Interest Tests WOMEN use to make men feel inadequate when DATING so she has a reason to leave you!

Summary

This video script delves into the psychological tactics some women use to test men's interest levels and market value in the dating game. It outlines how women may intentionally make men feel inadequate through delayed responses, tone shifts, and withholding affection to gauge their emotional resilience. The speaker advises men to maintain their social lives, hobbies, and self-assurance to keep their sexual market value high, emphasizing the importance of being pre-selected by other women as a key to maintaining a woman's interest. The ultimate goal is to avoid becoming overly dependent on a relationship for emotional validation.

Takeaways

• 😀 The video discusses how women may intentionally make men feel inadequate to gauge their interest level and test their market value in the dating game.
• 🔍 It suggests that women often use specific tests to decide whether to continue seeing someone, based on their responses to feeling inadequate.
• 📈 The concept of 'hypergamy' is introduced, implying that women are always subconsciously screening men for their value as a potential partner.
• 🤔 The video implies that feeling inadequate is a test to see if a man has become emotionally dependent on a woman, which is seen as a weakness.
• 👥 It emphasizes that games and tests in relationships never truly end, and that maintaining a woman's interest is more challenging than attracting her initially.
• 💬 Communication patterns, such as delayed text messages or shifts in tone, are highlighted as potential signs of these tests.
• 🏋️‍♂️ The importance of maintaining one's sexual market value through physical fitness, appearance, and social status is stressed.
• 🏠 For long-term relationships, the script suggests that a lack of urgency to see or interact with a partner can be a sign of these tests.
• 👫 It argues that having an active social life, maintaining personal hobbies, and being able to say 'no' are crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.
• 🚫 The video warns against letting a relationship consume one's entire life, as this can lead to a loss of desire from the partner.
• 👍 It concludes by encouraging viewers to engage with the content if they find it valuable, promoting further exploration of the topic through a linked webinar.

Q & A

What is the main purpose of the video?

The main purpose of the video is to explain how women may purposefully make men feel inadequate in order to gauge their interest level and test their market value in the dating game.

What does the speaker suggest is the reason women make men feel inadequate?

The speaker suggests that women make men feel inadequate to test their market value and to decide if they want to continue seeing them.

What is the term used in the video to describe the constant screening of a partner's value?

The term used in the video is 'hypergamy,' which refers to the constant screening and testing of a partner's value.

What does the speaker claim is the lens through which he operates in his dating life?

The speaker claims that he operates through the lens that if a woman's eyes are open and she's awake, she is testing and analyzing his sexual market value.

What are the 'games' mentioned in the video?

The 'games' mentioned in the video refer to the various tests and behaviors women use to assess a man's value and interest level in a relationship.

What does the speaker say about the idea of games ending once a woman is in a relationship?

The speaker says that the idea of games ending once a woman is in a relationship is false and that hypergamy is always on, meaning the testing never ends.

What is the speaker's advice for men who are looking for comfort or emotional care from a woman?

The speaker advises that men looking for comfort or emotional care from a woman might be better off getting a pet, as relationships require more than just seeking emotional support.

What are some of the inadequacy tests that women may use according to the video?

Some of the inadequacy tests mentioned in the video include delayed text message responses, shifts in communication tone, and withholding intimacy.

What does the speaker suggest is the only way to maintain a woman's interest in a long-term relationship?

The speaker suggests that the only way to maintain a woman's interest in a long-term relationship is by providing proof that the man is still pre-selected by other women, indicating high sexual market value.

What are the four key points the speaker mentions for maintaining a stable relationship?

The four key points mentioned are: 1) maintaining an active social life, 2) maintaining hobbies away from the partner, 3) being able to say no when not wanting to do something, and 4) creating space by having a life outside of the relationship.

Outlines

00:00

🚫 Understanding Women's Inadequacy Tests in Relationships

This paragraph discusses how women may intentionally make men feel inadequate to gauge their interest level and test their 'market value' in the dating scene. It suggests that women use these tests to decide whether to continue a relationship. The speaker emphasizes that hypergamy, a social theory suggesting women seek higher-status partners, is always at play, leading to constant testing and analysis of a man's value through his reactions and behaviors. The paragraph also touches on the idea that women may withhold affection to see if it impacts a man's emotional state, using this as a test of his strength and commitment.

05:02

🔄 Dealing with Inadequacy Tests: Strategies for Men

The second paragraph delves into the specifics of how women might make men feel inadequate, such as through delayed responses to text messages or shifts in communication tone. It also covers the concept of 'congruency tests', where a woman assesses if a man's actions align with his words. The speaker advises that seeking comfort or emotional care from a relationship might be better fulfilled by a pet, suggesting that relationships should not be the sole source of emotional support. The paragraph outlines various scenarios where a woman might test a man's value, such as ignoring text messages or reducing intimacy in a long-term relationship. It concludes with the idea that maintaining a man's sexual market value through pre-selection by other women is key to avoiding these tests.

10:02

👫 Maintaining a Healthy Relationship Dynamic

The final paragraph offers advice on how to maintain a stable and long-lasting relationship. It stresses the importance of an active social life, maintaining personal hobbies, and the ability to say 'no' when necessary. The speaker also highlights the need for creating space within the relationship, suggesting that a man should have a life outside of the relationship to keep it healthy. The paragraph concludes with the idea that if a relationship becomes a man's entire life, it can lead to a loss of desire from the woman's side, indicating the importance of balance and independence within a partnership.

Keywords

💡Inadequacy

Inadequacy refers to a feeling of being insufficient or not good enough. In the context of the video, it is used to describe the intentional actions by some women to make men feel inferior, as a way to gauge their interest level and test their 'market value' in the dating game. The video discusses how women may use tactics such as delayed responses or shifts in communication tone to induce this feeling.

💡Interest Level

Interest level is the degree of attraction or enthusiasm one person has for another. The video script mentions that women may test a man's interest level by making him feel inadequate, which in turn reveals how much he is interested in her and how he reacts to her actions.

💡Market Value

Market value, in the context of dating, is the perceived attractiveness or worth of an individual in the dating pool. The video suggests that women may test a man's market value by observing his reactions to certain behaviors, such as delayed text messages or shifts in communication patterns, to determine his desirability among other potential partners.

💡Hypergamy

Hypergamy is the social practice of seeking a mate of higher status. The video explains that hypergamy is 'always on' and refers to the continuous subconscious screening of a partner's value. It is used to describe women's natural tendency to test and analyze a man's worth as a potential mate.

💡Pre-selection

Pre-selection is a social proof concept where an individual is considered more attractive because they are already chosen or desired by others. The video script advises that a man's sexual market value can be maintained by showing that he is pre-selected by other women, which can keep a woman's interest high.

💡Sexual Market Value

Sexual market value is a term used to describe an individual's perceived worth or attractiveness in the context of mating and relationships. The video emphasizes the importance of maintaining high sexual market value for a man to keep a woman interested, suggesting that this can be achieved through physical fitness, dressing well, and being socially active.

💡Withholding

Withholding in the video refers to the deliberate act of not giving or showing something, such as interest, love, care, or affection. It is used as a test by women to see how a man reacts when these emotional needs are not met, which can indicate his level of dependency or weakness in the relationship.

💡Congruency Tests

Congruency tests are assessments to determine if an individual's actions, words, and behaviors are consistent with their claimed identity or values. The video mentions that women want to see if a man passes congruency tests to ensure that he is genuine and true to who he presents himself to be.

💡Social Proof

Social proof is a psychological phenomenon where people conform to the actions of others under the assumption that those actions are reflective of correct behavior. In the video, social proof is mentioned in the context of a man's desirability being validated by the attention he receives from other women, which can influence a woman's interest in him.

💡Active Social Life

An active social life refers to having a vibrant and engaged existence with friends and social activities outside of a romantic relationship. The video suggests that maintaining an active social life is crucial for a man to keep a woman's interest and to show that he has a life outside of the relationship.

💡Independence

Independence in the video is portrayed as a man's ability to maintain his own hobbies, interests, and social life separate from the woman he is dating. It is suggested as a key factor in maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic, as it demonstrates that the man does not solely rely on the relationship for his social needs.

Highlights

Video discusses how women may purposefully make men feel inadequate to gauge interest levels and test their market value in dating.

Introduction of the 'Masculine Behavioral Technique' webinar as a resource for men to improve their dating lives.

The concept that 'games' in dating never end and hypergamy is a constant factor in relationships.

Explanation that it's harder to maintain a woman's interest than to attract her initially due to continuous subconscious testing.

The idea that a woman is always testing a man's value through conversation and body language.

The strategy women use to withhold interest or affection to test a man's emotional state and dependency.

The suggestion that some women might go against their natural hardwiring if they decide it's not beneficial for the relationship.

The recommendation for men to maintain an active social life and hobbies outside of the relationship to keep their market value high.

The importance of being able to say 'no' in a relationship to avoid losing individuality.

The concept of 'pre-selection' by other women as a way to maintain a woman's interest in a man.

The advice that men should not seek comfort or emotional care from a woman but rather a pet for such needs.

Examples of inadequacy tests, including delayed text responses and shifts in communication tone.

The impact of a woman's disinterest on a man's mental and emotional state in long-term relationships.

The narrative that a relationship should not become a man's entire life to maintain a woman's desire.

The final advice on maintaining a relationship by ensuring the woman sees the man has a life outside of it.

Transcripts

now in today's video I'm showing you

specifically step by step how women will

purposefully make men feel inadequate in

order to get a good read on your

interest level as well as test your

market value and how you stack up in the

dating game against other men these

specific tests of inadequacy are

specifically designed so that way she

can actually decide for herself if she

wants to continue seeing you or not now

she is going to often times make you

feel inadequate on purpose and I'm going

to show you exactly how to spot this and

how to get around it by the end of the

video video now after today's video is

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video is over now this is exactly step

by step how women make men feel

inadequate to test your sexual market

value very important video that we have

to dissect now jumping into this here's

what you have to know the games never

end okay the games seriously never end

when you are dating a woman most guys

think that when they finally get the

girlfriend of their dreams or they

finally get a wife that it's all going

to be amazing and this is very bad

thinking because this is false this is

not how real life works and this is not

how life operates at all the games have

only just begun so here's what you have

to know it is far harder to keep a

woman's interest than it is to attract a

woman in the first place the main reason

is because hypergamy is always on and it

is always always screening you so here's

what you have to know or here's kind of

the lens that I operate the world

through when I'm living in my own dating

life as well I tell myself hey if her

eyes are open and she's awake okay she

is testing you and she is analyzing your

sexual market value she can't help this

this is just something that's going on

it just happens okay this is Mother

Nature so the next thing that I tell

myself is if her mouth is moving and

words are coming out she is also

analyzing my market value

because every single sentence in some

way shape or form is going to be a test

in and of itself to test what your value

is she's seeing how your vocal tone is

when you respond she's seeing the

nuances and the mannerisms in your body

language all of that makes up you so

what you have to know is hypergamy is

always on hypergamy is always testing um

how you handle situations how you react

to uh her sentences and language

patterns how your body language is how

your vocal communication is um if you're

confident or not all of these things

make up the games all of these games are

mini and minute tests that you have to

pass and it will never end so if you're

dating a woman just know that this is

what you're signing up for for the rest

of your life there is no off switch now

this is the whole game in a nutshell

when dating okay when you're dating or

when you're together with a woman here

is the game here is what she will do and

here is the game in a nutshell okay she

will withhold interest she will withhold

love she will withhold care or she will

withhold affection to see if this

impacts your daytoday emotional state

she wants to know if you are weak and

specifically she wants to know if you

have went weak for her you have went

weak for her beauty you have went weak

for her intimacy or you have went weak

for her touch okay if you have went weak

for a woman in any way shape or form

she's going to exit your life because

that weakness to her mentally is a

liability okay to her mental state it is

going to be a liability because she does

not want to deal with you anymore

because you have displayed weakness so

if a woman does not do this to you where

she's testing you or where she's seeing

if withholding interest is going to

affect your mental day-to-day state if a

woman does not do this to you she's

going going against her natural

Intuition or her natural hardwiring to

make the relationship better but what

you have to know is naturally women are

going to do these things when you're

dating so you might be wondering well

why why would a woman go against Mother

Nature's hardwiring of these inadequacy

tests Okay the reason why is because she

knows that it will not be good for the

both of you so some women are able to

spot this in themselves some women are

going to be able to see what their

natural default intuition is and

potentially go against it if she wants

to decide for herself that this is not

beneficial this is why when you're

dating you need to properly choose the

right companion for yourself as well so

overall okay these these inadequacy

tests and trying to make men feel

inadequate through withholding interest

care love or affection they have to do

this because deep down they are testing

for the strongest mate that they can

possibly find not only that what they

are doing is they are needing to know if

his internal fortitude is strong or not

who he is is who he says he is and not

only that she wants to see if you pass

congruency tests so that way you know

who you are and you are who you say you

are now taking this one step further she

only wants to stay with the best so

here's what I can tell you if you are

getting into a relationship or you are

trying to find a girlfriend or you are

looking for a girlfriend or you are

signing up for a relationship and you're

doing these things okay what I can tell

you is this if you are looking for

Comfort or you are looking for emotional

care from a woman out of a relationship

you are better off just getting a pet

for some of you you might want a pet dog

you might want a pet cat you might want

a pet goldfish you might want you know

whatever the case may be and truthfully

I understand that this does sound harsh

but this is the way that the world works

and this is some of the truths that you

have to internalize now here's what the

inadequacy test okay actually looks like

I'm going to show you a couple different

scenarios and then over here I'm even

going to show you how to get around this

this is what the inadequacy test looks

like the first thing you're going to

notice is from time to time you're going

to notice a delayed text message time or

a delayed text message response and

often times what women will do on

purpose is they will be active on social

media so that way you know that they

were aware of certain things on their

phone or they were active on their cell

phone but she'll purposely be ignoring

your text messages she wants to know how

this is going to impact you take this a

step further you're going to notice a

shift in tone or a shift in

communication okay this shift in tone

and the shift in communic ation verbally

is also going to be a shift in text

message patterns so before when she

would text you and she would put hello

with four or five exclamation marks now

she just puts hey with a period okay she

wants you to feel that she's going to

want you to feel the difference she's

going to want you to feel like you're

losing her now take this a step further

she wants you to feel like you're losing

her completely to see how this is going

to impact your mental and your emotional

state so long-term Rel relationships

especially if you're living with a woman

you're going to notice some different

tests okay long-term relationships is

typically going to be a removal of

intimacy so what you're going to notice

I'll give you some examples the first

thing you're going to notice is there's

never a need to see you because you're

already there so let's say you live with

a woman um and she goes to work and she

comes home at 5:00 you'll notice she'll

maybe just pull in the garage she'll sit

in her car for 20 to 30 minutes without

coming in the door because she doesn't

want to see you and she'll just sit

there on her phone and scroll through

social media this is one of the things

you're going to notice there's no

urgency to see you there's no no need to

see you there is no need to greet you

there is no need to show love care and

affection she's just going to sit out in

her car in the garage and act like she

has no desire to come into the house

that's one of the things you're going to

notice another thing that you're going

to notice is she will never initiate

intimacy or she will never initiate sex

and she wants to do this because she

wants to make you feel like you're

unattractive so this is the second thing

the third thing that you're going to

notice is she acts like she's too tired

or too busy to see you and then last but

not least is disinterest 24/7 she acts

like just being around you is a chore

she's going to act like just the fact

that she has to be around you makes her

day worse and then she's going to exit

this is the typical narrative and the

typical flow of relationships so the

only way to overcome this the only way

to overcome this so

um the woman has a good attitude around

you and that she maintains High interest

around you there's there is only one way

to get around this and the way to get

around this is she needs proof she needs

proof that you are still pre-selected by

other women and that means she needs to

see other girls checking you out if she

sees other girls checking you out this

keeps your sexual market value High the

only thing that really can simulate a

woman's mind 24/7 to make her have

desire for a man is knowing that other

women are also interested in you and

will happily be in a relationship with

you as well so you have to keep your

sexual market value High you have to go

to the gym you have to work out you have

to try to build a VT or physique you

want to have low body fat you want to

eat healthy you want to dress really

well you want to occasionally um you

know be a be different from majority of

the other guys that she's seeing or that

she sees you know whether that be at the

workplace whether that be the guys that

she sees when she goes out all of those

things matter so the best relationships

that I've seen here's how the dynamic

operates between the man and the woman

the guy still has an active social life

this is the first thing if you want to

keep a relationship stable with one

woman you have to have an active social

life if she met you out at a restaurant

or out at some wild social event when

you guys first met each other you need

to maintain that social life so it's

congruent with who you were in the first

place that's first the second thing is

the guy has to maintain his Hobbies away

from the girl he's dating if you like to

go fishing you go fishing if you like to

go skiing you go skiing if you go

snowmobiling you still go snowmobiling

you do not change your day-to-day tasks

to become someone different the third

thing is the man is still able to say no

when he does not want to do something so

she says hey do you want to go hiking at

this Trail on Tuesday with me and Susie

if the guy doesn't want to do it he's

still able to say no I'm going to pass

okay this is the third thing you have to

do you do not just say yes just to say

yes and last but not least is he creates

the space first okay he might call her

up and say hey me and my best friend

Frank or me and my best friend Tom we

are going fly fishing for a week in this

city okay we are going snowmobiling for

a week in this city I'll see you when

you get back this is how you maintain a

relationship for months or years is she

needs to see that you still have a life

outside of the relationship and that the

relationship didn't become your life the

second that the relationship becomes

your life is the second that she no

longer has desire for you if you like

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