Las claves del mindfulness

Psicología Morali BCN
14 Sept 202107:17

Summary

TLDRThis video script discusses the importance of practicing mindfulness, a form of meditation that enhances attention and focus. It highlights how mindfulness can help counteract the stress and anxiety caused by living in a fast-paced, competitive society. The script outlines eight key principles for mindfulness practice, including setting an intention, focusing on direct experience, recognizing thoughts as mere thoughts, synchronizing with the present, accepting unwanted thoughts, being in 'being' mode, avoiding self-judgment, and tolerating discomfort. These principles are designed to guide both formal mindfulness sessions and everyday moments, promoting a more conscious and present state of living.

Takeaways

  • 🧘 Mindfulness is a meditation practice that trains attention and is important to incorporate into daily life.
  • 🏃‍♂️ Living in a society that emphasizes doing and having can lead to a distracted mind, causing stress and negative emotions like anxiety and depression.
  • 🧠 Practicing mindfulness has been scientifically shown to change the brain's structure and the way it processes information, leading to calm and serene decision-making.
  • 🌱 Mindfulness can be practiced both formally and informally, with informal practice being akin to a beginner's or a baby's exploration of their surroundings.
  • 🎯 The first key to mindfulness is setting an intention to practice and maintaining a curious and open-minded attitude.
  • 🔍 The second key is to focus on the direct experience of what you are living in the present moment to avoid errors and accidents.
  • 💭 The third key is to recognize that a thought is just that—a thought, and not to fuse with or identify with its content.
  • 🌬️ The fourth key is to synchronize with the present by focusing on the breath, as it is always in the present moment.
  • 🕊️ The fifth key is to stop struggling against unwanted thoughts and to accept their presence without judgment.
  • 🧘‍♀️ The sixth key is to remain in a state of 'being' rather than constantly 'doing', allowing thoughts related to past or future to come and go without attachment.
  • 🙏 The seventh key is to stop judging yourself and others, with compassion being the best antidote to judgment.
  • 🌈 The eighth and final key is to tolerate discomfort and annoyances, training oneself to be less sensitive to things that used to bother you.

Q & A

  • What is the main focus of the video script?

    -The main focus of the video script is on the practice of mindfulness, its importance, and the keys to incorporating it into daily life.

  • Why is mindfulness important in a society that emphasizes having and doing?

    -Mindfulness is important because it helps to counteract the stress and potential feelings of anxiety or depression that can arise from living in a society that emphasizes constant doing and having, where the mind often wanders from the present.

  • How does practicing mindfulness scientifically change the brain?

    -Practicing mindfulness has been shown to change the brain's structure and the way it functions, improving the processing of information, which can lead to calmer and more serene decision-making.

  • What are the two main reasons given for practicing mindfulness?

    -The two main reasons are to counteract the stress and potential negative emotions from living in a fast-paced, competitive society, and the scientific evidence that it can change brain structure and function positively.

  • What is the first key to practicing mindfulness mentioned in the script?

    -The first key is setting an intention to practice and adopting a curious and open-minded attitude.

  • Why is it important to focus on the direct experience when practicing mindfulness?

    -Focusing on the direct experience helps to prevent errors and accidents that can occur when the mind is preoccupied with other things, ranging from minor inconveniences like forgetting keys to serious incidents at work or while driving.

  • What is the concept of 'a thought is just a thought' in the context of mindfulness?

    -This concept encourages the practitioner not to identify with or become fused with their thoughts, but to accept and manage them as transient mental events, similar to how one would observe a comic strip or a cloud passing by.

  • How does synchronizing with the present help in mindfulness practice?

    -Synchronizing with the present, such as by focusing on the breath, helps to anchor the mind in the current moment, as each breath is unique to now and not related to the past or future.

  • What does the fifth key of mindfulness practice suggest regarding unwanted thoughts?

    -The fifth key suggests to stop struggling against unwanted thoughts and to accept their presence without judgment, similar to how one would accept and release other sensations or memories.

  • What is the 'being mode' versus the 'doing mode' in the context of mindfulness?

    -The 'being mode' refers to a state of mindfulness where one is fully present and aware, while the 'doing mode' refers to being goal-oriented and focused on achieving specific objectives.

  • How does the practice of mindfulness relate to everyday activities like crossing a traffic light or driving?

    -Practicing mindfulness during everyday activities can increase awareness and attentiveness, which is crucial for safety, as it helps to prevent accidents caused by inattention or mind-wandering.

  • What is the final key to mindfulness mentioned in the script?

    -The final key is to stop judging oneself and others, and to cultivate compassion as an antidote to judgment.

Outlines

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🧘‍♀️ Mindfulness: The Key to a Stress-Free Life

This paragraph introduces the concept of mindfulness as a form of meditation that trains attention. It emphasizes the importance of incorporating mindfulness into daily life due to societal pressures that often lead to stress and anxiety. The speaker highlights two main reasons for practicing mindfulness: the first is to counteract the stress from living in a fast-paced, competitive society where the mind can wander from the present, leading to negative emotions. The second reason is the scientific evidence showing that mindfulness practice can change brain structure and function, leading to calmer decision-making. The paragraph also touches on natural moments of mindfulness, such as when learning a new skill, and suggests observing, writing, and participating in experiences as a beginner to enhance mindfulness.

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🌟 Essential Keys to Practicing Mindfulness

This paragraph outlines eight key points for practicing mindfulness, both formally and informally. The keys include setting an intention to practice with curiosity and an open mind, focusing on direct experiences to avoid errors, recognizing thoughts as merely thoughts without getting absorbed by them, synchronizing with the present moment through breath focus, accepting unwanted thoughts without struggle, being in a state of 'being' rather than 'doing', avoiding self-judgment and cultivating compassion, and tolerating discomfort through gradual exposure and training. The speaker stresses the importance of these practices, especially in critical moments like crossing a street or driving, to ensure that one's mind is fully present and aware of the surroundings.

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Keywords

💡Mindfulness

Mindfulness refers to the practice of purposely focusing one's attention on the present moment and accepting it without judgment. In the video, mindfulness is presented as a meditation technique that trains attention and is crucial for incorporating into daily life to reduce stress and enhance decision-making. The script mentions that practicing mindfulness can change brain structure and function, helping individuals to process information more calmly and serenely.

💡Stress

Stress is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances. The video script discusses how living in a society that emphasizes having and doing can lead to a stressful lifestyle, causing the mind to wander from the present to the past or future, which can result in anxiety or depression. Mindfulness is presented as a tool to counteract stress by bringing focus back to the present moment.

💡Automatic Pilot

The term 'automatic pilot' is used in the script to describe the default mode of operation where individuals go through their daily routines without being fully present or conscious. It's a metaphor for the mind being on auto-repeat, performing tasks without active engagement. The video encourages viewers to set an intention to practice mindfulness to break free from this automatic pilot mode.

💡Curiosity

Curiosity, in the context of the video, is an attitude of open-mindedness and a willingness to explore or learn. It's mentioned as a key attitude to adopt when practicing mindfulness formally. The script suggests that approaching mindfulness with curiosity can help individuals to be more engaged and receptive to the present moment and their experiences.

💡Direct Experience

Direct experience is the immediate perception or consciousness of an event or sensation without the interference of prior knowledge or interpretation. The video emphasizes focusing on the direct experience of what one is living in the moment, as a way to avoid errors and to be fully present. It's contrasted with being lost in thoughts about past or future events.

💡Thoughts

In the script, thoughts are discussed as mental events that can often lead individuals away from the present moment. The video suggests that thoughts should be acknowledged but not identified with, to prevent them from intensifying or controlling one's experience. It uses the metaphor of thoughts being like comic strip speech bubbles or clouds that can be observed and then let go.

💡Present Moment

The present moment is the current, immediate now, which is the focus of mindfulness practice. The video script explains that synchronizing with the present moment can be achieved by focusing on the breath, as it is always in sync with the present and not with the past or future. This focus helps to anchor one's awareness in the current experience.

💡Non-judgment

Non-judgment is the practice of observing one's thoughts and feelings without evaluating or labeling them as good or bad. The video script encourages viewers to accept thoughts and sensations as they are, without struggling to push away those that are unpleasant. This approach is part of the broader mindfulness practice to foster a more accepting and compassionate attitude towards oneself and others.

💡Being Mode

The 'being mode' is contrasted with the 'doing mode' in the script. The doing mode is characterized by striving towards goals and outcomes, whereas the being mode is about simply being present and experiencing the current state without the pressure of achieving something. The video suggests shifting into the being mode to enhance mindfulness and to reduce the stress associated with constant goal pursuit.

💡Compassion

Compassion is a feeling of empathy and concern for others' suffering, often with a desire to alleviate it. In the context of the video, compassion is presented as an antidote to judgment, both towards oneself and others. Practicing mindfulness can foster a compassionate attitude, which is important for maintaining a non-judgmental stance during mindfulness exercises.

💡Tolerance

Tolerance in the video refers to the ability to endure or put up with difficulties, discomforts, or annoyances. It is suggested as a skill that can be developed through mindfulness practice, where one learns to accept and tolerate discomforts without being overly reactive. The script implies that with practice, individuals can become less sensitive to things that previously bothered them.

Highlights

Mindfulness is a meditation that trains attention and is important to incorporate into daily life.

Living in a society that promotes having things can lead to a stressful lifestyle and feelings of anxiety or depression.

Practicing mindfulness has been scientifically shown to change brain structure and improve information processing.

Mindfulness can help make decisions with calm and serenity, especially in uncertain times.

Natural moments of mindfulness occur when you focus on what you are doing, like driving or learning a language.

Observing and participating in experiences are key to practicing mindfulness, both formally and informally.

The first key to mindfulness is setting an intention to practice with an attitude of curiosity and an open mind.

The second key is to focus on the direct experience of what you are living in the present moment.

The third key is to understand that a thought is just that—a thought, and not to identify with its content.

The fourth key is to synchronize yourself with the present by focusing on your breath, which is always in the present.

The fifth key is to stop struggling and accepting the thoughts that you don't like, just as you would with sensations or memories.

The sixth key is to stay in 'being' mode, letting go of 'doing' mode and its focus on specific goals.

The seventh key is to stop judging yourself and others, with compassion being the best antidote to judgment.

The eighth and final key is to tolerate what supports you, training to be less sensitive to things that used to bother you.

Practicing mindfulness is not about doing it perfectly but consistently training your mind, similar to going to the gym.

Mindfulness is especially important during critical moments like crossing a street or driving to ensure safety.

Transcripts

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[Música]

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hola a todos ya todas en esta psico

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píldora de hoy te voy a hablar de las

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claves para practicar el mindfulness es

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una meditación que entrena la atención y

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es importante que la incorpore a tu día

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a día por estas dos razones

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principalmente la primera razón es

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porque igual que yo vives en una

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sociedad que potencia el tener cosas y

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el vivir en el modo hacer tu día a día

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es como un salto de obstáculos en medio

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de las prisas y de la competitividad tu

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mente puede divagar del pasado al futuro

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y al revés despistando te del presente y

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todo ello comporta que puedas vivir con

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un estilo estresante y llegar a sentir

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emociones como la ansiedad o poderte

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deprimir

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la segunda razón es porque se ha

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demostrado científicamente que cuando

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practicas mindfulness de manera formal

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cambia la estructura de tu cerebro y

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además la manera de funcionar la manera

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de procesar la información de tal manera

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que te ayuda a que puedas tomar

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decisiones con calma con serenidad y

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esto no va nada mal en medio de este

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momento de tanta incertidumbre hay

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momentos naturales de mindfulness cuando

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te focaliza si te concentras en lo que

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estás haciendo por ejemplo cuando

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empiezas a conducir o cuando aprendes un

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idioma se trata de que puedas vivir

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cuando practiques en mindfulness de

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manera informal y justo de la manera

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como lo haces cuando eres principiante

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igual como lo hace también un bebé que

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está observando y descubriendo todo lo

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que es a su alrededor por lo tanto se

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trataría de observar de escribir y

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participar en esa experiencia estas

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claves te sirven tanto para hacer una

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práctica formal como si decides ponerte

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en modo mindfulness en tu día a día

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melanie fe en él doctora en psicología

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del centro de terapia cognitiva de

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oxford nos habla de la esencia del

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mindfulness con estas claves

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la primera clave es que pongas intención

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de querer hacer la práctica y una

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actitud de curiosidad de mente abierta

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sí que es verdad que la mayoría de veces

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vamos con ese piloto automático y nos

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interesa porque economizamos esfuerzos

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de todo lo que hemos aprendido sin

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embargo cuando te decidas a hacer una

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práctica formal has de intentar posponer

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esa intención y esa mente de curiosidad

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a

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la segunda es que te centres en la

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experiencia directa

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en lo que estás viviendo porque puede

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suceder que cuando estás con la mente en

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otra cosa cometas errores y errores que

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pueden tener una consecuencia leve como

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por ejemplo el que te dejes las llaves

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de casa dentro otras que sean graves

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como puede ser un incidente laboral con

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alguna maquinaria o una algún incidente

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de tráfico

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tercera clave un pensamiento es solo eso

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un pensamiento

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cuántas veces nos fusionamos con aquello

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que estamos pensando

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nos identificamos con el contenido

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cuando me dices no intentes pedirte que

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lo que estás pensando porque conseguirás

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intensificar lo más sino que después de

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aceptarlo lo gestionas de una manera

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como si estuviera tus pensamientos

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escrito en una viñeta de un cómic o ahí

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en una nube dejándola que se vaya o

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cazas a tu pensamiento o tu pensamiento

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de caza a ti

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cuarta clave sincroniza te en el

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presente las cosas son como son unas

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veces nos gustan y otras veces

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quisiéramos apartar las una manera de

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focalizar te en el presente en l'aquila

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ahora es centrándose en la respiración

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porque porque la respiración es algo que

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está súper sincronizado si antes has

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hecho una respiración no te sirve para

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ahora y la que estás haciendo ahora no

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te sirve para el futuro por tanto una

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manera de ayudarte a centrarte es eso

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centrarte en la respiración

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quinta clave deja de luchar y de

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esforzarte por apartar que los

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pensamientos que no te gustan y que

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están dando vueltas en tu cabeza no te

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esfuerces acepta los están ahí igual que

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tus sensaciones o igual que los

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recuerdos que puedas tener y que no te

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gustan

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y

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sexta clave se trata de que sigas en el

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modo ser en el modo start y dejes todo

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lo que sea el modo hacer en el modo ir

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hacia algunos objetivos determinados

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solamente con esto aunque vengan a la

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mente pensamientos que tengan que ver

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con todo lo que llevas encima

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simplemente déjalos aceptarlos y vuelve

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a focalizar te en dónde estás y lo que

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estás sintiendo

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[Música]

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séptima clave

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deja de juzgarte

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a ti ya los demás acepta que las cosas

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no han ido como tú querías tanto por tu

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parte como por parte de los demás mejor

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antídoto contra el juicio es la

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compasión

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octava y última clave

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tolera todo aquello que nos soporte es

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todo aquello que te incomoda

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pues claro que lo puedes soportar y poco

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a poco con aproximaciones sucesivas y

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cada vez que te vayas entrenando más

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verdad que eres menos sensible a cosas

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que antes te molestaban

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estas claves te pueden servir para hacer

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una práctica formal pero también cuando

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decides en tu día a día ir en modo

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mindfulness y eso quiere decir que estás

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siendo muy consciente de todo lo que

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está ocurriendo a tu alrededor y de todo

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lo que estás sintiendo es especialmente

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importante que puedas ir así en momentos

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claves como cuando cruzas un semáforo

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cuando conduces porque el error que

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proviene del factor humano justamente es

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eso que tu mente no esté sincronizada en

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la que el ahora y que por este motivo se

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te puedan pasar desapercibidos ciertos

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aspectos o factores que pueden ser muy

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importantes

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no se trata de hacerlo bien sino

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simplemente de que lo hagas que entrenes

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tu mente igual como cuando vas al

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gimnasio o están haciendo tu deporte

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favorito

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espero que te sirva todas estas claves y

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nos vemos en la siguiente psico píldora

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