THE NARCISSIST WALKED AWAY FROM YOU BUT IT'S THEIR LOSS‼️

Summary

This video script encourages individuals recovering from narcissistic relationships to recognize that the narcissist's departure is not a loss, but a blessing. The speaker emphasizes that the narcissist's walking out reflects their inability to appreciate authentic qualities like kindness, loyalty, and love. Instead of feeling rejected or longing for reconciliation, viewers are urged to reclaim control over their lives and emotions. The script highlights the inevitable suffering the narcissist will experience in their new relationships, reinforcing the idea that leaving them behind leads to personal growth and empowerment.

Takeaways

• 😀 The narcissist's departure from your life is ultimately their loss, not yours.
• 😀 Even though you may feel an emotional void, recognize that the narcissist is leaving behind someone authentic, loving, and loyal.
• 😀 The narcissist may convince themselves they made the right choice, but over time, they will realize they are missing out on someone truly genuine.
• 😀 You have nothing to lose from their departure—if anything, you gain your life, your control, and your peace back.
• 😀 Narcissists are often driven by delusion and negative influences, leading them to leave even though they aren't making the best decision for themselves.
• 😀 If you didn't end the relationship with the narcissist, it's likely because of your inherent kindness and willingness to give people a chance, not because of codependency.
• 😀 The narcissist may try to manipulate and hurt you through their actions, but this stems from their own insecurity and need for control.
• 😀 Narcissists are highly inauthentic, and your genuine self often triggers their narcissistic injury, pushing them to leave as a defense mechanism.
• 😀 When a narcissist leaves, don’t see it as rejection; they are the ones who have lost someone real and supportive.
• 😀 If the narcissist comes back, resist the urge to accept them—doing so would lead to repeated cycles of manipulation and emotional pain.

Q & A

Why does the narrator believe it's not necessary to feel a loss when a narcissist walks out of your life?

The narrator argues that when a narcissist leaves, it's actually their loss. They are leaving someone genuine, loyal, kind, and loving. While it's natural to feel an emptiness, the narrator suggests that it's a sign that they were never meant to stay in your life, and their departure allows you to regain control over your emotions and life.

What does the narrator say about people who feel like they did something wrong when a narcissist leaves?

The narrator reassures the audience that it's not their fault. They explain that the narcissist leaving is part of a greater plan, whether you call it God's will or the universe's design. The narcissist's decision is influenced by delusions or negative forces, and they will ultimately realize the mistake when they encounter a new supply that doesn't compare to you.

How does the narrator describe the narcissist's new supply after leaving?

The narrator believes that the new supply the narcissist turns to won't match the level of authenticity and love that the person they left behind offered. The narcissist will eventually realize they made the wrong choice and are left with a relationship that lacks the qualities they once had with the person they abandoned.

What does the narrator mean by 'narcissistic injury'?

A 'narcissistic injury' occurs when the narcissist's inauthenticity is confronted by the authenticity of the person they are with. In this script, the narrator suggests that the narcissist feels wounded or hurt by the genuine qualities of the other person, leading to their desire to end the relationship and seek revenge or cause pain.

Why does the narrator say it’s a blessing when the narcissist walks out of your life?

The narrator views the narcissist's departure as a blessing because it allows the person to regain control of their life and emotions. They suggest that by removing the narcissist, you free yourself from manipulation, control, and emotional turmoil, which ultimately leads to personal growth and healing.

How does the narrator suggest people deal with feelings of rejection after a narcissist leaves?

The narrator advises that it's essential to flip the dynamics in your mind. Instead of feeling rejected or like you’ve drawn the short straw, recognize that the narcissist has lost someone genuine, loving, and supportive. This mindset shift helps you avoid feeling like the one who lost out.

What does the narrator mean by 'not wanting the narcissist back'?

The narrator emphasizes that even if the narcissist realizes their mistake and comes back, it shouldn't be seen as an opportunity for reconciliation. The narcissist will not appreciate your forgiveness and will likely take advantage of you again, repeating the cycle of manipulation. Therefore, it's better to move forward without them.

How does the narrator view the narcissist's perception of their actions?

The narrator suggests that narcissists are under a delusion, believing that their actions—leaving and seeking a new supply—are the right choices for their lives. They believe they are improving their situation, but in reality, they are setting themselves up for disappointment and emotional turmoil.

What is the narrator's advice for those struggling to end a relationship with a narcissist?

The narrator acknowledges that it can be difficult to end a relationship with a narcissist because many people overlook the narcissist's flaws and give them the benefit of the doubt. However, the narrator emphasizes that even if the relationship ends because of the narcissist’s decision, it's ultimately a blessing, as it allows the person to regain their life and emotional well-being.

Why does the narrator warn against re-engaging with a narcissist once they've left?

The narrator warns that if you let the narcissist back into your life, they will likely manipulate you again and take advantage of your forgiveness. The cycle of abuse and manipulation would continue, with the narcissist showing no genuine remorse or change in behavior.