how to rizz a conversation on the phone with her

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4 Feb 202309:08

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the host shares advice with a 17-year-old seeking help with phone conversations with his girlfriend, which often fall silent. The host emphasizes the importance of maintaining the same relaxed, friendly vibe in a relationship as when they were just friends, rather than overthinking the conversation. He offers practical tips, such as starting discussions from random things seen on social media, and stresses that developing conversation skills requires experience, not just advice. The host also touches on the idea of 'rizz' (charisma) and encourages a more natural approach to connecting with others.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Communication in relationships can be simple – treat your partner like a friend, even when you're officially dating. Don't overthink or complicate conversations.
  • 😀 It's normal for conversations with a partner to have lulls, and silence is okay. Don't feel pressured to fill every moment with words.
  • 😀 You don't need to have 'rizz' or any fancy pickup lines to keep a conversation going – genuine, spontaneous topics work best.
  • 😀 Start conversations with relatable, light-hearted topics – like something you saw on social media or a random question, to build a natural flow.
  • 😀 If you struggle with conversation starters, use what’s around you (e.g., random things in the environment or social media) to spark discussion.
  • 😀 Practice is key – just like learning any skill, regular conversation practice is the way to improve your ability to keep a chat going.
  • 😀 Confidence in talking to girls or your partner comes from experience – don’t be afraid to try, even if you're unsure at first.
  • 😀 It’s important to understand that there are plenty of other people out there, and no single person is irreplaceable. Don't get too attached to the idea of one person being 'the one'.
  • 😀 Silence or pauses during conversations aren't a big deal. Just find something to keep the chat going, and be okay with moments of quiet.
  • 😀 Over-texting isn't as effective as face-to-face or voice conversations, as texts lack tone and the ability to gauge someone's full attention.

Q & A

  • Why does the speaker believe starting conversations on FaceTime can be difficult?

    -The speaker mentions that the individual struggles to keep or start conversations during FaceTime, especially when it turns silent, with the other person typically starting the conversation.

  • What advice does the speaker give about managing conversations with a girlfriend on FaceTime?

    -The speaker suggests treating the relationship like a friendship. There's no need to make the conversation overly formal or expect something complicated. Just talk as you would with a friend and be comfortable with silences.

  • How does the speaker suggest one should start a conversation on FaceTime?

    -The speaker suggests starting a conversation by discussing something from social media that is interesting or relatable. For example, if you see an alligator, ask the other person if they know the difference between an alligator and a crocodile.

  • What does the speaker say about making conversations flow during FaceTime?

    -The speaker emphasizes that conversations should be easy and natural, and you can keep a discussion going by asking questions or commenting on something you both see while scrolling through social media.

  • What is the speaker's view on the concept of 'rizz' or 'game' when talking to girls?

    -The speaker explains that 'rizz' or 'game' isn't as important as many think. When someone is already attracted to you, the need for complex techniques like rizz is unnecessary. Simply being confident and yourself is enough.

  • How does the speaker view the role of experience in learning how to talk to girls?

    -The speaker compares learning to talk to girls to playing basketball. Just like you need to practice to get better at dribbling or shooting, you need to engage in conversations regularly to improve your ability to maintain them.

  • What does the speaker say about the pressure of expectations in relationships?

    -The speaker points out that once a friendship turns into a relationship, people may feel nervous because they believe expectations rise. However, the way you talk to someone should remain the same as it was before, when you were just friends.

  • What does the speaker suggest regarding texting versus FaceTime or phone calls?

    -The speaker advises against relying on texting to build a meaningful connection, as texting lacks tone and personal interaction. FaceTime or phone calls are preferred for creating a better, more engaging conversation.

  • What is the speaker's perspective on how to handle rejection or failure in relationships?

    -The speaker encourages viewers not to dwell on rejection or failure in relationships. He reminds them that there are billions of people in the world, and there's always the possibility of meeting someone else.

  • What does the speaker say about feeling too nervous to talk to a girl?

    -The speaker reassures those who are nervous about talking to girls, suggesting that the best way to overcome this fear is through experience. The more you practice, the easier it becomes to start and maintain conversations.

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