How To Get HER To Start Flirting with YOU

Summary

The video script discusses ineffective advice for attracting women and offers an alternative approach. It criticizes the traditional advice of showing interest and being nice, suggesting instead that men should evoke a range of emotions in women. The speaker emphasizes the importance of spiking various emotions, including anxiety and excitement, to maintain a woman's interest. He advocates for a more dynamic and unpredictable approach, arguing that being too nice and predictable makes men less attractive. The goal is to become a multidimensional man who naturally captivates women's attention and emotions.

Takeaways

• 😕 Jeffrey's awkwardness with a girl leads to her boredom and frequent phone checking.
• 💁 Adonis creates a comfortable environment for a girl, evoking nervousness and emotional responses.
• 🔍 The speaker criticizes traditional advice on attracting girls, claiming it is ineffective.
• ❓ Asking girls about their hobbies and interests is labeled as 'silly advice' that doesn't work.
• 🎨 Women experience a wide range of emotions, and the key to attraction is spiking multiple emotions.
• 📱 Disappearing for a while and not replying immediately can spike different emotions and create interest.
• 🧠 Top-tier guys are not always nice and are often busy with their own lives, which inadvertently spikes various emotions in girls.
• 😬 Negative emotions like jealousy and anxiety are seen as crucial for attraction.
• 🏋️ Physical appearance and confidence, such as having a six-pack, are implied to be important.
• 🚪 The speaker encourages embracing masculine energy and taming a woman's emotional chaos to build attraction.

Q & A

What mistake does Jeffrey make when he brings a girl back to his place?

Jeffrey awkwardly sits down next to her and asks about her music preferences, instead of escalating and becoming more physical.

How does Adonis handle the situation differently from Jeffrey?

Adonis opens the door, gets her a drink, and makes sure she is comfortable, which helps to create a sense of nervousness and excitement in her.

What common piece of dating advice does the speaker criticize?

The speaker criticizes the advice to take an interest in a girl and ask her nice questions about her hobbies, arguing that it is ineffective and does not lead to attraction.

According to the speaker, what is the key to attracting girls?

The key to attracting girls is to spike all of their emotions, not just focusing on positive emotions like love and interest.

Why does the speaker believe spiking multiple emotions is effective?

Spiking multiple emotions is effective because women have a wide range of emotions, and triggering different emotions keeps them more engaged and attracted.

What example does the speaker give to illustrate how top-tier guys attract girls?

Top-tier guys attract girls by sometimes ignoring them, standing them up, or doing things that create a variety of emotions, rather than just being nice and complimentary.

What advice does the speaker give for becoming more attractive to a girl?

The speaker advises disappearing for 24 hours, giving a slight roast, and engaging in playful activities that might lead to different emotional responses from the girl.

How does the speaker suggest handling text messages to increase attraction?

The speaker suggests not replying to messages immediately because being busy and not always available can make a girl wonder and increase her interest.

What does the speaker say about the role of emotions in a feminine woman?

The speaker claims that feminine women are naturally emotional, and as a masculine man, one should create order within that emotional chaos rather than avoiding it.

What critique does the speaker offer regarding modern societal conditioning?

The speaker critiques modern society for conditioning men to fear women's emotions and for promoting feminism that encourages women to abandon their femininity, leading to a distortion of natural masculine and feminine energies.