you’re not boring, you just lack social skills

Summary

In this video, the speaker shares her transformation from a shy, insecure individual to a highly sociable and confident person. She outlines key habits that have contributed to her change, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries by saying 'no', asking questions to show interest in others, opening up about personal experiences to build deep connections, not taking rejection personally, and following up to maintain relationships. These strategies help in developing meaningful friendships and overcoming social anxiety.

Takeaways

• 🌟 Confidence is key to being sociable; it's more important than the number of people you meet.
• 🚫 Learning to say 'no' can be a powerful step towards gaining confidence and setting boundaries.
• 🗣️ Asking questions and showing genuine interest in others fosters deeper connections.
• 🤗 It's important to balance talking about yourself with asking about others to create engaging conversations.
• 💔 Don't take rejection or a 'no' personally; it's often not about you but about the other person's circumstances.
• 🌱 Having hobbies or side interests makes you a more interesting person and can help in forming friendships.
• 🌐 Engaging with people online can lead to meaningful connections, even if they're not in your immediate circle.
• 📩 Following up after meeting someone is crucial for nurturing new friendships and connections.
• 🔄 It's okay to not have everything figured out; taking a 'trivial and often' approach to hobbies and side hustles can reduce stress.
• 💌 Be open about your feelings and experiences; vulnerability can lead to stronger bonds with others.
• 🎯 Making friends won't necessarily alleviate feelings of loneliness; it's important to work on personal growth as well.

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