The 10 Mistakes I Made in 2023 With Women… and why YOU SHOULDN’t Make Them in 2024

Summary

The video script discusses 10 mistakes made in relationships with women in 2023, advising viewers to avoid repeating them in 2024. It covers misconceptions such as persistently chasing uninterested women, overusing compliments, excessive texting, believing in 'celebacy' claims, allowing female friends, oversharing emotions, permitting girlfriends on trips, endorsing 'thirst trap' posts on social media, and accepting 'breaks' in relationships. The speaker emphasizes self-respect, boundaries, and recognizing when a woman's actions contradict her words.

Takeaways

• 🚫 Avoid falling into the trap of believing that persistence will win over a woman's heart; it often leads to being perceived as desperate and unattractive.
• 💬 Refrain from overusing compliments based on physical appearance; instead, focus on acknowledging qualities that genuinely improve your life.
• 📲 Don't rely on text messages as a means to get to know a woman deeply; it can lead to a false sense of intimacy and may not translate to real-life chemistry.
• 🛑 Be wary of women who claim to be 'celibate'; it might be a strategy to seek a committed relationship without genuine connection.
• 🚷 Do not permit your partner to have 'guy friends'; it can lead to emotional or physical infidelity and create unnecessary complications.
• 💭 Opening up emotionally to a woman can sometimes backfire, leading to a loss of respect and attraction; actions often speak louder than words.
• 🚫 Do not encourage your partner to go on 'girls trips' without you; it can lead to opportunities for infidelity and a lack of commitment.
• 🚷 Do not allow your partner to post provocative images on social media; it can attract unwanted attention and disrespect your relationship.
• 🔒 Prioritize privacy and respect in your relationship by limiting your partner's social media exposure to only those who truly know and respect the boundaries of your relationship.
• 💔 Recognize that when a woman asks for a 'break', it is often a sign that she is seeking other options and not fully committed to the relationship.
• 🛑 Maintain self-respect and boundaries in relationships; do not tolerate being a backup option or being disrespected by a partner.

Q & A

What is the main theme of the video script?

The main theme of the video script is discussing the mistakes the speaker made in relationships with women in 2023 and advising viewers on what not to do in 2024.

Why does the speaker believe that persistently asking a woman out is a mistake?

The speaker believes it's a mistake because it shows a lack of self-respect and can make the man appear desperate, which may cause the woman to lose interest or not take him seriously.

What does the speaker suggest is the right approach after a woman says she will let you know or doesn't make herself available?

The speaker suggests that the correct approach is to not ask her out again and to show her through behavior that you can do better, potentially prompting her to reconsider if she initially wasn't interested.

Why does the speaker argue that compliments should be reserved for actions that improve one's life?

The speaker argues that compliments should be for actions that are not related to a woman's looks because these actions enhance who you are as a man and are more meaningful and deserved.

What is the speaker's stance on women needing to get to know a man more through text?

The speaker's stance is that if a woman says she needs to get to know a man more through text, it's likely she's not genuinely interested and is just seeking attention, so the man should stop engaging with her.

What does the speaker imply when a woman claims to be celibate?

The speaker implies that when a woman claims to be celibate, it could be a sign that she's looking for a man to provide for her in exchange for commitment, which may not be a fair deal for the man.

Why does the speaker advise against allowing a girlfriend to have guy friends?

The speaker advises against it because he believes it can lead to emotional or physical cheating and that it gives other men access to the woman, which is not acceptable in a committed relationship.

What does the speaker suggest is the real reason behind a woman asking for a break in a relationship?

The speaker suggests that a woman asking for a break is likely trying to find a better guy than her current partner, using the break as an opportunity to explore other options.

What is the speaker's opinion on a woman posting 'thirst traps' on Instagram while in a relationship?

The speaker is against it, believing that it's a form of public disrespect and that it indirectly opens up access to other men, which should not be allowed in a committed relationship.

What advice does the speaker give regarding a woman's request for a break in the relationship?

The speaker advises to end the relationship immediately if a woman asks for a break, as it indicates she has no respect for the current partner and is looking to explore other options.