The Truth About Growing Up Disabled | Dylan Alcott | TEDxYouth@Sydney

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1 Sept 201511:25

Summary

TLDRIn this inspiring speech, Dylan Alcott reflects on his journey from a self-conscious teenager with a disability to an accomplished Paralympic gold medalist and advocate for disability rights. He shares his early struggles with acceptance and self-esteem, the pivotal moment that changed his perspective, and his commitment to challenging societal perceptions. Alcott emphasizes the importance of representation in media and the need to normalize disability, encouraging a shift in societal attitudes to empower those with disabilities to embrace their potential.

Takeaways

  • 😄 The speaker humorously reflects on his awkward teenage years, highlighting the challenges of growing up with a disability.
  • 🤔 Dylan struggled with self-esteem issues and the perception of being 'weird' due to his disability during his adolescence.
  • 🏠 He faced exclusion from social events, which led to feelings of isolation and a negative self-image.
  • 🔓 A pivotal moment occurred when Dylan decided to attend a house party uninvited, realizing that his friends' lack of invitation was due to concern, not rejection.
  • 💪 This realization sparked a change in Dylan's attitude towards his disability, leading him to embrace it and live life to the fullest.
  • 🏅 Dylan achieved great success, including winning a gold medal at the Paralympic Games, demonstrating the heights that can be reached with determination and self-acceptance.
  • 🎉 He also became known for crowd-surfing in his wheelchair at music festivals, symbolizing the joy and freedom that comes from breaking societal expectations.
  • 🚫 Dylan emphasizes the need to challenge and change the negative stigma associated with disabilities.
  • 📺 He advocates for greater representation of people with disabilities in media to provide positive role models and normalize disability.
  • 🌐 Dylan calls for society to mainstream disability, increase visibility, and start conversations to normalize and celebrate diversity.
  • 💬 The speaker concludes with a call to action for societal change, hoping for a future where no child feels embarrassed about their disability and all have the confidence to pursue their dreams.

Q & A

  • What was the speaker's main concern during his teenage years?

    -The speaker's main concern during his teenage years was his struggle with his disability and the social implications it had on his life, including feeling excluded and different from his peers.

  • Why did the speaker initially try to delete a particular photo from his memory?

    -The speaker tried to delete the photo from his memory because it reminded him of a time when he felt awkward and insecure about his appearance, including his hair, lack of eyebrows, and braces.

  • What was the first significant event that made the speaker realize the impact of his disability on his social life?

    -The first significant event was when the speaker realized that he was not invited to a close friend's house party, which led him to believe that his disability made him socially undesirable.

  • How did the speaker's friend explain the reason for not inviting him to the house party?

    -The friend explained that he did not invite the speaker because he was unsure if the speaker could manage the stairs to his house due to his disability.

  • What realization did the speaker have after attending the house party uninvited?

    -The speaker realized that his friends were not excluding him because they disliked him, but because they were not educated about his disability and he had not communicated his needs and abilities to them.

  • What change did the speaker make in his life after the house party incident?

    -After the house party incident, the speaker decided to be more social, get fitter, go out more, and not let his disability prevent him from doing what he wanted to do.

  • What achievement did the speaker mention that he was particularly proud of?

    -The speaker mentioned that he was particularly proud of winning a gold medal at the Paralympic games in 2008, playing wheelchair basketball for Australia.

  • What is the common misconception about the term 'Paralympic', according to the speaker?

    -The common misconception about the term 'Paralympic' is that 'Para' means paraplegic or paralyzed, when in fact it represents 'parallel', indicating that the Paralympics run alongside the Olympics.

  • What unique activity has the speaker become known for at music festivals?

    -The speaker has become known for crowd surfing in his wheelchair at music festivals, which he initially started out of necessity and later found to be an incredible experience.

  • What message does the speaker want to convey about disability and society's perception of it?

    -The speaker wants to convey that society should change its perception of disability from being a negative and unfortunate condition to recognizing it as a part of diversity. He advocates for mainstreaming disability in media to increase visibility and normalize it.

  • What does the speaker suggest as a solution to help kids with disabilities feel more confident and included?

    -The speaker suggests that by mainstreaming disability in media and starting conversations about it, kids with disabilities can feel more confident, included, and not be embarrassed about their condition.

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