THE ART AND DARK PSYCHOLOGY OF IGNORING A WOMAN (MUST WATCH) - STOİCİSM

Summary

This video script delves into the dating and relationship advice for men, focusing on the concept of 'high value'. It outlines eight strategies that high value men use to attract women, such as being bold, not giving attention for free, embracing a fearless mindset, not rewarding bad behavior, having a purpose, being independent, communicating directly, and valuing their time. The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-improvement, self-worth, and setting boundaries to stand out and attract the right partner without compromising one's own life goals and personal growth.

Takeaways

• 😎 High value men know how to ignore women, which makes them stand out and attracts women who crave attention.
• 🤔 To ignore effectively, one must understand the psychology behind it and apply it correctly to not come off as disinterested.
• 💪 Be bold and take initiative; high value men don't wait for things to happen but seize what they want from life.
• 📵 Avoid giving free attention on social media; high value men make themselves noticeable by withholding attention after an initial connection.
• 🧘‍♂️ Embrace a fearless mindset; high value men see women as equals and remain composed, which is attractive.
• 🙅‍♂️ Stop rewarding bad behavior; high value men do not tolerate disrespect and distance themselves when necessary.
• 🏆 Focus on personal goals and ambitions; high value men are driven and invest energy in building a life they can be proud of.
• 🧗‍♂️ Learn to be independent; high value men enjoy solitude and do not rely on a woman for validation.
• 🗣️ Be direct and precise in communication; high value men avoid vague statements and maintain clear, masculine energy.
• 🚫 Don't change your plans for a woman; high value men value their time and do not make themselves easily available.

Q & A

What is the main concept the video aims to teach about dating and relationships?

The video aims to teach the concept of being a 'high value man' who knows how to ignore women in a way that makes them more attracted, rather than being overly attentive or desperate.

Why does the video suggest that being rich or good-looking is not the only factor in attracting women?

The video suggests that being rich or good-looking alone is not enough because many wealthy or attractive men still struggle with dating. It emphasizes the importance of having a high value mindset and behavior.

What does the video mean by 'simps' in the context of dating?

In the context of dating, 'simps' refers to men who are overly attentive and desperate for a woman's attention, often giving it away for free and not valuing themselves highly.

How does the video define 'high value men'?

High value men, according to the video, are those who understand their worth, are confident, and know how to appropriately ignore women to stand out and attract them.

What is the first reason the video gives for why high value men ignore women?

The first reason is to be bold. High value men approach women with confidence and do not wait passively for things to happen.

Why does the video advise not giving attention for free to women?

The video advises against giving attention for free because it inflates a woman's ego and makes her feel entitled to constant attention, which can devalue the man giving it.

What is the 'Fearless mindset' mentioned in the video and why is it important?

The 'Fearless mindset' is a state of being confident and composed around women, viewing them as equals rather than superior beings. It is important because it makes a man more attractive and less likely to be anxious in their presence.

Why should high value men avoid rewarding bad behavior in women?

High value men should avoid rewarding bad behavior because it sets a precedent that such behavior will be tolerated, which can lead to a lack of respect and appreciation in the relationship.

What does the video suggest as a high value man's approach to being busy with the power of purpose?

The video suggests that a high value man has his own grand objectives and is focused on accomplishing them. He invests his energy in building a life he can be proud of, rather than seeking hollow relationships.

How does the video define independence for high value men in the context of dating?

Independence for high value men means being comfortable being alone, valuing solitude for personal growth, and not needing a woman to validate their existence or complete their life.

What is the importance of being direct and precise in communication according to the video?

Being direct and precise in communication is important because it shows clarity and purpose. It helps avoid misunderstandings and signals that the man values his time and is not interested in trivial matters.

Why should high value men not change their plans for a woman?

High value men should not change their plans for a woman because it shows that they value their own time and commitments. It also communicates that they are not easily available and that the woman needs to respect and value their time.

What is the final advice the video gives on how to handle a woman who tries to play games with a high value man?

The final advice is to ignore or ghost a woman who tries to play games with a high value man. This sends a clear message that such behavior is not acceptable and signals that he can replace her if necessary.