5 Ways ALLAH Shows You Who To Marry! | ISLAM

Summary

Marriage is a significant decision, but choosing the right partner can be confusing. This video highlights five key signs from Allah that help guide you toward the right person. These signs include the ease of the path, the removal of the wrong people, avoiding haram relationships, personal growth before meeting the right partner, and experiencing peace after Istikhara. The video emphasizes that Allah's guidance is quiet, often through redirection, inner peace, and self-improvement, ultimately leading to a relationship based on faith and trust in Allah’s plan.

Takeaways

• 😀 Marriage is one of the most important decisions in life, and it requires sincere guidance from Allah to choose the right person.
• 😀 Allah makes the path easy when someone is truly written for you. If you're pushing too hard, it might not be the right relationship.
• 😀 If someone is removed from your life, it could be a sign that Allah is protecting you from a relationship that isn't meant for you.
• 😀 Allah will never guide you to a spouse through haram actions or disobedience. Real love is built on halal foundations.
• 😀 If a relationship requires hiding from family, breaking Islamic boundaries, or causing guilt, it is not from Allah's guidance.
• 😀 Before Allah brings the right person into your life, He often works on you first, helping you become a better version of yourself.
• 😀 Sometimes the process of purification happens within you, leading to positive internal changes, like becoming more conscious of your deen.
• 😀 You can recognize Allah's guidance by feeling peace after performing Istikhara, even if the answer isn’t what you expected.
• 😀 The true power of Istikhara lies in trusting Allah's plan and feeling calm and content, even if the outcome is different from your desires.
• 😀 Marriage in Islam is about rising in faith together, not just about falling in love. It is a journey of mutual growth towards Jannah.
• 😀 Even if you’re confused or still healing from past relationships, trust that Allah is preparing something better for your future.

Q & A

How can you tell if someone is truly meant for you according to Islamic teachings?

In Islam, Allah provides guidance through signs, peace, and clarity, not through confusion or force. The right person will come into your life naturally, without you constantly trying to make things work. Allah removes the wrong people first and clears the path for the right one.

Why do some relationships feel so difficult, even though you're trying hard to make them work?

If you’re constantly pushing, begging, or compromising yourself to make the relationship work, it may not be meant to be. Islam teaches that when Allah’s will is in place, things will feel guided and will not drain your energy or soul.

How does Allah remove the wrong people before bringing the right one?

Sometimes, Allah allows heartbreak and pain to clear your path. If someone leaves despite your efforts, it may be a sign that Allah is redirecting you away from the wrong person to protect you and prepare you for the right one.

What role does Istikhara play in finding the right spouse?

Istikhara is a powerful tool in seeking Allah’s guidance. After performing Istikhara, the answer often comes in the form of peace and calm in your heart, even if the outcome isn't exactly what you expected. This peace signifies Allah’s approval or disapproval.

Why is it important not to base a relationship on haram actions?

A relationship that starts with haram—such as secrecy, disobedience, or sin—cannot lead to blessings. Allah does not guide you to your spouse through haram paths, and such relationships can cloud your judgment, making it hard to see the red flags or recognize true love.

How can personal growth indicate that you're ready for the right relationship?

Before Allah brings the right person into your life, He often prepares you by helping you grow spiritually. If you find yourself becoming more conscious of your faith, leaving behind harmful habits, and improving your character, it’s a sign that Allah is preparing both you and your future spouse for a strong, healthy relationship.

What does it mean when you feel peace after making Dua or Istikhara?

Feeling peace after making Dua or Istikhara means that Allah is reassuring you that the decision, even if it’s not what you expected, is the best for you. It’s a sign that Allah is guiding you, even if the path doesn’t look the way you envisioned.

Why do some people experience pain and heartbreak before meeting the right person?

Pain and heartbreak are often part of Allah’s plan to clear your heart from what doesn’t belong. Like the Prophet Yusuf (AS), who faced many hardships before receiving what was destined for him, these experiences are a form of protection and purification.

What should you do if you’re unsure about whether someone is right for you?

If you’re unsure, trust in Allah’s guidance. Pray Istikhara and reflect on the peace you feel. If you feel unsettled or anxious, it might be a sign that the person is not meant for you. Allah’s guidance comes through peace, not confusion.

How does Allah shape you into the right person for marriage before bringing the right spouse?

Before bringing the right person into your life, Allah often works on your heart, purifying you and guiding you towards spiritual growth. When both you and your future spouse are ready and purified, Allah brings you together at the perfect moment.