If you’re 13 - 18 years old, please watch this video...
Summary
TLDRDans cette vidéo, Colin, étudiant à Yale, partage 13 leçons de vie qu'il aimerait donner à son jeune moi. Il encourage à ignorer les comportements de ses pairs, à ne pas se soucier de l'opinion des autres, à se renforcer physiquement, à rester proche des personnes bienveillantes, à éviter les excès de jeunesse, à capturer des souvenirs, à devenir intéressant par des expériences uniques, à développer des passe-temps sains, à apprendre des compétences lucratives, à étudier efficacement, à bien s'habiller, à construire une relation avec Dieu et à profiter du parcours. Un appel à la réussite et à l'appréciation de chaque moment de la vie.
Takeaways
- 🎓 Ignorez ce que tout le monde de votre âge fait pour se démarquer et demander des conseils à des personnes plus âgées pour progresser plus rapidement.
- 🚫 Arrêtez de vous soucier de l'opinion des autres et osez créer une chaîne YouTube, relâcher une chanson ou commencer un commerce en ligne sans craindre le jugement.
- 💪 Renforcez-vous physiquement en faisant des exercices réguliers et constamment pour améliorer la confiance et l'attrait.
- 👫 Restez proche des personnes bienveillantes et investissez dans des relations qui vous éleveront ensemble.
- 🎉 Évitez de vivre votre jeunesse par l'alcool et les fêtes comme une échappatoire, mais plutôt comme une récompense.
- 📸 Prenez plus de photos et de vidéos que vous le pensez nécessaire, car ces souvenirs seront précieux à long terme.
- 🌟 Devenez plus intéressant en acquérant de nouvelles compétences et en vivant des expériences uniques qui ne peuvent pas être facilement reproduites par vos amis.
- 🎨 Développez trois types d'activités : physiques, créatives et intellectuelles pour améliorer votre vie sur plusieurs plans.
- 📈 Apprenez des compétences à fort revenu telles que l'écriture, la vente, la programmation, l'édition vidéo, l'animation et la photographie.
- 📚 Apprenez à étudier efficacement en utilisant des méthodes actives de rappel et en créant des cartes mémo pour rendre l'étude plus amusante.
- 👔 Apprenez à bien s'habiller en trouvant des vêtements de qualité et un style qui vous correspond, évitant les marques ostentatoires.
- 🙏 Établissez une relation avec Dieu pour trouver du soutien dans les moments difficiles et garder la foi en des choses plus grandes que soi-même.
- 🌈 Profitez du voyage de la vie, ayez de grands objectifs mais soyez reconnaissants et appréciez chaque instant car rien ne dure éternellement.
Q & A
Quel est le thème principal de cette vidéo présentée par Colin ?
-Le thème principal de cette vidéo est de partager 13 leçons de vie que Colin, étudiant à Yale, aimerait donner à son jeune moi de 13 ans.
Pourquoi Colin suggère-t-il d'ignorer ce que tout le monde de ton âge fait ?
-Colin suggère d'ignorer ce que tout le monde de ton âge fait pour se démarquer de la concurrence et commencer avant les autres, en demandant des conseils à des personnes plus âgées pour réussir dans des matières spécifiques.
Quelle est la deuxième leçon de vie que Colin partage dans la vidéo ?
-La deuxième leçon de vie partagée par Colin est d'arrêter de se soucier de ce que les autres pensent de toi et de se concentrer sur tes propres priorités.
Colin recommande-t-il de se concentrer sur la forme physique ?
-Oui, Colin recommande de se renforcer physiquement en faisant de l'exercice régulièrement, ce qui améliorera non seulement l'apparence mais aussi la confiance et la mental acuité.
Quelle est la quatrième leçon de vie présentée par Colin ?
-La quatrième leçon de vie est de rester proche des gens bienveillants et de cultiver des relations avec eux, car une amitié loyale vaut plus que cent amitiés factices.
Colin conseille-t-il de s'éviter de vivre sa jeunesse par l'alcool et les fêtes ?
-Colin conseille de ne pas vivre sa jeunesse par l'alcool et les fêtes comme une échappée, mais plutôt de les considérer comme une récompense et non comme un moyen d'échapper.
Pourquoi Colin insiste-t-il sur l'importance de prendre plus de photos et de vidéos ?
-Colin insiste sur l'importance de prendre plus de photos et de vidéos car ces souvenirs deviendront précieux à long terme et permettront de revivre des moments importants de l'adolescence.
Quelle est la manière dont Colin suggère de devenir plus intéressant ?
-Colin suggère de devenir plus intéressant en acquérant de nouvelles compétences et en vivant des expériences uniques, ainsi qu'en devenant un meilleur conteur et un meilleur écouteur.
Quels types d'activités Colin recommande-t-il pour développer des loisirs 'sexy' ?
-Colin recommande de développer trois types d'activités : une activité physique, une activité créative et une activité intellectuelle pour améliorer sa vie sur plusieurs plans.
Quelle est la compétence que Colin mentionne comme étant importante à apprendre ?
-Colin mentionne que des compétences à haut revenu telles que l'écriture, la vente, la programmation, l'édition vidéo, l'animation et la photographie sont importantes à apprendre, car elles peuvent être acquises gratuitement sur YouTube et peuvent générer de l'argent.
Comment Colin explique-t-il l'importance de l'apprentissage effectif pour les examens ?
-Colin explique que l'apprentissage effectif pour les examens implique l'utilisation de la réminiscence active, l'étude espacée et la création de cartes mémo pour rendre l'étude plus amusante et efficace.
Quelle est la dernière leçon de vie que Colin partage dans la vidéo ?
-La dernière leçon de vie que Colin partage est d'apprendre à profiter du voyage de la vie, en ayant des objectifs importants mais en restant reconnaissant et en s'amusant, car rien ne dure éternellement, y compris la douleur.
Outlines
📚 Leçons de vie pour les jeunes
Dans le premier paragraphe, Colin, étudiant à Yale, partage 13 leçons de vie qu'il souhaiterait donner à son jeune moi. Il insiste sur l'importance de ne pas se soucier de l'opinion des autres, de se construire physiquement, de rester proche des personnes bienveillantes, d'éviter les excès d'alcool et de fumer, de prendre des photos et des vidéos, de devenir plus intéressant, de développer des passe-temps variés, d'acquérir des compétences lucratives, d'étudier efficacement et de s'approcher de la foi. Ces conseils sont destinés à aider les jeunes à se construire et à profiter de leur jeunesse.
👔 Développement de soi et style de vie
Le deuxième paragraphe se concentre sur l'importance de l'auto-éducation, de l'apprentissage de compétences lucratives et de l'efficacité dans l'étude. Colin suggère également de s'investir dans son style vestimentaire et de trouver des vêtements de qualité qui correspondent à sa personnalité. Il met en évidence l'importance de construire une relation avec Dieu pour faire face aux hauts et les bas de la vie. Il conclut en encourageant les jeunes à profiter du voyage de la vie, à avoir des objectifs ambitieux tout en étant reconnaissants pour tout ce qu'ils ont, car rien ne dure éternellement.
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Keywords
💡Leçons de vie
💡Confiance en soi
💡Renforcement physique
💡Proches des gens bienveillants
💡Mode sain
💡Prendre des photos et des vidéos
💡Intérêts
💡Loisirs séduisants
💡Compétences à revenu élevé
💡Étude efficace
💡Tenue vestimentaire
💡Relation avec Dieu
💡Profiter du voyage
Highlights
Ignore what everyone your age is doing and start before them for an advantage.
Make friends with older students to gain tips and save time.
Stop worrying about what others think; there's no pressure until success.
Pursue unique interests and develop inner confidence.
Get physically stronger through consistent exercise.
Consistency in working out builds confidence and improves appearance.
Stay close with kind, high-frequency people and invest in those relationships.
Avoid excessive partying; use it as a reward, not an escape.
Develop healthy habits early on and enjoy the process of self-improvement.
Take more photos and videos to capture high school memories.
Become more interesting by doing things others are unwilling to do.
Learn to be a better storyteller and listener to enhance social skills.
Adopt three types of hobbies for a well-rounded personal development.
Learn high-income skills like writing, sales, programming, and more.
Self-education is as important as formal education; invest in daily learning.
Learn effective study methods like active recall and spaced repetition.
Make studying enjoyable by using tools like flashcards.
Learn to dress well and develop a personal style that matches your personality.
Avoid big labels and opt for simple, elegant clothing to appear more attractive.
Build a relationship with a higher power for support during life's ups and downs.
Enjoy the journey and be grateful for every moment, as nothing lasts forever.
Transcripts
ladies and gentlemen if you're in
between the ages of 13 to 18 years old
this is going to be the most valuable
video you're going to watch in a long
time my name is Colin and I'm a student
at Yale University studying computer
science and in this video I'll be
sharing 13 life lessons that I would
give to my 13-year-old self let's get
into it lesson number one ignore what
everyone your age is doing most of your
friends from class are constantly
comparing themselves with people of the
same age look there's nothing wrong with
that but if you want to beat your
competition start before them a very
simple example example if you're in 9th
grade make friends with people who are
in 10th or 11th grade ask for tips on
how to Ace specific classes you're going
to take guys there's a high chance
they've already taken those classes and
you can save a lot of time and pain
simply by asking for tips and what
you'll find out is that 99% of the time
people are more than happy to help you
you just have to ask with a smile the
next life lesson is you need to stop
worrying what others think of you in
high school everyone's busy living their
own lives and to be honest nobody really
cares what you do until you become
successful so there's literally zero
pressure go start that YouTube channel
you've always wanted to create go
release that song you made go start that
online business you've always wanted to
try you're not missing out because you
have different priorities than everyone
else also develop a sense of inner
confidence and learn to enjoy your own
company because Solitude is where you'll
find Clarity and creativity and once you
realize this you become Unstoppable now
the next life lesson is you need to get
physically stronger go lift heavy
weights play some tennis go swimming go
for a run and if you can find a friend
to do it with it's much more fun guys
guys what you do doesn't matter as much
as how consistent you are and you know
what if you don't have a nice physique
right now but you're actively working
out that's still a win because
consistency compounds and what you'll
realize is that as you get stronger you
also build more confidence it's not the
type of confidence that comes from
shouting I love you 100 times in the
mirror it's real confidence that comes
from your hard work it comes from your
progress so get physically stronger
because not only will you look good and
become more attractive but you'll also
feel good and when you feel good you'll
get better grades become extremely
confident and much more mentally sharp
lesson number four stay close with kind
people when you find someone who is high
frequency someone who is kind and who
has that certain Vibe that's the kind of
friend you want to be around with maybe
you'll find one or two of them in high
school it's rare but once you do invest
in those relationships and level up
together and over time as you build
yourself up you'll also grow your
network and it comes from being the type
of person who gives without any
expectation of return if you see your
friend struggling to do a math problem
teach him how to it if you really like
your friend's outfit in school say to
them be real with it because what I've
learned is that the best relationships
in life are not built from taking
they're built from giving so stay close
with kind people because one loyal
friend is worth more than 100 fake ones
next party intentionally stop trying to
live your youth by drinking and partying
like a little monkey party as a reward
not as an escape listen I've probably
missed out on so many hang out with
friends watch the soccer match and get a
drink that's because 90% of the time I'm
lock locking in and when I'm locked in I
feel amazing now it's not to say that
you can't go out to party once in a
while like when I party I party hard and
I have lots of fun but you also got to
have a degree of self-control right
don't just jump up and down for no
reason unless of course it's krata or
the weekend so you want to develop
healthy old person habits early on like
respectfully I'll have a cigar when I
make a couple million dollars but until
then I'll happily live like a grandpa
now the next life lesson is to take more
photos and videos than you think you
should you might not realize it at the
time but you will never get get back
your high school years again guys in 10
years time you'll always be grateful for
all the memories you captured all the
nights you chilled with the Bros all the
gym progress picks the late night study
sessions the club meetings and even the
silly videos where you try to do like a
piano duet with your friend so become
more of a documentarian take more photos
and videos maybe even buy a film camera
like me and trust me your future self
will be extremely grateful you did it
lesson number s become more interesting
guys the way you become more interesting
is by doing things that people are
unwilling to do it's by by becoming the
type of person who has unique
experiences and a set of valuable skills
so go learn a new skill start your own
clothing brand read 100 books get a
six-pack and create your own YouTube
channel you want to do things that your
friends can't easily replicate or do
because that's how you gain respect also
learn to become a better Storyteller and
a better listener learn to ask more
questions and you'll be much more
charismatic and you'll also have much
more fun conversations with your friends
and family next develop a sexy hobby you
need three Hobbies a physical hobby
something that keeps you fit like the
gym gym or running or boxing you need a
creative hobby something like music art
or film and a cerebral hobby something
that keeps you mentally sharp I'm
talking about reading books writing and
chess as a young man having these three
hobbies are going to improve your life
in almost every aspect it'll improve
your health your social life it'll also
make you a much more interesting person
so learn a new hobby it's also super
attractive also you want to learn High
income skills I'm talking about skills
like writing sales programming video
editing animation and photography these
are skills you can easily learn on
YouTube for free that can make you lots
of money and honestly if you want to
learn something like video editing the
best way to learn is by creating your
own YouTube channel it's by starting to
Vlog and simply by doing the work guys
you want to do a little bit of learning
every day even if it's just 10 minutes
yes formal education is important but so
is self-education so start investing in
your habits and skills today because all
the returns in life whether that be in
wealth relationships or knowledge they
come from compound interest now the next
thing you want to do is learn how to
study effectively for exams chances are
you've probably been trapped into making
pretty notes or summarizing the textbook
in high school perhaps the best study
method you can do is active recall and
I've made a couple videos on active
recall you can check out but the basic
idea is instead of just reading the
textbook you're learning through
answering questions you're doing past
paper exams and you're spacing your
study sessions so you don't forget that
information easily now you also want to
make your studying fun and you can make
your studying fun by creating things
like flashcards guys when you learn how
to study effectively for exams you'll
have so much more time to to do other
things in your life and it's so
fulfilling lesson number 11 learn to
dress well learn to find good quality
clothes and a style that matches your
personality personally I like the Batman
dark confidence aesthetic and my
wardrobe mainly consists of black
hoodies black t-shirts linen shirts and
Suits but create your own style and more
importantly learn to buy clothes that
fit you well you want to buy clothes
that are not too tight and not too loose
another thing is you want to stay away
from Big labels if you look at any
billionaire they're not wearing no LV or
Gucci in your face it's more lowkey of
course later down the line you can
experiment with your style and be a
little bit more funky but earlier on I'd
recommend buying more simple and elegant
clothes also find a tailor near your
house it's one of the easiest ways to
make your clothes complement your frame
and you look much more attractive the
next life lesson is to build a
relationship with God because I can tell
you that in life you'll have those
moments where you're completely in the
highs but you'll also have those low
moments and the combination of those
high and low moments is what makes life
beautiful but if you want to stay saying
in those low moments I think it's really
powerful to believe in something larger
than yourself whatever that means to you
and even where I'm at I'm humble enough
to know I can lose it all but confident
enough to know I can get it all back so
take some time to pray and when you pray
ask for big things don't be afraid to
ask for things you can't even imagine or
possible right now because anything is
possible finally enjoy the journey these
are some of your glory years these are
the years that you can truly get ahead
of your competition and the truth is you
have so much more life ahead so so enjoy
the journey of course you should have
big goals and aspirations but have fun
and be grateful for everything because
nothing lasts forever not even pain so I
hope you guys found this video helpful
if you did share this video and help a
friend out as always God bless the
hustle we're all going to win one day
and I'll see you in the next one
[Music]
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