NukeStream: Hypergamy Doesn't Care
Summary
TLDRThe video script delves into the concept of hypergamy, exploring its impact on dating and relationships from a male perspective. It challenges misconceptions, discusses the duality of women's mating strategies, and emphasizes the importance of self-improvement for men. The speaker advocates understanding hypergamy to navigate romantic dynamics effectively, suggesting that it ultimately serves those who better themselves rather than relying on societal standards or expectations.
Takeaways
- 😀 The speaker emphasizes that hypergamy is a misunderstood concept, particularly among men, and aims to clarify misconceptions about it.
- 👨🦱 The script suggests that men often struggle to accept the reality of hypergamy, which can lead to emotional reactions and difficulty in relationships.
- 🤔 The discussion highlights that hypergamy is not a 'straight jacket' for women, meaning women aren't constantly seeking to upgrade their partners without considering other factors.
- 🧬 It is mentioned that hypergamy has biological roots and is tied to women's ovulatory shifts, indicating a deeper, instinctual drive behind the behavior.
- 💡 The speaker argues that understanding hypergamy can be beneficial for men, as it provides a clear path for self-improvement and a better approach to dating and relationships.
- 🔄 The script points out that hypergamy is not a new phenomenon but has become more 'open' and visible in today's society, which can be challenging for men to process.
- 💰 There's a critique of the idea that wealth alone ('beta bucks') can secure a woman's commitment, suggesting that other factors like personality and attraction are also crucial.
- 🤝 The speaker encourages men to focus on becoming the best version of themselves, which includes physical fitness, charm, and a fulfilling life, rather than solely on financial success.
- 🚫 The script rejects the notion that men should ignore hypergamy, stating that awareness of it can lead to better relationships and personal growth.
- 🔄 It discusses the impact of 'open hypergamy' on men's self-esteem and the importance of maintaining self-respect and not seeking validation from women.
- 🎯 The final point is that hypergamy is indifferent to a man's efforts, feelings, or qualities, and that men should focus on self-improvement regardless of its influence on relationships.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in this video script?
-The main topic discussed in this video script is hypergamy, its misconceptions, and how it affects both men and women in the context of dating and relationships.
What does the speaker claim about hypergamy being a 'container word'?
-The speaker claims that hypergamy has become a 'container word' for negative behaviors attributed to women, often used to label them as 'bad' without necessarily understanding the concept fully.
How does the speaker describe the relationship between hypergamy and men's understanding of women?
-The speaker describes that hypergamy is something men need to understand because it affects how they interface and form relationships with women, especially in dating and marriage.
What misconception does the speaker address regarding hypergamy being a 'straight jacket' for women?
-The speaker addresses the misconception that hypergamy is a 'straight jacket', implying that women are constantly seeking to replace their partners with someone of higher status, which is not always the case.
What is the speaker's view on the impact of hypergamy on men's self-improvement?
-The speaker believes that hypergamy can serve men by motivating them to improve themselves, as it suggests that to be successful in dating and relationships, men should strive to be more attractive and provide better value.
How does the speaker differentiate between 'alpha' and 'beta' in the context of hypergamy?
-The speaker differentiates 'alpha' as men who are seen as more attractive and dominant, while 'beta' refers to men who are seen as providers and more stable but less exciting. Hypergamy is about women's tendency to seek the 'alpha' for short-term relationships and 'beta' for long-term security.
What does the speaker suggest about the role of societal shame in hypergamy?
-The speaker suggests that societal shame plays a significant role in hypergamy, as it can influence the choices women make in relationships, especially when it comes to being with someone of higher or lower socioeconomic status.
What is the speaker's perspective on the importance of understanding hypergamy for men in relationships?
-The speaker believes that understanding hypergamy is crucial for men in relationships as it helps them to navigate the complexities of dating and mating strategies, and to better understand the motivations behind women's behaviors.
How does the speaker view the concept of 'mate switching' in relation to hypergamy?
-The speaker views 'mate switching' as a part of the broader concept of hypergamy, where women may trade up for partners who better meet their needs or desires, but clarifies that it is not the sole determinant of women's relationship choices.
What advice does the speaker give to men who struggle with the concept of hypergamy?
-The speaker advises men to accept the reality of hypergamy and use it as motivation for self-improvement. He suggests that men should focus on becoming more attractive and valuable in the eyes of women rather than trying to change women's hypergamous tendencies.
Outlines
😀 Introduction to Hypergamy and Its Misconceptions
The speaker begins by addressing the topic of hypergamy, a concept he describes as widely misunderstood, especially among men. He mentions his late start due to real-world commitments and introduces the idea that hypergamy is a subject men need to understand, as it pertains to their interactions with women in dating and marriage. The speaker aims to clarify misconceptions about hypergamy and asserts that it can work in men's favor more than they realize. He acknowledges the lack of prepared notes and invites the audience to engage through questions or comments.
😡 The Emotional Reactions to Hypergamy
This paragraph delves into the emotional reactions people have towards hypergamy, with some avoiding it due to discomfort and others accepting it but with bitterness. The speaker criticizes the tendency to sugarcoat language when discussing sensitive topics like hypergamy and argues for the importance of facing the truth. He challenges the idea that hypergamy is solely about women being 'bad' and emphasizes the need to understand women's motivations and behaviors in the context of societal expectations and pressures.
🤔 The Societal Shaming and Hypergamy
The speaker discusses societal shame and its impact on hypergamy, explaining that high-status individuals, fearing damage to their reputation, often hide their relationships or romantic entanglements. He uses examples of celebrities to illustrate how public figures manage their image in relation to hypergamy and points out the fallacy in the belief that hypergamy is solely about socioeconomic status. The speaker emphasizes the complexity of hypergamy and its interaction with societal norms and individual behaviors.
🧬 Hypergamy and Biological Rationale
Here, the speaker provides a biological perspective on hypergamy, using the example of a tribe to illustrate how women might choose mates based on survival and genetic advantages. He argues against the oversimplification of hypergamy and criticizes the emotionalism and solipsism that have crept into social sciences, suggesting that uncomfortable truths about human behavior are often ignored or dismissed.
🚶♂️ The Societal Impact of Hypergamy and Dating
The speaker addresses the societal implications of hypergamy, particularly the issue of men not finding partners and the rise of 'incels.' He criticizes the tendency to blame men for societal dating issues and argues that hypergamy is a natural part of the dating market. The speaker suggests that understanding hypergamy can help men navigate the dating scene more effectively and highlights the importance of recognizing the reality of hypergamy in modern society.
💸 Misconceptions About Hypergamy and Wealth
In this paragraph, the speaker dispels the misconception that hypergamy is only about wealth or status, using examples of wealthy men who are still subject to hypergamy. He argues that hypergamy is not a 'straightjacket' and that there are ways for men to counteract it, such as by being more charming or fit. The speaker emphasizes that hypergamy is a pervasive force but not an insurmountable one.
🔄 The Fluid Nature of Hypergamy
The speaker discusses the fluid nature of hypergamy, explaining that it is not as rigid as some believe. He uses personal anecdotes to illustrate how women can be attracted to or engage with men who are not their partners, without it necessarily meaning they are seeking a replacement. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding that hypergamy does not preclude loyalty or satisfaction in a relationship.
💡 Understanding Hypergamy as a Male Advantage
The speaker encourages men to view hypergamy as an advantage, arguing that it can serve as a motivator for self-improvement and a guide in understanding female behavior. He suggests that embracing the concept of hypergamy can lead to a more empowered and successful approach to dating and relationships, and that it is crucial for men to recognize the benefits it can bring to their lives.
🚫 The Non-Negotiability of Genuine Desire
In this paragraph, the speaker discusses the concept of genuine desire in relationships, stating that it cannot be negotiated or forced. He criticizes behaviors such as asking women to delete social media or change their behavior as signs of insecurity and a lack of genuine desire. The speaker emphasizes that true desire is demonstrated through actions that show a woman's commitment and certainty in her choice of partner.
🔄 The Transformation from Beta to Alpha
The speaker addresses the possibility of a man changing from a 'beta' to an 'alpha' within a relationship, explaining the challenges and resistance that can come with such a transformation. He suggests that women may test the congruency of a man's new behavior and that significant changes can lead to the end of a relationship. The speaker encourages men to pursue self-improvement regardless of the potential consequences.
💔 The Reality of Breakups and Moving On
Here, the speaker discusses the reality of breakups, suggesting that they often occur when a man begins to assert himself and realizes he deserves better. The speaker advises men not to take breakups personally and to focus on self-improvement rather than trying to change a failing relationship. He emphasizes the importance of understanding that relationships are a part of life, not the entirety of it.
🚀 Embracing the Red Pill Philosophy
The speaker encourages embracing the 'red pill' philosophy as a way to understand and accept the realities of dating and relationships. He argues against the 'blue pill' approach, which he sees as a comfortable but suboptimal way of thinking. The speaker suggests that understanding hypergamy and the red pill can lead to a more fulfilling and successful life.
👫 The Differences in Male and Female Mating Strategies
In this paragraph, the speaker highlights the differences between male and female mating strategies, emphasizing that men are not hypergamous in the same way women are. He discusses how men's preferences can vary widely and adapt to what is available, whereas women are more selective and focused on the top men. The speaker argues against the idea that men are only attracted to the hottest women and suggests that men's preferences are more diverse.
🤔 The Impact of Open Hypergamy on Men
The speaker discusses the concept of 'open hypergamy,' where women openly display their sexual strategies and success, and its impact on men. He suggests that this can be difficult for men to handle, as it often involves women bragging about aspects of their sexuality that can be distressing for men to hear. The speaker advises men to be easy on themselves and not take open hypergamy too personally.
🏋️♂️ The Importance of Self-Improvement
The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-improvement for men, suggesting that working on oneself can lead to success in dating and relationships. He argues that men should focus on becoming the best version of themselves, which can include physical fitness, charm, and game. The speaker predicts a widening gap between 'alpha' and 'beta' men in the future, urging men to double down on their alpha characteristics.
💰 The Misunderstanding of Beta Bucks
The speaker clarifies the misconception that wealth alone (referred to as 'beta bucks') is enough to attract women. He argues that while money can be attractive, it is not the sole factor and that other alpha traits such as charm, intelligence, and physical fitness are also important. The speaker encourages men to avoid the entitlement mindset and to focus on becoming well-rounded, attractive individuals.
🚧 The Future of Dating and Hypergamy
In this final paragraph, the speaker predicts the future of dating in a world of open hypergamy, suggesting that the divide between alpha and beta men will continue to widen. He advises men to focus on developing alpha characteristics to become more attractive and warns against the pitfalls of delusion and entitlement in dating. The speaker concludes by emphasizing the importance of self-improvement and understanding the realities of hypergamy.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Hypergamy
💡Mate Switching
💡Beta Bucks
💡Alpha
💡Red Pill
💡Blue Pill
💡Socioeconomic Status
💡Open Hypergamy
💡Genuine Desire
💡Insecurity
💡Delusion
Highlights
Introduction of the concept of hypergamy and its significance in modern dating dynamics.
Discussion on the misconceptions surrounding hypergamy and its impact on men's understanding of dating and relationships.
The role of hypergamy in women's mate selection and how it is influenced by societal and biological factors.
Analysis of the term 'hypergamy' as a container for negative perceptions about women's dating behaviors.
Differentiating hypergamy from mate switching and explaining why both concepts can coexist.
The importance of recognizing hypergamy in order to navigate the complexities of modern relationships effectively.
Addressing the emotional reactions to hypergamy and the need for men to accept the reality of women's mating strategies.
Exploration of how hypergamy serves men by providing a pathway to self-improvement and understanding women's preferences.
The impact of societal shame and men's status on hypergamous behaviors and the tendency to hide relationships.
Discussion on the difference between 'she's not yours, just your turn' and hypergamy, and why they are interconnected.
The role of women's opportunistic nature in hypergamy and how it influences their dating and mating decisions.
Insights into how men can use their understanding of hypergamy to become more attractive and successful in dating.
The importance of not taking hypergamy personally and viewing it as a natural part of human mating dynamics.
Analysis of the consequences of ignoring hypergamy and the potential negative outcomes in relationships.
The role of self-improvement in overcoming the challenges posed by hypergamy and achieving personal success.
Final thoughts on hypergamy, its implications for men, and the importance of acceptance and understanding.
Transcripts
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hey y'all hey what's up guys it's
another uh episode of the nuke stream
sorry for being late had real world
stuff to take care of and running behind
but uh we're here now and that's what's
important um so today we're going to
talk about something very tough very
tough something that uh men really need
to understand everyone needs to
understand but mostly men because we're
the ones interfacing and um marrying
women and dating them and all that stuff
so
um understand that uh
this is this is it hypergamy right
hypergamy is the big word that it's like
it's the word that's in everyone's mouth
like I go out to wherever I go and I
hear friends cooworker and they they say
this word right I hear it in my real
life people say this word and a lot of
people have a lot of misconceptions
right whether it be they're emotional
about it whether they don't want to
accept it whether they accept it fully
but just you know it makes them bitter
everyone has a different relationship
with this word and this concept and um
you know and because it's something
that's becoming a container word for
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um uh for you know bad women or
something like women are hyperr meaning
oh they're bad I'm like not necessarily
right and you'll and at the end of the
show I want you guys to kind of
understand that hypergamy serves you
it's it's works for you more than it
works for women right um I know that's
hard hard to accept right with the way
you see things in and all that but um
yeah because of my long work schedule
today I didn't have I'm not going to
have as good notes as I did for my
previous episode so please excuse me I'm
kind of like just flying off um flying
off the Dome here right but I'll do my
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stuff so it's nice to see familiar faces
in the in the chat um and I'll try to be
a
succinct and please come with questions
or reputations or whatever right um I'm
here to trade notes like just like you
guys are but just know that uh you guys
got to get get over this stuff right if
you're not if if you if hypergamy still
hurts you right if hypergamy doesn't
care still hurts you if um she's not
yours just your turn still causes an
emotional reaction in you right you guys
have work to do right um a lot of guys
that have been replying to me in the
tweets have been asking to not use that
language right and that's a very female
way of thinking like men we need to be
told the truth it's like aren't you guys
tired of being lied to or for the gy
Centric Soul shorter to use mince words
with you you know you want to get told
the truth right so why do we have to you
know why is language why do you have to
regulate language for for for explaining
Concepts and terms it doesn't make sense
right um for hypergamy hypergamy sounds
like a very scientific term it's very
um it's very uh what do you call
it it's very pragmatic kind of
scientific right and you know there's a
lot of people that don't like it right
there's there there's debates you know
I've seen debates with only fans girls
with Google that think that you know
hypergamy isn't real because not because
they've observed it not to be real but
because it makes them feel icky right
because in order to understand women
guys you have to be able to discuss the
unflattering truths about them right
they are hellbent when I say they I mean
the guyos seual social order whether it
be uh psychologists whether it be your f
your friends and family whether it be
your employers whoever they hellbent on
trying to tell you that women are
they're the ones that things happen to
and we're the ones that do things right
in a sense that's correct but we're
trying to tell we're trying to PL or
trying to portray women as helpless like
nothing they do like everything they do
is because a man forced them to or
because of circumstances and all that
stuff but we know that's false right
that's step one is to realize like hey
women do things for a reason that's not
because they're just these helpless
little angels all right and one of the
things they do is trade up men for other
men and that's just a part of life right
that's why the phrase she's not yours
just your turn and hypergamy doesn't
care go hand inand right you can't have
one phrase without the other it's crazy
because you'll have you'll have guys
that totally accept hypergamy you know
they'll be like yeah hypergamy it's a
thing and exists and
then they at the same time they'll be
like she's you you'll say hey she's not
your it's just your turn but um they
hate that phrase say oh it's for cowards
I'm like well then that would imply that
you think you're the
best person that she's in the world
right like what the hell like you really
think you're the best man alive like
every woman that dates you and and
touches your dick is suddenly yours
forever because you're the best like
which one is
it right and then we have guys that are
like yeah she's not yours just your turn
but hypergamy doesn't exist thinking
that it's like free love like you know
it was just a Vibe and we were just
feeling each other those are the guys
that are like mat switching those are
the M switching people right the
intellectuals the people the people that
think that they can intellectualize
sexuality you know they're like hey your
IQ is similar to mine we can have sex
now like no that's not how how any of
this works right as a guy once if you if
you decide to choose to be a womanizer
right as a guy you're going to meet
women that are smarter than you like
like you know you're going to be maybe
you have a regular job but you're going
to meet women that are surgeons you're
going to meet women that are doctors
you're going to meet women that um are
physicists College professors and they
they'll love you they'll be like man
this guy's hot right if you put in the
work to be attractive um and then you'll
be wondering like these mat switching
losers you know these dorks that talk
about mate switching right um why why
are they so hell buun proving this
theory that hypergamy doesn't exist or
that hypergamy is going away why now and
they have different Arguments for that
right
um and one of the one of the biggest
arguments for them is that it's all
about socioeconomic status right like
like uh rich rich men don't go for poor
girls you never see it um and rich girls
don't go uh don't go for poor men and
you never see it and I'm here to tell
you that's very the reason they get this
wrong all the time
um is
that what happens
is that they forget that there's this
thing called societal shame right and
also they forget that women's inability
to hide other men from other men and
also they and the and also men that have
status a lot of times they have to hide
women right whether it be through
signing ndas whether it be just you know
like I am nobody guys I am nobody and I
am a on a a Facebook P I'm on several
Facebook pages where women are calling
me out for my past daating life right so
I can understand how a guy who's
actually has status like real status you
know whether it be a politician whether
it be a high position at a company
whether it be a doctor with his own
practice or or uh you know a school
principal any position where you your
your reputations on the line I could see
that going for young girls how dangerous
it could be so you have to stick with
women in your own
kind of cohort or your own socio
economic level because if you ever dip
below the guy social order would come
for you you know your you know they
would at a minimum criticize you and
you'd be looked at differently right so
that's why the made switching hypothesis
seems so real to people because they
don't understand that there's shame
right for guys with no shame that are
redpilled and woke woken up to to this
BS right we just do it anyway like you
know like good example is difference
between like a celebrity like um like
Will Smith who's you know whose
relationship is his brand part of his
brand versus Leo which Leo's like I
don't care I I didn't win an Oscar great
I'm gonna go party on a yacht with 24
year olds you know and I'm gonna date
multiple models and then when I they're
too old I just drop them off right um
that maybe he doesn't do it on purpose
maybe he does who knows but that's the
difference the difference is shame how
much shame does the guy have right and
that's shame is effective for men
especially men that aren't their on
point of origin right so when a guy like
uh Will Smith who who feels like his
relationship is is who he is and it's
part of who who he is right because
Hollywood's been foaming at the mouth to
like show how successful a Hollywood
marriage could be like Will and Jada
because as for years Me growing up it
was they were they were like the the
successful marriage in Hollywood when no
one else could be um you know to see it
crumble is very you know it's kind of
started to wake up guys in a sense that
they're realizing that hey um why did
why do these women that are have plenty
of money and plenty of status or just
higher socioeconomic level still go for
like guys that are like way down here
right they're they're handsome guys you
know like but I thought it was all about
money I thought it was all about status
I thought it was like to a point right
and that's and and that just shows you
guys that that they don't understand
hypergamy and that it has two sides and
that you know there's certain things
that hypergamy doesn't care about and
it's really easy to tell just think of
it biologically like if you're in a
tribe of 100 well let's say 100 people
right you know I was it dumb Bar's
number is 150 and um let's say
about 80% were women and 20% were men
let's say 100 right so you had let's say
30 men 70 women right so Alpha guy gets
three
second gets two and then the rest of the
guys get one and everyone's happy right
everyone's happy and all that stuff
right um but uh imagine you're in you're
in that and someone says Hey because you
go when you go do this thing in the
tribe you meet this girl you guys should
have sex right and you're like oh that
feels that feels really nice right like
two people in the tribe doing the same
thing and the same corner of the of the
tribe doing the same thing okay I can
see you know that that's to the person
who doesn't understand what hypergamy is
for but think about it right what if
that dude is just a weak fat you know
diseased guy and just because she goes
to the same spot this other tribe women
goes to they have to they're gonna
mate like hypergamy exists for a reason
she's probably going to be like oh this
disease guy I can't M with him because
he can't protect me and my my Offspring
will be weak so she has to go for the
alpha I'm like oh the alpha already has
two women already has had healthy
children and he's still alive he hasn't
been killed so something is about about
this guy is like hey I should probably
mate with this guy right but they don't
go that far I don't know why it just
just like science you don't need numbers
for everything you can use rationale you
can look at something and be like hey
hypergamy makes total sense in a
survival scenario it makes total sense
not only does it make total sense it's
like very obvious right like um the
problem is that we we've allowed female
solipsism and emotionalism into science
and into social sciences especially like
like psychology so whenever there is a
fact study or observation that paints
women in a negative light there can only
be two things um they have to either
make it a gender gender neutral problem
so you know they're not pointing it at
women or or they have to ignore it all
together it's those are basically the
two options more or less of when hey I
find we find a fact about women um and
sometimes there's just and then when
there's
something um that comes out about how
how much men are suffering due to social
issues like you know there's the GSS
survey where onethird of men aren't
getting laid or whatever up between 18
and 30 um we're they all act shocked
they're like
whoa what is going on it's feminism
teaching like like teaching women and
and this and the testosterone I'm like
no no no you see that as soon as we
start like kind of like looking at the
savagery of the dating market and then
we start having to we start having to
say things like hey there's no morality
in this right that's why the RP guys are
under attack because we're finally at a
time where we have to make a decision as
a society and it's just like hey we
cannot continue the path we're on with
this am many amount of men not
participating and not getting anything
out of life besides their sedations
right we cannot continue until we figure
out why this is and everyone has a
little you know there's there's a new
dating podcast or new dating show
whether it be a uh a woman that has 20
surgeries on her face saying you know um
red pillows evil blah blah blah to a
regular guy like me say Hey you know
she's not yours it's just turn hey
Logistics guys and dating like there's
there's all we we're popping up all over
the place and there's a reason right the
medium is a message and the medium is
sorry the message is dudes we're not
getting laid we're not having families
we're not having babies now there are
socioeconomic reasons for this there are
um you know uh humans tend to have less
children when things are really safe and
we're living in the safest time in
history right um so what happens now is
that Society is like okay what do we do
with this and it's just like they have
to acknowledge that women are are
hypergamous right because there is no
absolute way that if if if this
egalitarian model of
men um and women dating one for one
right um happens it is true that in
their mind then that would mean that no
one is going without sex or if 15% of
women aren't having sex or 14
then 14% of men aren't having sex but
that is not true right and I'm going to
say what I always like I said in the
last like four shows or last three shows
remember guys remember and take soless
this right Revenge fantasies aren't good
but take Sol Us in this that if when a
girl gets online and starts complaining
that men aren't stepping up that there's
too many or there's too many incels or
two you whatever she's complaining about
male performance and competence just
realize what she's really complaining
about is I'm tired of sharing
Alphas that's what they're saying
because if more men than women much more
men than women aren't getting laid then
that means there are men with two girls
three girls four girls right it's just
simple
mathematics it like there aren't there
aren't enough uh men for these women so
they're they're share they share them
and look at all these like like these
women on here that try to pro project
their how much they win at life because
they have men eating out of their pocket
they're all seeing a man at least one
and either most likely she's either
dating a blue pill dork right who lets
her do whatever she wants and talk talk
however she wants online and be
disrespectful right or she's sharing a
guy one or the other those because it's
like what Patrice O'Neal used to say you
guys remember Patrice O'Neal
um um Patrice O'Neal said he got on a
call with a woman and the woman started
insulting him right and she asked the
woman hey what does your husband do and
she said she's a truck he's a trucker
and Patrice O'Neal said
hey um no wonder he's a trucker so he
can get away from you because if you
talk to me like that a man that you
never met in your life imagine how you
talk to your husband who you know
completely right so when you see women
online I know Mech uh posts about this
all the time on he uses the meme right
um if a woman is online being
quarrelsome or just being a [ __ ] you
know whatever and she you know picks
fights with people or she goes after
people for no reason um she's probably
not that happy with the guy she's with
right um probably not that happy
and also let's say she is but she's
single she's sharing a guy most likely
right it's got because girls now have
access to you know the the world sexual
Marketplace is globalized girls can get
flown out everywhere not that they do
right uh I still I still don't see a lot
of men flying out the girls I haven't
observed it so I don't know it's anotal
for me but um but for the for the most
part
these women are not one to one right
because why because hypergamy hypergamy
is women would rather share an alpha
than be saddled with a loyal Duty for
beta here are a list of things that
women women would rather do except get
married to a boring dutiful loyal beta
they would rather rack up hundreds of
thousands or thousands of dollars in
school debt and have to pay it for the
rest of their for the next 20 years
right they would rather uh travel the
world and have sex with Alphas all over
the world right they would rather
um what else they would rather get
careers they'd rather there's so many
things that women would rather they'd
rather start internet accounts where
they bash men they'd rather uh there's
so many things women would rather do
except settle down with the beta and now
um
we're seeing that men are getting blamed
for this stuff right like I like I get
blamed all the time because I simply and
you know from the perspective of a lot
of people it's like I'm damaging women
like I go out I go on a date with a
woman I sleep with her or whatever and
then the next thing is just
like
um oh you know nuke you're you're the
problem right as if women didn't didn't
get to decide like as if women like I
have some kind of magical ability to to
to put thoughts in a woman's head to to
come on a date with me no right um
that's what losers say losers are the
ones that are mad that other men are
actually rising up to the challenge of
being attractive enough to get women
right that's that's losers but anyway
let me uh check out on the
chat uh we got godsby what's up my
friend
soq cool story your plan oh don't say
that Ryan puts a lot of work in those I
I it took me 30 seconds to make that
it's a crappy little
commercial uh we got Matthew W what's up
Matthew dubs we got uh
Matt we got the legendary Marty in sales
we got my boy Fred sup nuke hope you're
having a good night it's 2024 guys got
to get with the program no one's coming
to save you just find the tools and make
it work for you yeah pretty simple it's
easier said than done though my friend
we got unrealized thoughts hello
you got ttio what's up
d uh one thing that intrigues me is why
must hypergamy main switching be mutual
exclusive
um we can talk about that
um both hypothesis can be true at the
same time and even work together as an
integrated female sexual strategy uh
it's still hypergamy because what you're
referring to is hyper you think
hypergamy is a straight jacket and it's
not right we're going to get into that
uh all
right guys if you want to send a Super
Chat and stand out I'm getting a lot of
yeah licking the ice cream right all
right so first off let's talk about the
misconceptions of
um uh of hypergamy right so hypergamy
has several misconceptions and one of
them is that we've heard I don't know if
you've heard this phrase hypergamy is a
straight jacket right um and
and it's people tend to think of
hypergamy and
extremes right like if you get a girl
and you're walking
and Donald Trump is across the street
and she sees Donald Trump or whoever's
the top of the hierarchy right now um
she's going to run to him and leave you
forever right like that's what you guys
think not you guys but a lot of people
think hypergamy is
right
um that's not true right like you can be
you don't have to
be
um what do you call it you can be not
the best guy she's ever seen and you can
totally have her around your
finger right hypergamy when when people
want to use mate switching as a
foil to hypergamy or like hey it's
actually it's actually M switching it's
not hypergamy at all what happens is
what you're saying is that hypergamy is
a straight jacket and mate switching is
more realistic it's more played out in
front of us right but but remember this
right just like men have shame and men
have they think and are rational women's
innate biological drive to consolidate
on the best man is also a lot of
times practical right remember women are
opportunistic lovers they have to they
have to love and go after men that makes
sense to them right and it doesn't
always make sense to us right and I need
you guys to think like doesn't make
sense in the overall SC um
overall
uh in the overall scheme of things sorry
right
if if a girl goes out let's
say I met a a last year I met a
beautiful Japanese Puerto Rican girl at
Salsa night gorgeous she comes out with
her friend her little ho friend right
she and then I'm like wow like this is
like what I've always wanted a woman
like she's gorgeous
right
and I dance with her and I'm you know
I'm talking to her while we dance she's
having a good time and I'm teaching her
and you know sneaky old nuke just
running his game I slowly I teach her
how to swing her hips and all that stuff
and she's loving it you know know um and
then I start asking about herself and
then I find out hey she's married last
last week she got married right and also
find out she's a professor like this
girl's like a freaking gorgeous girl
like she's so feminine gorgeous but
she's like a professor so I'm like wow
this girl's like you
know um and her husband you know not
ugly and you know because I saw her
so nothing happened
and but she went out to go dance with me
with a guy like me
right
um what do you think happened there what
what was the overall concept she has to
realize like
hey this guy's attractive assuming that
I'm attractive I may not be to you guys
but assuming that I'm attractive
hey this guy's attractive I can't deny
it
um I'm getting my validation from him
but I love my husband and I have genuine
desire for my
husband you see how hypergamy is not a
straight
jacket people take hypergamy as
something like so so fierce in women
that if if they see a guy that's just
two inches taller than you and makes 5K
more than you it's over she's gone she's
going to jump from you there's nothing
pragmatic about a woman jumping complet
complely to another man you know even
within a relationship right um all the
time there there are you know it it's
usually when a woman is in a
relationship she's unhappy because uh
the guy no longer is who she thought or
never was or she had a kid and you know
um she got her uh she she because you
know they say uh when a woman has a kid
it's like uh poting not Clarity from it
you know woman having a kid is POS not
Clarity for women right so that's one of
the misconception of hypergamy is that
it's so absolutely Fierce and it's
so huge in women that they need to get
another guy instantly like every two
months because then they would be
jumping around men constantly and they
would never be able to settle they
wouldn't even ever get pregnant right
think about it like they would never get
pregnant takes about a month of you
having sex with a girl every day to get
her pregnant to because you don't know
know her you know her cycle if you know
so um yeah I know like are there are
there skanks yeah there's there's very
promiscuous women that are just like
they dat but women can't do that for a
long periods of time right there's con
consequences catch up I think the
longest woman can do that and not be
incredibly careful for a very long time
is like a year like after that it's just
like too they get too depressed or they
find a guy or they get pregnant become a
single mom or they get a bad STD or
something you know something happens
they C they catch feelings and they get
their heartbroken to the point where
they can't
even um deal with men anymore right so
yeah I want you guys to to learn that or
to know that hypergamy is in a strape
jacket and it and the reason mate
switching is is seen as a foil to
hypergamy is because people forget that
there's two sides of
hypergamy right so um and also it's not
a straight jacket right so let me read
this part hypergamy is a straight jacket
this is usually the most common concept
perception this is from Rolo's essay on
hypergamy the misconceptions right
hypergamy is an evolved social Dynamic
that is to say it is the behavioral
extension of the biological factors most
notably ovulatory shift I'll delve into
this in the convention that shall not be
named and I'll cover it and I covered in
this in your F menstruation but
hypergamy is a sexual strategy exclusive
to women it is the behavioral
manifestation comp complimentary to
women's hormonal biological realities a
hypogamy at it at its roots level root
level is about the most e
effic efficacious
pragmatic means of women becoming
fertile with the best genetic breeding
opportunities and simultaneously pairing
the long-term provisioning opportunities
available to a woman to a strictly
deductive analytical mindset hypergamy
seems a lot like a straight jacket if
you measure up you're golden if you
don't you're effed this this reflects a
binary either either uh either or
Extreme as such a paints hypergamy as
something insurmountable and very
deterministic I will admit I've read
some red pill guys either triumphantly
or defeatedly cop to this idea by
hypergamy where they both fail to
consider is women's individual capacity
to optimize hypergamy in a relative
contrast to their own smv there you go
guys I've seen low smv pick up artists
pull off what it what to this mindset
should be impossible there is so much
more to hypergamy than just a man what a
man looks presents there are factors and
circumstances that can circumvent
hypergamy and there's nothing
deterministic about it yes hypergamy
often ruthless but resigning oneself to
Binary extremes about it it gets men
nowhere right so when that hot Japanese
Puerto Rican girl literally my dream
girl almost comes to me right she isn't
looking for the man's replacement she's
just maybe she was looking for
validation maybe she was just trying to
get some fresh air or maybe she was
trying to maybe she was trying to find a
man she but she had just gotten married
the week before there are other things
that that guy who she married gave her
that I was not giving her in the moment
or she thought I could never give her
right um and one of those thing could
have been like Security man I'm I'm just
some scruffy guy obviously I could
probably provide for her now but there
you know some scruffy guy that she met
at uh tulson night you know he's fun
exciting but I'm safe I'm happy I got a
you know my husband cares about me you
know there there are certain ways to
circumvent hypergamy and that's why like
the the black pill doomers and all that
stuff they get mad because first of all
they think it's all about looks like you
know if you're dating a girl and a guy
has a better chin than you or you know
blue eyes or
whatever it's done your girl's going to
leave you right because she's trying to
constantly look for the best option but
the reality is that
women there are ways around it right
like talk to short guys short guys get
laate all the time why because they they
said okay know I won't be able to
fulfill a lot of women's need for height
right but what I can do is I can be
Charming I can be more fit than a tall
lanky guy you know I can make more money
like see there's there's different ways
and that's the beauty about being a man
right this is what the blackfield
doomers don't understand is that yes
hypergamy exists yes it's pervasive
but if you are tall you could still be
Charming if a woman is ugly she has to
travel thousands of miles to get a risky
surgery to maybe raise her smv by one
point but uh plastic surgery right or
turn herself into a freak Show in order
to get attention from men right and who
knows the longterm effects of that right
but for a guy you just got to lift and
talk to women repeatedly for like a
month until you kind of like understand
them we're we hypergamy serves us like
you have to understand hypergamy you
want it because it gives you a pathway
forward it's basically says hey if you
want to get laid you got to do better
right now do I acknowledge women's
delusion how delusional women are of
course of course we're gonna get into
that right do I acknowledge that she's
not yours just your term meaning just
because you are all these things doesn't
mean she's yours forever she could leave
at any moment right do I acknowledge it
yes but imagine the PowerHouse of a man
you will be within your personal
relationships with women whether it be
one night stand a
plate a girlfriend or your wife um
imagine of a Powerhouse of a man if you
took hypergamy doesn't care and she's
not yours is just your turn together and
you carved about a path for your sexual
Destiny you didn't have to worry about
what all these guys worry about with
women like that's a beautiful thing for
a that's a beautiful day in a man's life
when he wakes up and realizes hey women
are part of my life they're not the sole
focus of it if a if a girl leaves yeah
I'll be sad
but it's just a part of life it's a part
of life it isn't like someone tricked
you it isn't like it's the end of the
world it isn't like um it's simply
something ended it maybe it didn't end
the way you wanted it may be painful but
you will survive and you will find
someone else that's just as good or
better right because you hopefully will
get better or have been getting better
and it's not personal it's not personal
that's the most important thing it's not
personal unless you are a really piece
of [ __ ] like don't do anything in life
but if you're doing the if you're doing
the bare minimum lifting weights
continuous working work hard of your
company or your job and you're getting
promoted and stuff like that and you
know you're doing the work in your life
and you you have a you have a a Grand
Vision for your life right then you
must not you must look at it from the
perspective of hey no matter what I did
this girl wasn't going to be
happy and that's okay I don't want to
live with someone that doesn't want to
live with me
so but yeah
um let me see if there's anything
interesting in the
chat when women nowadays say that they'd
rather be alone I'm starting to believe
them because that just preferable for
them being to being stuck with Los
exactly women are choosing to be alone
whether that is alone and getting dick
on the side yes that could be it but um
yeah
and just don't take a personal guys like
it's scary right we are all they have if
they marry the wrong guy and the guy
turns out to be a loser or abandons them
they're
screwed they are terrified of single
motherhood right very few
women live with no fear of what would
happen if they got with the wrong guy
you
know it's it's
simply an existential for for women
right they do all these things just to
escape the reality that one day they'll
have to settle down but what happens is
when they hit
30 they they start to notice hey like I
don't get the same amount of attention
privileges um kind of
Lifestyle um and you know I did when I
was 20 or 25 or 23 so I should start
consolidating on a guy here's the
problem here's the big syndrome for
women right
if as a woman you get to 30 and you
haven't found a guy yet that would
commit to you right here's a problem
women get stuck on their highest setting
with men meaning
that as time goes on women meet hot guys
attractive men men with money men with
game men with charm tall men men that
are very good in bed whatever whatever
her version of her flavor or a mixture
of those right um
and it's gets harder and harder every
year to keep those men around right they
may she may like kick those men out of
her life because like I'm done with the
alphas and all that stuff right so she
turns her nose or turns her eyes to guys
that are like you know that text good
morning that text hey did you get home
safe um that only date one girl at a
time because you know that's she he's
not like those other player guys that
spin plates or whatever
right
um
so what what happens is they end up in
this place where like they're stuck
right I can't get the hot guys but I
want the hot guys so I got to sett up
for a blue pill guy and a lot of women
convince themselves of that um you see
it all over the timeline especially Trad
women right because you know they swear
that their husbands are these super
Alpha Christian men but they're actually
all DS it's easy to tell um and they go
to this point in life where they have
the
baby they realize after the baby's born
like hey this kind of sucks you know
like this guy sucks you know I wanted a
baby so bad that I forgot that I wanted
the baby with an alpha now I and then
five years later the kids go to
school no longer need that much
attention because they're in school all
the time so divorce happens right and
that's you that's the life cycle for
most women nowadays right it's it's
literally what happens right I don't
know how we got here but yeah that's
that's where that's where we're at
so um and that's that's me describing
the next misconception of hypergamy
Right Where hyper like Women Marry
upward right and one of the things you
got to understand
that
hypergamy has two sides right there's
the alpha [ __ ] beta bucks and ideally
women want both in one guy right uh you
lead with Alpha they want an alpha with
the side of beta problem is a lot of
guys are betas with sides of Alphas or
complete betas so women can't
consolidate on one on one guy because
they can't find a guy who has
both right it's really hard um it's
tough so what can can you do as a woman
when you can't find both right think of
the caveman days hey um I'm a woman I
need protection but I also need food
right the alpha guy that one of the the
best hunters are not gonna give away
food that easily because they're very
valued in the tribe you know um but
these beta guys all their portions and
stuff they're giving it to me because
I'm so great so why is it that men with
resources are trying to lead with
resources and men that are alpha don't
care about me at all it must me that the
guy Alpha guys have so much women or um
you
know that they don't need me in their
rotation meaning that they're high value
meaning that you know man in demand
they're a man in demand so that's where
women are they get stuck so what they do
is they kind of divide it up and
they'll settle for a blue pill beta
guy um and then they'll always have
their eyes to the alphas right whether
it be arguing with you on Twitter
whether it be going out to salsa night
and dancing with a guy who's hot um not
cheating on your husband per se right
but going out and dancing with men
getting that feeling and that validation
that hey I I'm still hot I still got it
and all that
but
um that that's just what hypergamy is
guys it's it's two sides there's two
sides to it and a lot of guys don't
understand that because they think that
hey if I make a lot of money then I'm
Alpha I'm like not really Alpha is
always always the beta side of hypergamy
I get tired of saying this like how many
Rich guys do you know that are getting
are getting circles ran around them by
Young 20 22y old girls right I've been
on dates where girls are like yeah I
have a sugar daddy um and he does this
for me and they're on a day with little
old me I can't provide them this
stuff
um I can't provide them this stuff
um that a millionaire can or a guy well
off can right and hypergamy again is not
straight Jack you'll see this in your
own life like I was dating a a uh I was
dating a girl um for a while for a long
time time casually and she told me a
story of how a football player slid in
her DMS
right
um and the issue
is the issue
is that for a guy that's
uninitiated he'll look at that and he'll
be like holy [ __ ] my girl she's gonna
get taken away because some football
player slid in this girl's DMS I'm not
going to have I'm not ever going to see
this girl again right but but the fact
that she's telling
you is already a good sign it's called a
[ __ ] test meaning she's saying hey are
you good are you better than this guy
this random dude right so guys now that
we're starting to tie this in with game
right what would you say if you were
dating a girl who showed you a guy that
was perceived higher status for her and
she said oh this guy um messaged me or
this guy slid in my DMs
what would you guys say this is a very
common [ __ ] test women do very very one
of the most common right especially now
because women are getting DM by everyone
um and I just and I simply said you know
like I just simply listened to her story
I
smiled and I just said man you you
didn't even try to get a free ticket for
a game or something you know I I
demonstrated higher value than her in
that moment you know using Game by
saying hey like I don't care if you go
out with another guy I don't care I'm
unbothered
like I I can replace you if you want to
if you want to Branch swing to him go
for it just know you're replaced and if
you leave I'm not going to be too
affected by it right that's that's how
you demonstrate higher value and and
that's like women using the Renee
hypergamy to [ __ ] with you right um so
yeah just tying it in with game but uh I
think we
got yeah let's
see uh Fred Jacobs on 56 flat when
you're when you get a girl alone she can
she can't tell how tall you are there
literally are terrible at spatial
Dimensions also being Jack yeah women
can't tell the difference between like
five nine and and six feet sometimes
right um they can't tell the difference
between 80k and 100K they can't tell the
difference between six inches and 8
inches they just or nine inches or 10
inch whatever you know women are
claiming that they see in men nowadays
like don't worry about that stuff
right uh
um let's
see okay we got a question from Pearl
can a guy ever go from beta to Alpha in
a
relationship yeah R talks about this we
can okay
so in life right whenever I don't know
if you guys have noticed let's say you
as a guy have a group of friends and
they're all weed smokers and
I don't know they like to watch sports
all the time and they're
not you know they're not the most driven
people they're just Bros right and then
you start getting jacked and you go to
school you do all these things right
what do what do usually guys like that
say
right
um oh you're doing why are you so jacked
this is not like you bro what are you
doing you're going to quit weed bro I
thought you were one of us like what's
wrong with you you're not cool anymore
you're changed bro you will get the same
reaction from a woman in your
relationship right which you see these
posts especially on Reddit where a
girl's complaining oh my my man or my
husband stumbled upon the red pill now
he's emotionally abusive and he won't
doesn't do the things he used to do and
all blah blah what happens is is that
one of the first things the red pill
teaches you is to stop taking yourself
for granted and and a lot of guys start
realizing wait I've been taken for
granted my whole life even in my
relationship right so what he does is um
a lot of men are like okay well I still
love my wife maybe if I acted more
Alpha in this relationship maybe she
would start respecting me more and stop
taking me for granted right and here's
the problem with that you know Alpha
like it could be different ways like for
some it's like getting jacked right and
we've heard stories of men getting more
jacked and more sexually
attractive um and then they women
fighting them to you know don't go to
the gym or you're insecure or accusing
them of cheating because they go to the
gym and and there's women there right U
we've heard stories about that that's
just one side to the story um and the
guy will try to get try to become or you
know but here's the problem that woman
knows him well right and first off she's
gonna fight against every every positive
change he makes in his life right
besides maybe making more money or or
but anything that doesn't directly
benefit
her she will start fighting against
right she will say that hey she he's
jacked now and and he's emotionally
abusive which basically you're starting
to become more assertive you know you're
starting to set more boundaries right
what happens is
women are very good at determining the
congruency of a man right so it's really
easy when you're it's really easy for a
woman to tell if you're like the real
dealer or not that's why they [ __ ] test
you that's why they they kind of have
their walls up when you approach them
it's because they're trying to see if
you're the real deal if you're full of
[ __ ] right and within a relationship
it's game on hard mode right because
when you're single you can walk away
from any girl you know if it's not
working out like hey this isn't working
out but when you're
married um or in a relationship you
can't just walk out that easily there's
consequences for you right um in a
marriage you could ruin your life if you
if you walk away right in a relationship
you know you you probably have a lot of
of your life kind of like w you know
kind of wrapped around each other all
these tendrils of like you know maybe
you you own a dog together and maybe
your stuff's at her place or vice versa
or you know each other's parents or your
name's on the lease or whatever there's
a lot of things that kind of tie you and
tether you to this person so you have a
lot to lose and she knows that right so
she's going to start testing
for um congruency and it's hard to
convince a girl that you're going from
an agreeable pushover to a guy that says
no and she says hey did you do the
dishes right so what ends up happening
is women go complain to their
girlfriends right and guys who just
unplug they don't become this like red
pill Masterpiece overnight you know
they're still you're still what the hell
can
I how do how did I live like this where
my girlfriend's mistreating me and think
everyone everything was okay and normal
I felt so depressed but I didn't know
why and that's GNA cause a lot of churn
right so what happens is over time it's
just usually they break up like most of
the time they break up right and then
the girl goes on Twitter on Reddit and
starts saying hey you know he he's
emotionally abusive the red pill sucks
you know I'm going to campaign against
the red goes it ruined um my
relationship no it ruined your long
housee it ruined your plow horse of a
husband right um he figured out that he
figured out two things number one is
that uh how to take himself less for
granted because you were and number two
that it is better to get a new girl than
to try to save an old relationship
that's failing right because you can't
it's hard to convince a girl you're an
alpha when you've been a beta your whole
life you know that's not something that
comes overnight is it possible yes is it
probable absolutely not so there's your
answer
BR can a woman ever view him different
if it becomes unplugged
uh yes it could be possible
um well it depends on me what you mean
differently like I just explained you
could a lot of women see men that unplug
as tyrants as mean as emotional abusive
when basically they just they're just
different they're more assertive they're
more they set more
boundaries they
are
um they take themselves for less for
granted they make themselves their own
mental point of origin right and it
becomes a clash of frame right because
she's he's been living in her frame her
life and he's trying to make his own
frame and it's not it's tough right it's
tough to tell a girl you're living with
hey I'm not doing the dishes tonight I
worked extra late today you can do them
right it's tough to say Hey you know um
I'm going out with my friends tonight I
don't care it's tough to say um it's
tough to say these things when you live
with someone that you've been used to
like serving them and doing everything
they said right so a lot of times it
just ends in a breakup and it's
difficult right but that's what the red
pull is for it isn't for you
to um have a perfect happy ending right
it's just to give you a positive sexual
identity so you stop taking yourself for
granted and other people stop taking you
for granted right that's all you can do
right but great question thank
you
um anyways going back to the topic so
yes um Women Marry upward uh I'll read
this part this is a pedantic dismissal
of phenomenon based on semantics yes the
original term was developed to describe
women's tendency to marry upwardly it's
a higher socioeconomic strata by
sociologists but the term deserves a
much broader definition and light of the
biological psychological realities we
observe in women today we could create
some new term that would describe the
phenomenon but hypergamy would describe
it in the abstract just as well critics
resorting to the dismiss only seek to
discreet the one proposing an idea based
on terminology right and we say marrying
upward it's too it's like oh I women
only marry guys for their money right
that's what we're saying like if a guy
if if some dorky guy came up to your
wife and said hey I make twice of what
nuke makes that she would be interested
in it like no there's again there are
ways to circumvent hypergamy right again
you don't have to make all the money in
the world you can make all the money in
the world and be jacked you can and you
or sorry you can have a normal career
and make normal normal people money and
be jacked or be handsome or uh be really
good in bed or just be funny and
Charming or
um having a look right uh becoming the
guy that she envisions as hot right
there's so many ways and that's what the
problem with black pill doomers and
people that understand hypergamy it's it
gets very emotional for them because to
them it's like give up right give up you
know because no matter what you do a
girl's always going to find someone
better and dump you right and that's
really insecure for men like
listen
um men are so scared of facing hypergamy
men are so scared of letting women go or
accepting that some women aren't just
for them that they will ask women to get
rid of their social media they will ask
women to not go to Miami they will ask
women not to do girls nights out they
will ask women not to dress a certain
way
do you know why men do
that it's this they're confirming to the
girl that they're the beta bucks right
they're confirming that they're afraid
that if a girl does something or if a
girl goes on these trips she's going to
leave him for someone better or cheat on
him or possibly have a baby by another
guy right and the thing is as a guy you
can't negotiate genuine desire you guys
know that right so what do you doing
negotiating a girl trying to tell her
not to go out and get attention for a
man at a club why do you have to tell
her
that because you are the beta bucks
because you are the guy that she is not
100% sure about right she got with you
as a means to an end pragmatism right
you're not the guy that she dreams about
at night you're not the guy that she um
texts when she's drunk you know you are
the guy that simply is fulfilling the
beta side of hypergamy and that's what
these what people the scientists the
trons the purple pill people any of
those people they all fight this because
they cannot they cannot accept that hey
you cannot negotiate genuine desire you
should not have to tell a woman to
delete her racy pictures on Instagram
you should not have to convince a woman
hey I'm getting a new job in a new city
um pack your
things you know um you should not have
to tell a
woman the you should have to tell a
woman anything that would um cause her
to think cause you to think that she's
not 100% fully invested in you and that
is a that is the
freaking uh definition of genuine desire
a lot of people think oh it's when she
likes doing things for you great guys in
the chat right and excuse me me Pearl if
you're still in the chat for the
crassness but or any other ladies right
guys in the
chat have you ever been with a girl who
just loves giving you a
[ __ ] and she does not want to be in a
relationship with you she doesn't want
to marry you she doesn't want to she
doesn't want you around her friends she
just likes doing that kind of stuff to
you and she walks away so may she may
even clean your kitchen how many guys
have experienced a girl like that is
that genuine desire no she just thinks
you're hot and wants and wants to try
out her skills on you as a guy you're
like oh great you know great right but
as
a it it is not what genuine desire is
Right genuine desire is hey um I had a
Miami trip before I met you with my
girls a couple months in a couple months
but I canceled it I think we should go
do something instead me and
you
right genuine desire that's genuine
desire it's
quietly showing the man you're
with that there is no doubt in your mind
that he is the one and I will not risk
anything to make you believe
otherwise right her going on Twitter or
on his social media saying I love this
man look how perfect he is he bought me
a house and no that's beta that's beta
bucks she's showing off for beta bucks
to the world when a girl quietly erases
all the booty photos on her Instagram or
even closes her Instagram or just
whatever or closes her Twitter or does
anything like that right by her own
valtion without being asked without
being without any expectation just doing
it she is saying I am completely off the
market there is no way men have access
to me anymore because I don't want you
to think that you are not the one for me
I'm 100% sure and I want you to be 100%
sure that I'm 100% % sure about you
so that is what genuine desire is and
that that is what Alphas get out of
women right the reason a lot of people
try to discredit this kind of dynamic
and the red pill is is a as a whole it's
because blue pill works sometimes blue
pill men get married blue pill men have
children blue pill men um live a live a
full life right and we a lot of guys see
like hey but you know my parents are
blue pill or this this couple didn't
know anything about anything and this
couple is super egalitarian they're
Partners right but the problem is that's
a suboptimal way to live blue pill works
sometimes so a lot of people hey you
know I'm G to be blue pill because I get
to have my fantasies about women and
being loving me for me and all that
stuff and they're never going to leave
me as long as I'm a good man and it's
comfortable it's a comfortable safe way
of thinking right but it's suboptimal
right people think that once you accept
this way of thinking of red pill that
you'll never be able to love a
woman the most amount of Love Letters
I've gotten was when I was red pill when
being red pill or sorry having
understood the red pill I still got love
letters from women I still had
relationships with women I still flirt
with women I still um you know I still
look at the day hey maybe I'll be a dad
one day who knows or maybe I'll never
fall in love I don't know either way not
I'm not thinking about it now it's not
my problem right now the future is not
my problem it's the now
so so at the end of the day like would
you
really um want to live a blue pill
existence and if you do then that's the
problem because what you're saying is
like I want I prefer the LIE the LIE is
I get to believe the fantasies and the
fairy tales that women like me for me
that they'll never leave me and the
thing is that's a taking time off right
because if the girl leaves you're done
you're destroyed you're you're done for
the next couple years because you are so
you are so steeped in blue pill idealism
that when once that Bandit gets ripped
away you're going to be suffering for a
long time or you're going to get zeroed
out essentially um so that's why I we
say once you've read the red pill
there's no going back once you see it
you can't see it it is what it is deal
with it welcome to reality you know
welcome to 2024 like Fred jaob says
welcome to reality get with the program
um
but anyway uh let's see any other
misconceptions about hypergamy let's
see uh okay here's another one that I'm
tired of here especially now with all
these o girls with Google right um men
are not
hypergamous they like to say we're
hypergamous but men were not
hypergamous um well you could argue well
women like hotter chicks women try to
get the hottest chick that they think
it's in their league right just like
women do
um so what happens is women perceive or
only acknowledge the top men the men
that they're
sharing right
so when they see
this they only see the women they're in
competing with right so let's
say nuke is on are we dating the same
guy Dallas right and some girl asked hey
is this guy I'm going on a date with
this guy oh and then a hotter girl post
yeah I went on a date with him last week
he's an [ __ ] or I went I dated him
three months ago he's a p POS or I dated
him five months ago he's this right and
they're all girls that are as hot as her
or hotter so she sees this and she's
like oh [ __ ] men like hot chicks because
I can't compete against these women
right and then she goes watches a couple
podcasts with o o thoughts or bimbos or
whatever and they're all like
complaining about the same thing she's
like oh I guess it is true because some
girl said it in a podcast and then she
she herself believes that all men go for
the hottest chicks when in reality on my
end I'm swiping
on uh brown girls I'm swiping on white
girls right this is hypothetical guys
this is hypothetical um I'm swiping on
white girls I'm swiping on um girls that
are 30 I'm swiping on girls that are 25
that are 20 because as men we're not
hypergamous we are
we um our mating strategy is
unlimited um unlimited access to
unlimited sexuality meaning we can we
take whatever we can get as long as it
it passes the boner test now as life
goes on as you become more mature as a
man you have less patience and are
smarter about what what type of women to
date you know you don't you don't you no
longer want to date women that suck like
have bad character traits right like I
go out a date with a girl and I see the
way she expresses herself or treats the
staff or she her hygiene right or just
she catfished me she's overweight
whatever character flaw she has I can be
like I don't need to have sex with you
I'm not here because I need to have sex
you know you were pretty I saw something
in you but you have very bad character
flaws I respectfully in the day early
have a nice day and I move right but
that comes with age and maturity as a
man usually around mid early to mid-30s
you start kind of like having a lot more
standards as a guy which is good you
know it's a good thing to have standards
as a guy right but in your 20s H you
know it's whatever you have slump
Busters you have you sleep with fat
chicks you sleep with old mils you know
you sleep with everything
um but as you get older you kind of have
to have more you you you tend to have
more um charact uh you look for more
character like flaw uh more character
flaws that's the big disqualifier of
women right but and that's normal
because men we kind of shift to wanting
a family um thinking about the future uh
we have a lot to a little more to lose
you know because we're higher positions
in company less less free time more to
worry about so we don't want to bring in
a crazy girl into a life to like disrupt
their piece right but
um but yeah uh AR hypergamous right and
you know I don't know who I was talking
about maybe it was Tori or someone but
we brought up like the porn stuff like
what men's porn preferences are
right and you know as a guy that used to
look at this stuff right I don't care
I'm not afraid I'm not ashamed to say it
but as a guy who used to look at his
stuff when I was younger right it wasn't
that every time I walk I went in
to um a uh an adult film site I searched
the same thing every day or every other
day or Whatever frequency I did it at
right I always was like in the mood for
things right like today I want a mil I
want to see a mil uh you know I want to
see mil's naked and having sex today and
then a week later I'm like okay I want
to
see uh young petite girls you know and
then the next week it would be like I
want to see curvy Latinas you know it
would just cycle it and then we see the
statistics and like oh all men like I
think right now number one is Ms uh from
when we have that talk right and it's
just like yeah um M uh a lot of guys are
into that fantasy I guess I don't know
but realize that it's parallel like we
also like different things right men we
just kind of like whatever is out there
we we cast a wide net because if we
don't do that we don't get laid right um
we have to cast the wi net in terms of
our preferences now there's this magical
thing that happens as a guy where
whatever there is we kind to turn our
preferences to it and you can see this
going on in America right now for
example America huge obesity um huge
obesity epidemic right very few every
day there's less and less chicks that
are in shape right when I say in shape I
don't mean like thin rail thin or muscle
bound bodybuilder right I mean
like clinically healthy clinically
healthy like if you can you could put on
clothes there's no spillage over and
like you may be 10 pounds overweight or
10 you might have a little bit of like
you know a little bit of uh what are the
mixan girls call it
longas
um but nothing crazy nothing that people
would be like hey you know you're you're
fat um
but as you can see in popular media as
to what is attractive it's starting to
look like more and more women who are
overweight are starting to become the
preference of of men right so you'll see
like oh man she got that Gat or she's
you know she had a fat ass or whatever
blah blah and it's just like as a guy
that goes to the gym and sees how well
shapewear hides women's imperfections
and and fat and all that stuff I see
this and I'm like hey you guys know that
she's wearing shapewear or you guys know
it's an angle and you guys like how many
times you have to get catfish before you
realize like that like most women are
not in shape and it's you
know so um men now are experiencing the
fattest woman in the history of time so
their preferences become for women that
are like clinically overweight or over
beast and you could see it you know um
because man we just kind of adapt to
what there is meanwhile women right now
have had have have more choice for men
than they've ever had yet they won't
settle down in their 20s baile for
anything right they are constantly doing
things that will help them avoid um
commitment from a boring loyal
beta and that is very
obvious
um uh that is very obvious and and why
are we why are we denying this right um
so those are differences men and women
Rolo explains it at nauseum everyone in
the red pill explains it on nauseum I
don't want to explain at nauseum it's
been done we get it anyone that's going
against this stuff is because they took
the red pill personally right if a girl
goes on a podcast says hypergamy doesn't
exist it's like okay well then let's you
and me go on a
date no I don't know you okay well let's
go on a date you'll find out oh I don't
want no exactly because in your DMs
there's plenty of men that make more
money than
me and have other
things and you still won't commit to
them
right so um
yeah uh I mean Rolo goes on as say to
say other things like hey both men and
women okay sorry uh we just talked about
that um hypergamy is overemphasized the
Mana spere it
is
um the problem now is that we have
what's called open hypergamy and that's
the big problem right every guy growing
up we kind of knew that you kind of had
to be bigger stronger faster more money
in order to be praised right we'd play
football as a kid or basketball we play
in recess
and whenever you hit a home run or
something playing sports everyone would
clap and be like wow you know we praised
men from since they were kids for doing
good physical Feats and impressive phys
physical Feats so we always kind of knew
hey you got to be better you got to
impress people you got to perform right
we always knew that and then we got to
high school and then we saw the teen
movies and The Coming of Age movies
right where at the beginning of the
movie there's a jock and The Jock has
all the hot girls right but the the hot
or the dorky guy the protagonist that
starts out as a you know it's like the
Zero to Hero story he has he likes the
cheerleader right and then
realizes oh I got to be you know I never
I'll never uh measure up to Chad uh jock
over there and we as young men we saw
this like okay well I have to be popular
I have to have status we always knew
this the problem is that at the ending
of all these movies it it was always the
dorky guy who somehow had some kind of
environment where he had to prove
himself he proved himself and that
somehow um beat the Chad jock and he got
to go home with the girl right that's
basically a lot of these Coming of Age
movies right teaching men that if they
double down on their good qualities that
they'll get hot women and there there in
lies the cover contract that's
destroying that's why the red pillar
exists basically it's because we got
lied to because of that right
um but we always knew hypergamy the
problem is now is that it's open it's in
our face constantly everywhere we go and
how is that um it used to be like if a
girl did stuff a man's back if a girl
was a thought if a girl was not so
great
um they would keep that [ __ ] secret you
know you would never find out you'd
marry a woman and you would know you
would die you know knowing that she
wasn't even that in love with you right
there have been stories um you would
marry a woman and she would never tell
you her body
count um you would marry a woman and as
soon as she got married it would be like
you know she's like [ __ ] I'm married now
I gotta act like a wife right problem
now is that we have open hypergamy right
and open hypergamy is tough guys even
for me open hypergamy is women just
making fun of you because you can't have
sex with them right now should it all be
taken seriously we'll get into that so
open hypergamy is basically
women um
constantly parading around their sexual
strategy and the success of it of it in
our face right there's extreme cases
right there's cases where women go on
podcasts and say things like I cheated
on my boyriend with another guy blah
blah blah like just and then laughing
about it right to the to the horror of
men who just so happen to stumble upon
that and then we have other extremes
like basically women being interviewed
on the street and you asked them guy ask
him how much money does he need to have
in order to marry you or for the ring
and she's like $30,000 and I'm like you
don't even know what $30,000 looks like
nor um you know like a ring that
expensive like wouldn't you rather use
it for a vacation or for a down payment
on a house like it's
insane right um and what happens
is
uh men get see this they get mad then
they click and they click and they click
and they Super Chat and they click and
they Super Chat then Google and then
Twitter and YouTube and wherever sees
this it's just like
man these guys are making money making
us advertising money they're they're
clicking so let's uh let's boost this in
the algorithm or let's let's let these
guys talk about women because we're
making a lot of money off this right and
then they click and then they click and
then it makes money and then the women
realize like oh if I go on these shows
or if I do this thing I get attention on
me then we end up with a girl that's
like a four out of 10 barely attractive
going on a podcast and saying she has
sex with five dudes a day which is
literally impossible they can barely
plan a Coffee Day imagine five dudes a
day right
now that's open hypergamy it's like ha
my sexual strategy is winning you suck
I'm going to have I'm going to have my
cake and eat it
now is a Revenge fantasy good and
healthy no um will most women um stick
The Landing maybe I don't know not my
problem I got to focus on myself right
um but I will say that open hypergamy is
not easy for especially for a guy that's
just unplugged oh we got a 199 Super
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thank you so
much Matthew W with the 199 Super Chat
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guys thank you man I appreciate it um
yeah so what happens is now the the
podcasters are incentivized to make
their shows freak shows and to invite
the some of the most messed up people
with the most messed up lies on their
show all right I know because I was on
one of these shows and I had girls next
to me get kicked off um and I can tell
you that guys like um open hypergamy is
tough like be easy on yourself it's it's
tough to have um women just brag about
your worst nightmares as a man whether
it be the kid is not
yours whether it be you know a man's
fluids in a another in your woman's
vagina you don't even know there was
that famous interview which turned out
to be fake as well
right um there's women that are
absolutely unattractive both physically
and just their personality and they're
bragging about um getting with top tier
men right which to you is like what the
hell you know women have it on easy they
can be completely shitty human beings
and look ugly but
still get with these men right um and
I'm here to tell you like open hypergamy
stuff it's not
easy I
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personally try
to back away from that stuff and not
take it too personally right as a guy
with experience first off it's not going
to affect you as much because as you go
on with life you realize like women
don't know how much money is like you
you tell women hey how much how much
does an engineer earn and they don't
know a guy an average guy can tell you
well how much an engineer earns hey how
much does a pilot earn they can give you
a ballpark
you know hey show me six feet a guy
would be like write this and it'll be
right almost right on the money ask a
girl hey what's six
feet uh like like this ask a grow to
parallel park one wheel's on the curve
the other Wheels a foot away from the
curve right um so you already know if
you have experience that when it comes
to numbers and dimensions women don't
know right women don't
know
um
so don't sweat that part too much now
when it comes to actions like uh thing
who said it um open ey programy like
Gods spe said open hypergamy just means
we get to know the game better right
understand that this is the time in
history where you're going to learn the
most about women's unflat the UNF
flattered truths about women women are
telling you the worst parts of
themselves right they're constantly
telling you the worst parts of
themselves um and it's easy it's
becoming really easy to get women to to
open up about the crazy or bad things
they did right not always but as long as
you run game and you don't shame them
sexually you kind of like let them know
like hey I'm not here to shame you
sexually you can say whatever you want I
don't care right like I said the body
her body count her sexual indiscretions
are her problem she has to deal with
those consequences not me um so what
happens is is that now you get a free
course and how bad women can get right
and vetting women becomes much easier
there's less women that are good but
vetting them becomes easier because it's
so much easier to be like hey you're
terrible I'm not getting with you
however we can have sex but I'm not
you're a terrible person you're horrible
right and one of the biggest things that
like B like not epiphanies but like
things that I had in my mind it's just
like a lot of
guys they all say that we hate women or
they all say that we
hate love or something like that but I
can tell you guys right now and I'm sure
you guys feel this too we just hate bad
people that's it bad people are bad
people like in your daily life if a
woman opens a door for you you're going
to say thank you right great in your
daily life if a woman does you a favor
at work and be like thank you she's very
nice right like we're totally we just
want women to be good people now can we
achieve it no uh you know I can't change
human beings but at the end of the day I
personally I just when I deal with women
the number one thing I look like uh that
I look for now that I'm you know that a
guy with abundance that doesn't isn't
like starving for women right is that is
she a good person literally is she a
good person how does she treat her mom
how does she treat her dad you know how
does she treat her family members her
employers you know her co-workers the
the service staff at this restaurant
that we're at or this bar that we're at
you know those are the things like I
said before as you grow older as a man
you start looking for these things more
because you don't have time like sex is
good right um but if unless unless I'm
just like yeah I'm going to I I'm going
to sleep with this girl I don't care
about her if I'm on a date and I'm like
oh this girl might be I might see her
for more than just sex let me see what
and you start asking questions and you
figure out this girl is a horrible
person right just on the first date
right like I said the quietest sound
ever recorded and women can't hear it is
a is men putting them in the [ __ ] zone
no one can hear that it is the quietest
sound they will never detect it it's a
man putting a girl into the [ __ ] Zone
and and what's happening is now that we
have this uh the Overton window shifting
girls are feeling more comfortable than
ever telling us how shitty they are so
guys you know let them tell you how
shitty they are you know look at their
behaviors right um and that is why guys
too I say the relationship is her
problem
right because women have all the power
before the
relationship right they have unlimited
options
at least that's what they look like or
that's what it looks like in their DMS
and all that in their personal life
because of social
media
um they have they can leave whenever
they
want um and they W they move on faster
and also women have the power to cheat
on you almost instantly so why would I
really against those odds why would I
work hard for a relationship just yeah
you prove to me that you want to be here
because you have all the incentive to
leave right sorry so the relationship is
her problem her body count her problem
all those problems are have nothing to
do with me I'm living my life if she
wants to be in my life she's on my
program and remember guys there are no
good women there are no bad women there
are no this women or that women there's
only two types of women in your life
there's women that are on your program
and women that are
not see how easy that is you know how
much weight and stress that'll lift off
your shoulders you don't have to hold
women accountable you don't have to
parade you know bad examples of women in
your whole
life
right you just have to look hey do you
want to go on a DAT with me no okay oh
cool you're not on my program hey we've
been hooking
up for for three weeks and now you
asking me to be my
boyfriend um is are you on my
program okay you are on my program you
are literally you like me for me genuine
burning desire you're on my program all
right let's let's go to the second level
Patrice oil talked about this as it
being the levels of his dojo where a
girl would slowly fight her way up to
the top right but we just I just say hey
she's either on your program or not
there's no good women or bad women right
there is no oh she's she's religious
she's a good woman you don't freaking
know that she could be the biggest [ __ ]
at the church or the biggest [ __ ] in
Christianity you know you have no idea
so why are you already making excuses
for her is it because you have this
fantasy where because a woman is
religious it absolves you of your um of
the work you have to do to make sure
that this girl is not going to ruin your
life because of her promised it no you
you were you simply say hey I don't care
if you're the daughter of Mother Teresa
um you either on my program or you're
not and you have to prove to me you're
not a
[ __ ] that doesn't mean write an essay
for me that doesn't mean beg me it means
I'm going to watch your
behavior I'm not I'm not stupid I'm not
going to watch your behavior and be like
hey um you don't drink a lot of alcohol
H women that are promiscuous usually
drink a lot of alcohol
okay okay I see there's something there
hey um you don't dress a certain way I
didn't need you to dress a certain way
but you don't dress a certain way
H okay hey after we hooked up the first
time you were texting me the whole day
next day you you're you like you you're
getting attached H hoes usually don't
get attached after the first night or
second night or third night they just
you're just a a dig
appointment okay and then slowly slowly
but surely she starts working her way up
to being your girl and that was the
program guys the program was hey there
is a trial period in that trial period
you have to prove to me that you're not
a hoe and that you're my girlfriend
material not the other way around I've
already proved myself boyfriend material
look at my lifestyle I already proved
myself now it's your turn right I think
myON says that all the time too and all
that but uh yeah so uh yeah hypergamy
has a lot of
misconceptions
um you know I already talked about beta
bucks and how guys think it's only beta
bucks like hey but what about Justin
waller or or any other rich guy I'm like
yeah but they also have other things
that make them Alpha right it's not only
the money right give that money to a
dorky guy and he'll still get his life
destroyed by a women and get no women
right give that money to a Charming Man
who's intelligent right and and and has
game and he's gonna do just fine with
women he's gonna have multiple women
right and they're all gonna love him and
share him right it's all and guys just
stop with this beta I just don't get it
like hey I worked all my life and I made
good money as an engineer doctor lawyer
whatever you know I deserve women now
I'm like no you don't you don't deserve
[ __ ] you don't deserve [ __ ] that
entitlement [ __ ] has got to go away stop
with the entitlement but we got a $5
Super Chat
here by Fred thank you Fred I appreciate
it thank you so much
best what do you think happens in the
Post open hypergamy world what do you
think like this year or like um I don't
know but my prediction was on rule zero
was is that the number one Trend I'm
seeing
from in the dating market and just you
know looking for men and women solving
the reproductive problem is essentially
the distance between Alpha [ __ ] and
beta bucks is just going to continue to
widen right
um how's that going to be manifested
you're going to go on dates with girls
that are going to be completely
wholesome and they're going to have
sugar daddies
every day more and more the men that
can't get
women with who can only get women by
being betas like money Comfort
relationship um
commitment um those men are going to be
so far removed from the alphas the guys
that are exciting that are fun that are
good at sex that have multiple women
those two men are going to be so far
apart from each other right because
we're already seeing it very few men are
both right like I said woman ideal man
is Alpha with the side of beta right
um so what happens is that that's going
to happen in a post hyper open hypergamy
world is that women are going to have
men that are absolute betas as like
their cash cows or their ATM and maybe
they hold them there for like you know
for marriage right and they're gonna
have
alphas and that distance between those
two men in terms of personality in terms
of um multiple things is going to be so
wide right it's going to be so easy to
tell from a guy that's Alpha and beta
right it's just going to be it's just
that it's just something that I've seen
it's the trend right so guys if there's
anything double down on your Alpha
characteristics on your quest to become
a more attractive man that means get in
the gym that means learn charm and game
be exciting have a look live an exciting
life right
because um it's it's going to be either
or there is like the in between the cor
of like Alpha with a little bit of beta
is gonna go away like as soon as a woman
detects any level of beta within you
she's GNA wreck you you know she's GNA
want you to be the beta provider
instantly and just the sex is going to
go away right um I think there is a
millionaire a crypto millionaire I think
his name is Robert Richard Hart or
Robert Richard hard the guy who invented
hex or something he says that once women
find out about all his supercars and his
mansion that they start holding out on
sex with him right because they put him
in the blue pill provider P even though
he's not blue pill but they saw all the
stuff they're like no because if I have
sex with this guy he's gonna discard me
but if I hang around and make him wait
you know I could probably get a piece of
this right it's just it's just the way
it is right um
yeah so that's my
prediction but anyway give me one second
guys uh give me one second I'll be right
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right all right so basically what
happens is
that that's that's what I see the future
anyway moving on um other misconception
of
hypergamy
um oh it's men's fault that women are
hypergamous like yeah no that's women's
and mating strategy um hypergamy means
that only 20% of men will ever get laid
false that's false
hypergamy
um and then men shouldn't learn about
hypergamy because it's toxic no you guys
should be fully aware of what hypergamy
means and all that stuff
right
um
and let me see uh anything
else but anyway I think I I think I've
covered all the misconceptions of
hypergamy and what hypergamy is and all
that stuff right and understand that uh
why it hurts people and why people
especially people with big egos right
because
um people that can't accept these things
right
um it's all it all comes down to their
ego right for women it's just like they
took it personally they don't they don't
want they don't want they don't like the
language we use they don't want anything
that makes them look bad so they attack
it and they call us insecure because
that's all they have once you can't
shame a man that can't be shamed right
that doesn't feel shame right um for
women for men it's the ego I'm you I'm
the best man she's ever had and there's
no way she's gonna leave and understand
too like um first of off marriage isn't
a goal for a man it's an eventuality
it's something that is just another part
of our life you know we don't live and
strive and Achieve just for marriage we
do it just for the sake of it so
uh at the end of that women are a
lagging factor of success meaning that
you don't improve and do things for
women you know um you do you improve and
become a better man and then the women
come with that right is and it it may be
manifested in like marriage it may be
manifested in spinning plates it may be
manifested in whatever way right but
simply um hypergamy helps you guys
hypergamy is on your side um like I
mentioned in the other show
for you guys that are grinding that
becoming best version of yourselves do
you
want
um men that are complete losers to get
rewarded for
that I
don't I want dudes that are complete
losers to not get to get what they
deserve right meaning if I work hard for
stuff then I want to be rewarded that
doesn't mean like I entitled right but
at the same time you know it's hard for
me as a guy to see a guy that's fat a
loser doesn't get you know just a piece
a POS in life in general and have a hot
girlfriend right that must mean that
messes with guys right and that's why I
love hypergamy so much right because
hypergamy is ripping those girls from
them into my arms because I'm putting
doing in the work
right so is open hypergamy bad yeah
because it's just women being stupid on
on on the internet right just being
dumb um but normal hypergaming which has
always existed since the beginning of
humans
um I appreciate it because it's the re
first off it's the reason we're here
it's the reason all of us are here it's
the reason life is so comfortable and
nice it's the reason there's a a
beautiful girl texting me right now
right um is just it is what it is and
you have to accept it it's for reality
right and and as you get better and you
it the women start coming as as a result
as a liking factor of success in your
life you're going to start really
appreciating that hey that women have
high standards because you become that
high standard right the internet may say
hey if you're not a millionaire you
won't get women or if you're not 63 you
won't get women [ __ ] you know if
you're simply better than average you'll
do fine now if you want better than
average woman then you have to keep
ascending and keep doing better right
but if just being better than average
you're already miles ahead right the
average the bar is low right the you
know how many men can bench 225 in the
United States I think 0
4% go to the gym if you can bench to 25
you're already top strength in
America right
um how many you know the average the
average salary for a man is 40
40K right so if you earn six figures
you're already in the top 10% of men
right if now okay you may argue like hey
women women don't know these things
about you right but here's the thing um
those things are for you and you should
enjoy those accolades and those
lifestyle choices that you made to make
your life better right but but because
you're able to make all
this um because you're able to make all
this stuff happen for yourself right
there's got to be some level of
confidence some level of security in
your life where you're now able to go
out and date women right if you're
making six figures you can live in a
nice area in the city right meaning that
not only can you have a nice place so
you can have friends and family over to
visit you and be live comfortably you
can now use that apartment as your
little you know player bachelor pad
right and now that you you can bring
women straight from the bar to your
place and your bar is like two two
blocks
down you know you didn't grind hard
specifically for women right but you
made a better life for yourself and now
that you made a better life for yourself
why not reward Yourself by just doing a
simply a little bit more effort learning
about women and um Logistics and all the
things that make women easier and more
fun and enjoy it right you get one life
you only get one
life um hypergamy is always going to be
on your side of the man that
self-improved and does better now are
there are there lots of examples of
women that are delusional yes delusion
is a part of the thing right there are
ways around delusion right first off a
avoid delusional women right there are
women that are delusional I date them
all the time and they're not delusional
in the sense that um they think they
deserve NFL players that's that's
childish delusion that's women that
that's like very few women are like that
the delusion you'll see is that their
choices don't affect them long term
right it's sad I get this is the part of
women that not that it affects me but
it's just this is the part that makes me
not want revenge fantasies right because
there are woman that I've dated in my
life who were smart funny cute sexy I
like them right the relationship is her
problem I can't beg her to be her
boyfriend that's her that's her thing
right so I let time pass she doesn't
want anything serious and I'm like
okay you're 25 and I'm 33 33 at the time
34 33 um we have fun
together sex is really good you're very
good in in bed um you're very pretty we
share a lot of things in common um you
always dress nice for me when we go out
you put in effort um you're very
open with your life problems right we're
almost have a
relationship but the fact is that some
women are so delusional right that they
will do all these things with a guy and
not be like hey you know maybe I should
settle with this guy not settle for him
settle with him because literally he
checks every single box I keep coming
back to him and he treats me well right
and I'm sexually attracted to him
because every time we see each other
it's like you know like gotta readjust
the the the bed because right not to
brag but like we we had a lot of
chemistry in that area um but then you
don't settle and that's because that
delusion is that hey there's something
better might come I'm not saying I'm
anything special right but I'm not
saying I'm not special
and this is what this is the type of
delusion that you're going to be dealing
with right you're going to on paper be
perfect for these women right but the
only side of you that ever want is the
alpha side because they wouldn't be
caught dead in a relationship with you
right because what if there's something
better and that's a delusion you're
going to be truly dealing with and it's
sad
because along the way you're going to
meet women that you really like you're
going to meet women that are great
you're going to meet women that um
you're just like man she really only
does like me for sex but that's fine but
like you know she's cleaning my kitchen
she's doing my laundry she's crying in
my arms when she has family problems she
takes care of my dog you know she
invites me over to cook for me you know
she ask me for things like hey can you
mount my TV right she's willing to wear
lingerie for you
um she ask you for help in her car um
basically you're like almost in a
relationship right she remembers your
problems
sometimes she sends you memes and and
Tik toks of like your inside jokes but
she will not want to be with you
whatsoever discuss her the fact of
selling selling with you right um that's
hypergamy guys at work and that's the
sad side of hypergamy it's not these
hoes on TV or on YouTube saying you know
I I I deserve 90k right whatever 90k
wedding ring or I want a car I get SP
like those those are freak shows you
know they're they're are invited on
shows because they they generate clicks
right those are freak shows what I'm
talking about right
is
um is the reality the boots on the
ground perspective of of what the the
open hypergamy is
right it may serve you you may be the
guy like me that's just like hey I'm
just spinning plates I'm just having fun
right if you're a guy that once in a
while you meet a good girl and telling
you the worst part of hypergamy is
meeting a woman who who checks all your
boxes and you check all of hers at least
that's what she's trying to show you
right I'm talking about sex on the first
date I'm talking about um constant
texting every day and she wouldn't be
caught dead in a relationship with you
stuff like that right like like sides of
genuine desire um but none of the actual
genuine desire
um and all that and I know several women
I've dated several women like that right
um that's the worst part of open
hypergamy as a guy you'll enjoy it but
then on a long enough timeline right
you'll start seeing this and you're just
like hey she's not yours it's just your
turn what do you think why you use that
phrase because we we like to talk to
ourselves and be mean and say and be
black pill no it's because as you go
through your journey you're going to
start thinking that hey I am good enough
to quell or to solve This Woman's
hypergamous sty meaning I am the
six-figure guy you know I do dress well
I am the race she wanted I am the age
she wanted I'm all these things I even
got the the shaboo link she wants right
why the hell does she not want to settle
for
me right and then boom red pill comes in
like hey buddy first of all you're
entitles you don't get women just
because you're a certain way or a
certain all these things right it just
increases the chance of you getting
women in your in your life you women are
paying attention to you number two she's
not yours it's just your turn meaning
the relationship is her problem she
wants to stay she has to be willing to
stay um and
ultimately the most powerful of all the
phrases hypergamy doesn't
care right hypergamy doesn't
care let it burn it hurts hypergamy
doesn't care that who you're voting for
this
year hypergamy doesn't care about your
morals as a
man hypergamy doesn't care if you go
shopping with
her hypergamy doesn't care that you guys
spent a very nice time over
Christmas hypergamy doesn't care if
you're Christian or
Muslim or or a Jew hypergamy doesn't
care that you've worked really hard this
year in order to provide for your
children hypergamy doesn't care that the
children are even
yours
right hypergamy doesn't
care about all the things you bought her
hypergamy doesn't care about all the
times you fixed her car in order for her
to get to work on time or you know
hypergamy doesn't
care that
um you took the time to ask her about
what her favorite sex positions were and
did the extra work in order to make sure
she was pleasure in bed hypergamy
doesn't
care um that you met her parents and her
parents liked you all
right hypergamy doesn't care that you
paid off her
debt um hamy doesn't care that you were
married for five years 10 years 20 years
40
years hamy doesn't
care hypergamy doesn't
care if you are a good
man hypergamy doesn't care if you're a
law-abiding
citizen hypergamy doesn't care about
your IQ
level hypergamy doesn't
care about how much you support women
and women's
rights hypergamy doesn't care about how
much you support anything she believes
in anything from climate change to save
the
whales to
liberalism hypergamy doesn't care if you
try to defend her on the
street from a guy trying to kill
her hypergamy doesn't
care
if um hypergamy doesn't
care if you miss her if you want her to
come back into your life life even
though she's done with you hypergamy
doesn't
care right I can keep going guys I can
keep
going hypergamy doesn't care that he was
your
friend hypergamy doesn't care that her
time's running out and she just should
settle for a nice guy like
you
hypergamy doesn't care that you're a
good
father doesn't hypergamy doesn't care
that you're a good uh
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um a good son hyper doesn't care that
you're a hardworking
employee hyper hypergamy doesn't care if
you think you're going to
heaven hypergamy doesn't care if you are
the the same race as her with the same
cultural
background hypergamy doesn't care if
you're on a journey of self-improvement
and you're not quite the man you should
be
yet hypergamy doesn't
care um hypergamy doesn't care that you
move to her City and followed her to her
job in order to support her
more hypergamy doesn't care
hypergamy doesn't care how many books
you
read or how smart you
sound hypergamy doesn't care how many
times you've called her mother to check
up on
her hypergamy doesn't
care use this to your advantage if it
hurts if it burns you still have work to
do realize that once you accept these
things that are hard to
accept you'll do much better with women
with life you'll be at peace right you
will reach the fame Valhalla of inner
peace as a man with the opposite
gender and just know that there is no
way you can unsee these things that are
going on in front of you once you accept
them you accept them that's
it so
that's all I have for today
guys thank you for watching and
uh I'll see you on uh rule zero I guess
yeah rule zero and the dragons on
Saturday so goodbye guys thank
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