection' is a concept discussed in the video that implies demonstrating that other women are already interested in you, thereby increasing your attractiveness to a potential partner. It's a form of indirect seduction that signals to a woman that you are a desirable catch without explicitly stating your interest in her. The video explains that this can be conveyed through vocal tone, sub-communication, and choice of words.

πŸ’‘Seduction

Seduction, as used in the video, involves the art of attracting someone through indirect and subtle means. It's about creating a sense of intrigue and desirability without being overtly forward. The video emphasizes that seduction should be indirect when first meeting a woman to signal pre-selection and to avoid appearing needy or desperate.

πŸ’‘Vocal Tone

Vocal tone is highlighted in the video as a powerful tool in communication, especially in the context of dating and attraction. It refers to the emotional quality and pitch of one's voice, which can convey confidence, neediness, or indifference. The video suggests that maintaining a confident and non-needy tone can help in attracting a woman and avoiding signals of low self-esteem or desperation.

πŸ’‘Neediness

Neediness is portrayed in the video as a negative trait that can repel potential romantic interests. It is characterized by an emotional or passive tone in communication, which can signal a lack of self-confidence and a desperate desire for approval. The video advises against displaying neediness as it can lead to a loss of attraction and respect from women.

πŸ’‘Indifference

Indifference, in the video, is presented as a positive masculine trait that contrasts with the negative connotation of 'neediness.' It implies a state of emotional resilience and stability where one is not overly reactive or invested in the outcome of a relationship. The video suggests that displaying masculine indifference can be attractive to women as it signals strength and self-assurance.

πŸ’‘Communication Consistency

Communication consistency refers to the pattern and frequency of responses in communication, such as texting or calling. The video argues that being too prompt and consistent in communication can signal intent and neediness, which may be off-putting to women. It suggests varying the response time to maintain an air of mystery and avoid coming across as overly eager.

πŸ’‘Polarity

Polarity in the video is used to describe the dynamic balance between masculine and feminine energies in a relationship. It suggests that successful dating dynamics involve a balance of overt and direct masculine communication with covert and indirect feminine communication. Understanding and utilizing this polarity can lead to more successful and satisfying relationships.

πŸ’‘Safety and Security

Safety and security are mentioned as fundamental needs that women look for in a relationship. The video explains that showing intent can signal a focus on emotions over practical aspects of life, which may be perceived as a threat to safety and security. It advises men to demonstrate stability and resilience to provide a sense of safety, which is more attractive to women.

πŸ’‘Mystery

Mystery is a concept in the video that relates to the allure of the unknown or the gradual unveiling of oneself in a relationship. It suggests that maintaining an air of mystery can keep a woman's interest and desire to 'figure you out.' The video advises men to reveal aspects of their personality and life slowly over time to sustain attraction and intrigue.

Highlights

Women tend to be attracted to men who display intent, love, admiration, and respect for them.

Using indirect seduction techniques can help gain leverage in dating interactions and relationships.

Pre-election is demonstrated through indirect signals, such as showing that other women are interested in you.

Vocal tone, sub-communication, and choice of words are essential for indirect seduction.

Direct intent, such as expressing admiration for a woman's beauty, can signal low value and desperation.

A needy tone in communication can indicate a lack of experience and confidence.

Consistent communication, like replying promptly, can subconsciously signal too much intent.

Men should avoid being overly direct in the early stages of dating to not appear clingy or low value.

Logical thinking can lead men to be too direct, which may not resonate well with a woman's emotional mindset.

Men should develop a 'I don't give a mentality' in their vocal tone to appear less desperate.

Masculine communication is direct, while feminine communication is indirect and covert.

Attraction is built through covert and indirect communication, which is part of the feminine language.

Women appreciate men who can maintain a sense of mystery in a relationship.

Patience is key in dating, as women prefer a slower pace and time to figure out the man.

Men should operate with a longer time horizon, focusing on weeks and months rather than hours and days.

Intent signals emotional investment, which can be off-putting if not balanced with indifference.

Combining masculine indifference with feminine intent creates a balanced dynamic in relationships.

Understanding these dynamics can significantly improve a man's dating life and ability to attract women.

Transcripts

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now what you're going to consistently

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find is that women will crush men who

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display intent love admiration and

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respect for them now there's going to be

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quite a few reasons why this is but what

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I'm going to be showing you in today's

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video is how you can actually take this

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information use it to your advantage and

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then start to gain The Leverage

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psychologically in your dating

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interactions and in your relationships

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with women this is going to be a full

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comprehensive guide and breakdown how to

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ensure that you can gain the attraction

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of the women that you want without

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showing your intent that causes her to

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lose desire and respect for you now all

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of you are going to be extremely happy

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because I also put together a little

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gift for you the gift is down below in

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the description and you can be sure to

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check that out after this video is over

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I'm very certain that you're going to be

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extremely excited for what I made for

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you okay so today I am going to be

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showing you some inside secrets that I

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would say majority of men are not aware

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of and keep keep in mind to figure this

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out took me years okay of multiple

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dating interactions

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relationships this is going to help

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shortcut that process for you to save

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you a lot of time and get you results a

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lot quicker so these are the reasons why

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women hate the men who show intent

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towards them when they're dating okay

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they don't like this and I'm going to

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explain why in a woman's brain or how

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women operate what you have to know when

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you're approaching or when you're having

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your interactions okay all forms of

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Seduction when first meeting a woman

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must be indirect to signal pre-election

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so what is

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pre-election that's showing that either

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other women are already interested in

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you or women potentially are going to be

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interested in you how do you do this if

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you're not a famous celebrity a famous

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musician a Hollywood actor a guy with

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millions and millions of Instagram

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followers and girls constantly talking

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to you or direct messaging you how do

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you do this you do this through vocal

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tone you do this through sub

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commmunication you do this through words

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that's that's going to be your biggest

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strength that you can leverage okay like

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outside of the physical qualities such

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as like looks money status right how you

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how you dress right your uh your your

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physique things like that the overall

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Improvement the next layer for deeper

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communication to show that you are

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selected is going to be through what you

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say the words coming out of your mouth

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and vocal tone okay okay so here's what

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you have to know all forms of Seduction

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when first meeting a woman must be

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indirect to signal pre-election that

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means any direct intent hey I like you

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hey I think you're so cute I want to

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take you out on date hey you're so

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gorgeous oh my gosh I've had a crush on

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you for the past two months will you

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please go out with me any direct

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intent potentially shows her he's low

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value is going to Signal potential

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clinginess right he's clingy he needs

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her approval he needs her and it's going

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to signal that he has zero options now

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this also goes a step deeper but we're

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going to get to this in a second now

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here's all of the ways that men show

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intent that backfires the first is

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through an emotional or a needy tone

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what's a needy tone a needy tone would

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would signal any sort

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of like passiveness in your voice in

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your vocal communication any hesitancy

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okay that

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neediness they're going to pick up on

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that that passive tone they're going to

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signal that that's going to signal to

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the woman hey he's not he he has not

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done this a whole lot he doesn't have a

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lot of options he doesn't have a lot of

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experience he's probably lacking

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confidence he lacks the internal

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personality strength that turns a woman

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on she's going to disregard him okay so

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emotional or a needy tone another thing

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is communication

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consistency if you're text messaging

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back all the time within 45 minutes if

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you're constantly returning the phone

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calls promptly right there's never you

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know any any days or any weeks that

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you're more distant or you're taking

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time off this is also going to

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subconsciously show her intent this is

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going to turn her off another thing is

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expressing love or admiration for her

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beauty when you express love or

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admiration for a woman's Beauty this

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shows he's one over easily he doesn't

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really have a standard outside of

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physical attraction and he is sold on

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who I am as an individual just through

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how I look this is going to Signal

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massive low value this is why majority

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of all of the most attractive women are

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all single they're all single because

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the only qualification standard that a

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man looks at is how she looks okay this

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is polar opposite to how women judge

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attraction when women are judging

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attraction or when women are looking at

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the attractiveness of a man they're

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looking at everything they're looking at

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him as an individual him as a whole so

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they're looking at personality they're

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looking at how you talk they're looking

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at how your voice sounds they're looking

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at what shirt did you pick that day what

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shoes did you pick that day all of those

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things make up a woman's desire level

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for a man they look at the the whole

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individual so what's going to happen is

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they naturally like since they don't

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know the exact lens that you see life

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through just like you don't know the

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lens that she sees life through when

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women see that all men are like looking

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at or the only qualification standards

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that he has is beauty this turns her off

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okay so she sees your one over easy

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expressing love or admiration for her

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beauty is one of the fastest ways to

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like turn a woman off or lose her now

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here's where guys go wrong they go wrong

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because their logical brain takes over

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when your logical brain takes over as a

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guy you become direct it's like you

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solve your problems in life like a math

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equation okay you're like 1+ 1 is 2

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that's not not how a woman's brain works

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so guys will tell themselves you know

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I'm going to just go into this

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interaction and I'm going to be bold you

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know I'm going to show a lot of action

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and be courageous okay and when you do

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that when you when you show all your

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cards when you when you lay it all out

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on the table that you want the woman and

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you want to take her

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out if she's extremely attracted to you

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it might work but what you have to know

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is it is not the best method and it's

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not the like it's being direct is not

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going to be your best option because

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it's too much too soon and it shows her

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that you're sold on beauty you are sold

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on her beauty this is not necessarily

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good you may be able to attract some of

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the women if they have high attraction

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towards you but what I'm going to tell

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you is you're going to leave a lot of

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options you're going to let go of a lot

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of options there's going to be a lot of

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women that you could have taken out or

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that you could have potentially gotten

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to know that you lost for coming on too

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strong or demonstrating too much too

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soon so un Advanced way that I could

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demonstrate this the only way that a guy

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can really get away with being bold and

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being direct is if you have the vocal

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tone or the communication level of the I

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don't give a mentality if you say

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what you want and you're direct with it

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but she also can tell through your vocal

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tone that you don't really care if you

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get the number or not or you don't

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really care if that date goes anywhere

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or you're a guy who just speaks his mind

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yeah that might be a way that you can

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get away with this but very few men are

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able to do this because they don't have

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the internal skills yet or they haven't

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developed the Charisma or the seduction

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to know how to get away with that so

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there's certain things that you can do

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at certain levels when you first start

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approaching women or when you first

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start going out with women or when you

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first start dating and this is true for

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guys at any age okay when you want to

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maximize your dating life all forms of

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Seduction when first meeting a woman

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must be indirect to Signal pre-selection

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now here's how the game works with the

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dating

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Dynamics I I laid this out for you as

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easy to understand as humanly possible

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this is the entire dynamic in a nutshell

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when I say this is the game okay I'm not

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talking about front end game and back

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end game like I have in the past this is

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the game as far as the dating Dynamics

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here's what has to

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happen masculine communication overall

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like if you have a friend named Frank or

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a friend named John masculine Comm

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communication is overt and direct that

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means hey do you want to go out and get

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drinks Tuesday yes sure period Send okay

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that's overt and that's direct this is

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masculine

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communication the reason why I'm telling

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you that all forms of Seduction when

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meeting a woman must be indirect is

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because to attract a woman okay to

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attract a girl you have to dabble in the

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language of the feminine so this is all

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of the terms that guys use to

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demonstrate if a guy has good seductive

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skills or not you're going to hear

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things like Wheels he's got wheels

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you're going to hear Riz okay like

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you're also going to hear game okay so

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game RZ Wheels what that encompasses is

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swag overall personality conviction okay

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this makes up your front-end game but

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what you have to understand about your

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front-end game is that it's covert and

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it's

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indirect if you can do this

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congratulations you've now attracted the

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girl and she's going to say hey he has

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me in a playful state I'm having fun

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with him he makes me laugh everything he

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said you're going to notice when a when

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a girl is hot for you it's like

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everything that you say she just laughs

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at it may or may not even be funny if

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it's not funny and she still laughs

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you're going to notice like your

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personality and your vocal tone is

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starting to have influence over her

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emotions this is a good sign this is how

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you you close more dates so this is

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important to understand

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because men who are not able to do this

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lose a lot of women and they also lose

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the women specifically that they wanted

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to take out but they were never able to

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get that date so this helps you okay in

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the beginning you dabble in the language

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of the feminine that means you're covert

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and you're indirect right the things

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that you're saying when you're doing

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things like teasing her or you're

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playing games or you're having fun or

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it's like you're delivering like

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specific lines and jokes and you're the

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leader of the social interaction that's

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getting a positive reaction out of

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everybody attraction goes up if you can

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do this congrats you've now attracted

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the girl now the biggest emphasis I want

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to put here is you're going to notice

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there's a layer of work okay so you're

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going to notice if you go out to a bar

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or you go to a house party or something

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and you you you won her over meaning

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she's like hey let's switch numbers or

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you're so funny can I get your number or

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you say let's switch numbers and she

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says yes with excitement you smile on

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the inside cuz you know everything you

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had to do personality wise right with

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your personal skills to get there

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now let me explain this you've attracted

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the girl maybe you guys have slept

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together maybe you haven't regardless

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maybe you guys are seeing each other

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okay feminine communication is polar

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opposite from masculine communication

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okay feminine communication is covert

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and indirect so masculine communication

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is overt and direct notice the polarity

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notice The Duality notice the

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differences this is important to

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comprehend and here's

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why the woman is sitting there wondering

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how do I keep this man that I want okay

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she's sitting there wondering how do I

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keep this man that I want now notice

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this to keep the guy she now has to

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dabble in the language of the masculine

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just like you had to dabble in the

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language of the feminine okay and what I

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mean by that is you had to you had to

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use your game you had to use your sex

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appeal your seduction to get her in a

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state where she looks at you and goes I

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really like him she now has to dabble in

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the communication of the masculine so

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she has to switch over just like you had

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to switch over in the beginning you had

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to work for it she now has to work for

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it she has to switch over to the

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language of the masculine and she has to

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say hey will you be my boyfriend is this

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going anywhere I really would like you

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to be my man do you see a future with me

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I would like this when she starts

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becoming direct like

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that that is the equivalent to you in

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the beginning having to use Game and

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seduction to win her over she's

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now demonstrating the feminine

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qualities in herself okay to understand

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the awareness that now it's her turn

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okay to win you over or to potentially

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get a relationship out of you I hope I

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explained that well but you understand

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what what I'm saying it it's polar

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opposite now she switches over to that

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sort of direct communication will you be

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my boyfriend what you have to know is

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this is why if a man brings up a

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relationship first she gets turned off

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because now she had nothing to work for

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she had nothing to work for with that

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guy see when when you communicated in

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the beginning to attract that woman in

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in a way that is indirect and in a way

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that is covert to demonstrate

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pre-election and

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seduction what's happened is you had to

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work for it so when you get that number

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you walk away and you're like damn look

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at me like this this was solid like look

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at the dynamic and the chemistry that's

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how she wants to feel too so when the

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man brings this up first it demonstrates

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low value this is why the woman has to

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bring up the relationship okay because

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her entire idea of fantasy or love is

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how do I keep the man that I want and

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she wants to feel like she had to put

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some effort in outside of beauty to win

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you over this is what she wants to feel

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most men are sold on beauty alone even

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if you are one of the guys who is sold

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on beauty alone a lot of us are most men

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look at physical qualities as very

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important you have to start to train

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yourself not to be because that's going

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to help you win over the women that you

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really want you have to be able to look

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at a beautiful woman and say like you

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know some of her attitude or some of her

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behavior just doesn't align well with me

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I'm going to go on to the next one

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because that's what women do so this is

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how women often gain The Leverage over

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men is they have deeper level

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qualification standards as soon as you

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as a man tell yourself it's your job to

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have standards

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too The Leverage starts to become

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reversed and you're going to notice that

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a lot of these methods now work in your

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favor so let's take this a step further

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okay women want to have to figure you

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out say this again women want to have to

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figure you out this means they want a

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mystery you need to think it you every

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single time you go into a dating

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interaction with with a woman with a

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woman I want you to think if I had to

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maintain this girl's interest level for

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10 years and I know that's a long time

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but just use this as an analogy if I had

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to operate on a 10-year time Horizon how

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slow would I uncover myself Page by

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Page a saying that I've used in the past

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is the hotter the flame the shorter the

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burn say that with me the hotter the

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flame the shorter the burn you're going

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to notice the hotter the flame meaning

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in the beginning it seems like the

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chemistry is amazing and everything's

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organic and it's happening you're going

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to notice that those are the

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interactions that fizzle out the fastest

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okay these are the interactions that

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fizzle out the fastest so when I'm

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sitting here telling you women want to

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have to figure you out what does that

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mean that means women move dating

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interactions and women move the

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relationships at a slower Pace than men

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what that means is they are naturally

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not urgent they move at their own pace

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they move at their own time now the

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reason why they're naturally not urgent

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is because they are often sometimes more

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passive they're more indirect so if

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you're wanting to maintain the mystery

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in a relationship what are the keys to

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this what are what is all of the keys to

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keeping your mystery the first thing

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that you got to understand is that

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patience being a patient individual is

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your friend which means you need to

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extend the time delays all of the time

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delays I don't care if it's

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Communication phone calls text messages

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replies responses men often times

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operate hour for hour or day by day you

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need to stop doing this okay so instead

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of operating on hours or operating on

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days you now need to operate your time

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Horizon on weeks and months this is how

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you maintain a woman's interest this is

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how women fall in love there's that

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extended time Horizon of them needing to

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figure you

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out okay so you need to turn off your

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your your male driven logical brain of

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being urgent and getting stuff done

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quickly a lot of guys do that right if

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there's a problem they Solve IT women

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don't op operate like that you need to

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let this move at her Pace because women

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are women will women want that time

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Horizon stretched out so what you need

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to do in order to shift your mindset

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from hours and days to weeks and months

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is the first thing is you need to occupy

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yourself with work and goals a woman

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wants to see that you're on your on your

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purpose and on your passions anyway she

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wants to see that you're building

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something okay that means this signals

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pre-selection when you're not focusing

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on her she wonders a couple things she

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wers am I not important enough does he

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have other things going on besides me is

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he seeing a different girl right is he

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doing something in his personal life all

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of this triggers attraction because

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she's now not the focus she wants a

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world she can come into patience is one

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of the biggest tools you can use to

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increase seduction in order to be

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indirect when you move slow and you're

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patient this heightens seduction this

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makes it easier for you to be a

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seductive IND individual this makes it

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easier for you to be a guy who can get

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the dates and get the relationships that

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he wants and on top of that this is

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going to make it easier to for her to

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look at you as a man that she wants to

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respect and that she adors it's like you

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understand the communication differences

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this is moving at her pace and what will

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happen is she'll naturally start to fall

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in love with you

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so when it comes to intent and showing

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desire towards a woman intent is the

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opposite of indifference say that with

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me intent is the opposite of

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indifference everything with women comes

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down to Safety and Security when you

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show intent to a woman this shows he's

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emotionally invested in

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me emotions are his main focus this

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relationship is his main focus look at

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the intent he's putting towards this

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that means if he's putting energy and

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emphasis towards this he's not putting

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energy and emphasis in all of the things

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that triggers Safety and Security such

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as survival such as building something

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such as safety right such as like going

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somewhere in life and this turns her off

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it all comes down to Safety and Security

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so Safety and Security is only achieved

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through polarity masculine to feminine

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polarity okay intent is the opposite of

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indifference it's masculine indifference

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coupled with feminine intent so what

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that means is masculine

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indifference is going to be the way that

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you're operating that means that is

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strong the it like the individual the

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man is stable he's non-reactive he's

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emotionally resilient okay and on top of

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that now you couple that you couple that

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with her feminine intent masculine

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indifference on your side coupled with

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her feminine intent feminine intent

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would be the care the emotional support

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right the nurturing the love all of the

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good things that you're Desiring out of

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a woman when men show intent they've now

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entered their feminine energy

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and this is why it turns her

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off intent is the opposite of

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indifference when you operate out of

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masculine indifference it demonstrates

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that you're strong stable non-reactive

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and emotionally resilient now she wants

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to bring the feminine intent of emotion

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love and care to that relationship or to

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that dating interaction this is almost

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like the science of it I'm going to tell

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you this too if you understand this I

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want you to understand like how how high

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level this type of information is you're

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going to be able to really stand out in

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your dating life if you understand this

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stuff and and I'm not just saying that I

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really mean that you're going to be able

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to really be a captivating man you're

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going to be able to get get the girls

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that you want and you're even going to

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be able to like you will now look like

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that

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guy and it's like when when she views

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you as that guy and you're demonstrating

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the things that women look for you got

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to understand that majority of you

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you're going to be operating out of

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abundance you know there's going to be

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women who are wanting to enter your life

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or to talk to you this is very good

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stuff to understand okay so if you like

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