Pursuing Too Little Vs. Too Much

Summary

In this video coaching newsletter, Coach Corey Wayne discusses the delicate balance of pursuing a romantic interest, emphasizing the importance of not pursuing too little or too much. He shares insights on maintaining a natural and effortless pursuit, choosing a partner with a good attitude and humor, and the significance of enjoying each other's company beyond just physical attraction. Corey also addresses two emails from men seeking advice on navigating their relationships, offering guidance on communication, self-improvement, and understanding the dynamics of attraction and emotional responses.

Takeaways

• 😀 Pursuing a balance is crucial in relationships; too much or too little can be detrimental.
• 🔍 It's important to find the 'sweet spot' in a relationship where both parties feel comfortable and engaged.
• 💌 Communication is key; understanding the subtle cues and actions in a relationship can help maintain a healthy dynamic.
• 🤔 Choosing a partner with a good attitude and shared interests can lead to a more fulfilling and enjoyable relationship.
• 😄 Laughter and humor are essential components of a strong relationship, as they promote positive emotions and chemistry.
• 🧠 The mindset of a partner with high self-esteem and a positive outlook can significantly impact the ease and success of a relationship.
• 💡 Personal growth and self-improvement can enhance the quality of relationships and the type of partners one attracts.
• 🌐 The quality of life is directly related to the quality of people one surrounds oneself with; choose wisely.
• 🤷‍♂️ Over-pursuing or being too cold can lead to misunderstandings and relationship breakdowns.
• 📈 Consistent effort in self-improvement can lead to an increase in the quality of romantic interests one attracts.
• 🚫 Recognizing and letting go of relationships that are not healthy or beneficial is a sign of emotional maturity and self-respect.

Q & A

What is the main topic of Coach Corey Wayne's video coaching newsletter?

The main topic of the newsletter is about finding the balance between pursuing too little and pursuing too much in a relationship, and the importance of choosing a partner with a good attitude and communication skills.

What does Coach Corey Wayne suggest is the 'sweet spot' in a relationship?

The 'sweet spot' is where the woman does most of the chasing and pursuing, and it feels natural and effortless to both parties.

Why is it important to choose a partner who is a good communicator and has a sense of humor according to the coach?

It is important because sex is a small part of a relationship, and it's crucial to be with someone you enjoy being with, who is interesting and shares common goals and interests.

What does Coach Corey Wayne emphasize about the role of laughter and smiling in a relationship?

He emphasizes that laughter and smiling are among the best anti-depressants because they trigger the brain to produce positive chemicals, contributing to a happier and healthier relationship.

What impact can a person's attitude have on their relationship dynamics, as discussed by Coach Corey Wayne?

A person's attitude can greatly affect the relationship dynamics. A positive attitude can lead to an effortless relationship, while a negative attitude can cause misunderstandings and lead to the assumption of ill intent.

What advice does Coach Corey Wayne give regarding the pursuit of an ex-girlfriend who is upset and not responding?

He advises to not pursue and instead walk away, as it takes two to make a relationship work and if the other person is not willing to make an effort, it's better to move on.

What is the significance of the 'glass half full versus half empty' perspective in relationships according to the coach?

The 'glass half full' perspective signifies a positive outlook, where a person assumes good intentions, while the 'glass half empty' perspective indicates a negative outlook, leading to assumptions of ill intent and dissatisfaction in a relationship.

How does Coach Corey Wayne suggest handling a situation where a woman is playfully teasing and using sweet names?

He suggests giving it right back to her in a playful and fun manner, as it helps create positive associations and emotions.

What does Coach Corey Wayne recommend when a woman is upset about not being pursued enough?

He recommends acknowledging her feelings and being more attentive, but also maintaining a balance to avoid coming across as too needy or desperate.

How does Coach Corey Wayne define a '3% man' and why is it important to be one?

A '3% man' is someone who is in the top 3% of men in terms of confidence, assertiveness, and understanding of women's attraction. It's important to be one because it increases the quality of women one can attract and maintain a healthy, happy relationship.