Why Is The #Narcissist Hiding Now?

Summary

In this video, the speaker explores the concept of narcissists 'hiding' after a relationship ends. They discuss the common belief that narcissists are busy seeking new sources of supply, but also highlight the possibility that they may be hiding out of shame, especially if the person they discarded has moved on and is thriving. The speaker encourages viewers to continue living their best lives, as this success can cause narcissists to retreat, showcasing their inability to handle seeing someone they discarded succeed and flourish.

Takeaways

• 😀 The speaker invites viewers to subscribe and engage with the content by liking and following.
• 🔍 The video discusses a unique topic: the idea of a narcissist hiding or being absent from a person's life after a relationship ends.
• 🗑️ The concept of 'discard' is redefined, suggesting that a narcissist doesn't truly discard their targets but may shelve them for potential future use.
• 🔎 Reasons for a narcissist's absence are explored, including the possibility that they are occupied with new sources of supply or 'narcissistic supply'.
• 🚀 The video suggests that a narcissist may hide if the person they were involved with has improved significantly after leaving the relationship, outshining the narcissist's expectations.
• 📉 The speaker describes a scenario where the narcissist's smear campaign backfires because the person they spoke ill of is thriving and successful.
• 👑 The empowerment of the individual who has left the narcissist is highlighted, emphasizing personal growth and resilience.
• 🤫 The idea that a narcissist may hide out of shame is presented, as they see their former partner living a better life without them.
• 🏆 The speaker encourages viewers to continue living their best lives to outshine the narcissist and to take pride in their personal achievements.
• 👋 The final message is to keep moving forward and not to engage with the narcissist, leaving them in the past.

Q & A

What is the main topic of the video?

The main topic of the video is discussing the behavior of narcissists, specifically when they go into hiding or become difficult to find.

What does the speaker suggest when a narcissist is not seen or heard from?

The speaker suggests that when a narcissist is not seen or heard from, it could be because they are busy with a new supply or because they have been shamed into hiding due to the success of the person they discarded.

What is the term used in the video to describe the narcissist's attempt to regain control after being discarded?

The term used in the video to describe the narcissist's attempt to regain control is 'hoover attempts'.

What does the speaker mean by 'shelved' or 'benched' in the context of a narcissist's behavior?

The speaker means that the narcissist has not truly discarded the person but has temporarily set them aside for possible future use.

What is the 'illusion of the new supply' mentioned in the video?

The 'illusion of the new supply' refers to the idea that narcissists are always seeking new sources of attention and admiration, but they may not actually have a genuine new source of supply.

Why does the speaker believe narcissists never truly discard their targets?

The speaker believes narcissists never truly discard their targets because they always keep the possibility of using them as a source of supply in the future.

What does the speaker suggest is a possible reason for a narcissist hiding after a breakup?

A possible reason for a narcissist hiding after a breakup is that the person they discarded has improved their life significantly, making the narcissist feel ashamed of their lies and smear campaign.

What is the term used in the video to describe people who report back to the narcissist about the person they discarded?

The term used in the video to describe people who report back to the narcissist is 'flying monkeys'.

What does the speaker mean by 'bossing up' and 'leveling up' after leaving a relationship with a narcissist?

The speaker means that after leaving a relationship with a narcissist, one should take control of their life, improve themselves, and rise above the situation they were in.

What advice does the speaker give to those who have left a relationship with a narcissist?

The speaker advises to continue living their best life, improving, and showing the narcissist that they are winning and shining without them.

What is the final message the speaker conveys to viewers who have left a narcissistic relationship?

The final message is to keep growing and succeeding, making the narcissist realize their mistake in discarding the person, and to not engage with the narcissist but to focus on their own success.