Why Is The #Narcissist Hiding Now?
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker explores the concept of narcissists 'hiding' after a relationship ends. They discuss the common belief that narcissists are busy seeking new sources of supply, but also highlight the possibility that they may be hiding out of shame, especially if the person they discarded has moved on and is thriving. The speaker encourages viewers to continue living their best lives, as this success can cause narcissists to retreat, showcasing their inability to handle seeing someone they discarded succeed and flourish.
Takeaways
- 😀 The speaker invites viewers to subscribe and engage with the content by liking and following.
- 🔍 The video discusses a unique topic: the idea of a narcissist hiding or being absent from a person's life after a relationship ends.
- 🗑️ The concept of 'discard' is redefined, suggesting that a narcissist doesn't truly discard their targets but may shelve them for potential future use.
- 🔎 Reasons for a narcissist's absence are explored, including the possibility that they are occupied with new sources of supply or 'narcissistic supply'.
- 🚀 The video suggests that a narcissist may hide if the person they were involved with has improved significantly after leaving the relationship, outshining the narcissist's expectations.
- 📉 The speaker describes a scenario where the narcissist's smear campaign backfires because the person they spoke ill of is thriving and successful.
- 👑 The empowerment of the individual who has left the narcissist is highlighted, emphasizing personal growth and resilience.
- 🤫 The idea that a narcissist may hide out of shame is presented, as they see their former partner living a better life without them.
- 🏆 The speaker encourages viewers to continue living their best lives to outshine the narcissist and to take pride in their personal achievements.
- 👋 The final message is to keep moving forward and not to engage with the narcissist, leaving them in the past.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The main topic of the video is discussing the behavior of narcissists, specifically when they go into hiding or become difficult to find.
What does the speaker suggest when a narcissist is not seen or heard from?
-The speaker suggests that when a narcissist is not seen or heard from, it could be because they are busy with a new supply or because they have been shamed into hiding due to the success of the person they discarded.
What is the term used in the video to describe the narcissist's attempt to regain control after being discarded?
-The term used in the video to describe the narcissist's attempt to regain control is 'hoover attempts'.
What does the speaker mean by 'shelved' or 'benched' in the context of a narcissist's behavior?
-The speaker means that the narcissist has not truly discarded the person but has temporarily set them aside for possible future use.
What is the 'illusion of the new supply' mentioned in the video?
-The 'illusion of the new supply' refers to the idea that narcissists are always seeking new sources of attention and admiration, but they may not actually have a genuine new source of supply.
Why does the speaker believe narcissists never truly discard their targets?
-The speaker believes narcissists never truly discard their targets because they always keep the possibility of using them as a source of supply in the future.
What does the speaker suggest is a possible reason for a narcissist hiding after a breakup?
-A possible reason for a narcissist hiding after a breakup is that the person they discarded has improved their life significantly, making the narcissist feel ashamed of their lies and smear campaign.
What is the term used in the video to describe people who report back to the narcissist about the person they discarded?
-The term used in the video to describe people who report back to the narcissist is 'flying monkeys'.
What does the speaker mean by 'bossing up' and 'leveling up' after leaving a relationship with a narcissist?
-The speaker means that after leaving a relationship with a narcissist, one should take control of their life, improve themselves, and rise above the situation they were in.
What advice does the speaker give to those who have left a relationship with a narcissist?
-The speaker advises to continue living their best life, improving, and showing the narcissist that they are winning and shining without them.
What is the final message the speaker conveys to viewers who have left a narcissistic relationship?
-The final message is to keep growing and succeeding, making the narcissist realize their mistake in discarding the person, and to not engage with the narcissist but to focus on their own success.
Outlines
🔍 The Elusive Narcissist: Hiding in Plain Sight
This paragraph introduces the topic of narcissists and their tendency to hide or become untraceable after a relationship ends. The speaker invites viewers to subscribe and engage with the content, emphasizing the importance of community growth. The discussion then shifts to how narcissists may not truly discard their targets but instead 'shelve' them for potential future use. It's suggested that when a narcissist appears to be absent, it could be due to them seeking new sources of supply or because they are busy with their 'flying monkeys' – individuals who support the narcissist's narrative. The speaker encourages viewers to share their thoughts on the topic, indicating that the video will delve into why narcissists might go missing from one's life.
💥 Leaving a Narcissist: The Power of Transformation
Paragraph two delves into the scenario where a person leaves a narcissist and experiences a significant personal transformation. The speaker describes this as 'torching the pack' and 'flipping the script,' suggesting that the individual has emerged stronger and more successful post-breakup. The narrative continues with the idea that the narcissist may be hiding because their 'flying monkeys' are reporting back on the individual's newfound success, which contradicts the negative image the narcissist had painted of them. The speaker emphasizes that the narcissist's lies about the individual are being exposed through their current achievements, leading the narcissist to feel ashamed and avoid public presence. The advice given is to continue living a successful life, which in turn puts the narcissist to shame.
🌟 Shining Bright: Outshining the Narcissist's Shadow
The final paragraph reinforces the message that living a successful and 'lit' life post-narcissistic relationship can cause the narcissist to hide due to the shame of being outshined. The speaker suggests that the narcissist expected the individual to fall after the discard but was proven wrong. The individual's resilience and success are described as a 'shaming' of the narcissist, who now avoids any contact or visibility. The speaker encourages the viewer to continue their upward trajectory, as it is a testament to their strength and a source of discomfort for the narcissist. The conclusion is a call to keep 'bossing up' and 'leveling up,' leaving the narcissist to watch from afar as they continue to thrive.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Narcissist
💡Hiding
💡Discarding
💡Shelved
💡Supply
💡Triangulation
💡Bossing up
💡Leveling up
💡Flying Monkeys
💡Fabulousness
Highlights
Introduction to discussing the topic of narcissists hiding in relationships.
Invitation to subscribe and follow the channel for more content on NPD and relationships.
Explanation that narcissists never truly discard their targets, but may shelve or bench them for later.
Discussion on the reasons why a narcissist might be nowhere to be found, including the possibility of seeking new supply.
The concept of 'torching the pack' after leaving a relationship with a narcissist.
How a narcissist's smear campaign can backfire when the person they targeted thrives after the relationship ends.
The idea that narcissists may hide because they are ashamed of how well their former targets are doing without them.
Advice for those who have left a narcissist to continue living their best life and not look back.
The importance of not giving narcissists the satisfaction of seeing them after they've moved on and improved their lives.
Encouragement to keep leveling up and bossing up as a way to put the narcissist to shame.
The realization that narcissists may miscalculate the strength and resilience of their former targets.
The strategy of keeping a narcissist in the rear view and focusing on personal growth and success.
The message that narcissists may hide not because of new supply, but because they are overshadowed by the success of their former targets.
The call to keep shining and winning in life, which can cause narcissists to hide due to the contrast with their own actions.
Closing thoughts on the importance of not engaging with narcissists and focusing on personal progress.
Transcripts
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to grow so today
in this video we are going
to be discussing something that i
don't think i've seen on
youtube at least not as of late
about the narcissist and that
is simply about the narcissist actually
hiding did we ever think
that the narcissist would hide sure
when you're not hearing from them
or you think they're hiding let's talk
about it let's get into it y'all
let's talk about this narcissist when
they
are nowhere to be found
yes sir yes
so after the discard
i'm sure you probably had a few i
had a few hoover attempts whether you
did the discarding or the narcissist did
the discarding
whoever it was it really doesn't matter
because at it if the narcissist did the
discarding
then it's not a discard it's simply
you've been
shelved you've been benched or whatever
you want to call it
basically they put you up for a later
date and a later time
okay whenever that time may
be but it is not
a true discard like what we would think
of a discard
as and really
the discard honestly you would control
the discard
the the survivor the victim the survivor
would control
the final discard because a narcissist
never truly
discards their their targets
okay but let's talk about this
narcissist that you haven't seen or
heard from
so yeah you can't find them i mean on
social media
you can't i mean you they they're just
nowhere to be
found well there could be
a couple of good reasons for that
and i know that um the number one reason
that you
all are thinking oh well the narcissist
is busy with the new supply
uh or the or the illusion i i like to
call it the illusion of the new supply
i don't think they ever have a a true
new supply you know i i think they are
always working up on something because
the nurses is always running around
looking for some other supply to be
uh down with their team okay because it
it's never going to be you and the
narcissist as
a as a team so you gonna be on the team
y'all are not gonna be the team you
gonna be on the team
let's be clear let's get that 100
clear okay so don't ever think
that you're gonna be with the narcissist
and you're gonna be just the only one no
no no no
they do not roll like
that no no it's gonna be
it's gonna be you and and several others
yeah they are they're always looking for
supply
so yeah so we may think that they're
they're
uh with the new supply and
a lot of times that is the case but
there are
some cases watch this there are
some cases where some of you that are
watching this
video
some of you that are watching this video
came out of the relationship with the
narcissist
and baby you torched the pack after you
left
yes yes indeed you
torched the pack okay you
came out of that thing in a blaze of
glory
and you flipped the script when you came
out of that thing and after you got past
the hurt and if you did it like this
because i'm i'm about to tell you how
boss chick would have done it
or a a a king boss okay or
queen boss however you want to
term yourself okay let me just tell you
if you did it like a boss when you left
and you bossed up and you totally
came up on every level
and you looking and smelling and i mean
just
feeling like you had never felt before
i'm talking about
you are just straight doing the doggone
thing
okay after you left out of that
relationship
yeah the narcissist is hiding
because guess what the flying monkeys
the brigade that has been put out to to
have a
to to keep a watch out on you
they're reporting back to the narcissist
what's going on
and if he was if he told the new supply
who you were because he want to
triangulate you he probably mad about
that
because the new supply problem he
probably told the new supply all types
of lies about you and everything else
and the new supply looking at you like
whoa this this
this person right here got i don't know
maybe you made a mistake or maybe you
gave me the wrong person because
man the the person that you're telling
me about they
they are doing some pretty fabulous
things but you know they're probably not
going to tell the narcissist that
because the narcissist told all kinds of
uh untruths all types of lies about you
to the new supply
but when you leave a relationship with a
narcissist okay
and you take that situation
and you throw that in your head
as lesson learned and you turn around
and you boss up you level up
and you give life everything that you
should have given it
with the time that you was that you were
in that that addiction ship with the
narcissist
and you just turned around and you just
made all types of
fabulousness happen after you let after
either you left the narcissist or the
narcissist left you oh baby they hiding
you're not going to find them on the
ground
you're not going to find them on the
book
because you're lighting the book up or
what they call it facebook or fake
book they call it i don't know anyway
you lighting the book up with those
fabulous photos that you got going on
you lighting the grandma i mean it's
litty
all over your social media is litty
it's lit what you think the narcissist
is gonna do
they don't have a choice you leveled up
you bossed up after the discard
basically what you did was you
put the narcissist to complete shame
every lie that they told about you
or told all you and told their their
whole brigade the flying monkeys and
everybody else
every lie that they told on you because
you
leveled up and you bossed up after the
breakup
they're happy to eat every last one of
those lies
every last one of them so watch this
so now because of
everything that they said about you
in the in the uh in the smear campaign
they're having to eat that
you're not sent them and tucking their
tails and limping like a dog with three
legs
they can't take that they can't be on
the ground when you lighten the gram up
like you doing
you lighten the book up like you doing
where you think they
where they gonna go cause all of the
flying monkeys are on the ground they on
the social they on social media too they
watching
but guess what baby what they got to
report
is not what the narcissist wants to hear
so yeah there are some times
where the narcissist you can put that
narcissist to shame
and and you know when you see them
hiding and you can't find them they
they wouldn't turn their little lights
off on on social media you can't
you can't even see them they are shame
baby they are ashamed of themselves
because you are just living your
best life and they can't take it
they cannot take it and guess what
they don't have a new supply that would
even come
close to what you were yeah
even the whole team that they got going
still
can't match the one you that they lost
yeah they hide it
yeah they are hiding darling
they don't look the narcissist does not
want to see
hat nor hair of you
or anyone that is watch this associated
with you
because see they expected you to lay
down and die
once that discard happened
but you didn't do that
you let them know that i'm bigger and
i'm better than that
and i'm even look and i'm greater
than my circumstance watch this
come on here word cause greater is he
who is in me than he
who is in the world
see the narcissist miscalculated you
baby
they did because big bad
let me tell you when you decide to be
better than your circumstance and when
you
decide that you are not going to lay
down and die
for another human being that had
absolutely no right to
pronounce judgment over you nor your
soul
and you get right on up out of that pit
that the narcissist
tried to throw you off in okay
yeah they got to hide they do and i
recommend that they would because what
they see
when they see you winning is shining
like you doing
it's gonna make them hurt even worse
it's gone doggone near slay them
like your fabulousness is doing each and
every day so
listen my strategy here is keep living
your best
life honey you keep bossing up
you keep leveling up and you keep giving
that
narcissist something to look at that
they
never ever ever wanted to see and that's
you winning and shining without them
oh yes because see they had you pegged
wrong baby
they did but it's all good it's all good
it's all good but guess what they get to
look at you now
from a rear view and every now and then
you could just kind of look back and say
hmm
wonder how the view looks from back
there
yes i said it how does the view look
from back there
yeah just think about it because you
don't want to give them any conversation
for what
for what that's done and over with
done and over with so yeah there are
some times
when they are hiding because you have
just
shamed them with all of the success and
the
and the fabulosity that you have going
on and you
bossed up and you leveled up after you
got past
the circumstance of being in that
happenstantual situation
addictionship you bossed up and you
leveled up and look and now you
glowing and you blowing up and that is a
wonderful thing
and i am super proud of you if that is
what you have done
and you got them hiding honey so yes
they are not always hiding because
there's new supply
sometimes they're hiding because guess
what
that real one that got away just put
them to some real shame
yes so you keep blowing up
and you keep blowing up all right y'all
to the next
video you all be blessed and highly
favored and i will
see you at the top until then ciao
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