How to Approach Women
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the host, Jonathan, shares tips on confidently approaching women. He emphasizes the importance of not letting a woman of interest pass by without making an approach. He suggests starting with a simple introduction and asking qualifying questions to gauge her interest. The video also covers the significance of body language, voice, and self-awareness. Jonathan advises giving your number and making a smooth exit to create anticipation for a follow-up. He encourages viewers to embrace rejection and build a rotation of potential connections, highlighting the effectiveness of his approach through personal anecdotes.
Takeaways
- 😀 Confidence is key when approaching women.
- 📞 If you're interested, don't let her walk past; make an approach.
- 👋 Introduce yourself and ask for her name to establish a connection.
- 🤔 Ask open-ended questions to qualify her interest without revealing your intentions.
- 💬 Keep the conversation short to create mystery and intrigue.
- 📱 Offer your number and make a smooth exit to show you're not overly available.
- 🚶♂️ Use body language effectively to communicate non-verbally.
- 🗣️ Work on your voice and articulation as it can significantly impact how you're perceived.
- 🔁 Embrace rejection as part of the process to improve your approach skills.
- 👥 Be self-aware and use your peripheral vision to notice opportunities to approach women.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script?
-The main theme of the video script is about approaching women with confidence and providing tips on how to make a strong and memorable first impression.
Why does the script emphasize not letting a woman walk past without an approach?
-The script emphasizes not letting a woman walk past to seize the opportunity to initiate a conversation, as it's important to act when there's interest and not miss the chance to connect.
What is the significance of making eye contact when approaching a woman?
-Making eye contact is significant because it's a non-verbal way to express interest and can lead to a verbal interaction, which is the first step in approaching someone.
What are the two forms of cooperation the script mentions during an approach?
-The two forms of cooperation mentioned are when a woman provides her name and when she answers a qualifying question, both of which show her initial engagement and willingness to interact.
Why does the script suggest asking questions that qualify the woman without her knowing what for?
-Asking qualifying questions without the woman knowing their purpose creates intrigue and makes her think about why she's being asked, which can lead to a more engaging conversation.
What is the purpose of giving your number and making a smooth exit after an approach?
-The purpose of giving your number and making a smooth exit is to show confidence and create a sense of urgency, making the woman more likely to text you and set up a future meeting.
Why should a man not be too available when a woman texts after an approach?
-Not being too available when a woman texts helps maintain an air of mystery and keeps the interaction balanced, which can be more attractive and lead to a healthier dynamic in the relationship.
How does body language play a role in approaching women according to the script?
-Body language plays a crucial role as it can communicate confidence and interest non-verbally, which can attract women and make them more open to conversation.
What does the script suggest about the importance of voice and articulation when approaching women?
-The script suggests that a man's voice and articulation are important because they can make a woman interested in having a conversation, even if she's not physically close enough to hear the content of the conversation.
Why does the script encourage embracing rejection when approaching women?
-Embracing rejection is encouraged because it helps build resilience and confidence, and it's a part of the process in increasing the chances of success in future approaches.
What advice does the script give for men who think certain approaches won't work for them?
-The script advises men not to dismiss approaches by saying 'it won't work for me' without trying, as every man has different experiences and it's important to get in the field and not be discouraged by initial setbacks.
Outlines
😀 Approaching Women with Confidence
The paragraph introduces a video script where the speaker, Stephen, engages in a conversation with Sarah. He advises viewers on how to approach women confidently, emphasizing the importance of not letting a woman walk past without initiating a conversation. He shares a personal anecdote where he successfully gets Sarah's number by asking open-ended questions and gradually qualifying her interest. The speaker also stresses the significance of body language and voice modulation, suggesting that these non-verbal cues can significantly influence a woman's perception and willingness to engage.
🗣️ The Power of Voice and Body Language
In this paragraph, the speaker continues to elaborate on the techniques for approaching women, focusing on the role of voice and body language. He asserts that a confident and articulate voice can attract women, urging viewers to work on their vocal delivery. The speaker also encourages self-awareness and the use of peripheral vision to notice women who might be interested. He shares his experiences where his voice has been appreciated by women, highlighting the impact it can have on initial interactions. The paragraph concludes with a scenario where the speaker uses his voice and body language to invite a woman for a date, reinforcing the message that confidence and communication skills are key in such social encounters.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Approach
💡Confidence
💡Eye Contact
💡Cooperation
💡Mystery
💡Qualifying
💡Resistance
💡Body Language
💡Rejection
💡Voice
💡Banter
Highlights
Introduction to the conversation with Sarah, where the speaker expresses interest in getting to know her.
The speaker's preference for hot dogs over omelets and the casual approach to conversation.
The speaker's direct approach to asking for Sarah's phone number to stay in touch.
The importance of not letting a woman of interest walk past without initiating a conversation.
The technique of making initial eye contact and using it as a catalyst for approaching.
The simplicity of introducing oneself as a means to start a conversation.
The concept of seeking cooperation through conversation and qualifying the other person.
The strategic use of questions to gauge interest and maintain mystery.
The playful yet serious approach to asking personal questions to stand out.
The advice on giving one's number and making a smooth exit to pique interest.
The emphasis on not being too available to maintain a sense of intrigue.
The speaker's personal testimony on the effectiveness of the approach methods discussed.
The encouragement to approach women with confidence and without fear of rejection.
The importance of body language in non-verbal communication and its role in attracting women.
The speaker's advice on being self-aware and using peripheral vision to notice opportunities.
The impact of voice and articulation on approaching women and initiating conversation.
The final approach scenario where the speaker invites a woman on a date.
Transcripts
hi how's it going good
are you from here
yeah what's your name Sarah
Stephen nice to meet you yeah nice to
meet you what are you up to
oh nice you guys making lunch or what
yeah yeah what are you making
what I don't like omelets I was gonna go
get a hot dog
but uh yeah I don't know you but I'd
like to know you eventually okay so you
should take my number and then hit me up
okay and we'll make it's 289
three
all right okay what was your name again
Sarah Sarah nice to meet you thank you
see you around
[Music]
what's good guys it's your boy Jonathan
J coming to you with another video I
know it's hard for a lot of guys to
approach women out there so I figured
I'd make this video to give you guys
that confidence to show you how to make
a strong approach a lasting memorable
approach guys when you see a woman
walking past right or coming towards you
don't let her walk past you if you see
her and you're like yo I want that I
think she's beautiful I like her I want
to talk to her do not let her walk past
you guys if she's coming towards you you
make eye contact or you just give her a
look and if you make eye contact guys
and she's staring back at you you walk
right up to her guys and you just make
it as simple as possible hey my name is
Justin I noticed you were coming down
there I figured I'd introduce myself
what's your name you are only looking
for two forms of cooperation you want to
keep this interaction short because that
creates mystery so once she gives you
her name that is one form of cooperation
understand follow me right so so then
you're going to ask her a question that
somewhat qualifies her but she doesn't
know what she's being qualified for so
if I live in Wayne and I ask her hey do
you stay close to Wayne and her mind is
going to go off why is this guy asking
me this but the other half of her brain
is saying I know why he's asking me this
so if she gives resistance she knows why
you're asking she wants no involvement
she wants she does not want to
participate in whatever you're trying to
offer right so when she answers that's
another form of cooperation and that
turns into another question which turns
into another question which turns into
another question now you're going to
look for another form of cooperation you
don't really need this one but if you
have the confidence it always kicks off
a good conversation
you ask her a question that qualifies
her but you're playing around like this
time but you're playing but you want to
be serious so is that your natural hair
color are you a brunette are you a real
blonde
and guys if she answers like yeah why
you say oh I really like the natural
thing I like girls who Rock their
natural color she's going to be thinking
in her mind wait a minute who the hell
are you
I just met you and you're bringing
energy like I need to qualify for you
this guy must be
that dude I just met you there's
something about this guy she might not
like it but this leads out women because
remember you want to deal with women who
like you like I always say Embrace
rejection that's how you're going to get
good at this guys next thing you're
going to want to do is you're going to
want to give her your number and then
make a smooth exit like kind of like
you're in a rush or you got something to
do and you really want her to text you
so you can get together and set
something up and then you just remove
yourself from the situation and go about
your day wait for her to text you guys
and when she texts you never be too
available guys this is going to help you
be able to go out and approach more
girls while you still have this option
you build another option you build
another option you build a rotation and
when you're out and about guys you have
to work on your body language guys a lot
of men probably think that they won't
meet a girl they can't talk to a girl
you can talk to women non-verbally guys
you can make approaches non-verb you got
to work on them My Three Sons
okay how's it going
oh thank you
guys it works trust and believe it works
I am not kidding women will actually
come to you like if you want like that
guys I'm confident as hell so I know
that this stuff works but I'm trying to
show you and never be that guy that goes
well that won't work for me he's
definitely lying or he's got muscles
guys don't be that guy every guy has
different experiences it's a numbers
game you have to play the game get in
the field do not get your feelings hurt
how is she supposed to like you if you
aren't sure of yourself never let her
walk past you how is she supposed to
like you if you don't know the right
questions to ask you're thinking about
what she wants you to ask like I said
are you a real blonde or are you a real
brunette she's looking at me like yo who
is this dude because I'm sure of myself
these are questions that I want to ask
guys you got to follow me here you have
to be that dude
because she's gonna know that you're
that dude because you know that you're
that dude and never be afraid to
approach out here guys you would be
surprised a lot of girls are really
interested that's why I always say be
self-aware learn how to use your
peripheral Gus there's a lot of girls
who chews on you and you might not have
the best bodies all in how you carry
yourself in the words you use how your
voice comes across too guys work on your
voice
I am telling you women always tell me
wow I love talking to you I just love
the sound of your voice so it's like if
I never made the approach she would have
never heard how my voice sound so with
the body language too
you have to use your voice guys you have
to know how to articulate yourself in a
way where a woman can hear you talking
with someone else and she's thinking
like I want that guy to approach me like
I want to approach that guy I want to
have conversation with that guy I want
to have banter with that gut trust and
believe your voice plays a big part in
approaching women you're really um
pretty
[Music]
oh cool
um would you like to go on a date
sometime
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