3 "Nice Guy" Mistakes That 99.9% of Men Make That Scare Women Away...

Summary

In this video, the speaker reveals three deadly mistakes men often make in dating that cause women to lose attraction. The first mistake is making overly romantic gestures too soon, which can feel forced and too serious. The second is the 'confession puke,' where men prematurely express their feelings, appearing desperate. The third mistake involves failing tests of confidence, making the man seem needy and easily controlled. The speaker encourages viewers to take a quiz to identify their mistakes and learn how to regain control, spark attraction, and avoid these common pitfalls in dating.

Takeaways

• 😀 Chasing a girl often results in losing her attraction, as women can sense when you're too eager or desperate.
• 😀 Overly romantic gestures too soon can backfire and make you seem predictable or clingy, causing a woman to lose interest.
• 😀 Romantic gestures that lack mystery or challenge can place you in the 'nice guy' category, which often leads to reduced attraction.
• 😀 The 'confession puke' is a common mistake where men confess their feelings too early, which can make them seem weak or desperate.
• 😀 Confessing too much too soon pressures the woman, leaving her unsure about how she feels and often pushing her away.
• 😀 Women often test a man's confidence through subtle actions like being distant or acting hot and cold.
• 😀 Failing these confidence tests by becoming overly agreeable, needy, or over-explaining causes attraction to decrease.
• 😀 Once a woman realizes she has the upper hand, it can kill the attraction, as no one wants an easy catch.
• 😀 Recognizing these mistakes is crucial to regaining attraction, even if you've made them in the past.
• 😀 Taking a quiz can help you identify whether you're making these common mistakes and how to fix them.
• 😀 The quiz provides actionable steps to change the dynamic and turn the attraction in your favor, if you act within the right window of opportunity.

Q & A

What is one of the biggest mistakes guys make when dating a woman?

One of the biggest mistakes is making overly romantic gestures too soon, like giving flowers or planning an overly romantic date early on, which can feel forced and predictable to the woman.

Why do overly romantic gestures backfire in the early stages of dating?

They backfire because they send the message that you're taking things too seriously too soon, which creates no mystery or challenge, causing her to lose attraction and place you in the 'nice guy' category.

What is the 'confession puke' and why is it problematic?

The 'confession puke' is when you confess your feelings too early, which can make you appear desperate and weak. It puts pressure on the woman, causing her to question whether she feels the same way, leading to distance.

How do women typically test a guy they are interested in?

Women often test a guy's confidence through actions like becoming distant, acting hot and cold, or making subtle comments. These tests are meant to gauge whether the guy is attractive enough to keep her interest.

What do most men fail to recognize when being tested by women?

Most men fail to recognize that they are being tested, and instead of remaining confident, they become needy, overly agreeable, or excessively available, which makes them lose attraction in the woman's eyes.

Why do women lose attraction when they sense a man is too easy to get?

Women lose attraction when they feel they have too much power and the man is too easy to catch because no woman wants an easy win; they want someone who challenges them and keeps them guessing.

Can a man recover from making these 'nice guy' mistakes with a woman?

Yes, a man can recover. By recognizing the mistakes, understanding the tests he's failing, and adjusting his behavior, he can reactivate a woman's attraction and even turn the situation around.

What is the 'nice guy syndrome' and how does it affect dating?

'Nice guy syndrome' refers to behaviors where a man is overly agreeable, always available, and lacks confidence, which often makes him seem weak and unattractive to women. Recognizing and overcoming this can help in building a healthy attraction.

How can a man assess where he stands with a woman he is dating?

A man can assess his situation by paying attention to how she responds to his texts, whether she insults him playfully, or how she acts on a date. Taking a quiz can help pinpoint the exact mistakes he's making in the relationship.

Why is it important to understand the window of opportunity in a relationship?

Understanding the window of opportunity is important because if a man doesn't adjust his behavior or correct his mistakes within a certain time, the opportunity for the woman to become reattracted may close, making it harder to turn things around.