Live Podcat Ustadz Hendra Ubay Feat Mas Rifo Spesial Gen Samawa

Summary

This video features a conversation about the process of taaruf (Islamic courtship), focusing on the experiences of a couple navigating through it with guidance from Ustaz Hendra. The conversation highlights the steps from submitting forms to the nikah (marriage) ceremony, emphasizing how everything went smoothly with Allah's blessings. The couple shares their personal journey, detailing how they ensured compatibility and received continuous support during the process. The discussion also touches on the timeframe, which was relatively quick, and reassures others about the importance of aligning with syariat (Islamic law) throughout the process.

Takeaways

• 😀 The process of taaruf (pre-marriage acquaintance) was facilitated by Ustaz Hendra, starting with a group on WhatsApp and followed by in-person meetings.
• 😀 The entire process from submitting the form to the wedding ceremony took about 3 months.
• 😀 The process was considered quick, with the wedding occurring in January 2025 after starting in late 2024.
• 😀 The entire procedure was conducted under supervision, ensuring that all actions were in accordance with Islamic principles and sharia.
• 😀 Communication and coordination were maintained via WhatsApp, including forming a group to discuss progress and decisions.
• 😀 The speaker expressed gratitude for the guidance provided by Ustaz Hendra throughout the process.
• 😀 There was an opportunity for mutual consideration and the ability to discontinue the process if the match was not suitable, ensuring both parties' comfort and agreement.
• 😀 The speaker confirmed that the first trial match was successful, leading to a direct engagement and an eventual marriage.
• 😀 The speaker's wife took just 21 days to decide on the match, indicating a relatively quick decision-making process in this case.
• 😀 The speaker emphasized the importance of patience in the taaruf process, noting that each individual's timeline for decision-making could vary.
• 😀 The experience was shared as a positive one, with a sense of community and support from others involved in the process.

Q & A

What was the role of Ustaz Hendra in the process?

Ustaz Hendra facilitated the entire process from the initial meeting (nador) through WhatsApp, to family meetings, and ensured that everything proceeded according to Islamic principles until the akad nikah.

How long did the entire process take from submitting the form to the akad nikah?

The entire process took about three months from the submission of the form to the akad nikah, which is considered relatively fast.

What steps were involved in the process leading to the akad nikah?

The process began with submitting the form, followed by the nador, then family meetings, and continued with the akad nikah ceremony.

Was there any involvement of a WhatsApp group in the process?

Yes, a WhatsApp group was created to facilitate communication and provide updates, ensuring that the process was carried out smoothly and in line with Islamic guidelines.

Did the participants face any issues in the process?

No, everything went smoothly without any issues that would violate Islamic principles. The process was well-guided and supervised.

Is it allowed to reconsider the match after the form has been submitted?

Yes, it is allowed to reconsider and decide whether the match is suitable. If the parties are not compatible, they can choose not to proceed, as the process allows for such decisions.

How long did the other participant take to decide on their match?

The other participant took only 21 days to decide, which is relatively quick compared to others who may take longer.

Was there any moment when the process felt particularly fast?

Yes, for the speaker, the process felt very quick, especially after the initial form submission and nador, as everything was completed in just three months.

How did the speaker feel about the compatibility with their partner?

The speaker felt that the first trial, or meeting, confirmed the compatibility with their partner, and they felt confident about their decision.

Was there any form of religious oversight during the process?

Yes, throughout the entire process, there was continuous religious oversight from Ustaz Hendra to ensure everything was done according to Islamic principles.