WOMEN only LOVE men who make them NEVER FEEL GOOD ENOUGH emotionally - Hypergamy EXPOSED

Summary

The video script delves into the dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the importance of maintaining an air of mystery and high value to captivate a woman's interest. It discusses the concept of 'hypergamy,' suggesting that women are instinctively drawn to men they perceive as having a higher social value. The speaker advises men to avoid being overly available or predictable, as this can diminish their attractiveness. Instead, they should aim to create an impression of being a 'catch' and pass a series of 'interest tests' to signal their desirability. The script also touches on the idea that women may stay with men who treat them poorly because it provides a sense of challenge and uncertainty, which can be intriguing from a hypergamy perspective.

Takeaways

• 😀 The speaker suggests that for a woman to truly love a man, she must feel that her value is less than his, creating a dynamic where she looks up to him.
• 🔐 To maintain a woman's interest, a man should not reveal his full interest or commitment, as this can lead to her perceiving him as less valuable.
• 🤔 The concept of 'sexual market value' (SMV) is central to the speaker's advice, implying that a man should always appear to have a higher SMV than the woman to keep her interested.
• 🚫 The speaker warns against being too predictable or stable in a relationship, as this can reduce a man's perceived value and lead to the woman losing interest.
• 💼 The speaker emphasizes that external factors like wealth or physical fitness are not as important as conveying high value through behavior and attitude.
• 🚨 Women are described as being hardwired with 'hypergamy,' always seeking a partner they perceive as higher value, which influences their attraction and commitment.
• 🤝 The speaker advises men to avoid being overly nurturing or caring as it can be interpreted by women as a sign of lower value and reduce their interest.
• 🛑 Any sign of a woman initiating contact or showing interest is highlighted as an indication that she perceives the man as a valuable partner and does not want to lose him.
• ❌ The speaker argues that women will often leave men who treat them too well, as it signals to them that the man is not a high-value partner they should strive to keep.
• 💬 When a woman truly likes a man, she will switch from covert to overt communication, being more direct and expressive about her feelings and intentions.

Q & A

What is the main idea presented in the script about women's feelings in relationships?

The main idea is that for a woman to truly love, adore, and admire a man, she must never feel completely good enough or feel that she has fully secured him, as this creates a dynamic where she looks up to him and is motivated to maintain his interest.

What does the script suggest about the importance of maintaining psychological leverage in a relationship?

The script suggests that maintaining psychological leverage, or the upper hand, is crucial for men in relationships because it aligns with what women inherently seek: a partner who appears to have a higher sexual market value, thereby making them feel feminine and respected.

How does the script define 'sexual market value' (SMV) in the context of relationships?

In the context of relationships, 'sexual market value' (SMV) refers to an individual's perceived desirability or attractiveness in the dating market, which can influence how they are treated and valued by their partner.

What role does 'hypergamy' play according to the script?

Hypergamy, as described in the script, is the tendency for women to seek a partner who is of higher value or status. It influences their attraction and commitment, making them more inclined to pursue and maintain relationships with men who appear to be of higher SMV.

Why does the script advise men not to fully validate or approve of a woman in a relationship?

The script advises against full validation or approval because it suggests that once a woman feels fully secure and certain of a man's commitment, she may lose interest due to the lack of challenge or perceived high value, leading to potential disengagement or withdrawal.

What is the significance of a woman initiating contact according to the script?

The script implies that when a woman initiates contact, it is a sign of high interest and a potential indicator that she has developed an attachment, as it demonstrates her willingness to invest effort in the relationship.

How does the script explain the behavior of women who stay with men who treat them poorly?

The script explains that women may stay with men who treat them poorly because such men often exhibit behaviors that signal higher value or uncertainty in the relationship, which can create a dynamic where the woman feels the need to 'win' their approval or maintain their interest.

What does the script suggest about the impact of a man's consistent and predictable behavior on his relationship?

The script suggests that a man's consistent and predictable behavior can lead to a decrease in his perceived value or attractiveness, as it may signal a lack of challenge or excitement, causing the woman to lose interest over time.

What is the script's perspective on the common advice given to men about 'spicing things up' in a relationship?

The script refutes the common advice of 'spicing things up' in a relationship, arguing that such efforts do not necessarily maintain a woman's interest and may instead lead her to perceive the man as less valuable or more predictable.

How does the script define 'overt communication' and why is it significant in relationships?

Overt communication, as defined by the script, is direct and clear communication that reveals a person's interest or feelings without ambiguity. It is significant in relationships because it signals a woman's high level of interest and investment, often used when she feels the need to reassure her partner of her feelings to maintain the relationship.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 The Illusion of Psychological Leverage in Relationships

The paragraph discusses the concept that for a woman to truly love, adore, and admire a man, she must feel that her value is less than his. The speaker emphasizes the importance of maintaining psychological leverage and upper hand in relationships, which is essential for a woman to feel feminine and treat the man with respect. The speaker advises men to conceal their interest levels and intent to create an illusion of higher sexual market value (SMV), which can lead to women perceiving them as more valuable partners. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for viewers to explore the masculine behavioral technique for life-changing results in dating and relationships.

05:01

💭 The Impact of Hypergamy and Male Behavior on Attraction

This section delves into the idea that high value is not about material status but rather the effort a woman must put in to gain a man's approval. The speaker explains that viewing a woman as less than a perfect score (e.g., an eight instead of a ten) can lead to higher value body language and vocal tone, making the man appear less available and more attractive. The paragraph also touches on the concept of hypergamy, where women are naturally drawn to what they cannot have, and how this plays into the dynamics of dating and relationships. The speaker advises men to avoid giving full validation or approval to women to maintain their interest and attraction.

10:03

🤔 The Subtle Signs of a Woman's Attachment and the Dangers of Certainty

The paragraph explores the signs that indicate a woman has built an attachment to a man, such as initiating contact and repeated sexual encounters. It warns against the negative effects of giving a woman full validation or approval, which can lead to a decrease in interest and even sex withholding. The speaker explains that women have an innate drive not to appear too eager or available, and that men must understand this dynamic to maintain a relationship. The paragraph also discusses how women's subconscious minds evaluate men's value based on their behavior and responsiveness, which can trigger a biological response to withhold intimacy if a man is perceived as low value.

15:03

🏆 The High Value Man and the Importance of Passing Interest Tests

This section focuses on the idea that being a high value man is not about material wealth or physical appearance, but rather about demonstrating through personality traits and behavior that one is a 'catch.' The speaker discusses how even successful and high-status men can fail 'interest tests' if they do not exhibit the right behaviors that signal high value. The paragraph highlights that women are drawn to men who treat them poorly because such men appear to have options and do not make the woman their priority, which paradoxically increases their attractiveness. The speaker emphasizes the importance of acting in a way that conveys high value, regardless of one's actual status or income.

20:05

📉 The Downward Spiral of Over-Investment and the Need for Emotional Balance

The paragraph discusses the negative consequences of men over-investing in relationships, such as频繁ly planning dates and excessive communication, which can lead to a woman losing interest. The speaker argues that women are not playing games but are genuinely responding to the perceived value of the man. When a man treats a woman well and she still leaves, it is often because she no longer perceives him as high value. The paragraph concludes by explaining that women will switch to overt communication when they truly like a man, providing clear and direct expressions of their feelings, which contrasts with the more subtle, covert communication used when interest is lower.

Keywords

💡Hypergamy

Hypergamy refers to the sociological concept where individuals seek to marry or form relationships with others of higher social status. In the context of the video, hypergamy is used to explain why women are attracted to men who they perceive as having a higher sexual market value (SMV). The video suggests that women are biologically and psychologically inclined to seek partners who are of higher status or value, which is why they may be drawn to men who are less available or who do not fully commit, as it signals higher SMV.

💡Sexual Market Value (SMV)

Sexual Market Value (SMV) is a term used to describe an individual's perceived attractiveness or desirability in the context of dating and mating. The video emphasizes that a woman's attraction to a man is influenced by her perception of his SMV. If a woman feels that her SMV is inferior to the man's, it creates a dynamic where she looks up to him, admires him, and is more likely to be attracted to him. The video suggests that men can increase their SMV by not fully committing or by maintaining an air of mystery and unattainability.

💡Validation

Validation in the video refers to the need for a woman to feel approved or valued by her partner. The speaker argues that women seek validation from men as a sign of their worth and desirability. However, the video also suggests that providing too much validation or showing too much interest can lower a man's perceived SMV, as it signals to the woman that she is the best option available to him, which can reduce attraction.

💡Interest Test

An interest test is a concept discussed in the video where a woman subtly checks a man's level of interest in her to gauge his value and commitment. The video suggests that women use these tests to determine if a man is high value and if he is worth their investment. Men who pass these tests by not revealing too much interest or by not being too available are seen as higher value and more attractive.

💡Overt Communication

Overt communication is direct and clear messaging that leaves little room for interpretation. In the video, it is mentioned that when a woman is truly interested in a man, she may switch from covert (subtle and indirect) communication to overt communication. This could involve her expressing her feelings more directly, such as sending explicit messages of affection or appreciation, which is a sign that she is invested and does not want to lose the man.

💡Covert Communication

Covert communication is indirect and subtle messaging that often requires the recipient to infer the sender's intentions. The video explains that women often use covert communication to test a man's interest and to express their feelings without being too direct. For example, a woman might casually mention an activity she did or how her day went, expecting the man to interpret this as a sign of her interest.

💡Psychological Leverage

Psychological leverage refers to the power or advantage one has in a relationship due to their ability to influence or control the other person's emotions or actions. The video suggests that men can gain psychological leverage by maintaining an appearance of higher SMV and by not fully committing to a woman, which keeps her uncertain and therefore more attracted and invested in the relationship.

💡Certainty

Certainty in the video refers to the state of being sure or confident about something, particularly in the context of a relationship. The speaker argues that providing a woman with too much certainty, such as constant availability, excessive commitment, or clear signs of affection, can decrease her attraction because it signals that the man is not a high-value catch and that she has secured him, thus reducing the challenge and excitement.

💡Uncertainty

Uncertainty in the video is portrayed as a tool that can increase a woman's attraction. By maintaining an air of mystery or not being entirely predictable, a man can increase his SMV in the eyes of a woman. The video suggests that uncertainty can be a powerful motivator for women to invest more in a relationship as they seek to understand and secure the man's commitment.

💡Commitment

Commitment in the video is discussed as a behavior or decision that signifies a man's investment in a relationship. The speaker advises against early commitment, suggesting that it can lower a man's SMV because it signals to the woman that she has secured him, which can reduce her interest. The video implies that a man should be cautious about how and when he commits to maintain his perceived value.

Highlights

Women must never feel good enough to maintain their love, admiration, and respect for a man.

Psychological leverage and upper hand are crucial for a woman's sense of femininity and respect in a relationship.

Men often fail to gain or maintain the upper hand in relationships, leading to women seeking higher value men.

Concealing one's interest level and intent can create an illusion of higher sexual market value (SMV).

Commitment from men can lead to women desiring more emotional investment, which may decrease a man's perceived value.

Women are attracted to what they can't have, a concept known as hypergamy.

High value is not about materialistic status but how hard a woman has to work for a man's approval.

Men who view women as less than a perfect score project higher value body language.

Women are used to attention from men and seek to look up to a man as a novel experience.

Women's hypergamy is satisfied when they feel they have to work for a man's approval.

Women only become obsessed with men who don't reciprocate their feelings, signaling high value.

Women need validation and approval, which they seek through a man's interest and investment.

Giving a woman full validation or approval can lead to her losing interest and potentially withholding sex.

Women's biology may signal them to withhold sex when they sense a man is not high value or a good survival bet.

Men's natural and caring behaviors are often misinterpreted by women as low value.

Women will leave men who treat them well because they are not challenged or feel a need to maintain the relationship.

Overt communication from women is a sign of high interest and a desire not to lose a man they perceive as high value.

Transcripts

the sad truth that 99% of men refuse to

believe when it comes to female nature

is that in order for a woman to truly

love you adore you and admire you she

must never feel good enough now for

anybody who this is the first time

you're hearing this and this sounds

drastic or something that you've never

heard before I advise you to stick with

me because on this markerboard

presentation today what I'm going to be

doing is showing you how you can have

the psychological leverage as well as

the upper hand in majority of any

relationship that you get into and this

is what a woman needs from you in order

to feel feminine and actually treat you

with respect because if you're not able

to maintain this what's going to happen

is she's going to pull back she's going

to look at you as a man who is not her

best option and then she's going to

gravitate towards a higher value man and

you're going to be wondering what

happened stick with me because this

video will be life-changing after this

video is over be sure to go down below

go to the link in the description and

check out MBT for the masculine

behavioral technique fulllength webinar

that I put together for you I I say that

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Transformations that I have seen it is

truly life-changing if you want to copy

that into your dating life and get

results at a much quicker Pace let's

dive in now just read it with me because

this is going to piss some of you off

okay women must never feel good enough

in order to love you now what does that

mean okay let's actually take this slow

and figure out what that means because

you can't self-improvement your way out

of this one you can't make more money

out of your way this one you can't get

to 6% body fat and your extra two pack

of ABS is going to self-improvement your

way out of this one okay when I say

women must never feel good enough in

order to love you that is a feeling okay

so what I'm actually describing is that

the feeling that she needs to have at

all times is that her sexual market

value is inferior to yours meaning you

are up here and her sexual market value

is down here which means she looks up to

you so the reason why this is so

important is because when men enter into

relationship ships a they don't know how

to gain the upper hand and B they don't

know how to maintain the leverage a

woman wants you to have the upper hand a

woman wants you to have the leverage the

second that she starts to have the power

and the control or the authority over

your emotions and in that relationship

rest assured is the countdown to the end

of it so here's what I can tell you men

who conceal their interest level and

intent leave her uncertain so there's a

specific reason why this is so important

the biggest reason is that it gives the

illusion of a higher smv a higher sexual

market value so here's what tends to

happen when a guy gets into a

relationship woman wants guy to commit

okay so he does guy commits okay we've

all been there girls like you know when

am I going to get more of your attention

when am I going to get more of your time

you know I I only see you once a week

blah blah and then you know what happens

is you say okay you think God that ass

is good those panties are nice those

linger is good so we do it like every

guy's been through this you're sitting

there you're think thinking you go hm

all those faces and all them noises that

she's making in bed godamn that looks

good you know I could I could see myself

continuously doing that with her God

that is good positions I had look at

that so you go okay I'll commit so he

commits okay what this is really saying

okay when when a woman asks for your

commitment when a woman asks for your

time when a woman asks you to be her

boyfriend or she's saying where is this

going okay she wants his emotional

investment

that's what she is wanting the woman is

wanting your emotional investment a

woman can go get sex anywhere but she's

wanting your emotional investment and

your care because at the time since she

feels like your smv is above hers what

happens is that she's looking up to you

so she wants the value extract from that

man now here's what tends to happen okay

she wants his emotional investment but

soon day by day as you're more stable as

you're consistently there in front of

her as every single day she knows that

you make toast in the morning for

breakfast you take your at 9:20

a.m. after you have your espresso okay

you go to the same spot for lunch every

single week and you grind on your

computer until 8:20 p.m. when you

finally go to bed because you're trying

to make a lot of money and be high value

but at the same time now you're boring

and predictable now what happens is your

value that you once had the emotional

investment that she wanted your value no

longer holds weight say that one more

time your value as a man no longer holds

weight which means she doesn't want it

well here's what you really have to look

at this as and boil it down to is women

only wanting what they can't have or

what they don't have access to is

hypergamy one more time women wanting

what they can't have women wanting

access to what they can't have is

hypergamy so if you make a million

dollars a month you're a famous NBA

player but every single day you ask her

where she wants to go out to eat and

you're there every single night and

you're cuddling on the couch eating

potato chips you have now lowered your

smv so high value is not materialistic

status high value is how hard you make

that woman work for your approval glad

we got that out of the way okay what I'm

trying to explain to you is that if

every guy views her as a 10 and you see

her as an eight the beauty of this okay

is that what's going to happen if you

view her as an eight is now you're going

to be giving off higher value body

language okay when I say higher value

body language what that actually means

is when you're around her you are going

to be less touchy feely you're going to

have better vocal tone you're going to

be not worried about certain words that

you say if that pisses her off or if

that offends her because you feel like

your smv is above hers so because of

that you got to realize a woman when she

looks at a man never wants to know that

she is his best or only option so when

you view that woman as an eight when

every other guy on planet Earth views

her as a 10 now you give off higher

value body language okay you give off

better vocal tone you're less touchy

feely see some of you guys even if you

don't tell a woman woman I love you the

fact that you try to hold that hand you

got to understand she sees this through

your subc commmunication she sees that

twinkle in your eye that you get when

you look at her she sees how much you

laugh at her jokes and that you're

smiling around her she sees that you're

consistently one day a week or two days

per week asking her to come hang out

with you she sees all this so you

don't even have to say it you say these

things with your eyes you say I love you

and you say I'm attached with your eyes

with your mannerisms and you give off

weak body language now the woman starts

to pull back and exit so when you can

view her as an eight what that does or

like a seven or an eight instead of a 10

like everybody else this now signals

that you're not fully sold on her okay

most women who are super hot you got to

understand since this woman grew boobs

she's been used to every man on planet

Earth kissing her ass saying can I get

can I buy you a drink can I hold that

door for you pretty lady oh you know I

thought you were so adorable can I get

your number I would love to take you out

this is what this woman has been used to

her whole life like almost part of her

wants to know what it feels like to look

up to a man just for once in her life so

this signals that you're not fully sold

on her now this feeling satisfies

hypergamy notice she doesn't know if you

make 20K a year 50k a year 100K a year a

million a year and truthfully it doesn't

matter because all she's sitting

there at night thinking is you know he

didn't text me back since Wednesday and

today's

Sunday that's what she's thinking about

you know this is the first guy that I've

ever you know I've I've we've slept

together a couple times and man I went

over and I thought I did a good job in

bed and I wore sexy lingerie and I put

on good perfume and you know he he must

not like me but see like me me as the

person women don't look at the lens of

the world a lot of times through

intimacy and through potentially having

sex like a lot of men do women actually

look at the intrinsic value the internal

she can only see the world through her

lens which is the pink Kaleidoscope

glasses so when a woman says he doesn't

like me okay she might know that you're

attracted to her but when she goes he

doesn't like me she's looking at the

individual because that's how she looks

at you she looks at you as the

individual she looks at you as to what's

the in what's on the inside she looks at

you as what is the internal guts of the

man she looks at you is what what is the

Charisma and the personality traits that

I fall in love with as a woman this is

the things that she's thinking about so

naturally she can only think that you

perceive love that same way the biggest

cheat code that all of you have from

watching my videos I tell

you what is you are finally able to

start to put on the pink Kaleidoscope

glasses and try your damnest try your

absolute best to see what the

world probably looks like just a little

bit from the eyes of a woman because

I'll tell you what women do not do a

very good job at putting on the blue

Kaleidoscope glasses and then trying to

see the world through the lens of a man

because they've never had to most women

don't have to work for a man's approval

they therefore they have never had to

take a step back objectively think

objectively look at the world and

objectively make the decision of hm how

can I win this guy over the fact that

you can see this the fact that you can

even possibly Envision what the world

might look like when she's perceiving

different value of men that are in front

of her is your biggest cheat code I have

ever given you so this feeling that

you're not sold on her satisfies

hypergamy why because she has to work

for his approval so what you got to

realize here is this is why women only

become obsessed with men who don't want

them back because you not wanting her

back is the signal of high value you not

wanting her back is hypergamy not your

bank balance not that your 6% body fat

not that you drive six Maseratis one for

each color like in in 10 different

colors that is not what she cares about

so she needs that validation like you

got to understand she needs that

approval she needs that approval

when she's sitting there on her phone

and she's like God why didn't he text me

back why didn't he FaceTime me back I

didn't hear from him it's been two days

and now he he he liked my message or he

harded my message but he never he never

answered my question that I asked him he

never followed up with how my day is

here he he just said my day is going

good sand any harder that I sent it why

isn't he engaging in conversation she

does not want to lose one okay and the

reason why is because she doesn't want

her smv to take a hit she does not want

her Section market value to take that

hit okay here's what you have to

understand when you have even built like

a slight when a woman has even built a

slight attachment to you here's how you

know that she did that number one she

initiates contact in any way shape or

form first she initiates contact meaning

she'll say how's work going today uh

how'd that interview go uh uh um what's

another one uh I ju I just made macaroni

salad for dinner you might think that

that's very subtle and it is because

women communicate covertly but to her

that's a big thing she's like look at I

just put in effort to that guy talk to

him

first if you actually get a good morning

text you got to understand she has has

very high interest another way that you

can tell is if you've slept with a woman

probably more than like two to four

times somewhere in that a somewhere in

that bracket like typically what I found

is the attachment usually comes

between sexual encounter number three to

five right there that's The Sweet Spot

of like her she's in her feelings right

now cuz not only did she come over once

to test the waters not only she come

over a second time to really test the

waters but if she came back a third time

she likes you okay you you at this point

have the upper hand as long as you don't

it up so here's what you got to

understand when a guy does pull away or

when a guy isn't sold on them or when a

guy isn't trying to invest hardcore into

a monogamous committed relationship with

a woman they literally can't stand to

lose one they cannot take it they can't

take it this completely like bends their

mind in half they can't stand to lose

one this makes them Furious it makes

them Furious about their potential

Beauty in the eyes of that Beholder it

makes them Furious about how their

personality is she starts to look in the

mirror and go well I fall in love with a

man's charm seduction and Charisma am I

not charismatic enough this is what

she's going to ask herself this is how

these women will now they're start going

to start to try to bend like their

personality almost to try to figure out

what that guy wants do I need to cook

for him one more time this is what she's

thinking this is what I'm telling you

never ever ever ever ever ever ever give

a woman your full validation or your

full approval as soon as you give a

woman your validation or approval she'll

interest test you harder and I have

stopped using the term test I don't

even like the term competency test

because they're not necessarily even

testing your competency or or like how

much you're willing to take in my

opinion I think that's a very poor

example of it because then I feel like

men are focused on on looking for the

wrong things she's not looking for that

what she's looking for is your interest

she wants to gauge your interest level

so you know what if you're dumber than a

box of rocks and you're not that

competent but guess what you're not sold

on her and every time she throws out an

interest test you pass it by not taking

bait do you understand that that right

there is going to raise interest that

right there is going to make her look at

you and go damn there must be something

about him okay glad we got that out of

the way when you do give a woman your

validation and your full approval she'll

also think that she's the best that you

can do the reason is because if you're

willing to commit she assumes that she's

probably the hottest woman that you're

able to attract this probably isn't true

a lot of times for guys this isn't even

true at all a lot of times women's

hypergamy will even lead them wrong and

she will tell herself that she can find

a higher value male when an actuality

that is completely false the only

difference is that the guy just didn't

lay the right psychological cards a lot

of times women think that they can do a

hell a lot better than they actually can

and the reason being is because there's

actually not a whole lot of high value

guys out there so if you've made any of

these mistakes don't beat yourself up

for it just understand that new

information new decision okay say that

one more time new information new

decision new information you just

discovered new decision you have to make

on how you're going to live if you're

willing to change the way you live

you're going to excel in every single

area so not only that she feels like

she's put on a pedestal okay even if

you're just naturally normal or caring

so when I say naturally normal or caring

I'm trying to like let that sink in for

a second because a lot of you guys

myself included even a lot of like like

I I've met other so like there's other

influencers that you guys know who are

very wellknown who I've networked with

or I've zoomed with or I've met up these

are guys with multiple hundreds of

thousands of Instagram followers

multiple hundreds of thousands of uh

YouTu

subscribers dude everyone's just like a

normal guy and if you like your girl

you're going to want to care about her

you're going to want to go buy her

dinner and have you gave you you guys go

eat dinner you're going to want to if

you have a home and you're going to

watch TV you're going to want to

naturally grab a blanket and cuddle up

with her this is normal male Behavior

but you got to understand that she

doesn't interpret or see the world that

you do so just because you think these

things are okay because you can do them

or you can get away with them doesn't

mean that she looks at it like that and

it takes you like it takes you getting

bit a couple times to understand these

things just being a normal guy or caring

every single guy that I have ever like

I'm going to tell this straight up every

guy I've ever networked with on Zoom or

in person or these are high value men

who make Bank all of these guys have

been through this and you have to go

through this to learn this is the

competency aspect of masculinity this is

the competency aspect of how you develop

wisdom and actually be a man because I'm

going to tell you what these things are

not common practice you have seen

celebrities get divorced you have seen

celebrities get dumped you have seen

high value NFL Stars NBA players you

have seen high value guys who have loads

of women after them as soon as they fail

these interest tests with women you

watch their wives pull back you watch

their girlfriends leave them the some of

the best like some of the best like the

contextually some of the best players

I've ever met guys who are naturally

smooth with women okay like even the

guys who are great with women great at

seducing women great at going on on

dates with women and having sexual

encounters with women I have met these

men personally some of these men when

they enjoy a specific woman fail these

things too because to men this is not

necessarily common knowledge due to the

fact that men like to see Roi in things

that we care about so if you care about

your business you're going to put effort

into it if you care about your body in

the gym you want to see Roi into that

you're going to care about it so since

they think backwards you caring you just

being a normal guy who cares about

something that you enjoy I can't control

this and neither can you this registers

as low value now what's G to happen

she'll become rude to you she just

starts being mean mean to you for no

reason she's going to be rude to be

around she's going to try to talk to you

less she's going to not enjoy your

company and she's going to start to act

like you're a burden she's going to act

disgusted with you now not to mention

here's the biggest thing that you can

like expect to happen when you give a

woman certainty when you give a woman

your full validation when you give a

woman your full approval she 100% will

sex withhold from you and this is going

to sting because the reason that you you

got to understand and internalize this

is because she can't even control it the

reason why she can't control it if a

woman sex withholds from you it's up

here psychologically there's red flags

going off in her head about you and you

might think well I'm caring I'm

nurturing I'm a normal guy I'm doing

everything right no you're not if you

were doing everything right she'd want

to keep sleeping with you here's what I

can tell you she can't even control it

the reason why she can't control it is

because her biology is telling her not

to reproduce you her biology is looking

at you and she's going there's something

wrong with that I don't

know what it is but I'm not turned on by

him there's something wrong with this

in front of me I don't know

what it is but I sense weakness this is

her biology giving her the red flag her

biology is telling her not to reproduce

you her biology is telling her to

reproduce her biology is telling her not

to reproduce you which means she closes

off access so then what happens is her

biology her biology thinks that you

became weak her subconscious thinks that

you can't stand up to her therefore you

can't stand up for her this is how a

woman thinks and this is how a woman

operates if she starts to see that you

fail one too many interest tests and

keep in mind these are subtle okay when

she looks at you with those puppy dog

eyes if you smile and light up interest

test failed when you're laying on a

couch and you go like this to handhold

First interest test failed when you're

sitting on a couch and you say let's

grab a blanket and snuggle up come lay

by me even though you guys have already

slept together and there should already

be an attachment formed on her end where

she seeks those things from you and you

say come come lay with me baby interest

test failed do you understand how deep

this goes every time you send a good

morning text or check-in text first

interest test failed so every time you

do one of these things she knows where

you stand and every time you and and

you're sitting there thinking I just I

care about her I like her yeah so do we

we all do I don't care what I don't like

and some of you guys you think well

she's traditional or she uh comes from a

religious background they're they're all

they you can't fight her hardwiring I

don't care if she comes from a single

parent hustled two par household I don't

care what type of neighborhood she grew

up in I don't care this is how women

behave and this is how women operate so

her subconscious thinks that you can't

stand up to her therefore you can't

stand up for her women are survival

creatures and the reason why she's

closed off sexual access to you is

because at this time at this point in

your life right now for whatever reason

when she looks at you you're now a Bad

Bet to her survival I can't control that

truthfully she can't control that but

hypergamy says differently as since her

hypergamy is telling her not to

reproduce you now she's going to close

off sexual access doesn't matter that

you bought that wedding ring doesn't

matter that you've been married for 20

years doesn't matter that you guys are

still in the thinging it phase for 6

months and you know things should be

common cohesion between both of you none

of these things matter okay and since

none of these things actually matter

what you have to understand is you don't

get to change the rules just because you

think you're different the amount of men

that I've met and myself included back

in the day where I would say well you

know what I'm I'm ripped right I got a

big muscle I can say whatever I want

nope you can't cuz you'll still fail the

interest test I've seen guys who are

financially successful they say well you

know I got a big house and I got a

swimming pool and I drive a you know

Supercar and I got a Corvette and I got

a Lamborghini so I'm cool and I can do

this nope you can't interest test failed

you are not different you are nothing

special and you're are the same as every

single other guy out there and I don't

care if you're 6'4 I don't care if

you're 6'6 I don't care if you make $20

million a month and I don't care how

many sports cars you have you fail these

interest tests you stop acting like

you're high value yes I said acting cuz

you can act high value like you're a

stud whether you make a 100 Grand a year

or a million dollars a month I don't

care you stop acting the right way

you're going to watch a woman close off

access to you so here's what I can tell

you this is why women say with men who

treat them very poorly when you treat a

woman poorly here's what happens she

starts to see that this guy never makes

her a priority when she sees this guy

never makes her priority what happens is

her mind goes off so she goes you know

what he could be drinking with friends

maybe he's just ignoring me and doesn't

like me okay not only that maybe he

doesn't have an 8 n or a 10 interest in

her attraction he probably doesn't which

is why he's not talking to her she

senses this she goes well he doesn't

have an 8 n and 10 interest so naturally

she just views him as a catch this is

hypergamy you containing your interest

say that with me why did I start over

here with the first line you're going to

notice every presentation I make is set

up so these headlines up top connect and

you're going see how this headline

connect like I I I draft these very very

specifically the reason why I started

here with men who conceal their interest

level and intent leave women uncertain

this is why now you're the bad boy now

you're the now you're the player

without even trying to be how funny is

that you not replying to one or two text

messages makes you an guys you

don't have to be out doing crazy

there's subtle tweaks in your behavior

that you can do to position yourself as

a high value guy so here's where guys go

wrong they think in order to m maintain

a woman's interest in order to maintain

a woman's attraction okay what guys tend

to think is guys think that

self-improvement is the answer

self-improvement is not the answer you

can improve yourself and that buys you

the 30 to 45 second window when you

either approach a girl in public at a

house party at a bar or club out on the

street at a coffee shop or you're online

and you may be match with a chick and

she's like okay he looks attractive

that's all that it does for the girl

beyond that you have to have personality

traits that signal high value

that's the one benefit you have is a

cheat code is a woman falls in love with

the internals of a man if you can

demonstrate the right things internally

convey that through your charisma convey

that through your personality you'll be

Miles Ahead self-improvement is not the

answer passing the interest tests are

the answer this is the answer this is

the game in a nutshell interest test

after interest test after interest test

you have to pass so whether you make 50k

or 500k a year or 5 million a year

doesn't matter because revealing

interest reveals your sexual Market

value revealing your interests reveals

what type of girl you're used to getting

revealing your and and keep in mind like

I said we all like beautiful sexy

attractive women if you made me these

mistakes it's fine because every single

guy will do this from time to time every

single guy makes these mistakes every

single guy does this stuff so she

doesn't feel good enough for him so then

what happens is she naturally looks up

to him okay this right here is why women

often times will stay with guys who

treat them poorly she has something to

look up to now here's you got to

understand over here this is why women

leave all the men who treat them well if

you treat a woman well rest assured

she's going to leave you in due time

okay I don't care how she was raised I

don't care what type of household she

comes from read this with me all women

okay all women will leave men who treat

them well so here's what I can tell you

the more dates you try to take her out

on the more vacations you suggest to go

on the more calls and texts that you

give okay the more planning you do to

spice things up this is the other BS Li

sold to men is you need to keep things

spicy and you need to make sure that you

spice things up so you're not boring

this is false too because guess what you

committing in the first place doesn't

outweigh okay the diff the difference in

competition anxiety that you relieved

her from so keep that in mind the more

dates you do the more vacations the more

calling the more check and text the more

she goes hm he really likes me look at

that look at that nice guy really like

me this is what she sitting there

thinking she go hm he really likes me

how nice you know what he really likes

me since he really likes me you know

what I don't really like him and you

know now she's going to do she's going

to start now she finds flaws in you you

know if he was just a little

taller if his hairline was a little more

symmetrical I can't put my finger on it

he just you know there's something about

him maybe it's his vocal Tong I just I

don't know if I feel the same way this

is what she's going to say I don't know

if I I you know my I'm just not in it

like I used to be okay understand this

the more the more that she goes hm he

really likes me the more she sits and

goes hm I really don't like him this is

how a woman's brain works so she doesn't

play games women don't play games this

is what a lot of you guys type in why

did she play games with me why did she

leave me you type this into the

computer why did why did my girlfriend

play games and leave me for a different

guy women don't play games women have

never played games okay games don't

exist she just doesn't like you as much

and the reason why I know this is

because women are led by their

emotions call that impul iive call that

what you will if her emotions are

signaling text this man you like him

that girl is going to text you if her

emotions are signaling he's low value I

don't like him anymore she pulls back it

is the simplest thing to comprehend when

you just cut the and you accept

it for what it is she pulls back all of

a sudden when you really like her then

she returns calls more slowly then she

sets less and less dates then she never

checks in on your day and then you don't

hear from her and that's just how goes

and this happens even if you've slept

with a girl five times maybe you guys

slept with each other 20 times maybe you

guys were in a relationship and you

slept together a 100 times just because

often times for men sex is the most

important PRI priority for you and you

feel like you're winning so to speak

because you've gained sexual access

women don't see the world through that

lens so just accept it for what it is

they see the world through a different

lens so what happens if she pulls back

like this is your ass tries to go and

read between the lines you try to read

between the lines and I'm here to tell

you that there's nothing to really read

because she doesn't like you so when a

woman likes a guy you know okay when a

woman likes a man you will know she will

she will return texts on time she will

call you back she'll always check in how

your day is going and she will genuinely

do the things to make you feel like she

likes you this is like the this this is

very clear to see the way that you will

know that a woman likes you is she

switches to overt communication

okay what is overt overt means she

communicates in a more direct fashion

towards you overt means she is overtly

saying the things she wants you to know

she's overtly doing that because she's

trying to reveal her interest level so

you as the man don't have to read

between the lines women typically speak

covertly okay if she checks in and says

uh hey how's your day going or if she

checks in and says uh I just got done

going to the movies and she just says

that randomly that's covert

communication covertly what that

actually means is she's wanting you to

have the competency to look at that and

go hm she just wants to make

communication she likes me or she's

thinking of me that's what she wants

that to mean that's covert when a woman

really likes a guy meaning she's in love

She's attached she's head over heels in

love with the guy she'll switch to overt

communication overt as in hey I love you

so much please never forget it send that

is overt communication why would she

switch to overt communication why would

she start to communicate more directly

why would she almost choose to

communicate in a more masculine fashion

as in being directional logical okay

exactly to the point and and that speech

is very direct why would she switch to

that style of overt communication look

how this ties in because hypergamy can't

stand to lose one I drew a whole dotted

line around this whole thing to lead you

to point number two okay because they

can't stand to lose one you have to

understand this position yourself as the

type of guy who she would never want to

lose if you can do that you can signal

to hypergamy that you are the highest

value man that she has access to they

can't stand to lose one if you can

exercise that and you can make sure that

from time to time she's required to

switch to overt Communication in order

to please you so you don't have to read

between the lines so you can get the

direct communication text saying I

appreciate you so much send I can't wait

to wear this cute lingerie for you on

Saturday night send hey thinking about

you love you so much send if you want

those types of text text messages you

need to make sure that you signal that

you have the highest value smv that she

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