Naval | The Secret to Unleash your Highest Performance Level [with Joe Rogan and Tim Ferriss]

Picking Nuggets
29 Jul 202212:43

Summary

TLDRThe video script emphasizes the importance of mental clarity for peak performance, drawing parallels between taming the mind and the body. It discusses how desires can lead to unhappiness and suggests focusing on one overwhelming desire while letting go of minor ones to achieve calmness. The speaker also highlights the impact of anxiety on decision-making and contrasts it with the effectiveness of a clear, focused mind. Strategies for managing anxiety include meditation, self-examination, and maintaining a balanced life to enhance performance in various aspects, such as business and personal relationships.

Takeaways

  • 🧘 A clear and calm mind leads to better judgment and outcomes.
  • 🌟 Taming your mind is as important as taming your body for peak performance.
  • 💡 Desire is viewed as a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until fulfilled.
  • 🚫 It's crucial to identify and let go of minor desires to maintain peace and focus.
  • 🤔 High performers need a clear, calm mind to operate effectively, like Warren Buffet's routine of playing bridge and walking.
  • 🔄 In the age of infinite leverage, the impact of good decision-making is magnified.
  • 💪 Being calm and collected is a superpower that can enhance performance.
  • 🗡️ Samurai and terminator examples illustrate the advantage of a calm and focused mind in conflict.
  • 🧠 Anxiety and a whirlpool of thoughts often stem from an unexamined life.
  • 🌱 Meditation and self-examination are essential for addressing and resolving underlying issues causing anxiety.

Q & A

  • What is the main idea the speaker is trying to convey about a clear mind?

    -The speaker emphasizes that a clear mind leads to better judgment and outcomes, which is crucial for peak performance. A calm and peaceful state of mind allows for better decision-making.

  • How does the speaker relate the concept of desire to happiness?

    -Desire is described as a contract with oneself to be unhappy until one gets what they want. The speaker suggests identifying and addressing the underlying desires causing unhappiness to achieve a more peaceful state.

  • What is the importance of having a single overwhelming desire according to the speaker?

    -Having one overwhelming desire is acceptable, but it's important to let go of minor desires to maintain calm and peace, which in turn allows for better performance.

  • How does the speaker compare a high-performance athlete to someone with anxiety?

    -The speaker uses the analogy of an athlete having epileptic seizures to illustrate the ineffectiveness of someone with anxiety, who is constantly 'twitching' and unable to focus, compared to a calm and collected athlete.

  • What does the speaker mean by 'infinite leverage' in the context of decision making?

    -Infinite leverage refers to the modern ability to multiply one's actions through various means like podcasts, investments, leadership, or coding, thereby amplifying the impact of good decision-making.

  • How does Warren Buffett's routine illustrate the speaker's point about a clear mind?

    -Warren Buffett's routine of playing bridge and going for walks exemplifies the speaker's point that a clear, calm mind is more effective and leads to better outcomes than a constantly overloaded mind.

  • What is the 'superpower' the speaker believes can be achieved through calmness?

    -The speaker suggests that being calm and still is a superpower because it allows one to perform better under pressure and avoid wasting energy on anxiety.

  • How does the speaker describe the difference between his reactions to high-conflict situations in the past versus more recent times?

    -The speaker contrasts his past anxiety and fear during high-conflict situations with his recent calm and effective approach, attributing this change to personal growth and practice.

  • What role does meditation play in the speaker's life according to the transcript?

    -Meditation, particularly self-examination through meditation, is highlighted as a key factor in the speaker's ability to achieve a calm and peaceful state of mind.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the root cause of pervasive non-specific anxiety?

    -The speaker believes that pervasive non-specific anxiety stems from an unexamined life, where unresolved issues and unmet desires provoke a constant state of unease.

  • How does the speaker relate the concept of 'undulation' to high-performance decision making?

    -The speaker uses 'undulation' to describe the ability to shift between deep relaxation and intense focus, suggesting that this capacity is more effective for high-performance decision making than operating at a constant moderate level of stress.

Outlines

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🧘‍♂️ Mindfulness and Desire Management

The speaker emphasizes the importance of a clear and calm mind for better decision-making and outcomes. They suggest that managing desires is akin to taming one's mind and body, and highlight the Buddhist wisdom that desire is a contract with oneself to be unhappy until one's desires are fulfilled. The speaker advises choosing one overwhelming desire and letting go of the rest to maintain peace and perform better. They also stress the need for a clear mind in high-performance activities, comparing it to the calmness of samurai warriors and the Terminator's relentlessness. The speaker concludes by stating that in the age of infinite leverage, the impact of good decision-making is magnified, and thus, a calm mind is a superpower.

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🌟 Overcoming Anxiety Through Self-Examination

The speaker discusses the transformation from experiencing anxiety during a high-conflict situation to a state of calmness during a similar event. They attribute this change to a combination of factors including philosophy, yoga, meditation, aging, and having children. Meditation, for the speaker, involves self-examination and therapy rather than just watching one's breath or chanting mantras. They argue that anxiety stems from an unexamined life and suggest that examining one's thoughts and resolving internal conflicts can lead to a better quality of life. The speaker also stresses the importance of the relationship with oneself and the necessity to spend time alone to understand the true quality of one's life. They conclude by stating that true self-examination should lead to significant changes in one's life, including relationships, job, and lifestyle.

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🥋 The Power of Relaxation and Intensity

The speaker talks about the importance of being able to switch between deep relaxation and intense focus, using examples from high-stress decision-making industries and top athletes. They mention how great fighters are relaxed when not fighting but can turn on intense focus when needed. The speaker also discusses the concept of 'undulation', the ability to fluctuate between deep relaxation and high intensity, which is more effective than operating at a constant moderate level of stress. They use the example of a boxer's relaxation before a strike to illustrate the point. The speaker concludes by stating that avoiding a constant state of moderate stress is crucial for being able to reach peak performance when necessary.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Mind

The concept of 'mind' in the video refers to the mental state or consciousness that influences thoughts, emotions, and actions. It is central to the video's theme as it discusses the importance of mental clarity and calmness for better decision-making and outcomes. The speaker emphasizes the need to 'tame your mind' to operate at peak performance, drawing a parallel with physical training.

💡Desire

'Desire' is presented as an internal drive or longing for something that is not yet achieved. The video suggests that desires can lead to unhappiness until fulfilled, framing them as a 'contract with yourself to be unhappy.' It advises selecting a primary desire to focus on while letting go of minor ones to maintain a peaceful state of mind.

💡Anxiety

Anxiety is depicted as a pervasive, non-specific worry that stems from an unexamined life. The speaker links anxiety to a lack of mental clarity and suggests that it hinders effective decision-making. The video contrasts high levels of anxiety with the calmness needed for peak performance.

💡Meditation

Meditation, as discussed in the video, is a practice of self-examination and self-therapy that involves sitting with one's thoughts to achieve mental clarity. It is highlighted as a key method for taming the mind and managing anxiety, with the speaker sharing personal experiences of how meditation has helped them remain calm in high-conflict situations.

💡Performance

Performance in the context of the video refers to the ability to operate effectively, especially under pressure. It is tied to the state of one's mind, with the speaker arguing that a calm and clear mind leads to better performance, whether in business, sports, or other high-stakes scenarios.

💡Zen State of Mind

The 'Zen state of mind' is mentioned as an ideal mental condition characterized by calmness and focus. It is used to illustrate the power of a composed mindset, drawing parallels with samurai warriors and movie characters like the Terminator, who remain unflappable in the face of challenges.

💡Intrinsic Motivation

Intrinsic motivation is described as the drive to do something because it is inherently rewarding or fulfilling, rather than for external rewards. The video suggests that intrinsic motivation, when separated from anxiety, can lead to 'superpowers' of calmness and effectiveness.

💡Leverage

Leverage, in the video, refers to the ability to amplify one's actions to have a greater impact, such as through technology or leadership. It underscores the importance of making good decisions, as the consequences of actions can now reach and affect many more people than in the past.

💡Self-Examination

Self-examination is portrayed as a critical process of introspection to understand one's thoughts, desires, and anxieties. The video stresses that self-examination through meditation or other means is essential for living a life free from unresolved issues that cause anxiety.

💡Unexamined Life

An 'unexamined life' is mentioned as a source of anxiety and unhappiness. The video quotes Socrates, suggesting that living without introspection is not worthwhile. It implies that a life without self-examination leads to unresolved issues and a lack of mental clarity.

💡Superpower

The term 'superpower' is used metaphorically to describe the exceptional ability to remain calm and effective amidst chaos. The video argues that being able to achieve a state of calm focus is a superpower that can be cultivated through practices like meditation and self-reflection.

Highlights

A clear mind leads to better judgment and outcomes.

Taming the mind is as important as taming the body for peak performance.

Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want.

It's okay to have desires, but they shouldn't be too many or picked up unconsciously.

Focus on one overwhelming desire while letting go of the others to maintain calm and peace.

Unhappiness often stems from a busy mind and a strong sense of self.

High-performance individuals need a clear, calm, cool, collected mind.

Warren Buffett exemplifies the calm approach to high performance.

Infinite leverage in the modern age magnifies the impact of good decision-making.

Anxiety is a waste of energy; calmness is a superpower.

Intrinsic motivation should be separated from anxiety.

Calmness in conflict can be a decisive advantage.

Meditation is key to self-examination and reducing anxiety.

Anxiety often comes from an unexamined life.

The most important relationship is the one with yourself and your thoughts.

Meditation can lead to significant life changes if done properly.

Great competitors are relaxed before they need to be intensely focused.

The ability to relax deeply allows for intense focus when needed.

Transcripts

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a clear mind leads to better judgment

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leads to better outcome so a happy

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calm peaceful person will make better

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decisions and have better outcomes so if

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you want to operate at peak performance

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you have to learn how to tame your mind

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just like you have to learn how to tame

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your body

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let's go back to desire right this is

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old old buddhist wisdom i'm not saying

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anything original but

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desire to me is a contract that you make

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with yourself to be unhappy until you

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get what you want

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okay and i keep that in front of mine so

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when i'm unhappy about something i look

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for what is the underlying desire that i

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have that's not being fulfilled it's

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okay to have desires you're a biological

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creature you're put on this earth you

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have to do something you have to have

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desires you have a mission but don't

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have too many don't pick them up

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unconsciously don't pick them up

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randomly don't have thousands of them my

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coffee is too cold doesn't taste quite

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right i'm not sitting perfectly oh i

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wish it would warmer uh you know my dog

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you know pooped in the lawn i don't like

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that whatever it is pick your one

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overwhelming desire it's okay to suffer

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over that one but on all the others you

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want to let them go so you can be calm

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and peaceful and relaxed and then you'll

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perform a better job

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most people when you're unhappy like a

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depressed person

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it's not that they have very clear calm

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mind they're too busy in their mind

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their sense of self is too strong

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they're sitting indoors all the time

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their minds working working working

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they're thinking too much well if you

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want to be a high performance athlete

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how good of an athlete are you going to

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be if you're always having epileptic

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seizures if you're always like twitching

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and running around and like jumping and

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your your limbs are flailing out of

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control the same way if you want to be

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effective in business you need a clear

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calm cool collected mind warren buffett

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plays bridge all day long and goes for

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walks in the sun he doesn't sit around

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like constantly loading his brain with

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non-stop information and and getting

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worked up about every little thing

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we live in an age of infinite leverage

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what i mean by that is that your actions

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can be multiplied a thousand-fold either

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by broadcasting at a podcast or by

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investing capital or by having people

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work for you or by writing code

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so because of that the impacts of good

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decision making are much higher than

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they used to be

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because now you can influence thousands

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or millions of people through your

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decisions or your code

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so

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a clear mind leads to better judgment

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leads to better outcome so a happy

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calm peaceful person will make better

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decisions and have better outcomes so if

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you want to operate at peak performance

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you have to learn how to tame your mind

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just like you have to learn how to tame

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your body so assuming that your goal is

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your your motivation is intrinsic you're

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doing the thing because you love it or

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because you really want it and you can

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separate that motivation from anxiety

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then i think you can take on certain

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superpowers and we kind of all

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intrinsically know this like if you look

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at you know samurai warriors right like

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miyamoto musashi is in a duel with

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somebody else you know that the person

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who is calmer is going to win in all

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those movies it's the one who can like

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who's like incredibly still then swipes

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with a sword incredibly quickly and then

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still again that's the winner the one

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who has a zen state of mind similarly in

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the terminator movies part of the reason

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you fear the terminator is because he's

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a robot he's unstoppable he's implacable

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you can't argue with him you can't

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communicate with him you can't make him

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slow down and he has no remorse he just

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keeps coming or in that old clintuswood

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movie unforgiven you know the guy who

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wins the gunfight is the one who doesn't

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flinch he's just keeping his cool while

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he's loading his gun and shooting he's

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not like all over the place running

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around so i just think we waste so much

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energy through anxiety that if you can

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be calm and still go about your business

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it's a superpower and i i realized this

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myself recently where i was in a

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conflict situation in business it was a

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high conflict situation it was

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unfortunate we i think we've solved it

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but as i went through this high conflict

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situation i'd been through one like it

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years before where i was much more

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anxious and i remember that time period

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i remember how much i was sweating it

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and how nervous i was and how i went

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through bouts of fear and anger and and

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how kind of worked up i was the entire

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time intense and didn't get much sleep

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but this time i was incredibly calm and

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i was almost enjoying it because it was

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like practicing my craft now of course

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it's easier to do now because i have

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more money but at the same time

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it just didn't bother me it was just

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very mechanical and because of that i

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could be very effective about it and i

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could be effective about it while doing

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lots and lots of other things my mind

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wasn't constantly spinning in a

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whirlpool taking on ten different

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problems and just fear based on

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aeroplaning all the time

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most of these things were never going to

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happen so i do believe that being calm

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and still going about your business is

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the superpower now yes if anxiety is

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your only motivator then you have a

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problem but i would argue the pure

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motivations don't come out of anxiety so

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let's talk about

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attribution here to what would you

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attribute the and i know this that it's

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difficult to isolate variables etc but

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if let's just say like you have a family

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so let's just say one of your kids comes

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to you it's like dad i'm suffering from

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a lot of anxiety

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what should i do or you observe it and

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you want to help your kid out what types

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of recommendations would you make or

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might you make another question if you

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prefer it is what has helped you to go

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from

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the whirlpool experience of anxiety in

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high conflict experience round one

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versus calm neval and high conflict

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experience round two

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yeah it's really hard to separate all

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the pieces out i mean it comes from a

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combination of

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philosophy yoga meditation

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getting older having kids you know like

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you i've i've had some psychedelic

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experiences but those are very far back

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in the past

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just a distant memory at this point but

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i would say the number one thing that

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has been very very important for me is

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meditation and it's a stupid thing to

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say because so trite everybody just says

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it now but when i say meditation i don't

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mean sitting there and watching your

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breath or chanting a mantra i mean

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self-examination

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and meditation is a great way to do that

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self-therapy it's sitting there with

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your thoughts

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so anxiety the anxiety anxiety this this

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pervasive non-specific anxiety we were

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just constantly on edge about everything

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that comes from an unexamined life you

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know i think what's the socrates said

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like an unexamined life is not worth

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living i forget who said that quote

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something like that yeah but it's it's

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not all soccer one of those one of those

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smart philosopher types but it's correct

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it's your unexamined life that is

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causing the problems and you can examine

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it in multiple ways you can examine it

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through you can have some crazy mushroom

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trip where it all comes out one night

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you could do a lot of meditation sitting

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there with yourself and letting your

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mind run crazy and then seeing what's

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actually in your mind that your mind

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wants to tell you and have you listened

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to and have you resolved that is

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unresolved it could be through therapy

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it could be through reading lots of

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philosophy and reflection and long walks

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so there's many many ways to tackle it

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but it's that spending that time with

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yourself to examine why are you having

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these thoughts think about it this way

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we spend so much time in our

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relationships our relationship with our

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wives our relationship with our

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colleagues our relations to our business

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partners our relations with our friends

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the most important relationship you have

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is with yourself it's with this voice in

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your head that is constantly rattling

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every waking hour it's this crazy

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roommate living inside your mind who's

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always chattering always chattering

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never shuts up and you can't control

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these thoughts they just come up out of

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you don't even know where

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that quality of those quality of your

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thoughts that convers those

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conversations you're having in your head

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all the time that is your world that is

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the world you live in those that's the

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world view you have that's the lenses

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you see through and that's going to

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determine the quality of your life more

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than anything else and if you want to

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see what the quality of your life

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actually is put down the drink put down

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the computer put down the smartphone put

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down the book put down the headphones

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just sit by yourself doing nothing and

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then you will know what the quality of

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your life actually is because that's

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what you're always running away from

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that's why people when they try to

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meditate to sit down like i hate it i

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can't sit still why because your mind is

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eating you live your life is unexamined

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your mind is running in loops over

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things that it has not resolved and

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because they're not resolved when you

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run around your normal life it's not

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those problems have gone away it's that

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they're just there they're there and but

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they're provoking anxiety and what you

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think of as the anxiety that's that's

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kind of consuming you and you can't

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identify the source that's just the tip

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of an iceberg poking out from underneath

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the water and underneath this giant pile

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of garbage of decisions that were made

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without too much thought of situations

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that you're in that you haven't resolved

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that you need to resolve of problems

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that you have or desires that you have

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that have gone unmet or unmanifested or

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contradictions that you're living in or

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ways that you which you feel trapped so

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proper meditation proper examination

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should

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ruin the life that you're currently

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living it should cause you to leave

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relationships it should cause you to

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re-establish boundaries with family

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members and with colleagues it should

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cause you to quit your job it should

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cause you to change your eating patterns

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it should cause you to spend more time

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with yourself it should cause you to

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change what books you read it should

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cause you to change who your friends are

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if it doesn't do that it's not real

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examination if it doesn't come attached

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with destruction of your current life

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then you can't create the new life in

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which you will not have the anxiety if

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you look at the greatest competitors in

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the worlds greatest physical athletes

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marcela garcia who's a who i trained

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with for many years who i own a jiu

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jitsu school within the city um

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if you he's probably the greatest

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grappler to ever live and if you watch

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marcelo in a world championship

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he would be sleeping literally minutes

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before

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um

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a

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semi-final final sleeping

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and but you've never seen anyone turn on

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more intensely and if you look at great

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fighters people think fighters are like

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jacked and intense but they're not like

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they're actually very relaxed the

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greatest fighters are super relaxed when

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they're not fighting but when they're in

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the battle you wouldn't believe the

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intensity and even to deconstruct that

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further if you watch a great for example

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boxer

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the relaxation before a strike is

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delivered is incredible

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so does the undulation like most people

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in

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high stress decision making industries

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are always operating at this kind of

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simmering six

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or four

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as opposed to the undulation between

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just deep relaxation and being out of

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ten and being at a ten is like millions

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of times better than being at a six it's

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not

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it's just in that different universe

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same same as being all in on a

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discipline is millions of times more

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intense than being

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you know 98 or 99 let alone you know i

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could take it or leave it you know and

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just having observed you observed

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marcelo yeah uh certainly heard stories

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about say floyd mayweather before

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gigantic fights and uh i heard a friend

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of mine who knows him said he walked

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into his dressing room after floyd was

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like yeah sure come on in he's like i

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don't want to interrupt you you must be

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prepping and he's like no i'm either

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ready or i'm not and he was just sitting

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down watching some tv

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that

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it's

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it's

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in a way

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your ability to avoid the simmering six

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directly affects your ability to then

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ratchet up to turn on to the 99 or 100

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right if you're always at a simmering

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six

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you're just at 50 battery

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right all the time 100 percent and 50

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percent intensity and you cannot you

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have no idea what your 10 is

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