Things I no longer believe in

Summary

In this video, the speaker reflects on the beliefs they once held but no longer subscribe to. They discuss a variety of topics, including self-worth, relationships, body image, spirituality, and personal growth. The speaker emphasizes that true value comes from within and that external factors, like a partner's actions or societal expectations, don't define one's worth. They challenge traditional views on weight loss, love, and healing, and encourage viewers to embrace self-love, prioritize mental well-being, and trust their own journeys. The video serves as a motivational reflection on personal empowerment and shifting mindset.

Takeaways

• 😀 No one will let go of someone they truly care about. If someone tries to distance themselves, it's a matter of priorities, not being too busy.
• 😀 Your self-worth is key. If you believe you're worth 100 out of 100, you'll stop chasing people who don't value you.
• 😀 Superstitions like the evil eye are outdated. Blessings come from God, and only He can give or take them away.
• 😀 Weight loss struggles aren't due to slow metabolism. Stress, self-talk, and hormonal imbalance can affect weight more than you think.
• 😀 You don't need to gain weight to recover your menstrual cycle. Hormonal balance and reducing stress were key for the speaker's recovery.
• 😀 Men don't need to be won over by physical intimacy to care about you. They value emotional connections and genuine expressions of happiness.
• 😀 Men and women can be friends without any romantic or sexual attraction, as long as both sides establish clear boundaries.
• 😀 Parents are not always the best emotional support system. Therapists provide professional guidance and privacy helps protect emotional well-being.
• 😀 Making money isn't inherently hard. Finding the right career path, like social media, can make financial success easier.
• 😀 Life events, even painful ones, happen for a reason. Challenges often protect you from greater harm in the future.
• 😀 Time doesn't heal all wounds—acceptance and facing your emotions are what truly help you heal and move on.

Q & A

Why does the speaker no longer believe that a person letting you go because they are busy is valid?

The speaker believes that if someone truly wants to be with you, no amount of distance or work will separate you. If someone is trying to let you go, it's because you are not their priority, and it's not about being too busy, but rather about their choices.

What did the therapist tell the speaker about self-worth, and how did it help her?

The therapist encouraged the speaker to imagine their self-worth as 100 out of 100, and to evaluate how they would feel if someone disrespects them. This helped the speaker understand that they are valuable for themselves and that if someone doesn't see their worth, it’s their loss, not theirs.

What changed the speaker's perspective on the concept of the evil eye?

The speaker shifted their belief after studying religion, particularly reading the Bible. They realized that all blessings come from God, and no one can take those blessings away from them, which helped them let go of the fear of the evil eye.

How did the speaker overcome issues with weight loss and metabolism?

The speaker no longer believes that a slower metabolism or a unique body is the reason some people struggle to lose weight. They realized that the way they treated their body, including the stress they carried, was the key factor, and once they stopped stressing, their body responded better to food and weight loss.

What does the speaker believe about recovering menstrual cycles?

The speaker no longer believes that gaining weight is the only way to recover lost periods. They share their personal experience of recovering their periods by losing weight, improving their diet, and reducing stress, showing that different bodies respond in various ways.

What is the speaker’s view on relationships and intimacy?

The speaker no longer believes that taking clothes off or offering sex is necessary to feel loved or cared for in a relationship. They believe that men are more motivated by emotional connections and that showing appreciation for their actions can deepen the relationship.

How does the speaker view friendship between men and women?

The speaker believes that genuine friendship between men and women can exist, but only if both parties agree that there's no physical attraction. They emphasize that it’s important for the friendship to be built on mutual understanding and clear boundaries.

Why does the speaker believe that parents should not be emotional confidants?

The speaker argues that while parents are important, they should not be your emotional buddies. Sharing personal life details with parents can create vulnerability, lead to unwanted opinions, and blur boundaries. Instead, they suggest seeking professional support, like a therapist, for personal issues.

What is the speaker’s stance on making money?

The speaker no longer believes that making money is difficult. They have built a successful career in social media since the age of 13 and now find it easy to make money. The speaker emphasizes that everyone has their own career path, but for them, making money comes easily because they’ve built the right foundation.

What is the speaker's belief about why things happen in life?

The speaker believes that nothing happens randomly. Every situation, including painful experiences, happens for a reason. They see challenges as opportunities for growth and trust that difficult experiences are protecting them from future harm.