Memahami Istilah Childfree, Ketika Pasangan Memilih Tak Punya anak
Summary
TLDRThe video script from kompas.com discusses the 'Child-free' lifestyle, a choice by adults to not have children, biologically or through adoption. Originating in Western countries like the US, Europe, Canada, and Australia, this concept is gaining traction in modern times, especially in Indonesia. It challenges traditional views on marriage and family, with some prioritizing career and personal freedom over raising children. The script explores the psychological reasons behind choosing a child-free life, including personal dislike for children, inability to care for them, career demands, environmental concerns, and high costs of raising children. It distinguishes between a conscious choice to be child-free and phobias like pedophobia, which stems from a fear of children due to past traumas. The video aims to provide a balanced view of the pros and cons of the child-free movement.
Takeaways
- 😀 The term 'Child free' refers to adults who choose not to have children, either biologically or through adoption.
- 🌐 The concept of being 'Child free' is not new and has been present in Western countries like the United States, Europe, Canada, and Australia since the 1500s.
- 💼 The movement began with a shift in mindset among young women, who chose to delay marriage and focus on independent living and career over having children.
- 🌟 In modern times, the trend is gaining traction in Indonesia as well, with a growing number of young people prioritizing the quality of life for their potential children over quantity.
- 👨👩👧👦 Despite the growing interest, traditional beliefs in Indonesia still hold that marriage should result in having offspring, leading to negative reactions to the 'Child free' choice.
- 🤔 Psychological factors, such as mental health conditions or childhood traumas, can influence an individual's decision to be 'Child free'.
- 💼 Practical considerations like demanding jobs and poor environmental conditions can lead to the choice of a 'Child free' lifestyle, as individuals feel they cannot provide a good life for their children.
- 💸 The high cost of raising a child is a significant factor that prompts some to choose a 'Child free' path.
- 👶 'Child free' individuals are not necessarily against children; some may enjoy taking care of other people's children or prefer a lifestyle without the responsibilities of raising their own.
- 🏥 'Child free' is different from 'Pedophobe', where individuals have a phobia of children, often due to past traumas, leading them to see children as a threat and a source of trauma.
Q & A
What is the term 'Child free' referring to?
-Child free refers to adults who do not have children, either biologically, through adoption, or otherwise.
How long has the concept of 'Child free' been around?
-The concept of 'Child free' has been around for centuries, with its origins dating back to the 1500s in countries like the United States, Europe, Canada, and Australia.
What was the mindset change that led to the emergence of the 'Child free' lifestyle in the 1500s?
-In the 1500s, there was a change in mindset among young women regarding marriage. They began to delay marriage, choosing to live independently with their partners and focus on their careers and financial stability before starting a family.
How does the 'Child free' phenomenon differ between Western countries and Indonesia?
-In Western countries, the 'Child free' concept has been around for a long time and is more accepted. In contrast, in Indonesia, it is still considered a new phenomenon and is often met with negative reactions due to cultural beliefs that marriage should result in having offspring.
What are some reasons young people today are considering 'Child free' lifestyles?
-Young people today are considering 'Child free' lifestyles due to a shift in values, focusing more on the quality of life for their children rather than the quantity, and the desire to maintain personal freedom and career ambitions.
What are some psychological reasons that might lead someone to choose a 'Child free' lifestyle?
-Psychological reasons for choosing a 'Child free' lifestyle can include mental health conditions, past traumas, or a genuine lack of desire to have and raise children.
What are some practical reasons that people might give for choosing a 'Child free' lifestyle?
-Practical reasons for choosing a 'Child free' lifestyle can include the high costs of raising children, demanding careers that leave little time for family, and concerns about the negative impact of a poor environment on children.
How does the 'Child free' choice differ from phobias like 'pedophobia'?
-A 'Child free' choice is a conscious decision often based on personal preferences, career, or financial reasons, while 'pedophobia' is a phobia where individuals have an irrational fear of children, which can stem from past traumas and can influence their thinking to view children as threatening and traumatic.
What advice does Ratna Yunita Setiani, a psychologist and lecturer at Aisyiyah University, have regarding the 'Child free' lifestyle?
-Ratna Yunita Setiani suggests understanding that the reasons couples choose a 'Child free' lifestyle can vary and are not necessarily related to phobias. It's important to respect their choices as they may be based on personal, economic, or career considerations.
What are some common misconceptions about the 'Child free' lifestyle mentioned in the script?
-Common misconceptions include the belief that choosing a 'Child free' lifestyle is a new trend, that it is a result of selfishness, or that it is always due to a dislike or inability to care for children. The script highlights that it's a personal choice with various underlying reasons.
How does society's view on the 'Child free' lifestyle affect those who choose it?
-Society's view can lead to negative reactions and stigma for those who choose a 'Child free' lifestyle, especially in cultures where having children is seen as a primary goal of marriage and family life.
Outlines
👨👩👧👦 The Debate on Childfree Lifestyle
This paragraph discusses the increasing trend of young couples choosing a childfree lifestyle, a topic that has been widely debated on social media platforms. The term 'childfree' refers to adults who do not have children, either biologically or through adoption. The concept is not new, with its roots dating back centuries in Western countries like the United States, Europe, Canada, and Australia. The paragraph highlights the shift in mindset among young women regarding marriage and the choice to prioritize personal independence and financial stability over traditional family values. It also touches upon the cultural differences in perceptions of childfree choices between Western and Indonesian societies, where the latter still largely views marriage and procreation as central to life. The paragraph concludes by acknowledging the various psychological, economic, and personal reasons that might lead individuals to choose a childfree lifestyle, such as awareness of their inability to care for children or concerns about the impact of a demanding job and poor environmental conditions on potential offspring.
🤔 Understanding the Psychological Aspects of Childfree Choice
The second paragraph delves into the psychological reasons behind the decision to be childfree, distinguishing between those who choose this path for economic or career reasons and those who suffer from pedophobia, an irrational fear of children. It explains that while some individuals may opt for a childfree life due to personal preference or lifestyle choices, others may be influenced by past traumas that have led to a negative perception of children. The paragraph also mentions that pedophobia can significantly impact a person's thought patterns, leading them to view children as a threat or a source of trauma. The discussion aims to provide a clearer understanding of the diverse motivations behind the childfree choice and to challenge the stigma that may be associated with it.
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Keywords
💡Child free
💡Selfie
💡Cost of raising a child
💡Psychological factors
💡Career
💡Egocentric
💡Quality over quantity
💡Stereotyping
💡Pedophobia
💡Trauma
💡Life goals
Highlights
The concept of 'Child free' is a lifestyle choice where individuals decide not to have children, either biologically or through adoption.
The term 'Child free' has been around for centuries, particularly in Western countries like the United States, Europe, Canada, and Australia.
The roots of 'Child free' can be traced back to the 1500s with a shift in mindset among young women regarding marriage and independence.
In modern times, the 'Child free' movement has gained traction due to changing societal values and a focus on the quality of life for children.
Despite the growing interest in 'Child free', traditional beliefs persist in many societies, viewing marriage and procreation as integral.
Psychological factors such as mental health conditions or childhood traumas can influence an individual's decision to be 'Child free'.
Practical considerations like the high cost of raising children and the impact of a poor environment on children are also reasons for choosing a 'Child free' lifestyle.
The 'Child free' choice is distinct from phobias like 'pedophobia', which is an irrational fear of children.
According to psychologist Ratna Yunita Setiani, 'Child free' decisions often stem from economic, career, or egocentric reasons, rather than phobias.
The 'Child free' movement reflects a broader conversation about the role of children in society and the responsibilities of parenthood.
The debate around 'Child free' choices highlights the complexity of personal decisions in the context of societal expectations.
The 'Child free' lifestyle is a personal choice that should be respected, as it is based on various individual circumstances and preferences.
The discussion around 'Child free' is an opportunity to challenge traditional norms and explore alternative ways of living.
The 'Child free' movement is not without its critics, who argue that it goes against natural instincts and societal progression.
Supporters of the 'Child free' lifestyle argue that it allows for greater personal freedom and the ability to focus on other life goals.
The 'Child free' choice is a reflection of the evolving nature of family structures and the diversity of human experiences.
The 'Child free' movement is a testament to the importance of individual autonomy and the right to make personal life decisions.
Transcripts
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sahabat kompas.com dalam beberapa tahun
terakhir ada satu bahasan hangat yang
cukup sering diperdebatkan sama pasangan
muda zaman sekarang
ya ini soal Child free atau keinginan
untuk tidak punya anak
belakangan topik ini lagi ramai banget
dikomentari netizen di media sosial baik
dari kubu yang pro maupun yang kontra
ada yang bilang kalau orang yang selfie
ini cari sensasi atau bahkan menyalahi
kodrat tapi banyak juga yang membela ada
yang bilang bahwa membesarkan anak
membutuhkan biaya yang tidak sedikit
Jadi sebenarnya wajar nggak sih ketika
ada orang yang memutuskan Child free dan
Kenapa ada orang yang membela tapi ada
juga yang tidak setuju dengan hal ini
yuk kita bahas di Oh begitu kompas.com
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kita bahas dari awal ya sebenarnya apa
itu Child free
Child free adalah istilah yang ditujukan
kepada orang dewasa yang tidak memiliki
anak baik secara biologis adopsi atau
sebagainya
hal ini sebenarnya juga bukan fenomena
baru gaya hidup ini sudah ada sejak
berabad lalu di Amerika Serikat Eropa
Kanada dan Australia
semuanya berawal pada tahun
1500-an di mana ada perubahan mindset
kaum perempuan berusia muda tentang usia
pernikahan mereka tak lagi mengikuti
konsep budaya lama yakni menikah pada
usia remaja dan tinggal bersama mertua
melainkan mempersiapkan diri hingga bisa
hidup mandiri bersama pasangan mereka
dibandingkan menikah mereka lebih
memilih buat bekerja dan menghasilkan
uang
nah fenomena ini kemudian semakin
populer di negara barat
jika gagasan soal celfri sudah ada sejak
lama di negara barat berbeda halnya
dengan Indonesia
fenomena ini ternyata masih dianggap hal
yang baru di Indonesia
situasi ini berhubungan dengan
perkembangan zaman di era modern seperti
saat ini memang mulai ada pergeseran
nilai soal stereotip banyak anak banyak
rezeki sekarang udah banyak anak muda
yang lebih memperhatikan soal kualitas
anak dibanding kuantitas atau jumlah
namun begitu tetap saja Sebagian besar
masyarakat sebenarnya juga masih percaya
bahwa tujuan menikah adalah memiliki
keturunan
sehingga chart free di mata masyarakat
tertentu tetap akan menimbulkan reaksi
negatif
di sisi lain sebenarnya calfries sendiri
merupakan hal yang normal dari sudut
pandang psikologi banyak hal yang
menyebabkan seseorang memilih untuk
Child free
Seperti contohnya kondisi mental atau
psikologis hingga trauma masa kecil
namun dibalik pro dan kontra itu
sebenarnya Apa alasan orang memiliki
chipree menurut very good Boss
setidaknya ada beberapa hal yang
menyebabkan seseorang secara sadar
memilih Child free contohnya ya orang
tersebut memang sadar kalau mereka tidak
menyukai dan tidak mampu merawat anak
Selain itu pekerjaan dan kondisi
lingkungan juga menjadi faktor lain
orang memilih selfree mereka merasa
pekerjaan yang menyita banyak waktu dan
kondisi lingkungan yang buruk akan
membawa dampak negatif bagi anak mereka
kelas
faktor-faktor lainnya juga sebenarnya
masih banyak seperti mahalnya biaya
merawat anak gangguan kesehatan lebih
suka merawat anak orang lain orang
dengan gaya hidup bebas hingga riwayat
traumatis dari keluarga
namun begitu sahabat kompas.com juga
harus memahami bahwa kondisi pasangan
yang memilih calegri Karena tidak ingin
memiliki anak sebenarnya berbeda dengan
sel phobia atau pedofobia
menurut psikolog sekaligus dosen
Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Aisyiyah
Yogyakarta Ratna Yunita Setiani
Soebardjo cell free biasanya muncul
sebelum pernikahan atau setelah
pernikahan dengan alasan ekonomi karir
maupun egosentris
berbeda kasusnya dengan calfri kalau
pedofobia terjadi karena mereka memiliki
fobia dengan anak-anak
fobia ini juga bisa terjadi karena
Trauma di masa lalu Oleh sebab itu
pedofobia bisa mempengaruhi pola pikir
seseorang sampai pada tahap menganggap
bahwa anak menjadi sesuatu yang
mengancam dan Menimbulkan trauma
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itu dia ulasan soal alasan orang
memutuskan untuk memilih selfree hingga
pro dan kontra di baliknya Sekian dulu
video kali ini simak informasi menarik
lainnya hanya di Oh begitu kompas.com
jernih melihat dunia
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