3 Ways to Be Sure They Are The One

Summary

This video explores how to discern God's guidance in choosing a marriage partner. It provides three ways to confirm if God is leading you to 'the one': matching internal faith with external evidence, engaging the mind, heart, and will in alignment with biblical teachings, and recognizing God's sovereign arrangement in relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding biblical principles to avoid confusion and offers training courses for deeper biblical study on relationships, along with a scholarship opportunity.

Takeaways

• 🙏 It's important to confirm if God is truly speaking to you about the person you should marry to avoid confusion and lack of peace.
• 📖 Knowing what the Bible says about relationships can help avoid confusion and lead you to the right person faster.
• 🎓 There are biblical relationship training courses available that provide deeper biblical study and practical application for those seeking guidance.
• 💡 God will confirm your partner by matching internal feelings of faith with external evidence, such as mutual desire and visible obedience to God.
• 🧠 God's confirmation involves engaging your mind, heart, and will, ensuring the relationship aligns with biblical teachings and affects you intellectually, emotionally, and volitionally.
• ❤️ Relationships must be biblical not only on paper but also engage your heart, ensuring that both partners feel and express biblical love.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Spiritual and mature people in your life can validate your relationship, providing external confirmation of its biblical nature.
• 🤝 Confirmation from God involves making decisions that align with biblical love and produce good fruit in the relationship.
• 🔄 God’s sovereignty and your free will both play a role in the relationship, requiring effort from you while God arranges circumstances to produce good outcomes.
• 🕊️ God’s guidance in relationships includes internal confirmations through prayer and external confirmations through observable actions and the validation of spiritually mature individuals.

Q & A

What is the main topic of the video script?

The main topic of the video script is how to receive confirmation from God about whom He wants you to marry, and the importance of understanding biblical principles in relationships.

What are the three ways God will confirm who He wants you to marry, according to the script?

The three ways God will confirm who He wants you to marry are: 1) Backing up faith with facts and facts with faith. 2) Engaging both of your minds, hearts, and wills. 3) Sovereignly arranging what you are personally trying to accomplish.

How does the script define faith from a biblical point of view?

From a biblical point of view, faith is defined as a gift from God, not something we produce in ourselves. This is supported by Romans 12:3.

What role do external and internal evidence play in confirming God's will in a relationship?

External evidence includes things like the person wanting to be with you and their obedience to the Lord, while internal evidence includes your own feelings and sense of confirmation from God. Both types of evidence work together to confirm God's will in a relationship.

How does Martin Lloyd Jones describe the impact of the gospel on a person?

Martin Lloyd Jones describes the impact of the gospel on a person as affecting the whole person, including the mind, heart, and will. This process starts with the mind understanding the gospel, which then affects the heart, and finally influences the will to align with biblical teachings.

What should you consider first when evaluating if a relationship is from God?

You should first consider if the relationship is in line with the teachings of the Bible. If it does not match the biblical pattern of teaching, it is not from God.

What does the script say about the relationship between man's free will and God's sovereignty?

The script acknowledges the ongoing debate among Christians about man's free will and God's sovereignty. It suggests that while we must make efforts and decisions, ultimately, God sovereignly arranges the outcomes to produce good fruit in relationships.

How does the script suggest handling doubts about whether God is truly speaking to you?

The script suggests seeking confirmation through both internal and external evidence, engaging your mind, heart, and will, and observing the alignment of your efforts with God's sovereign arrangements.

What opportunity does the speaker mention for those interested in learning more about biblical relationships?

The speaker mentions an opportunity to enroll in biblical relationship training courses, which offer a deep biblical study to help reduce confusion and meet the person God wants for you more quickly.

What additional resources does the speaker offer to the audience?

The speaker offers a scholarship for the biblical relationship training courses and provides a link in the description of the video for more information and enrollment.