10 oddly specific things to NEVER share with anyone

Summary

In this video, Natalie shares 10 oddly specific things you should keep to yourself to stay safe and protect your privacy. From not revealing your phone carrier to avoiding oversharing personal traumas and relationship issues, Natalie emphasizes the importance of maintaining boundaries in an increasingly connected world. She also discusses the potential risks of social media, the importance of safeguarding your passwords, and why certain personal details (like your ex’s name or mistakes you’re working on) should remain private. With a mix of humor and practical advice, she encourages viewers to trust their instincts and prioritize their own well-being.

Takeaways

• 😀 Don't share your phone carrier with anyone you don't trust. It can be used for identity theft and fraud.
• 😀 Never disclose personal information that can be used to guess your password, such as your mother’s maiden name or your first pet’s name.
• 😀 Avoid oversharing your relationship problems with friends, especially if you’re in a toxic relationship. They might get frustrated if you don’t take their advice.
• 😀 Keep details about your exes private, especially with new people you meet. It can lead to unnecessary drama.
• 😀 Don’t kiss and tell. Keeping some aspects of your love life private will save you from potential regret or embarrassment.
• 😀 Be cautious about sharing your location on social media. Posting in real-time can expose you to unnecessary risks.
• 😀 While it’s okay to bond over shared experiences, don’t trauma dump in professional settings or with strangers. Keep heavy personal stories to close friends.
• 😀 Don’t reveal the mistakes you’re still working on. People might not understand your growth and could judge you for past actions.
• 😀 Avoid discussing your past relationships with someone new, especially your ex's mistakes. It might make them take notes on what to avoid or do worse.
• 😀 Protect your privacy. Don’t share your vision board or your dreams with people who might be skeptical or judgmental. Keep your goals to yourself until you achieve them.

Q & A

Why should you not share your phone carrier with people?

Sharing your phone carrier can expose you to identity theft and fraud, especially with AI advancements that can be used to impersonate you and access your accounts. By revealing this, others could potentially lock you out of your accounts by exploiting 'one-time pin fraud.'

What are some examples of personal information you should avoid sharing?

You should avoid sharing personal information like your mother’s maiden name, your first pet’s name, or any commonly used password hints. These can be used by malicious actors to reset your passwords and access sensitive accounts.

Why is it important to keep relationship problems private?

While it's natural to want to vent to friends, repeatedly sharing relationship issues can strain friendships. Friends may become frustrated if they see you staying in toxic situations, which can lead to distance in the relationship. It's also important to avoid spreading negativity if you're not ready to make a change.

What impact can sharing your ex’s identity have on your relationships?

Revealing the identity of your ex to new people can lead to unnecessary comparisons and potential drama. People may become fixated on your past relationships, which can cause complications in new connections.

Why should you avoid posting about your whereabouts on social media in real-time?

Posting your exact location on social media invites unwanted attention and could compromise your safety. It's better to wait until you’re no longer at the location to share content, as this helps maintain your privacy and security.

Is trauma dumping acceptable in all social situations?

Trauma dumping is not always appropriate, especially in professional or casual settings. It’s important to gauge the situation and the vibe of the conversation. Bonding over shared experiences can be therapeutic, but when it gets too deep or heavy, it can make others uncomfortable.

Why should you avoid discussing your past relationship traumas with someone you just met?

Talking about past traumas too soon can set the stage for unhealthy dynamics in new relationships. New people, particularly potential romantic interests, might use your vulnerabilities to manipulate or hurt you. It’s better to wait until trust is established before sharing such personal details.

What is the importance of keeping personal mistakes and regrets to yourself?

Sharing mistakes you're actively working to improve can sometimes backfire, as others might not understand your growth or may hold those past actions against you. It's best to keep personal regrets private unless you’re sure the person can handle it and support your journey toward self-improvement.

What safety concerns are there around sharing drinks with others?

You should be cautious about who handles your drinks, even among friends. Allowing strangers to prepare or drink from your beverage can put you at risk of tampering or poisoning. Always keep your drink close and ensure it’s in your control.

Why is it not a good idea to share your vision board with others?

While your vision board represents your goals and dreams, sharing it with others can lead to unwanted skepticism or judgment. It’s better to keep your aspirations private to protect them from external negativity and to stay focused on your own path without the influence of others.