A Woman Will Check Out a Man That is Socially Attractive and Then Another Man That is Sexually Attra

Summary

In this video, Ram discusses the difference between socially attractive and sexually attractive men, exploring how women often balance these two traits when choosing partners. He explains that while some men may excel in social appeal, they may not ignite strong sexual attraction, whereas others may stir intense desire but lack the qualities needed for a long-term relationship. Ram touches on the dynamics of attraction, marriage, and infidelity, encouraging men to focus on both aspects to be truly desirable. He also emphasizes the importance of body game in increasing sexual attraction and shares insights on relationships, attraction, and self-control.

Takeaways

• 😀 Women distinguish between men who are socially attractive and men who are sexually attractive, and very few men are both.
• 😀 Socially attractive men are valued for stability, social compatibility, and respectability rather than sexual chemistry.
• 😀 Sexually attractive men generate immediate physical desire and arousal, often regardless of social status or resources.
• 😀 Women may marry socially attractive men while seeking sexual excitement from other men.
• 😀 A socially attractive man often has to 'work' to gain a woman's interest, whereas a sexually attractive man receives immediate attention.
• 😀 Sexual attraction often overrides logic or social considerations in women’s decision-making.
• 😀 Men should identify whether they are socially or sexually attractive to a woman to understand their relationship dynamics.
• 😀 Being both socially and sexually attractive is ideal but difficult to achieve; it combines stability with sexual allure.
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• 😀 Women’s attraction can be influenced by social pressures, cultural expectations, or social class considerations.
• 😀 A man’s physical presence and sexual confidence are central to sexual attraction, while money, status, or gifts relate more to social attraction.
• 😀 Men who are neither socially nor sexually attractive have limited options in romantic and sexual relationships.
• 😀 Understanding the type of attraction a woman has toward you can guide behavior and relationship decisions.

Q & A

What is the main distinction the speaker makes between socially attractive and sexually attractive men?

The speaker explains that socially attractive men are those a woman can publicly associate with and rely on for stability, whereas sexually attractive men are those who immediately arouse her desire and physical attraction. It's rare for a man to possess both qualities simultaneously.

Why might a woman choose a socially attractive man over a sexually attractive one?

A woman may choose a socially attractive man for reasons such as social acceptance, compatibility with her social class, family expectations, or long-term stability, even if she isn’t sexually excited by him.

What are some challenges women face when attracted to sexually appealing men?

Challenges include differences in social class, potential involvement with multiple partners, and the risk that the sexually attractive man may not be suitable for long-term commitment or family life.

How can a man tell if he is only socially attractive to a woman?

If a man has to work very hard to earn her attention, and she does not respond with immediate sexual interest or excitement, it indicates he is likely socially attractive but not sexually attractive to her.

What does the speaker suggest is the most important factor for turning a woman on?

The speaker emphasizes that the body, particularly physical presence and sexual energy, is the main factor that excites a woman. Neck-up appearance contributes more to social attraction than sexual attraction.

What is meant by 'double back home' in the context of this video?

It means a socially attractive man should pay attention and maintain awareness of a woman who is sexually attracted to another man, as she might seek sexual excitement elsewhere despite her social commitment to him.

How does the speaker differentiate between 'select' and 'non-select' men?

Select men are inherently sexually attractive to women and can elicit desire naturally. Non-select men may get sexual access only through effort or persistence, indicating they are less inherently appealing.

According to the speaker, what role does logic play in a woman's choice of partner?

Logic often comes secondary for women; sexual desire and attraction can override rational considerations. Women may choose socially suitable partners based on logic while pursuing sexual attraction elsewhere.

What is an 'acceptable hoe' as defined in the video?

An 'acceptable hoe,' according to the speaker, is a woman who strategically engages with socially attractive men for resources or status rather than sexual desire, essentially a socially motivated partner.

Why does the speaker suggest that being both socially and sexually attractive is ideal for men?

Being both socially and sexually attractive allows a man to provide stability and public acceptability while also fulfilling a woman's sexual desire, minimizing the likelihood that she will seek sexual excitement elsewhere.

How does the speaker describe a woman's behavior when she is sexually attracted to a man?

A sexually attracted woman reacts immediately with physical excitement, such as increased arousal, openness, and responsiveness in intimate situations, often overriding rational or social considerations.

What advice does the speaker give to men about understanding their role in a woman's attraction?

Men should determine whether they are sexually or socially attractive to a woman, focus on body game to enhance sexual appeal, and strive to be both socially and sexually appealing if they want to maintain a woman's full interest.