6 Best Places To Meet Women!

Summary

In this video, the speaker addresses a common challenge many people face today—meeting women in real life, without relying on dating apps. Drawing from personal experience and coaching over a thousand clients, the speaker outlines six top places to meet women organically: cities with high foot traffic, shopping centers, parks, coffee shops, work environments, and social events. The speaker emphasizes the importance of choosing locations with natural interaction opportunities, offering valuable tips on how to approach and engage women in each setting for the best success.

Takeaways

• 😀 **Cities over Small Towns**: Larger cities offer better opportunities for meeting women due to higher foot traffic and population density. Small towns make organic connections more difficult.
• 😀 **High Streets & Shopping Centers**: Shopping areas between 11 AM and 3 PM on weekends are ideal times for meeting women casually, as people are typically out running errands or shopping.
• 😀 **Parks (Europe)**: In European cities, parks are great places for casual interactions, as they provide a relaxed setting with a lot of foot traffic. This may not be the case in North America, where parks are more spread out.
• 😀 **Coffee Shops (North America)**: Coffee shops are a great environment for North Americans to strike up casual conversations and meet women. Approach women slowly and build rapport over time.
• 😀 **Workplaces**: Despite concerns about office relationships, workplaces remain a valuable setting for meeting potential partners due to the time spent together and shared professional interests.
• 😀 **Social Events**: Not all social events are effective for meeting women, but those that encourage conversation, like book clubs or cooking classes, are more successful for forming genuine connections.
• 😀 **Timing Matters**: The best time to meet women in busy areas is during peak daytime hours on weekends, typically between 11 AM and 3 PM, when people are more likely to be out and about.
• 😀 **Avoid the 'Hobby Trap'**: While joining a club or event for a shared interest sounds appealing, it's more effective if the event encourages interaction rather than just a focus on the activity itself (e.g., book clubs or speaking events).
• 😀 **Don’t Discount Work**: Office environments should not be entirely ruled out as potential places to meet women. Making respectful, professional advances is key, and some workplaces even have policies for it.
• 😀 **Approach with Confidence**: Approaching women in environments like coffee shops requires a blend of natural conversation and subtle intent. Don't rush into making a romantic move too early, and allow the conversation to develop organically.

Q & A

Why is it challenging for people to meet women in today's world?

Modern life has made it harder to meet women organically because interactions have decreased significantly due to technological conveniences like dating apps. People now have fewer opportunities for casual, in-person interactions.

What is the most important factor when trying to meet women in real life?

The most important factor is to be in environments with high foot traffic and a larger population. Larger cities, for example, offer better chances of meeting women than smaller towns or rural areas.

How do cities affect the likelihood of meeting women?

Cities tend to have more women than men, which increases your chances of meeting women. In addition, cities have more foot traffic and events that provide natural opportunities for meeting people.

What are the best hours to approach women in shopping centers or high streets?

The best hours are typically between 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. on weekends. During these hours, people are casually out shopping or running errands, making it easier to approach them without disrupting their plans.

Why are parks effective places to meet women in Europe, but not as much in the U.S.?

In Europe, parks are often centrally located and bustling with foot traffic, making them ideal for meeting people. In the U.S., however, parks tend to be larger and more spread out, which can make it harder to find social opportunities.

What makes coffee shops a good place to meet women in North America?

Coffee shops offer a comfortable, relaxed environment where people are often working or casually meeting others. This creates natural opportunities for conversation, especially if you're already working remotely.

How should you approach a woman in a coffee shop without making the interaction awkward?

In coffee shops, it’s better to start with a less direct approach. Begin by having casual conversations to gauge if there’s chemistry. Avoid being overly forward; instead, let the conversation flow naturally before increasing the intent.

Why has meeting women at work become more difficult in recent years?

Due to concerns raised by the Me Too movement, workplace relationships have become more complicated. People are now more cautious about making romantic advances at work due to potential legal and social ramifications.

How can someone still successfully meet women at work despite these challenges?

It’s important to approach workplace interactions carefully and respectfully. Some companies, like Facebook and Google, have clear policies for interpersonal relationships, allowing a one-time romantic advance. It’s key to respect boundaries if the person declines.

What type of social events offer the best chances of meeting women?

Social events that encourage interaction and conversation, such as book clubs or cooking classes, are more effective for meeting women. These events foster meaningful exchanges, unlike passive hobbies where you just do an activity and leave.

Why do social events like yoga or CrossFit sometimes not lead to meeting women?

Social events centered around activities like yoga or CrossFit often don't provide many opportunities for personal interaction. People typically focus on the activity itself and leave immediately after, making it harder to form connections.