How to Rub Your Prostate?

Summary

In this episode of 'Spilling the Tea,' hosts Dr. T and Gabriel D, along with Lavali, dive into the taboo topic of prostate stimulation. They discuss its health benefits, including improved sexual performance and overall well-being, and provide step-by-step guidance on how to locate and stimulate the prostate. The conversation covers both internal and external stimulation techniques, emphasizing the importance of hygiene, relaxation, and lubrication. They also highlight the significance of communication and consent when engaging in prostate play with a partner, aiming to demystify the process and encourage a more open dialogue about sexual health.

Takeaways

• 😀 The video is an episode of 'Spilling the Tea' with hosts Dr. T and Gabriel D, discussing a taboo topic: prostate stimulation.
• 📝 Prostate stimulation is essential for men's sexual performance, health, and well-being, and is often referred to as the male G-spot or P-spot.
• 🏥 The prostate is a gland under the bladder that is crucial for semen production, and its stimulation can lead to a powerful sexual response.
• 🚿 Health benefits of prostate stimulation include increased blood flow, reduced inflammation, and potentially a lower risk of prostate issues like prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia.
• 💆 Prostate 'milking' is a rhythmic massage technique that can release prostatic fluid and further reduce inflammation.
• 🌟 Sexual benefits of prostate stimulation include more intense and satisfying orgasms, increased libido, and improved overall sexual satisfaction.
• 👐 Internal prostate stimulation involves direct insertion through the rectum using fingers or specially designed toys to apply pressure on the prostate.
• 🤲 External prostate stimulation targets the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, and can be achieved with fingers or vibrating toys.
• 🛁 Proper hygiene, relaxation, and lubrication are important for safe and pleasurable prostate stimulation.
• 🤝 Open communication, consent, and awareness of partner's comfort levels are crucial when engaging in prostate stimulation with a partner.
• 👥 Prostate stimulation is beneficial for anyone with a prostate, regardless of sexual orientation, and can be a shared experience with a partner.

Q & A

What is the main topic discussed in the 'Spilling the Tea' episode with Dr. T and Gabriel D?

The main topic discussed is prostate stimulation, including its benefits, techniques, and how to engage in this practice safely and effectively.

Why is prostate stimulation considered a taboo topic?

Prostate stimulation is considered taboo due to societal norms and lack of open discussion about male sexual health, particularly regarding the prostate and its role in sexual pleasure and health.

What is the prostate and why is it important for men to understand it?

The prostate is a gland found just under the bladder in men, essential for semen production. Understanding the prostate is important for men to enhance their sexual performance, health, and overall well-being.

What are some health benefits of prostate stimulation mentioned in the script?

Health benefits include enhanced prostate health through increased blood flow, reduced inflammation, decreased risk of prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia, and potential reduction in prostate cancer risk.

How can prostate stimulation help with urinary issues?

Regular prostate massage can alleviate urinary issues, especially those related to benign prostatic hyperplasia, by improving blood flow and reducing inflammation.

What is the term 'milking the prostate' and what does it involve?

'Milking the prostate' refers to a rhythmic massage that releases prostatic fluid, which can further reduce inflammation and potentially improve prostate health.

What are the sexual benefits of prostate stimulation for men?

Sexual benefits include more intense and satisfying orgasms, increased libido, and an overall enhancement of the sexual experience.

What is the difference between internal and external prostate stimulation?

Internal prostate stimulation involves direct stimulation through the rectum using fingers or toys, while external stimulation focuses on the perineum area between the scrotum and anus.

Why is proper hygiene important during prostate stimulation?

Proper hygiene is crucial to prevent infection and ensure a comfortable experience. This includes washing hands, cleaning any toys used, and ensuring relaxation and plenty of lubrication.

How can partners engage in prostate stimulation safely and consensually?

Open communication, consent, and awareness of each other's comfort levels and boundaries are key to engaging in prostate stimulation safely and consensually.

Who can benefit from prostate stimulation and why is it important to break the taboo around it?

Anyone with a prostate can benefit from prostate stimulation. Breaking the taboo is important to encourage open discussions about sexual health, exploration, and pleasure, regardless of sexual orientation or identity.

Outlines

00:00

😀 Introduction to Prostate Stimulation

The script opens with a warm welcome to the show 'Spilling the Tea' hosted by Dr. T and Gabriel D, featuring a lively guest, Lavali. The hosts apologize for not introducing Lavali in the previous episode and humorously extend her an additional five seconds of introduction. The main topic for the episode is the taboo subject of prostate stimulation, a fan favorite. The hosts aim to demystify the process, explaining its importance for enhancing men's sexual performance and overall well-being. They plan to provide a step-by-step guide on how to locate and stimulate the prostate, addressing viewers' comments about difficulties in finding it. The prostate is defined as a gland crucial for semen production, often referred to as the male G-spot, which when stimulated can lead to a powerful sexual response.

05:00

😉 Health and Sexual Benefits of Prostate Stimulation

The script delves into the health benefits of prostate stimulation, which include increased blood flow to the organ, reducing inflammation and the risk of prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia. Regular massage can alleviate urinary issues and improve overall pelvic health. The hosts also discuss the term 'milking the prostate,' a rhythmic massage technique that can release prostatic fluid and further reduce inflammation. They mention preliminary studies suggesting that continued prostate massage might reduce the risk of prostate cancer. The sexual benefits are highlighted, with men reporting more intense and satisfying orgasms and increased libido from prostate stimulation. The hosts encourage viewers to consider prostate stimulation as a way to enhance their sexual experiences.

10:01

🤔 Techniques for Prostate Stimulation

The script outlines techniques for both internal and external prostate stimulation. For internal stimulation, the hosts suggest lubricating a finger or a specially designed toy and gently applying pressure to the walnut-sized prostate, which can be located towards the front of the rectum. They advise against any discomfort and recommend seeking guidance if pain is experienced. External stimulation involves rubbing the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, which can be done with fingers or vibrating toys. The hosts emphasize the importance of proper hygiene, relaxation, and lubrication for a pleasurable experience. They also provide tips on how to engage in prostate stimulation with a partner, stressing the importance of communication, consent, and awareness of the partner's reactions.

👍 Embracing Prostate Stimulation for All

The final paragraph addresses the potential apprehensions about discussing prostate stimulation due to its taboo nature. The hosts encourage breaking the stigma and emphasize that the activity is not tied to sexual orientation or identity but is about exploring one's body and sharing the experience with a loved one. They invite viewers to comment with questions or topics they'd like to see covered in future videos. The hosts express their commitment to discussing sexual health and breaking taboos, inviting viewers to join them in their next episode, where they will continue to explore sexual health-related topics based on viewer feedback.

Keywords

💡Prostate

The prostate is a gland in men that is crucial for semen production and is located just under the bladder. It is often referred to as the male G-spot due to its sensitivity and potential for sexual stimulation. In the video, the prostate is the central topic, with discussions on its health benefits, stimulation techniques, and its role in sexual pleasure.

💡Prostate Stimulation

Prostate stimulation refers to the act of massaging or otherwise stimulating the prostate gland, which can lead to increased sexual pleasure and potential health benefits. The video explores various methods of prostate stimulation, emphasizing its importance for men's sexual health and well-being.

💡Sexual Health

Sexual health encompasses more than the absence of disease; it includes aspects of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being related to sexuality. The video discusses how prostate stimulation can enhance sexual health by improving sexual performance and overall well-being.

💡P-Spot

The P-Spot, or prostate spot, is a term used to describe the prostate's sensitivity and its role in sexual pleasure for men. The video explains that stimulating the P-Spot can lead to powerful sexual responses, similar to the G-Spot in women.

💡Health Benefits

Health benefits in the context of the video refer to the positive impacts of prostate stimulation on men's health, such as increased blood flow, reduced inflammation, and potential risk reduction for prostate-related issues like prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia.

💡Internal Prostate Stimulation

Internal prostate stimulation is the process of directly stimulating the prostate through the rectum, using fingers or specially designed toys. The video provides guidance on how to perform this technique safely and effectively for enhanced sexual pleasure.

💡External Prostate Stimulation

External prostate stimulation involves stimulating the area around the prostate, specifically the perineum, which is the region between the scrotum and the anus. The video suggests using fingers or vibrating toys for this purpose and highlights its accessibility for those who may be hesitant about internal stimulation.

💡Pelvic Health

Pelvic health relates to the overall well-being of the muscles, organs, and structures in the pelvic region. The video mentions that prostate stimulation can improve pelvic health, contributing to better sexual function and reduced urinary issues.

💡Lubricant

Lubricant is a substance used to reduce friction during sexual activities, making the experience more comfortable and pleasurable. The video emphasizes the importance of using lubricant during prostate stimulation to ensure a smooth and enjoyable process.

💡Communication

Communication is key in any sexual activity, and the video stresses the importance of open dialogue and consent when exploring prostate stimulation with a partner. It encourages discussing boundaries, comfort levels, and preferences to ensure a positive and satisfying experience.

💡Sexual Pleasure

Sexual pleasure is the positive and enjoyable sensations experienced during sexual activities. The video discusses how prostate stimulation can enhance sexual pleasure, leading to more intense and satisfying orgasms for men.

💡Taboo

A taboo refers to a social or cultural prohibition or ban on a particular practice or topic. The video addresses the taboo nature of prostate stimulation, aiming to demystify the process and encourage a more open and informed discussion about it.

Highlights

The episode discusses the taboo topic of prostate stimulation for men.

Prostate is a gland essential for semen production, often referred to as the male G-spot.

Stimulating the prostate can enhance sexual performance and overall well-being.

Prostate stimulation can increase blood flow, reduce inflammation, and potentially lower the risk of prostate-related health issues.

Regular massage of the prostate can alleviate urinary issues and improve pelvic health.

Milking the prostate is a technique that can release prostatic fluid and further reduce inflammation.

Prostate massage may reduce the risk of prostate cancer, according to some studies.

Prostate stimulation can lead to more intense and satisfying orgasms, increasing libido.

Internal prostate stimulation involves direct insertion through the rectum to apply pressure on the prostate.

External prostate stimulation is less intimidating and can be done by rubbing the perineum area.

Techniques for internal prostate stimulation include using lubrication and applying a rhythmic pattern of pressure.

External stimulation can be achieved with fingers or vibrating toys focused on the perineum.

Open communication and consent are key when introducing prostate stimulation with a partner.

Partners can use similar techniques for prostate stimulation, adjusting based on feedback and comfort levels.

Prostate stimulation is not related to sexual orientation and can be beneficial for anyone with a prostate.

The episode aims to break taboos and stigmas around prostate health and stimulation.

The hosts encourage viewers to comment with questions or topics they'd like to see discussed in future episodes.

Transcripts

welcome back to another episode of

spilling the tea with Dr T and Gabriel D

that's me and your favorite lavali

lavali is here can you believe she is

here she is very talkative today huh she

has a lot of questions to you okay well

she's come to the right place and for

those of you who don't know we forgot to

introduce lavali the last episode I know

what a shame what a shame and because of

that we're going to give L another five

seconds please

l I know I know she talks too much what

are we talking about today today we're

going to be talking about another taboo

topic that we've touched on here and

there literally touched on and that is

how to rub your prostate that's a fan

favorite it's a fan favorite we're going

to be reviewing prostate stimulation in

general because even though this is

again a taboo topic it is essential for

men to understand the ability to enhance

their sexual performance enhance their

sexual health and overall well-being so

we do want to take some time to explain

why important why it can be a beneficial

activity and then of course how to find

it because we got some comments with

people saying they weren't able to find

a walnut sized uh organ up there we're

going to walk you through it so today

we're going to teach you

thoroughly I don't know if I would say

thoroughly but we're going to do our

best to give you a stepbystep

instruction yeah this is YouTube yeah we

can't be too thorough so first please

define for us what is the prostate so

the prostate is a gland found just under

the bladder in men that is is essential

for semen production interesting I had

no idea often known as the male G-spot

or the PS spot when this area is

stimulated or rubbed it can produce a

powerful sexual response or stimulation

and so it's really important that men

understand not only how it functions but

where to find it so that they can

demystify the process and enjoy

themselves and learn more about how

their prostate uh can benefit them and

provide them pleasure is a G-spot as in

Gabriel not quite so the G-Spot is

actually referred to as a spot inside

the vagina for women and it causes

immense pleasure when it's stimulated

usually during intercourse and so the

male G Spot would be the prostate or the

P Spot but good question I wish that was

the Gabriel spot it's not all about

Gabriel even though for me it is I know

we talk about this at least 20 times but

what are some health benefits to rubbing

the prostate prostate stimulation can

actually enhance prostate health by

increasing blood flow to the organ so

increasing the blood flow of course is

going to increase the rich supply of

nutrients oxygen and that can reduce

inflammation we worry about inflammation

causing something called prostatitis and

also increasing blood flow May reduce

the risk of something called benign

prostatic hyperplasia which can occur in

the prostate as well wow rubbing the

prostate to live longer absolutely and

regular massage can actually alleviate

some urinary issues especially those

that are related to benign prosthetic

hyperplasia we know it also can help

improve overall pelvic health so really

it's going to contribute to an overall

Improvement in your health wow what have

thought just massaging the area can

bring so many benefits yeah and there's

actually something called milking the

prostate which we've talked about before

which is a rhythmic sort of massage that

can actually release prostatic fluid

thus reducing inflammation even further

so not only are we bringing blood flow

in we're reducing and releasing some of

that prostatic fluid so it's a two for

one to help to reduce inflammation in

the prostate milk in the prostate I

remember that from previous videos yeah

if you're interested you could take a

look at the other videos that have

prostate in the title I guarantee we're

talking about milking the prostate

somewhere in those videos yes I'm pretty

sure there's actually some peer-reviewed

medical journals out there that have

shown that continued massage to the

prostate of course again is going to

further reduce inflammation by milking

releasing that prostatic fluid

increasing blood flow and this may

actually reduce the risk for prostate

cancer yeah there's a lot more studies

that need to be done but the initial

things that are coming out are very

positive in fact one in eight men are

going to get diagnosed with prostate

cancer at some point in their lives so

it's definitely something to consider to

further reduce your risk and there's

some pleasure along the way and so what

are the sexual benefit to ring the

prostate so many men that do proceed

with prostate stimulation often report

that their orgasms are not only more

satisfying but more intense so a more

intense and satisfying orgasm is

certainly going to benefit your sexual

health it can increase libido which is

our sex drive and pleasure so of course

this adds another dimension or layer to

the sexual experience absolutely

everyone should try it yeah accepting

this as an activity that you may want to

partake in with your partner is going to

only enhance your overall sexual

satisfaction and the things you get to

do together together that sounds fun

don't you agree I certainly agree okay

let's go back to the questions yes back

to the questions what is internal

prostate stimulation so internal

prostate stimulation refers to the

direct stimulation of the prostate

through the rectum so it's going to be

an insertion of either fingers or toys

specifically designed to stimulate the

prostate in order to get into that area

and apply direct pressure on the

prostate itself thus leading to the

stimulation and their physical response

which is typically feeling pretty good

definitely going to cause an increase in

your arousal State and of course may

result in a powerful orgasm interesting

good to know it's important to also know

proper hygiene of course is always

recommended wash the hands wash the toys

and you want to make sure you are

relaxed that external sphincter needs to

be in a more relaxed tone so that you're

able to easily access through the rectum

and of course you want to use plenty of

lubricant so you can make sure that

you're enjoying yourself throughout the

process all those things we already talk

about this in the channel again if you

haven't seen those videos yet please go

back a little bit yeah we've talked

about the importance of all these things

and we will continue to probably talk

about them in the future it seems to be

our favorite topic well what do you

think and what is external prostate

stimulation so of course external

prostate stimulation just like it sounds

is going to be more external this is

going to be the stimulation of the area

called the perenium so this is between

the scrotum and the anus and so it's

external so that means it's probably

less intimidating for people out there

who aren't quite ready to insert or to

penetrate things into that area you want

to consider using your fingers which you

can lightly rub around the area you can

also by vibrating toys specifically

designed to stimulate the area as well

and it's going to often result in a

similar response so you're going to feel

maybe more roused and in more of a

powerful orgasm once you get to that

that timing and so what are some

techniques for internal prostate

stimulation so to find the prostate you

want to First lubricate either your

finger or a toy specifically designed to

reach the prostate and look for or feel

for a walnut sized organ towards the

front it's not going to necessarily feel

like a walnut and it's not going to have

any ridges like that it's going to be

about a walnut size and so I have had

some people leave comments saying I

can't find it I don't feel something

like a walnut it kind of feels like the

back of the palm of your hand kind of

like more firm than the rest of the area

and it's quite small at least it should

be um and you will probably feel as

you're rubbing it as though you may have

to urinate or like that sensation which

sometimes feels good when you're

urinating at least that's how I would

describe that feeling um but once you've

started to feel that way you're at the

right spot very detail explanation thank

you so much yeah and so you want to

apply gentle sort of force and rub and

rhythmic pattern around that area and

typically you're going to have a nice

response to that if you feel any pain or

discomfort it's probably a sign you're

not doing something correctly or you

should give yourself some time or maybe

talk to someone to give you more of a

thorough stepbystep construction cuz

there should be no pain or discomfort

most people are going to feel pleasure

and again you want to do that sort of

rhythmic back and forth movement that's

going to help to milk the prostate which

is not only going to result in again

releasing that prostatic fluid to reduce

inflammation increase blood flow but get

pleasure as well so it's a three for one

three for one that sounds like a good

deal and we're always looking for deals

and what are some techniques for

external prostate stimulation I think

the most important part here is to find

the perenium which is really not that

difficult it's between your scrotum and

your anus if you're a male and so once

you kind of identify that area you

should already probably know that it's

quite sensitive there's can be some

pleasure when you caress that area or

rub that area so similarly you want to

take a couple fingers or a toy that

vibrates and you can put it in that area

consistent sort of friction and rubbing

in the area is going to result in

pleasure and it's something you can do

when you are with a partner or by

yourself you can add masturbation into

it to really heighten the level of

sexual intensity uh and again it is

quite easy for a novice or a beginner to

start using

um things to pleasure that area or your

fingers because it's not too

intimidating it's external and it

doesn't require too much uh pressure s

to speak I love how you mentioned the

combination with other seal activities

because that can enhance things

absolutely and that is what we're here

to help you with to enhance things that

should be our logo enhancing things yeah

enhancing your life I'm down that sounds

perfect and how your partners go about

press stimulation so open communication

and consent are going to be key here you

don't want to start putting fingers and

toys in places that people aren't quite

ready for you also want to be aware of

whether or not your partner has a

prostate if they don't they may not know

you want your stimulated so being able

to say hey this is something I'd like to

try and hopefully you are in a

comfortable relationship or relationship

with that person uh enough to say hey

this is what I'm trying to do to enhance

our sexuality our sex life and I think

usually if you're in a good situation

the person's going to be very excited to

try something new with you or not as

long as you communicate and let them

know what's your preference and what you

want to accomplish absolutely I think

that's the key to starting any new sort

of technique or behavior especially in

the bedroom absolutely I agree yeah

discussing boundaries Comfort levels

things that you like or dislike are

going to be really important to help

build a trusting relationship where you

feel open enough to communicate these

things and thus have a more satisfying

sexual experience with your partner are

there techniques for partners to

consider yeah so I would say they're

about the same technique as what you

would do on your own using a finger or

two with plenty of lubricant or a toy

with plenty of lubricant that may

vibrate or may not that is intended to

stimulate the prostate are great places

to get started of course you want to be

aware of your partner's reactions as

you're going through the process I think

that's the technique or the tip that I

would give someone who's maybe engaging

in this the first time or maybe the

fifth time with their partner see how

they're responding see if they're

actually enjoying it it's pretty simple

to see how someone responds during a

sexual activity as their body's going to

give it away but that way you can learn

on your own what things your partner

likes or don't so you can always go back

to the back of your head and say hm what

should I pull out tonight or today or

this morning or whenever you're engaging

in your activities that's a great point

because a lot of times people don't know

what to say at that moment so it's

important to look at them and have their

feedback yeah it's the best way to get

feedback in an activity in my opinion

especially a sexual activity is to just

take a look at how your partner

responding their body will tell you body

language it is absolutely and who can

benefit from this activity well if you

have a prostate you can likely benefit

from this activity regardless of the

fact that it's very taboo and it can be

extremely uncomfortable to talk to your

partner about this to even acknowledge

that this is something you want to do

prostate simulation is not related to

your sexual orientation or your identity

it's just about having a good time

exploring your body and being able to

share that experience with someone that

you love or someone that you want to get

things on with absolutely let's break

the taboo everyone deserves their

prostate to be rubbed if they have one

absolutely why not and that's what we do

here on the tea we try to break stigmas

break taboos and hope that you are all

enjoying your sexual life with your

partner or by yourself but if you have

other questions for us let us know you

know what to do comment like share post

drop a b all those things yeah and if

you have questions about this video or

things that we discussed in this video

you'd like to hear more about you can

also leave those below your comments

mean the world to us your comments mean

the world to Laval somebody left

comments about how we didn't introduce

him in our last video and he was very

upset so we're glad that we can get on

the same page hopefully he will be with

us for a long time because you don't

want to upset Laval no absolutely not

she will be very mad and upset

absolutely do it but we hope to see you

at a next video next week where we will

be discussing something sexual health

related and hopefully something that

you've left us in the comments below so

until then we will see you next time

thanks for watching bye