Male VS Female Gaze (Looksmaxxing)
Summary
TLDRThe video script explores the concept of 'male gaze maxing' and 'female gaze maxing' in the context of physique preferences among gay men. It discusses how certain body types appeal to different genders and the potential pitfalls of over-emphasizing physical appearance for male validation. The speaker uses personal examples to illustrate the shift in attention from one gender to another as a result of changes in physique and appearance, emphasizing the importance of finding a balance that aligns with one's personal goals and attractiveness.
Takeaways
- 💪 The script discusses the concept of 'male gaze maxing' and 'female gaze maxing' in relation to physical appearance and fitness among gay men.
- 🏋️♂️ It suggests that some individuals aim for a very muscular physique to gain respect and compliments from other men, which may not be universally attractive to women.
- 🧔 The 'bear' community is mentioned as an example of those who embrace a more rugged, bearded look, which is considered by some to be the epitome of male gaze maxing.
- 🤔 The script implies that there is a balance to be struck between physical attractiveness to different genders and that extremes may not be universally appealing.
- 📉 The speaker shares a personal example of losing weight and gaining more attention from men but less from women, indicating a shift in perceived attractiveness.
- 🚶♂️ The video mentions a case of a 'tick tock' user who transitioned from a 'female gazed' look to a more muscular one, which was criticized in the comments for being too extreme.
- 💇♂️ A key mistake highlighted is the decision to cut hair very short, revealing a receding hairline, which was not considered an improvement in appearance.
- 💊 The script speculates that rapid weight gain, as seen in the 'tick tock' user's case, could be unhealthy and possibly indicative of steroid use, leading to a loss of aesthetic appeal.
- 🤷♂️ The speaker argues that there is a wide range of acceptable physiques on the 'female gay' spectrum, depending on individual features and attractiveness.
- 🌟 It emphasizes that being extremely lean and avoiding a 'twink' look is preferable for those who are naturally very attractive, while average-looking individuals should focus on developing a good physique.
- 📊 The script uses a graphic to illustrate that even individuals with average attractiveness can significantly improve their attractiveness score by focusing on aesthetics and fitness.
Q & A
What are the two contrasting physiques discussed in the script?
-The script discusses two contrasting physiques: one that is more 'hardcore' and muscular, which some might refer to as 'male gaze maxing,' and another that is more 'bear mode' with a larger, bearded appearance, which some consider as the 'true definition of male gaze maxing.'
What is the opinion of the script on the 'male gaze maxing' physique in terms of female attraction?
-The script suggests that the 'male gaze maxing' physique, while it may receive compliments and respect from other men, is generally not found attractive by the majority of women and may even be off-putting to some.
What is the example given to illustrate the shift from 'female gaze' to 'male gay side'?
-The script uses the example of a man who weighed 100 kilograms, which is considered 'too big' and not appealing to the 'female gays,' and then lost 30 pounds, shifting his physique to be more acceptable in the male gay community but at the expense of his 'sexual market value' (SMV) to women.
What is the difference in comments received after losing weight according to the script?
-After losing weight, the individual in the script received comments from 'gym Bros' complimenting the weight loss, whereas when he was 20 pounds heavier, the comments were from girls, indicating a shift in the demographic of his admirers.
What are the two critical mistakes made by the 'tick tock' individual in the script?
-The two critical mistakes made by the 'tick tock' individual were cutting his hair to a buzz cut, which revealed a receding hairline, and bulking too much in a single year, which resulted in an unhealthy and bloated appearance.
What is the script's stance on the use of performance-enhancing drugs (PEDs) in bodybuilding?
-The script implies that using PEDs can lead to rapid and unhealthy weight gain, and suggests that the individual in question is likely using PEDs to gain 40 kilograms in a year, which is not only unhealthy but also aesthetically unappealing.
What is the ideal body fat percentage range mentioned in the script?
-The script mentions an ideal body fat percentage range of 10 to 12 percent, which is considered to be aesthetically pleasing and healthy.
What is the script's advice for individuals who are not naturally as attractive as the 'spokes model' in the video?
-The script advises such individuals to focus on developing a lean and aesthetic physique, which can significantly improve their attractiveness and sexual market value (SMV).
What is the script's view on the importance of competing locally rather than globally?
-The script emphasizes that individuals should focus on competing with locals in their area rather than comparing themselves to more attractive individuals globally, as the latter are not in their immediate dating pool.
What is the script's final message regarding self-improvement and the abundance of opportunities?
-The script concludes by encouraging self-improvement, stating that by developing a good aesthetic and lean physique, individuals can improve their attractiveness score and enjoy an abundance of dating opportunities, as well as the ability to choose among them.
What is the term 'black pill poison' mentioned in the script referring to?
-The term 'black pill poison' in the script refers to a negative and defeatist attitude, often associated with the 'black pill' philosophy, which the script suggests is a waste of time and not conducive to self-improvement.
Outlines
💪 Male Gaze Maxing and Physique Debate
The first paragraph discusses the contrasting views within the gay community regarding body image and attractiveness. It contrasts the 'hardcore' physique with the 'bear' look, suggesting that the former may be seen as catering to the 'male gaze' and not universally appealing to women. The speaker provides an example of an individual who transitioned from a physique that was more appealing to women to one that garners more male approval but may not be as attractive to women. The paragraph also touches on the difference in feedback received from men and women when changing one's physique and the negative consequences of drastic physical changes, such as an unhealthy bulk or a revealing hairstyle that accentuates a receding hairline.
🚀 The Impact of Physique on Attractiveness and Dating
The second paragraph delves into the impact of physique on attractiveness, particularly in the context of dating. It emphasizes the importance of developing a lean and aesthetic physique to improve one's attractiveness score, especially for those who may not be naturally highly attractive. The speaker uses graphics to illustrate the potential improvement in attractiveness and dating success by adopting a lean physique. The paragraph concludes by encouraging viewers to focus on self-improvement rather than comparing themselves to others, highlighting the importance of competing with local peers rather than global standards of attractiveness.
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Keywords
💡physiques
💡male gaze
💡bear mode
💡gym Bros
💡SMV
💡looks Maxing
💡recession
💡bulking
💡Peds
💡aesthetics
💡Tinder profile
Highlights
Discussion on the impact of physique on attractiveness from the perspective of 'male gaze' and 'female gaze'.
Contrasting views on male body image: some prefer a leaner look to avoid 'male gaze maxing', while others advocate for a 'bear mode' with a more muscular and bearded appearance.
The suggestion that a more muscular physique may garner more respect and compliments from other men but may not be as appealing to women.
The example of a man who transitioned from a physique appealing to 'female gaze' to one more aligned with 'male gay' preferences, resulting in a loss of 'sexual market value' (SMV) for female attraction.
Personal anecdote of the speaker losing weight and gaining more attention from men than women, indicating a shift in the type of attention received.
Critique of a 'tick tock' personality who made poor choices in changing his appearance, including a buzz cut revealing a receding hairline and excessive bulking.
Warning against the unhealthy and unattractive rapid weight gain, which can lead to a loss of facial aesthetics and an undesirable body fat percentage.
The speaker's experience of being called out in the comments for adopting an appearance that appeals more to men than women.
Explanation of the 'female gay spectrum' and how one can be attractive within it by being lean and avoiding a 'twink' appearance.
The importance of phenotype, facial attractiveness, and developing a good physique to stand out among average-looking men.
Tyson Bedford's visit to teach girls about being a spokes model, shifting the focus of male fantasies.
A challenge to the notion that going to the gym is futile for those who believe they cannot match the attractiveness of certain individuals.
Use of graphics to illustrate the potential improvement in attractiveness scores through basic 'soft maxes' and developing a lean physique.
The argument that improving one's appearance can lead to an 'abundance' of dating opportunities and the ability to choose partners.
The point that local competition, not global attractiveness, is what matters when creating a dating profile.
A call to action for viewers to comment on what they would like to see discussed in future videos and to subscribe to the channel.
Transcripts
[Music]
male vs female gays and physiques
on one hand you have the more hardcore
black pillars that think that you can
only go as far as looking like this
because otherwise you will be too big
and at that point you are male gaze
maxing as some of them might say and
then although a small minority there is
also a group of people that Advocate to
looking like this
basically the whole bear mode with big
beard short or even bald hair this is
the true definition of male gaze maxing
and the only thing you're going to
achieve with this is getting more
compliments and respect from other men
and looking older in the process vast
majority of women do not find that
attractive at all and in fact some might
even be grossed out by it how are you
feeling
so I want to show you the perfect
example of someone who in terms of
physique was on the female gaze and now
is definitely on the male gay side the
100 kilograms version of this dude is
just at the point where it's too big and
it doesn't appeal to the female gays he
has decreased his smv compared to his
previous 71 Kilograms physique but hey
it's for sure gonna get you more
compliments from the gym Bros
I lost 30 pounds and the craziest part
is the difference between girls and guys
all the Bros are like damn bro you lost
weight or losing his gains granted I
actually have lost some gains so they're
not I'm correct but I lose weight and
these are what the comments look like
purely girls whereas when I was 20
pounds bigger comments was purely guys
there's a certain point where muscle
doesn't equate to uh it just gives you
more guys
now this next one case involves pretty
much one of the worst looks Maxes of all
time this tick tocker was female gazed
but as you can see he was quite skinny
and to be honest this can still work
when you're a teen but he subconsciously
felt like he needed to improve and there
is nothing wrong with that however the
way he went about it is completely wrong
and he even gets called out for it in
the comments he did two critical
mistakes the first one was cutting his
hair to a buzz cut and this revealed his
receding hairline contrary to what some
guys in the looks Max Community say I
think this guy already had the receding
hairline it's just the fact that the
previous hairstyle was hiding it very
well the second mistake was that this
guy bulked too much in a single year
he's likely using Peds but even on Peds
you can't gain 40 kilograms of body
weight not only it is extremely
unhealthy for an individual to gain that
amount of body weight in such a short
amount of time but also it will
permanently Aid you because of all the
systemic stress and obviously he's
extremely bloated and lost all his
facial Aesthetics because his body fat
is way outside of an ideal range of 10
to 12 percent remember how I said he
gets called out in the comments see it
for yourself this is what happens when
you go to the male gay Spectrum route
you get attention from other men and
girls find you either unattractive or
straight up up disgusting this my
friends is how you become a Polish truck
driver not how you look smacks now in
terms of the female gay Spectrum there
is quite a range that you can be and be
fully female gays because it will depend
on your phenotype your archaea type and
even just how attractive your face
really is for example if you are as
attractive as this guys your only
concern is to be lean and to not look
like a twink meaning that you can get
away with physiques like this but vast
majority of you are average looking so
in order for you to separate yourself
from the other average guys around you
need to develop your physique
Tyson Bedford paid the girls a visit to
teach them about being a spokes model I
would freely seriously really hurry up
the girls had a new Focus for their male
fantasies
[Applause]
what's up
and say what's the point of me going to
the gym because I will never have the
level of attractiveness that they have
and this is where I'm gonna have to
bring out the graphics because I really
think this is the only way that some of
you are going to understand why staying
at home crying on forums and spreading
your black pill poison is a waste of
time so here it goes say the guys you
were all crying about are all in here
very well in the a plus category now
let's all assume most of you are around
a 4.5 to 6.5 in attractiveness
statistically this is not far-fetched
now if you guys are doing all the basic
soft Maxes but more importantly you get
to a point where you develop a very good
aesthetic lean physique you guys are
going to improve massively your score at
the lowest case possible some of you are
going to be sevens and some of you who
were sixes and might have had some
pretty boy or more of a classic Chad
potential now you guys are eight plus
sure these guys over here are still more
attractive than you but it doesn't
matter because now you've got to the
point where you can have abundance when
you now create a Tinder profile you are
going to get results and more
importantly abundance and ability to
choose and the reason why all this other
guys don't even matter is because they
are not in your area you are not
competing against them you are competing
against locals that's it for today feel
free to comment down below what you
would like to see me talking about in
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