If A Girl is Looking At You, DO THIS! (LIVE Example!)

Benjamin Seda
22 Sept 202305:43

Summary

TLDRThis video script offers a three-step guide for confidently approaching women when making eye contact. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining eye contact, using it as a cue to approach, and executing the approach with simple, direct communication. The speaker shares personal experiences and tips, like smiling and nodding to gauge interest, and highlights the benefits of being well-dressed and confident. The script concludes with an invitation to a free live class for further insights on attracting women through effective social interactions.

Takeaways

  • 👀 Maintain eye contact when a girl looks at you; it's a crucial step in showing confidence and interest.
  • 🔄 Don't look away immediately; instead, hold the eye contact until she breaks it, which demonstrates strength and nonchalance.
  • 🤔 Practice eye contact in daily life to overcome the discomfort and to appear more confident and intentional.
  • 😁 Use a smile and nod as an initial non-verbal cue to gauge a girl's interest, but don't let it replace approaching her.
  • 💪 If eye contact is made more than twice, it's a signal to approach the girl, as girls rarely initiate contact.
  • 👌 Even if unsure of your interest, approach anyway to get a better look and make a more informed decision.
  • 👕 Stand out by being well-dressed, which can attract more positive attention from women.
  • 🚀 Execute the approach confidently; a simple 'Hi, I thought you were cute' can be enough to start a conversation.
  • 💬 Don't overthink what to say; any conversation starter is better than none, and it shows you're willing to take the initiative.
  • 🤓 The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking chances and risks to gain more rewards in social interactions.
  • 🔗 Sign up for the free live class to learn more about approaching and attracting women, which includes a full interaction breakdown.

Q & A

  • What is the first step suggested when a girl makes eye contact with you?

    -The first step is to look back at her and maintain eye contact instead of looking away.

  • Why is it important not to look away immediately after making eye contact with a girl?

    -Looking away immediately can show a lack of confidence and is a major turn-off, as it suggests weakness.

  • What is the purpose of holding eye contact until the other person looks away?

    -Holding eye contact until the other person looks away demonstrates confidence and can be a way to gauge interest.

  • What is a 'pro tip' mentioned in the script for practicing eye contact?

    -The 'pro tip' is to practice locking eyes with people you walk past on the street and in day-to-day life without being aggressive about it.

  • What does the script suggest doing when you first catch a girl looking at you, if you're interested in her?

    -The script suggests doing a smile and nod as a way to communicate that you're normal and understand social cues, and to gauge her interest.

  • What does the script advise against in terms of waiting for a girl to approach you?

    -The script advises against waiting for a girl to approach you because it rarely happens, and it's important to take the initiative as a guy.

  • What is the significance of approaching a girl even if you're unsure if she's the right fit for you?

    -Approaching a girl even if you're unsure helps you get a better look at her and determine your interest immediately, rather than missing an opportunity.

  • What is the third step mentioned in the script for approaching a girl who has made eye contact with you?

    -The third step is to execute the approach by walking over and starting a conversation with the girl.

  • What is an example of a simple opening line suggested in the script for approaching a girl?

    -An example of a simple opening line is 'Hi, I saw you and wanted to come meet you. I'm [Your Name].'

  • What is the main message the script conveys about taking chances and risks in social interactions?

    -The main message is that being willing to take more chances and risks will lead to more rewards, such as successful social interactions and relationships.

  • What additional resource is offered at the end of the script for those interested in learning more about approaching and attracting women?

    -A free live class is offered, where the host will show a full uncut interaction and breakdown of approaching a model during New York Fashion Week and answer questions.

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