How women make it difficult to love them: make it easy to get what you want
Summary
TLDRLe Dr Orion terban, dans son épisode de psyx, explore comment les femmes peuvent rendre l'amour plus difficile à recevoir. Il compare les relations amoureuses aux affaires, soulignant l'importance de faciliter le processus pour les clients et les partenaires. Il critique les attentes complexes et suggère de simplifier les canaux d'amour pour augmenter la quantité reçue, en utilisant des analogies de vente et en remettant en question les 'langages de l'amour'. Le Dr terban encourage à accepter une variété d'expressions d'amour et à ne pas rendre l'amour trop complexe.
Takeaways
- 😀 L'objectif de la conférence est d'aider les femmes à attirer plus d'amour dans leur vie.
- 💡 L'anologue commercial est utilisé pour illustrer les principes applicables aux relations amoureuses.
- 🛒 Il est important de rendre le processus d'achat simple et intuitif pour augmenter les ventes, similaire à la facilité d'expression de l'amour.
- 🚫 Évitez de mettre des obstacles entre vous et vos clients, ou entre vous et l'amour que les gens veulent vous offrir.
- 🤔 Les entreprises ne devraient pas blâmer leurs clients pour leurs problèmes de revenu, tout comme on ne devrait pas blâmer les partenaires pour ne pas apporter l'amour désiré.
- 📈 Les seules entreprises qui peuvent se permettre des obstacles sont celles qui sont tellement demandées qu'elles doivent limiter les ventes pour ne pas être submergées.
- 📚 L'auteur suggère que les femmes simplifient les conditions qu'elles imposent pour ressentir l'amour, afin de recevoir plus d'amour.
- 🔄 Les 'langages de l'amour' peuvent compliquer inutilement les relations et réduire les occasions d'expression de l'amour.
- ❤️ Il est recommandé d'accepter un large éventail d'expressions d'amour, tout comme une entreprise accepte divers modes de paiement pour augmenter ses revenus.
- 👶 La mère sait que les intentions d'amour de ses enfants sont précieuses, indépendamment des actions spécifiques qu'ils entreprennent.
- 🔑 La simplicité dans la manière dont on reçoit l'amour est la clé pour en recevoir plus, selon l'orateur.
Q & A
Quel est le thème de la conférence d'aujourd'hui présentée par Dr Orion terban?
-Le thème de la conférence est comment les femmes rendent-elles difficile de les aimer, et comment augmenter l'amour dans leur vie.
Pourquoi Dr Orion terban utilise-t-il une analogie avec le monde professionnel pour parler de relations amoureuses?
-Dr Orion terban utilise une analogie avec le monde professionnel car les gens sont généralement plus rationnels dans la compréhension des affaires et ce qui fonctionne dans l'un tend à fonctionner dans l'autre.
Quelle est la première étape pour augmenter les ventes selon l'exemple donné par Dr Orion terban?
-La première étape pour augmenter les ventes est de s'assurer que le processus d'achat est simple et intuitif pour les clients, avec moins de trois clics pour l'ajouter au panier, remplir les informations de carte de crédit et acheter.
Quel est l'effet d'un processus d'achat compliqué sur les ventes d'un produit?
-Un processus d'achat compliqué peut décourager les clients et les amener à chercher des alternatives plus simples, ce qui réduit les ventes.
Pourquoi les entreprises ne devraient-elles pas mettre d'obstacles entre leurs clients et les recettes?
-Les obstacles entre les clients et les recettes peuvent rendre le processus d'achat frustrant et décourager les clients de finaliser l'achat, ce qui nuit aux revenus de l'entreprise.
Quel est le conseil de Dr Orion terban pour les femmes qui cherchent à augmenter l'amour dans leur vie?
-Dr Orion terban conseille aux femmes de simplifier le processus par lequel elles reçoivent de l'amour et d'accepter de plus nombreuses formes d'amour, sans rendre les choses compliquées.
Quelle est la comparaison faite entre les 'langages de l'amour' et les pratiques commerciales?
-La comparaison faite est que les 'langages de l'amour', tout comme certaines pratiques commerciales, peuvent rendre le processus d'échange plus complexe et moins accessible, ce qui peut décourager les gens de s'engager dans une relation.
Quel est l'argument de Dr Orion terban contre la complexité dans les relations amoureuses?
-L'argument de Dr Orion terban est que la complexité dans les relations amoureuses rend difficile pour les gens de s'exprimer et de donner de l'amour, ce qui peut conduire à moins d'amour reçu.
Quelle est la recommandation de Dr Orion terban pour les femmes qui ont créé des 'funnel' compliqués pour recevoir de l'amour?
-Dr Orion terban recommande de simplifier ces 'funnel' et de ne pas rendre difficile pour les gens de donner ce que l'on veut, afin d'augmenter le nombre de fois où l'on reçoit de l'amour.
Quel est le lien entre la simplification du processus d'achat et l'augmentation des ventes ou de l'amour?
-La simplification du processus d'achat rend plus facile pour les clients de s'engager dans une transaction, ce qui augmente les ventes. De même, la simplification du processus d'acceptation de l'amour rend plus facile pour les gens de s'exprimer et d'offrir de l'amour.
Quel est le programme de test préparatoire GRE mentionné par Dr Orion terban et comment cela se rapporte-t-il au sujet de la conférence?
-Le programme de test préparatoire GRE mentionné est Stellar GRE, un programme en ligne conçu par Dr Orion terban pour aider les étudiants à obtenir de bons scores. Bien que cela ne soit pas directement lié au sujet principal de la conférence, cela montre l'approche de Dr terban pour simplifier et améliorer les processus.
Outlines
😀 Améliorer la vie amoureuse grâce à la simplicité
Dans le premier paragraphe, Dr Orion terban introduit le sujet de la manière dont les femmes peuvent rendre l'amour plus difficile en créant des obstacles inutiles. Il compare cette situation à un business où les clients sont empêchés de dépenser de l'argent en raison de processus compliqués. Il insiste sur l'importance de rendre le processus simple et intuitif pour augmenter les ventes, tout comme pour augmenter l'amour dans une relation. Il souligne que les obstacles créés dans les relations amoureuses peuvent découler d'une attente excessive ou d'une complexité non nécessaire, ce qui peut décourager les partenaires potentiels.
😡 La complexité des attentes amoureuses et ses conséquences
Le deuxième paragraphe explore en détail comment les femmes peuvent rendre leur propre vie amoureuse plus difficile en imposant des systèmes de conditions complexes pour ressentir l'amour. Dr terban cite des exemples concrets d'attentes qui peuvent être perçues comme des obstacles par les partenaires, comme la nécessité de lire des livres recommandés, de remarquer un nouveau vernis, ou d'écouter des problèmes sans proposer de solutions. Il critique l'idée que la complexité est normale et doit être acceptée, en utilisant l'analogie des 'langages de l'amour' qui, selon lui, renforce cette tendance. Il encourage les femmes à simplifier le processus de réception de l'amour et à accepter plus de formes d'expression affectueuse.
📚 Promotion du programme de préparation au GRE de Stellar
Le troisième paragraphe est une publicité pour le programme de préparation au GRE de Stellar, créé par Dr Orion terban. Il se présente comme un expert dans la préparation au GRE, ayant aidé des milliers d'étudiants à obtenir des scores élevés. Le programme comprend un manuel de préparation de 500 pages, des milliers de problèmes de pratique et plusieurs examens simulés. Il met en avant les stratégies et techniques clés pour réussir, et mentionne que les étudiants ont tendance à améliorer leurs scores de manière significative. Il invite les étudiants à créer un compte et à profiter d'un essai gratuit, offrant un code de réduction pour les abonnés.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Psychologie
💡Amour
💡Femmes
💡Relations amoureuses
💡Funnel de vente
💡Langages de l'amour
💡Simplification
💡Exigences
💡Intentions
💡Références
💡Stellar GRE
Highlights
Dr Orion terban introduces the topic of how women can make it difficult to love them and offers help to improve love in their lives.
An analogy is made between business practices and romantic relationships to explain the importance of simplicity in receiving love.
The importance of making the 'transaction process' easy for customers in business is mirrored in making it easy for partners to express love.
Complexity in business funnels can lead to less revenue, similarly, complexity in love can lead to less love received.
The transcript criticizes the idea of blaming customers or partners for not navigating the complexity one has created.
The concept of 'Love Languages' is discussed as a potential source of complexity in relationships.
Dr terban argues against the idea that love should be conditional on specific actions or behaviors.
The transcript suggests that a woman's unconscious system of requirements can complicate and hinder the reception of love.
Examples are given of behaviors that women might find frustrating, which could be unnecessary complications in the 'love funnel'.
The importance of simplifying the process of receiving love is emphasized for better relationship outcomes.
Dr terban advises against making it difficult for people to express love towards you, as it could result in receiving less love.
The transcript encourages women to increase the forms in which they accept love to foster more loving relationships.
A call to action is made for listeners to share their thoughts and experiences in the comments section.
Dr Orion terban promotes his upcoming book 'The Value of Others' and encourages listeners to sign up for his newsletter.
An advertisement for Stellar GRE, an online GRE self-study program developed by Dr terban, is presented.
Details about Stellar GRE's features, including a 500-page manual, practice problems, and mock exams, are provided.
A special offer for a 10% discount on Stellar GRE membership plans with the code 'psych' is announced.
Transcripts
I'm Dr Orion terban and this is psyx
Better Living Through psychology and the
topic of today's short talk is how women
make it difficult to love them so this
one is for the ladies ladies I'm here to
help you if you are not interested in
having more love in your life then this
is not the episode for you you can
kindly move on but for those of you who
are still listening I'm going to teach
you how you can get more love in your
life it's actually very simple it will
cost you nothing and you can start today
with what you already have sound good as
I often do I'm going to begin by first
extrapolating an analogy with the
professional world and then
demonstrating how that mirrors what
occurs in a romantic relationship why
because people are generally so much
more rational in understanding when it
comes to business and the fact of the
matter is that what tends to work in one
tends to work in the other in any case
Cas in this scenario let's pretend that
you're running a business as a result
I'll assume that you'd be interested in
making more money more sales for your
product more clients for your service to
that end as the business owner you will
need to ensure that it's easy for your
customers to part with their money like
if you're selling a product you don't
want there to be more than three clicks
involved in that funnel
it's like add to cart fill in my little
credit card security code and buy now
boom that's it the more streamlined and
intuitive you make that process the more
money is going to come your way it's not
a good idea to put obstacles between
your customers and your accounts
receivable I mean how do you feel when
companies make this process difficult
it's like buy
please what
I have to make an account first uh okay
I
guess but they're asking for my credit
card now oh so they're going to auto
bill me later gez okay fine I'll just
make a reminder to cancel the membership
before it renews all right what now they
need to verify my identity so I have to
upload an ID Jesus okay H I think I have
a pick on my phone somewhere oh it has
to be scanned no pictures accepted okay
this it it's not it anymore
and you're going to go find a comparable
good that you can acquire without all
this
rigoll now
imagine if this same company then looked
at its balance sheets and then blamed
its customers for its
Revenue well if they really liked our
products then they would have found a
way to make it work if they wanted to
they would and since they didn't I guess
they didn't really want to so next I
mean how difficult is it to a driver's
license you'd think we'd make some kind
of unreasonable request here but how
else are we supposed to verify someone's
identity so they can make an account to
buy a membership to have access to our
products G
customers like can you imagine can you
imagine mistaking your complex business
funnel for your customer's lack of
Interest I'll say that one again can you
imagine mistaking your complex business
funnel for your customer's lack of
Interest
that would be wild wouldn't it
paradoxically the only business that
could possibly get away with something
like this is the one that is so in
demand that is it perceives such high
interest in its customers that it
actually needs to create obstacles to
slow down the transaction process so
that it isn't overwhelmed and most
businesses ain't got that problem do you
understand as I discussed at length in
another episode a bad business blames
its customers if you want things do not
make it difficult for people to give you
said things because that would be
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let's get back to it now the same
principle applies to relationships
ladies let's say that instead of money
you want to receive more love in your
life just like a successful business you
need to work to make the point of
transaction streamlined and intuitive a
lot of you ladies create these really
complex and elaborate funnels that make
it harder and harder for you to receive
the love that you say that you want and
just like the business with the
complicated sales funnel that is
ultimately to your detriment for
instance I have heard women say that
they felt unloved when a man didn't read
a book she recommended or when he didn't
notice her new manicure or when he
didn't want to watch a show with her or
when he wouldn't listen to her problems
without offering Solutions or or when he
didn't let her pick the side of the bed
in the hotel room or when he took her to
a place he once took his ex-girlfriend
or when he infantilized her by doing
things for her or when he abandoned her
by not doing things for her or etc etc
etc these frustrations and
disappointments reveal a complex
evolving and often unconscious system of
requirements a woman is subject to
imposing on her relationships for
instance if we were to work backwards it
would suggest that an order for this
woman to feel loved which presumably is
something that she wants she needs a man
to read her book recommendations notice
her manicure watch her shows listen to
her problems without offering Solutions
let her pick her side of the bed take
her only to places he has never taken
anyone else do certain things for her
not do certain other things for her and
be able to know the difference between
those two categories all this does is
unnecessarily complicate her love funnel
which will absolutely result in her
receiving less love not more and if she
were to go one further and blame the man
for his inability or unwillingness to
navigate this
complexity then she is going to have a
tough time out there a business that
operated like that would not have a very
bright
future and I don't think anyone else is
telling women this like there are so
many things in popular psychology that
seem to validate and support this kind
of complexity like take love languages
the construct of Love Languages
fortifies the idea that complexity is
not only normal but should be
accommodated it is the emotional
equivalent of a business saying that it
only accepts Albanian Lex and American
Express now businesses can do whatever
they want but functionally insisting
that its customers change their currency
or open a new line of credit just to do
business with them will absolutely
result in less Revenue not more on the
other hand a business that is interested
in making money will go out of its way
to accept an Ever growing diversity of
payments cash credit personal checks
cryptocurrency bartering like
bring me a basket of apples and we're
good all of the things being equal that
business is going to make more money
because it has made it easier for its
customers to part with that
money and we all kind of already knew
that love languages were anyway
if for no other reason that they are so
inconsistently applied like the same
woman who insists on certain forms of
Love payment from her husband is not
going to insist on those forms of Love
payment from her children like while I
appreciate the crayon drawing of me
sweetie you should understand that
mommy's more of an ax of service kind of
girl moving forward like a good mother
makes it easy for her children to love
her and sees the value of that love in
their
intentions not in her prefer
a good woman does the same for her
man ladies if you've created a situation
in your minds that require people to do
certain things in order for you to feel
certain ways you've really made it that
much more difficult for anyone to love
you and that's obviously not to your
benefit it's a better idea to simplify
the process by which you receive love
and to increase the forms in which you
accept Love Don't don't make it
difficult for people to give you what
you want and you will get more of it
trust me what do you think does this fit
with your own experience let me know in
the comments below as always I
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