Women get OBSESSED with men who pass their status tests when dating (decode FEMALE NATURE)

Summary

This video script offers insights into the dynamics of attraction, emphasizing the importance of status and emotional control in dating. It explores how men can maintain high status by passing women’s 'status' and 'interest' tests, staying emotionally composed, and mastering the 'language of women.' The speaker advises maintaining mystery, focusing on personal growth, and not being overly available to keep attraction high. Through discipline and strategic communication, men can elevate their dating success and keep relationships balanced. The video encourages joining a supportive community for continued growth.

Takeaways

• 😀 Mastering the language of women is crucial for success in dating and relationships.
• 😀 Communication is key—what you say and how you say it greatly impacts interactions with women.
• 😀 Developing emotional awareness and understanding women's non-verbal signals is essential.
• 😀 Many men struggle with dating because they fail to understand the emotional language and needs of women.
• 😀 Women often desire depth and emotional connection, which requires specific communication skills.
• 😀 Knowing what to say, when to say it, and what not to say is a valuable skill in dating.
• 😀 There is a community of over 2,000 men where people share experiences and gain insights for success in dating.
• 😀 Real success in dating comes from learning and applying these specific communication techniques.
• 😀 The language of women is like a code that must be decoded and mastered for meaningful relationships.
• 😀 Consistency in learning and practicing these skills helps make dating easier and more successful over time.
• 😀 Joining supportive communities can boost your learning process and provide direct feedback for growth.

Q & A

Why do women test men’s status in relationships?

Women test men’s status because they are biologically inclined to seek higher status partners, which is connected to hypergamy, the desire for a mate who can provide stability and security.

What role does communication play in maintaining high status with women?

Communication is crucial because it influences how a woman perceives a man's status. Over-communicating or being overly eager can lower a man's status, while maintaining a sense of mystery and not being too available can help keep his perceived status high.

What is the significance of learning the 'language of women'?

Learning the 'language of women' means understanding how women communicate and what they value in a relationship. This helps men respond appropriately to status tests and maintain a high level of attraction.

How does emotional discipline affect a man’s relationship status?

Emotional discipline is key to maintaining high status because reacting emotionally or impulsively signals insecurity or low status. A man who stays calm and composed commands more respect and attraction.

What is the impact of being overly available to a woman?

Being overly available can signal low status, as it implies that the man has nothing else going on in his life. Maintaining a balance between being attentive and having personal pursuits keeps the relationship dynamic and attractive.

Why is personal growth important in maintaining high status in relationships?

Personal growth, whether through career, fitness, or other aspects, signals that a man has his own life and goals. This enhances his status because it shows independence and confidence, which women find attractive.

How can a man avoid over-communicating with a woman?

A man can avoid over-communicating by not initiating contact too frequently, not over-explaining himself, and keeping conversations brief yet meaningful. He should also give her space to initiate communication.

What does it mean to ‘pass a status test’ in the context of dating?

Passing a status test means responding in a way that maintains or raises a man’s perceived status. This involves handling challenges with calm, not showing emotional neediness, and demonstrating that he is a high-value individual.

What is the role of self-focus in maintaining attraction in a relationship?

Self-focus helps a man maintain his personal goals and priorities, which makes him more attractive. It prevents him from becoming overly reliant on the relationship for his sense of worth, thus keeping the dynamic balanced and healthy.

Why is it important to learn what to say and when to say it in relationships?

Knowing what to say and when to say it is crucial because words can either enhance or lower a man’s perceived status. Timing and the content of what is said help to keep the relationship dynamic and maintain attraction.